we all have fallen in love with the wrong guy at one point of the other. That was the situation my friend fell into it . she Was seeing a guy who was suppose to marry a lady and refuse to because, of her attitude. Unfortunately for him the lady he was suppose to marry got pregnant before the break up. She has had the child and he sees the child regularly NOT THE MOTHER. The guy may leave my friend standing at the altar so...adviced her to wake up from my love nest and MOVED ON ...I dnt think he is capable of loving anyone THOUGH. with the way he is making silly excuses about every girl he meets. I see him a miserable old man. ( I found out that after his Baby mother, he had dated three girls in a space of a year). Honestly I think he is the one with the problem.

I am waiting for the right

I have a story that wld make the men start marrying the girls dey meet abroad. My family friend( A guy) went to Lagos for London to find a wife. He came back with a girl that went to OSU who was acting naive. After the 1st year of marriage and she knew she wld have only one more year to get her British pali the gurl started acting up and eventually got out of hand. Before he knew it she got her mother to send some Jazz ( concotion to turn man to MUMU) to her in London. With time all the guy's salary was being paid into her account. The day after she got her british Pali, she cleared the whole house when the guy left for work and only left him a coffee table saying " I Have chopped all ur money, dont need u anymore. By the way my divorcee papers are at court saying u beat me regularly, so If you love urself you better not ask for me back or end up in Jail".The problem was she had even become smarter than the girls abroad. Now the guy is repairing his life. A man that had a 5 bedroom house of his own is now living in a room sharing a 4 bedroom house with people he doesnot know.

As God would help him, a girl who is in England here feel inlove with this guy and they are getting married soon.THE DEVIL U KNOW (GIRLS ABROAD) are BETTER than the ANGEL YOU DONT know.

Word of advice o.....

I am in a dilemma! My long term boyfriend lives in the America whilst I live in England. I have been seeing him for a good 6years since 2006. The main problem is that, we were in physical contact for 6months in 2006 and haven't seen each other since then. Now I understand why they say the heart gets fonder the longer d distance btw pple. We send each other presents on all the special occasion like Birthdays,valentine, christmas, easter, st patricks day, Thanksgiving day and we speak atleast every three days for minimum of 2hrs. He is a very busy person so hardly has time for women. I should be lucky he is a workaholic right? That is not the case. Infact,the biggest concern now that is eating me up is that, I am not getting any younger and after a 6yr relationship he just keeps telling me he cant wait to be married to me but, he doesnt make any plans to make it happen. He knows my family as my parents had met him and I know his but, he hardly speaks to his parents( Reasons known only to him) so when I call his mother she just starts asking when last I heard from her son. Most times I dont know what to say because, he hardly tells her anything about his life. His mother is in Lagos. I have met single eligible bachelors in England,who are willing to marry me tommorow but, I feel like I would be betraying my Yankee bobo.
DOES HIS LACK OF COMMITMENT MEAN HE MAY NEVER PROPOSE TO ME? He spoils me with enough presents and I know he loves me as I do him. SO WAT DO I DO? I am so READY to START a family and he SEEMS to be HOLDING ME BACK..We have discussed this marriage thing like for the 5time from last year. I have a conscience unlike Gold digger women. I have money and also have a great job so we are financially stable. PLS MEN AND LADIES what do u think his problem is? HE IS ACTIVE IN THE church and I know his pastor who says they keep talking about me. WE KNOW EACH OTHERS LIKES AND DISLIKES. CAN IT DEN BE COLD FEET BOTHERING HIM? I can move to America anytime but, in a forced way. He says he would propose at the right time but his right time seems so distant away. He is always talking about how his work matters at this point. I DON TIRE. I know money is needed in marriage but am not a lazy woman I am 100% ready to back up finances.

I am very much insupport of inter-tribal Marriages even inter-racial ones!!!

your children stand a better change to belong to two different worlds...Especially of they can speak two to three different languages...

one of my dearest aunty is half igbo and half yoruba married to a yoruba man. They live in lagos and als have various branches of their company in the East (Anambra state etc).The husband's business is successful in d east because his wife speaks very good igbo and also she can converse in yoruba which helps

I am yoruba and since I was little only Igbo guys seem to live me..my first crush was igbo and the trend has followed .

SO YES INTER-TRIBAL IS THE NEW VOGUE!!!!

I would be honest I have dated a few white guys they are good lovers.Oyinbo's in general treat women better that the African ones.

I know oyinbo boys are seen as mumu sometimes but they listen us ladies when we need them, they are more loving, more confident, they want to take us out and not make excuse to always be out with the boys like the way naija boys do.

For me I would pick oyinbo before alot of selfish, self centered naija boys...

GROW UP and let the white guys also find love.....we are in the 21st century and inter-racial relationships are also possible.

Love is d heart not the looks

Very interesting I must say! some girls are not playing hard to get, they try to go on all d dates that, are part of dating and ends up meeting the wrong guys. She is single because she discovers the guys she has been with have serious issues.

I once dated a guy who just used to ask me for money. Then dated another one that doesnt respect his parents ( dont want to be with someone that would disrespect my parents).The next guy had such an inferiority complex and, even when I used tosay things to boost his ego, he used to say he just didnt feel he was gud enuff 4 me( HE DIDNT HAVE ANY BAGGAGE like wife or child).

Another one I met always thought his friends would snatch me from him and when one of his friend approached me to say hello at a party , he was like she is MY girlfriend.


With what I have said...what den should a sister do to find A GOOD SERIOUS GUY FOR MARRIAGE WITH MATURITY,CONFIDENCE and A GREAT HUSBAND MATERIAL!!!

HELP>>>>>It is not about desperation just the right time for it....

Feminist ke I speak the truth...Men are afraid of commitment....lets address that first

I TIRE MY SISTER!!! These men dont know what they want, when you go to the club it is full of married men.Now even in churches the men are getting worse, they can be dating like 5 sisters. Be careful!!!

Everytime I go out now to a bar, a club, church, on the street I worry because all I see are Married men who just want to bite more than they can chew.Then I ask myself the question every girl is asking "where are the single brothers."....Are they all taken or are they just shy to approach the single sisters. I know some sisters can be scary but you have to be willing to take a risk.

A single sister is looking for you here not materialistic and ready to commit. Just be yourself and dnt carry any baggage like ex-girlfriend issues and also be willing to work on the relationship. Hey less I forget london girls are not portrayed right...we are lovers not fighters. HEY LONDON SINGLE SEXY MEN WHERE ARE YOU HIDING?..U NO WAN MARRY AND MAKE YOUR MAMA HAPPY!!! LET MAMA COME BABYSIT FOR U NA...ENUFF OF MAKING HER FAST AND PRAY WITHOUT CEASING ON YOUR BEHALF>>>

I know Men say they like to still be free after marriage but, didnt they make those promises infront of the pastor to stay by their woman for better or for worse. Why is it that once the wife is pregnant they start looking at the next thing in a skirt(Man or Women).If the roles were reversed you expect the woman to sit with you and possibly feed you soup to get you better.

Isnt the Woman carrying the baby that you both planted in her....STOP being selfish and PLS if you have to play out of Marriage, put a rubber on it...Dnt pass on some random disease on ur wife because you want some 5mins fun....