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Re: Why Don't Nigerian Guys Abroad Marry Nigerian Girls Abroad? by Nobody: 5:42am On Aug 14, 2008
RichyBlacK:

Of course, see the slowpoke on the other thread confusing being "nice" for being "weak". A most horrible mentality imbibed by Naija babes abroad.

Some even confuse being a jialbird with being a "real man".
It's not just babes abroad's mentality, you know. It's a WOMAN's thing.
Re: Why Don't Nigerian Guys Abroad Marry Nigerian Girls Abroad? by RichyBlacK(m): 6:16am On Aug 14, 2008
ehie:
the husband is the head, that is what the bible said, submission, when u go out of God's will ,
well the rest is history
if u don't respect your husban how will your kids respect u and the world they are to enter.
selflessness is not foolishness


ehie:
Proudly Nigerian,  in Nigeria .my parents have been married for more that 30 years, and if i marry, it would be for life,
after God na my husband then my kids because in the end of everything what really matters is your family.
people come and go but family always stay by u,


Most Naija babes abroad would find the above quotes cryptic!
Re: Why Don't Nigerian Guys Abroad Marry Nigerian Girls Abroad? by albridge(m): 10:40am On Aug 14, 2008
cos they are so bad!!!!!!!!!!
Re: Why Don't Nigerian Guys Abroad Marry Nigerian Girls Abroad? by sillyme(f): 1:59pm On Aug 22, 2008
earn not entirely sure what you ean by Nigerian girls abroad. i was born here, so I'll give you my perspective. yes I'm British but i was obviously raised by Nigerian parents in a Nigerian culture. that makes e just as Nigerian as anyone else. i live in this country so i am not going to have the culture of dating and relationships that Nigerian grown girls do. yes we like our independence, b ut a lot of us also make our own money and/or are not materialistic. this seems to be a common complaint about Nigerian girls on this forum. we are different, yes but if you don't want to date or marry us then that is just fine. having dated only Nigerian guys all my life, i can say that if i end up marrying one then fine. but if not, then i won't really be missing much

peace grin
Re: Why Don't Nigerian Guys Abroad Marry Nigerian Girls Abroad? by ohisng(m): 2:07pm On Aug 22, 2008
I think its cos inwardly they feel the ones abroad are more of hustlers in the street than the ones here. and the ones here are MUCH CHEAPER and docile !
Re: Why Don't Nigerian Guys Abroad Marry Nigerian Girls Abroad? by Abuseay(m): 2:13pm On Aug 31, 2008
You Guys are still writing stuff to my blog, lol, NIgerian Babes Abroad, hehe, and u sillyme? wassup, urre very funny,
Re: Why Don't Nigerian Guys Abroad Marry Nigerian Girls Abroad? by Abuseay(m): 7:59pm On Oct 29, 2008
Hmnnnn,
Re: Why Don't Nigerian Guys Abroad Marry Nigerian Girls Abroad? by vivaladiva(f): 8:02pm On Oct 29, 2008
u girls having these problems, i cant marry a person who hasnt left the shores of nigeria for more than five years. trust me there are enof nigerian boyz in uk looking for wives, the problem is una naija girls too they pretend.
Re: Why Don't Nigerian Guys Abroad Marry Nigerian Girls Abroad? by untainted: 4:54pm On Nov 08, 2008
@vivaladiva
pretend how?
Re: Why Don't Nigerian Guys Abroad Marry Nigerian Girls Abroad? by amaikama(m): 8:56pm On May 05, 2009
@poster! cause niaja babes are doing wat dogs are doing that why?
Re: Why Don't Nigerian Guys Abroad Marry Nigerian Girls Abroad? by Orimili(m): 9:09pm On May 05, 2009
I would love to marry a Nigerian girl abroad, but, sadly, they all seem to like white men. . .
Re: Why Don't Nigerian Guys Abroad Marry Nigerian Girls Abroad? by bluespice(f): 9:27pm On May 05, 2009
dead! grin grin grin
Re: Why Don't Nigerian Guys Abroad Marry Nigerian Girls Abroad? by whitelexi(m): 10:08pm On May 05, 2009
vivaladiva:

u girls having these problems, i cant marry a person who hasnt left the shores of nigeria for more than five years. trust me there are enof nigerian boyz in uk looking for wives, the problem is una naija girls too they pretend.

