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Celebrities › Re: Genevieve Nnaji Celebrates Christmas With Beautiful Pictures by silibaba: 10:15pm On Dec 26, 2021
kenzysmith:
Anty when u go marry we done tire to wait
The ones wey marry, wey Dem?
Business › Re: ➜ ➜ ➜Currency/E-currency Market Deals 2020 ➜ ➜ ➜ by silibaba: 8:48am On Dec 26, 2021
Are we there yet? smiley

Selling

bitcoin

tether

busd


How market folks cool
Business › Re: ➜ ➜ ➜Currency/E-currency Market Deals 2020 ➜ ➜ ➜ by silibaba:
Merry Christmas to you all on this trend.

Long life in good health and prosperity.

How market folks? shocked
Christianity Etc › Re: What's The Best Gift Anyone Could Give To You This Christmas? by silibaba: 9:37am On Dec 25, 2021
Larmbo grin

Family › Re: Dear Wives, Why Do You Deny Your Husband Sex? by silibaba: 7:54am On Dec 25, 2021
Or11:
The question is for married women. What is/are the reasons that you would avoid or refuse sex with your husband?

My wife's own is when I get lazy at home and I don't help in the house chores e.g cleaning, cooking, bathing the kids etc. She won't fight with me or argue but when I touch her like this, she will find a meaningful excuse. She's tired, not in the mood, headache, tomorrow, I need to shower first and I'm too lazy now etc. I found out myself that it was when I helped at home that there were no excuses, it's always a happy ending.
confirm
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Christmas Chicken by silibaba: 3:16am On Dec 23, 2021
N6500 smiley

Romance › Re: Toasting Is My Biggest Problem by silibaba: 4:52pm On Dec 21, 2021
Go write your jamb and enter school. Woman will not be a problem.
Politics › Re: Bisi Akande: Nigerians Are Fraudulent, Cheaters, Yet They Still Blame Buhari by silibaba: 3:44pm On Dec 21, 2021
Family › Re: Why Igbos Girls Don't Or Hardly Date / Marry Other Tribe. by silibaba: 2:15pm On Dec 21, 2021
fineboynl:
Why Igbos girls don't Or hardly date / marry other tribe And why you shouldn't marry an Igbo girl. The way the Igbos see marriage is deferent from the way other tribes see it.

The family of the Igbo girl see marriage as poverty elevation or financial support.


If you have ever lived in the south east as other tribe, you will notice the speed which an Igbo girl will use to flee from you when she noticed you are not an Igbo. There is something you will never see in there cities. One is burial and the other is traditional marriage. Everything happens in their village.


Majority of Igbo girls are not exposed, very local with tradition. you will find it difficult dating them. Even if they might be the one liking you but when they find out you don't speak Igbo and you are not an igbo they will pull back.

You will be so lucky to find the exposed ones especially the ones that have traveled to other states. Like PH, Abuja, Delta, Edo or Lagos. Those ones can date other tribe.

The ones that haven't step out from the east will Not. No matter how educated they are.

Secondly. Igbo marriages take place in their village's and not in their cities. That means an igbo girl cannot marry from other tribe as the village people will never accept that.

Except the other tribe guy is highly place or very rich. They love money so well. Their love for money will change the situation. And that is why Igbo girls will not take you serious if you are not igbo they already see the barriers and will not waste time if they are due for marriage.

Most Igbo guys that step outside of the south east to Hussle and marry girls from other tribe don't travel to the south east Either during xams or whatever. It's the ones that marry Igbo girls that always travel to the south east.
.none-sense
Politics › Re: Police Orders Investigation Into Reported Extortion Of ₦22m Worth Of Bitcoin by silibaba: 7:36pm On Dec 20, 2021
Xscape1993:
It is always well.
It is well
Even in the well cool
Food › Re: N100 Plate Of Rice In Bauchi State by silibaba: 2:45pm On Dec 20, 2021
Pauldollars:
I recently bought this plate of rice for #100 from a roadside vendor in Bauchi State. Food items in most restaurants and eateries in Bauchi State are still very cheap compared to other parts of the North and Nigeria in general. A well known eatery in Bauchi State: Shukurah restaurant charges N500 only for specially prepared Fried rice, jollof rice, pounded yam, semo with other special exquisite cuisines.
see live onions, like say na suya.
Celebrities › Re: Davido: 2021 Is One Of My Worst Years Because I Lost Many People Close To Me by silibaba: 2:30pm On Dec 20, 2021
freshkpomo:

O. B. O baddest......


Is that you can say?
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Walk In Interview by silibaba: 6:26pm On Dec 19, 2021
Gnld
Christianity Etc › Re: I Saw Bishop David Oyedepo In Hell With His Followers - Female Preacher (Video) by silibaba: 10:32am On Dec 19, 2021
OlogoJ:
Animal talk. Which hell? The one here on earth or the imaginary one una dey use hoodwink una mugus?
Winners spotted.
Travel › Re: Abraham Airaodion Honoured In Dubai For Returning N12M Forgotten In His Taxi by silibaba: 6:55pm On Dec 18, 2021
Kriss216:
Please, pardon my ignorance... what's the economic importance of the certificate?
Exchange for suya or groundnut. grin
Politics › Re: Man Arrested With 18 Human Skulls In Ogun by silibaba: 6:41pm On Dec 18, 2021
Ezeama400:
The Ogun Police Command said on Thursday that it arrested a 38-year-old man, Adelani Ayomide, for being in possession of a bag containing 18 human skulls.

A statement by the command’s spokesperson, Mr Muyiwa Adejobi, issued in Abeokuta said Ayomide was arrested on Thursday along the Ado-Odo-Owode road at about 6.48 a.m. during a routine police stop-and-search operation.


He said that the case would be transferred to the command’s headquarters in Abeokuta for further investigation.

Adejobi gave assurance that every person involved in the crime would be arrested and arraigned after investigation. (NAN)

https://www.vanguardngr.com/2014/03/police-arrest-man-18-human-skulls-ogun/
Make I run use mirrow check if my head still dey intact coz I dey ogun state right now grin


You never can't tell maybe my head no they there again grin

Christianity Etc › Re: Much Ado About Payment Of Tithes by silibaba(op): 4:41pm On Dec 18, 2021
Those I.diots that do advertise sure 2odds are not needed on this trend ooo. Take your business elsewhere Biko.
Christianity Etc › Much Ado About Payment Of Tithes by silibaba(op): 4:29pm On Dec 18, 2021
By Donald Mark C. Ude

LET me begin by shocking you: In the entire Gospels, there is not a single place Jesus clearly commands us to pay tithes! I shock you the more: In the only two places Jesus mentions tithes, he is discernibly cynical about it!

Admittedly, he never tells us not to pay tithes, either. However, from the Gospels, it could be deduced that his overall attitude towards tithes is that of cynicism and ambivalence.

I think this point is very important because it brings you (the reader) face-to-face to the fact that this whole ado about tithes is actually about something our Lord treats with so much cynicism and ambivalence.

So, one begins to wonder why the fuss about something Christ himself didn’t consider worthy of attention. If it weren’t for ideological and financial interests, the people emphasising tithes today would have been the same people who would ask their typical question: “Where did Christ say it?”

Now, let’s check out those two places in the Gospels. (As a matter of fact, Jesus uttered the word “tithe” only three times, but one is essentially a synoptic version of the other – so we are basically left with only two). The first: “Woe to you, scribes and Pharisees, hypocrites! For you tithe mint, dill, and cumin, and have neglected the weightier matters of the law: justice and mercy and faith.

It is these you ought to have practised without neglecting the others” (RSV. Matt 23: 23; cf. Lk 11: 42). The second: “Two men went up to the temple to pray, one a Pharisee and the other a tax collector. The Pharisee, standing by himself, was praying thus: ‘God I thank you that I am not like other people … I tithe a tenth of all my income.’” (Lk 18: 10-12).

These two passages buttress my argument to the effect that Jesus’ overall disposition towards tithes is that of cynicism and ambivalence. In the first passage, Jesus clearly indicates that the concern about truth, justice, fairness, mercy, love, etc. is “weightier” than, and therefore preferable to, tithe-paying. Tithe-paying is secondary and must take a subsidiary position.