They are too fake. . .
Re: Why Don't Nigerian Guys Abroad Marry Nigerian Girls Abroad? by bluespice(f): 10:23pm On May 05, 2009
u mean guys or girls?
Re: Why Don't Nigerian Guys Abroad Marry Nigerian Girls Abroad? by Lax75(m): 3:53am On May 06, 2009
Personally I would rather marry a Naija girl in diaspora. I feel I can relate alot better to them.
Re: Why Don't Nigerian Guys Abroad Marry Nigerian Girls Abroad? by erico2k2(m): 7:10pm On Jun 10, 2009
Guys chill, why are you loads running away from teh Gospel truth as for the UK%90 of young Men preffer to marry from 9ja the reason are obvious, the first and fomrost is PAPERS, then there is the issue of manners,then there is another issue of money management, like someone rightfuly said earlier, the Nigerian girl abroad has reduced her self to make money woman,ie, Guys wanna build house for themselves and family girls too wana do same and we all know sey na co-oporation nah make rice full pot, so its a catch 22 situation, so 9ja guys keep marrying who you want and also 9ja girls go 9ja go pick ur guy too
PS, 9ja girls too form.
Re: Why Don't Nigerian Guys Abroad Marry Nigerian Girls Abroad? by wedballs(m): 10:29am On Aug 09, 2010
the reason they dont marry , is cos it is money education business that landed them .not marriage
Re: Why Don't Nigerian Guys Abroad Marry Nigerian Girls Abroad? by nethacker(m): 3:11am On Aug 10, 2010
so unreasonable n fake tongue
b4 u even approach them,they already hv this mentality dat u need somtin frm them so they misbehave, i no dey tasi dem sha cos latinos n natives wey go Bleep u for free dey here grin
let dem go 2 blazes
Re: Why Don't Nigerian Guys Abroad Marry Nigerian Girls Abroad? by InkedNerd(f): 3:14am On Aug 10, 2010
^^^ Awwww, I don't act like that cry
Re: Why Don't Nigerian Guys Abroad Marry Nigerian Girls Abroad? by nethacker(m): 3:19am On Aug 10, 2010
Inked_Nerd:

^^^ Awwww, I don't act like that cry
m sorry but u knw its d truth
Re: Why Don't Nigerian Guys Abroad Marry Nigerian Girls Abroad? by InkedNerd(f): 3:30am On Aug 10, 2010
Not its not. People in general act like that. It's not just something women do. I've seen guys act like their God's gift to women but I'm not gonna say all guys are like that. Unfortunately for me I live in an area where there aren't lots of Nigerians sad
Re: Why Don't Nigerian Guys Abroad Marry Nigerian Girls Abroad? by nethacker(m): 3:39am On Aug 10, 2010
Inked_Nerd:

Not its not. People in general act like that. It's not just something women do. I've seen guys act like their God's gift to women but I'm not gonna say all guys are like that. Unfortunately for me I live in an area where there aren't lots of Nigerians sad
samething with me, i prefer to relate wit d whity dan our blacks cos they r more hospitable but our blacks can sabi snub angry
Re: Why Don't Nigerian Guys Abroad Marry Nigerian Girls Abroad? by InkedNerd(f): 4:11am On Aug 10, 2010
Well, I don't have a preference when it comes to who I relate to. Its so multi-ethnic where I live so I don't really see how I could just hang out with one group. It would make me feel like I'm not really taking advantage of the fact that there so many different groups of people to interact with.
Re: Why Don't Nigerian Guys Abroad Marry Nigerian Girls Abroad? by nethacker(m): 4:58am On Aug 10, 2010
Inked_Nerd:

Well, I don't have a preference when it comes to who I relate to. Its so multi-ethnic where I live so I don't really see how I could just hang out with one group. It would make me feel like I'm not really taking advantage of the fact that there so many different groups of people to interact with.
i understand.same here too.i jst hang out wit any1 who cares 2 b a friend.we go go club go drink small then back to my apartment to sleep,
but 9ja babes funny here oo,even d 1s u meet at the 9ja union party in NYCity,na so so shakara full their body like say no be man go marry them.them go come reach 9ja dey beg 1 man 2 accept them as a second distant wife tongue grin
Re: Why Don't Nigerian Guys Abroad Marry Nigerian Girls Abroad? by InkedNerd(f): 5:43am On Aug 10, 2010
SMH, wherever all the nice Nigerian guys and girls are hiding, they need to come out. People are starting get restless since they can't find anyone to be with. Its a good thing I don't go around looking for guys to date, otherwise I'd go crazy.
Re: Why Don't Nigerian Guys Abroad Marry Nigerian Girls Abroad? by nethacker(m): 8:06pm On Aug 15, 2010
Inked_Nerd:

SMH, wherever all the nice Nigerian guys and girls are hiding, they need to come out. People are starting get restless since they can't find anyone to be with. Its a good thing I don't go around looking for guys to date, otherwise I'd go crazy.
pls dont go crazy na grin na NYC u dey so u suppose dey see better 9ja boiz na tongue
Re: Why Don't Nigerian Guys Abroad Marry Nigerian Girls Abroad? by albridge(m): 2:42pm On Sep 06, 2010
because they refuse to sign a prenup cool
Re: Why Don't Nigerian Guys Abroad Marry Nigerian Girls Abroad? by InkedNerd(f): 5:11pm On Sep 06, 2010
nethacker:

pls dont go crazy na  grin na NYC u dey so u suppose dey see better 9ja boiz na  tongue

Hahaha, I'm not going crazy. If fact, I'm even branching out to other West African countries grin. For those of you who have personal vendetta's against certain West African countries, make you no stone me for branching off o.
Re: Why Don't Nigerian Guys Abroad Marry Nigerian Girls Abroad? by Olami099(m): 5:19pm On Sep 06, 2010
Hmmmm
Re: Why Don't Nigerian Guys Abroad Marry Nigerian Girls Abroad? by Nobody: 6:54am On Sep 07, 2010
But I'm getting married to inked-nered soon , grin grin grin
Re: Why Don't Nigerian Guys Abroad Marry Nigerian Girls Abroad? by Nobody: 2:48pm On Nov 09, 2010
*knows this is old*

$$Rhino said: jamo = jamaican babes

Cos lots of our babes wanna be like then, meanwhile most jamo boys would do anything to marry a nija babe.
Anyhow, nothing like a nigerian woman with nice onion backside

HA! On which fuqin planet?! Not Earth!  lipsrsealed
Re: Why Don't Nigerian Guys Abroad Marry Nigerian Girls Abroad? by silentlywild: 5:20pm On Jul 18, 2012
I have a story that wld make the men start marrying the girls dey meet abroad. My family friend( A guy) went to Lagos for London to find a wife. He came back with a girl that went to OSU who was acting naive. After the 1st year of marriage and she knew she wld have only one more year to get her British pali the gurl started acting up and eventually got out of hand. Before he knew it she got her mother to send some Jazz ( concotion to turn man to MUMU) to her in London. With time all the guy's salary was being paid into her account. The day after she got her british Pali, she cleared the whole house when the guy left for work and only left him a coffee table saying " I Have chopped all ur money, dont need u anymore. By the way my divorcee papers are at court saying u beat me regularly, so If you love urself you better not ask for me back or end up in Jail".The problem was she had even become smarter than the girls abroad. Now the guy is repairing his life. A man that had a 5 bedroom house of his own is now living in a room sharing a 4 bedroom house with people he doesnot know.

As God would help him, a girl who is in England here feel inlove with this guy and they are getting married soon.THE DEVIL U KNOW (GIRLS ABROAD) are BETTER than the ANGEL YOU DONT know.

Word of advice o.....

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