If one must pay tithes, one must not do like Pharisees, but should first and foremost take care to fulfill those “weightier” matters. I live in Europe. The first thing that confronts me each time I step my feet on Nigeria, right from the airport, is unimaginable wickedness, extortion at every turn, bribery, lies, dishonesty, fraud, violence, brigandage, brutality, rascality, filthiest forms of indiscipline, etc.

I think any evil that is not yet practised in Nigeria has not crossed the mind of mortals. Yet this is supposed to be a nation of ‘tithe-payers’! The second passage is placed in the context of the parable of the Pharisee and the Tax Collector, where the former brags about being a tithe-payer, while the latter humbles himself before God and eventually goes home fulfilled.

I’m aware that we Nigerians have been so ‘terrorised’ and benumbed by religion that we hardly pause to think. But I repeat the question I mooted earlier: Does it not strike you that each time Jesus mentions tithe, it is always associated with hypocrisy and Phariseeism?

Isn’t this already a red flag vis-a-vis tithes/tithing?

Now, what are the “weightier” parts of the law in our Nigerian context (that your priest/pastor/GO has refused to draw your attention to)? No doubt, honesty and self-discipline with regard to money must count. You must reject bribery and corruption in your workplaces.

It is difficult, but it is an act of faith. Nigerians like to talk of ‘challenging’ God; here is a fine opportunity to ‘challenge’ God by rejecting bribes and acting with integrity – to see if He wouldn’t bless your life! You are being told that you “rob” God when you don’t pay your tithes, but you aren’t told that you also rob your fellow humans when you pocket the funds meant for them.

You are not told that you might be the major cause of accidents, malnutrition, infrastructural deficit and avoidable deaths in Nigeria when you steal the money meant to forestall them, using the position you occupy.

You pay your tithes in the cities but allow your poor parents and relatives in the village to suffer – perhaps because you have been told they are witches and wizards waiting to kill your destiny. Integrity, solidarity, solicitude, self-control, faith and charity are the “weightier” part of the law that Jesus refers to.

If you neglect them, even though you pay N1billion as tithe, you are a hypocrite and a Pharisee by Jesus’ standards!

How about the bogus relationship being established between tithing and being blessed/favoured? Now let me make this clear: One of the most blasphemous lies being peddled in the name of God in recent times is that God needs your tithes in order to bless you.

It is blasphemy because it is an insult on the holy and unfathomably righteous God. I do think that the dynamics of God’s blessings are too complex and mysterious to be reduced to monetary handouts or ‘bribery’ given to His supposed ‘representative.’

It is even more scandalous and laughable to see pastors threaten people with hellfire should they not pay their tithes. Many were appalled and disappointed upon seeing a video-clip, where a general overseer threatened – and I quote – that members would “miss heaven” if they did not pay their tithes.

Another implication of our Lord’s cynical disposition towards tithes is that it should occupy little (if any) space in the preaching and sermons of all true ministers of the Word. I might even recommend that the attention given to it should not exceed a total of five minutes in an entire calendar year.

The reason is that, if tithes were an essential element of the message of salvation our Lord Jesus came to preach, He would have surely included it in the Beatitudes or even dedicated an entire discourse to it.

For instance, Jesus took time to teach us how to pray, how to fast and so on and so forth. But this isn’t the case with tithes; it simply didn’t worth His attention. As it were, He may have seen it as a distraction, perhaps one of those annoying traditions that could have stymied the New Message He came to proclaim.

ALSO READ: Tithe: 3 things we must consider
At this point, let us address one of the most notorious passages being cited in support of tithes – the “robbing God” mantra. Malachi 3:8-12 suggests that abdicating from tithes might be tantamount to “robbing” God. How do we interpret this? The passage specifically states: “Bring the full tithe into the storehouse, so that there may be food in my house” (v. 10).

As I see it, this points more to material food and less to monetary donations to seemingly insatiable and bottomless church coffers. It refers to a practice of bringing a tenth of one’s harvest to the priest/Levite who then went ahead to share it to the poor among the people of God to ensure that no one starved.

In other words, the focus was basically on the poor, and “robbing” God in this respect is squarely robbing the poor.

Therefore, the ugly scenario in Nigerian churches where so-called ‘top’ tithe-payers owe their workers but are quick to impress the pastor/priest with their tithes is actually tantamount to “robbing” God. This is the true interpretation of that passage! The average Nigerian priest/pastor/GO isn’t worried about this and is even scared to say it the way I do because they fear it might come with dire financial implications.

Meanwhile, they are the same that would be quick to ask “Is it in the Bible?” if monetary tithing weren’t in their favour. Once again, I make bold to say that the form of tithing that is OT-supported is tithing in kind and not by cash.

Well, I do not think this is a big issue because a few things have to change with time, otherwise Christianity becomes mere casuistry. I only brought it up to expose the hypocrisy of those who are quick to ask “is it in the Bible?” when it serves their interest.

The mention of priests/Levites calls to mind what I consider an important dimension of the debate on tithes – namely, the question of who a priest really is in ourpresent context.

The Bible recounts that Abraham paid tithes to Melchizedek, the priest-king of Salem (Gen 14:18-20; Heb. 7: 1-2). That passage is a bit shrouded in mystery, given that it is merely mentioned in passing.

Since there is hardly any further clue, its interpretation becomes a lot more complicated. Yet I suspect it must have been the practice in ancient Mesopotamia that a tenth of one’s harvest, including war booties (in Abraham’s case), was given to such an exalted priest-king figure.

This practice was then appropriated by Judaism when it became systematised as a religion, probably facilitated by the institutionalisation of the Levitical priesthood.

Now, let’s return to the question: who is a priest (who should receive tithes) in our contemporary context? Does it include the young pastor who was fired – and so ‘de-ordained’ – by his bishop some months ago because he wasn’t ‘doing well’ (‘doing well’ in this case being nothing but making much more money for his church)?

If this is so, then priesthood would be no less than a precarious and temporary position where the priest/pastor could be ‘un-priested’ according to the whims and caprices of his bishop.

Does it include the young man who, having failed in all previous endeavors,worst of all in academics, decided to convert a warehouse near Onitsha Main Market to a church to hoodwink unsuspecting traders?

Does it include the young man from a neighboring village to mine who, for no fault of his (i.e., given the general unemployment in the country), began to feel ‘called’; and so, submitted himself after some weeks of training to be ordained by a self-acclaimed bishop who pays himN30k per month to lead a branch of his church?

Should we focus onthe priest/pastor/venerable of more traditional churches that have existed for a couple of centuries? Or should we limit the term ‘priest’ to the Church that has had an unbroken chain of succession from the Seat of St. Peter, spanning over 2 millennia, and possessing a self-understanding of the priesthood the considers it an indelible character, quite immune to the vicissitudes of life?

Dear reader, your guess is as good as mine. But irrespective of what you consider priesthood and who you consider your priest, the point is that tithe is epiphenomenal (i.e. of little importance) to Christianity. Indeed, for Christ, the “weightier” part of the law is summed up in the four-letter word, LOVE.

What is more, the key significance of the Melchizedek imagery for our purposes, as invoked in the Letter to the Hebrews, is that Christ is our eternal High Priest, who has offered the one single efficacious Sacrifice for our sins. The import is that you don’t need to pay tithes to be blessed by God.

The one single Sacrifice – Christ – is enough blessing for you. I’m aware Nigerians are crazy about ‘favors’; then know it today that Christ and Christ alone is your Favor! And, certainly, you will not “miss heaven” if you don’t pay your tithes, quite contrary to the GO’s threat I referred to above.

I wish to remain true to my promise not to interfere with your decision and to even suggest ways in which one could be supportive to the church outside the ‘tithe’ framework. In a place like Germany, where I spend most of my Summers, there is an organized system whereby willing members part with some portion of their monthly incomes for the support of the Church.

The priest/pastor does not even know how it is administered; all he knows is that he receives his salaries promptly, the church is well-maintained, the secretary, cook (if he has any) and other functionaries are paid.Well, our people may not be as disciplined and advanced as Germans –and, if you think about it, it’s all a symptom of a culture whereby the priest/pastor wants to control everything.

Yet something could still be done.

For instance, Nigerians are some of the most generous people I have seen on the planet when it comes to giving to the church. Therefore, occasional but prudent fundraising, offering and free-will donations could be organized to address specific needs.

As has been established earlier, the poor is the ‘God’ that is being directly robbed in matters of tithes. Hence, beyond being used for the normal functioning of the Church, such fundraising, offering, and donations should also benefit the poor. Nigeria is not in short supply of the poor. If the singer,Davido, could put up a well-organized nation-wide outreach to the poor, the Church could do even better.

We can begin with our immediate neighborhoods, the hospitals and orphanages nearby.The New testament is replete with examples where Christians made collections for the poor.There are examples where richer churches contributed to poorer ones. We find a good example in Rom. 15: 28 (also see 2 Cor. 9: 6-10).

In fact, if one reads the Letter to the Romans properly, it becomes clear that the letter was primarily occasioned by such instances of richer churches contributing to help poorer ones (see Rom. 15:28).

The early Church demonstrated so much solidarity that there “was not a needy person among them” (Acts 4:34). This is the true meaning of tithe! We should therefore put an end to the culture wherein tithes are collected from poor members to erect universities and institutions that are not accessible to the children of the same poor tithe-payers.

“But the hour is coming,” says Jesus, “when the true worshippers will worship the Father in spirit and truth” (John 4.23). If you want to really serve God in “spirit and truth,” devoid of hypocrisy, you must choose today if tithing would play any role in this regard. You may also opt for more robust ways of being supportive to the church and the poor.

TITHES: TO PAY or NOT TO PAY? That’s the question. Dear Christian, the choice is yours.


Vanguard.

Crime › Re: EXCLUSIVE: Nigerian Travellers In Ghana Forced To Pay $100 Per Night To Isolate by silibaba(op): 3:24pm On Dec 18, 2021
PetroDolla2020:
Nigerians like you should stop spreading lies about Ghana, huh. I don’t know what you Nigerians gain by spreading malicious gossip and falsehoods.

If Nigerians don’t like the way they are being treated, then they just stop coming to Ghana now. Is it by force to come to Ghana?

I also have a few questions. Is it only Nigerians that are made to pay this amount?

People should have right to live anywhere in the world. Biko.



Foreigners from other countries live in Ghana, but you hardly hear them being talked about. It’s always nigerians! Haba
you said am spreading falsehood bah? Didn't you see Sahara reporter there ni?

I don't really stay in Ghana pls, I come and return.
Crime › EXCLUSIVE: Nigerian Travellers In Ghana Forced To Pay $100 Per Night To Isolate by silibaba(op): 1:15pm On Dec 18, 2021
EXCLUSIVE: Nigerian Travellers In Ghana Forced To Pay $100 Per Night To Isolate At Hotel That Offers No Water, Food After Testing Positive For COVID

The amount does not give the affected person access to water or food at the hotel.

Aviation authorities in Ghana have heightened their clampdown on Nigerians who test positive for Coronavirus while travelling through any of their airports.

Officials of the West African nation move affected Nigerian travellers to M Plaza Hotel in Accra, the country’s capital, and force them to pay $100 (N56,000) per night to isolate themselves at the place.


Sahara reporter.
Crime › EXCLUSIVE: Nigerian Travellers In Ghana Forced To Pay $100 Per Night To Isolate by silibaba(op): 12:51pm On Dec 18, 2021
EXCLUSIVE: Nigerian Travellers In Ghana Forced To Pay $100 Per Night To Isolate At Hotel That Offers No Water, Food After Testing Positive For COVID

The amount does not give the affected person access to water or food at the hotel.

Aviation authorities in Ghana have heightened their clampdown on Nigerians who test positive for Coronavirus while travelling through any of their airports.

Officials of the West African nation move affected Nigerian travellers to M Plaza Hotel in Accra, the country’s capital, and force them to pay $100 (N56,000) per night to isolate themselves at the place.


Sahara reporter.
Crime › Re: Ghanaian Attacks Nigerian Trader With A Sharp New Cutlass (CCTV Footage) by silibaba: 11:47pm On Dec 17, 2021
dawndeal:
Thanks boss, please ignore the ignoramus,he is not worth our time. He can continue twaddling for all I care.
smiley
Crime › Re: Ghanaian Attacks Nigerian Trader With A Sharp New Cutlass (CCTV Footage) by silibaba: 5:54pm On Dec 17, 2021
dawndeal:
My brother, please take it easy on that demented fowl. I intentionally didn't want to mention all these achievements because I don't want the idiot to commit suicide. Anyway thanks for taking ur time to list some of our feats,the idiot couldn't debunk any of them .....very irritating piece of shit and slow thinking retards

Crime › Re: Ghanaian Attacks Nigerian Trader With A Sharp New Cutlass (CCTV Footage) by silibaba: 5:53pm On Dec 17, 2021
Swanzi:
Isn’t it surprising that with all the personalities you mentioned here you still chose a certificate-less cow herder to be ur president ..??!!clap for urself hahahahaha
Buhari is bigger than akufa@addo.

Go and check your short president's achievements on his facebook page grin then you will realize that that shortest thing called president is still sucking his mama's breast cool

Crime › Re: Ghanaian Attacks Nigerian Trader With A Sharp New Cutlass (CCTV Footage) by silibaba: 12:10pm On Dec 17, 2021
Swanzi:
Look at this F00L which western country are u people competing with mumu boy hahaha you can’t tell those lies to ur ignorant folks not me ofuii..!!!

Can u even compare urself to South Africa not to even talk of North Africa ID✔OT
I can't descend too low to your standard.
Am done with you Jimmy.
Crime › Re: Ghanaian Attacks Nigerian Trader With A Sharp New Cutlass (CCTV Footage) by silibaba:
Swanzi:
Hahaha the irony is that we are pursuing u back to Nigeria in 2020…!!
We are locking up ur shops beating u chasing you with cutlasses but u still no gree come Nigeria…. Hahahaha
Foolish you.

And we are accommodating you here in Nigeria, giving you food and free shelter. So pathetic.

Come to osun and ogun state here in Nigeria, your people are littered all around the street selling puff-puff,shoe-maker, mechanic etc. They can't hustle in Lagos cos they don't have both the capacity and capability to hustle in Lagos. Lazy country that the youth only know how to do drug, sarkawa, galamsy and petty stealing.

Mad people everywhere in the street of Ghana.

Why are you not chasing wizkid, burna boy, patoranking out of Ghana?

Nigeria is too big to be compare to ghana, we are competing with western world. We are busy winning Grammy award (wizkid, burna, fela, etc)

, okonjo iweala controlling world trade organization,

Amina J. Mohammed – Deputy Secretary-General, United Nations,

Akinwunmi adesina- president African development bank,

Mohammed sanusi-secretary OPEC

Bukar tijani-food and agriculture organization

bola adesola-united nation global impact,

samalia-african finance cooperation,

Kingsley-special envoy on COVID development finance for Africa and the list go on and on.

How much is minimum wage in Ghana? Hungry country.

Fio-ko (gerrout)
Crime › Re: Ghanaian Attacks Nigerian Trader With A Sharp New Cutlass (CCTV Footage) by silibaba: 9:31pm On Dec 16, 2021
Swanzi:
What u posted proves nothing u ret☻rded 1mp it still shows you my interest here is Ghana and Ghanaians only…


Poverty capital of The world Who is ur big brother hahahaha …!!!

Have u finished paying common salaries..huh
Stop deluding urself ur just a common developing nation sh1thole country for that matter,who happened to have stumbled on oil keep deluding urself even the oil wealth doesn’t even transcend to the common man on the streets pathetic hahaha…
This idiot is at it again.


Can you still relate to these images below?

Ghana must go.

Crime › Re: Ghanaian Attacks Nigerian Trader With A Sharp New Cutlass (CCTV Footage) by silibaba: 8:15pm On Dec 16, 2021
Swanzi:
Just shut up you empty bragat you are inconsequential in the scheme of affair’s keep
Mute…!
Scumbag, gerrout angry

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