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You and who? . . . . . . . . . .Lailai, Silly no wan old now. Hope you are having a nice time @ the old people's home?

@ cybersleek

First and foremost, Ina, what is your definition of a cultist? Are you talking about the two bit hooligans, or a member of a fraternity, or campus thugs? which of the afore mentioned? I was a ranking member of the Pyrate confraternity in Uni, throughout my stay there, i was never for once involved in a fight, and was a model student through out my over five years there. I guess gangsterism in the name of cultism, has really tarnished what otherwise would have been an interesting adventure. Most girls in those days would have given an arm to date a frat boy, but i guess time changes, and with it a lot of things!, though i myself eventually stopped attending meets or relating with my fellow frat boys before i left Uni because of some attributes that didn't align with my reasons for belonging to a frat in the first place. I suppose that is why a lot of ladies would rather stay away from them.

AYE and one bottle of rum for you. But I need to ask you why you used "was" in your highlighted statement above? Dont tell me you jumped off the ship.

The Pyrate is a very responsible frat that not just any man get into. You must have what you can offer your fellow "dogs" and the community at large. Like Cybersleek said above, we dont fight or conduct ourselves like hooligans. We are indeed a role models on campus and I must add that we were highly good academically and we had money to spare. We guide our principles seriously, and our principles are based on humanity and helping hand to one another even after school.

In school, people respected us even the lecturers. Most of my friends who happen to be my "fellow" are properly placed in all the sectors of the economy and we are all doing great by God's grace. This is not just because we are pyrates,. . . . ut because we are smart and focused. Most of us graduated with a second class (upper) degree and some even with 1st class. So what makes us bad or evil?. . could it be because we can discipline whomever steps on our priciples (which rarely happens)?

I must add this, my dad is a pyrate too. And he married my mum and they have been living together for over 30 years.

So pals, I think the question should be,. . . . can a ritualist/evil cultist be your over?

Why wouldn't Busta comply even though the topic is misplaced. Her name sound so cute, I only hope she's as cute as the name.

@ uspry 1

I quite understand your points and experiences. But I need you to understand that most of the men from your experiences are really not PLAYERS.

Players are usually smart and intelligent. They dont get caught before the game but after the game and the victim is already hurt. They make their prey want not make themselves needy. Before a player is caught, he must have been through the game at least for the 1st quarter.

So my thinking is that you have probably never been played my friend

The sea is not the natural habitat of dog, so there's every probability of him drowning!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

That's the point dear.

The spirit and watch word is: Discipline, determination, tolerance and adaptability.

These are the virtues that makes a man stand out.

I will pick Confession by USHER

I was just so unfair to her and I intend to confess

Did i adopt you and forget?

Did I accept you and or I'm mixing u up with someone?

I have 2 words(but dey will come out as letters) 4 all LD's and SL's in d house

S.O.

What's more encouraging than a red banderner on one's head, a full bottle of rum on the left hand, and the big wheel to control the sail of a ship even in rough sea tides. and at the same time looking for gold to claim?

For life. . . . . .dogs on sea!!!

ADD:

I no say una go abuse me, I aint give no sh*t.

My thought on playing means A PLAYER has NO HEART (refer to "THE WIZARD OF OZ" and REMORSELESS, detest compassionate but LOVE messing around women's feelings highly emotionally- - -to pretend claiming "I love her/him".

It suppose to those Players' age are more likely between 18-25 during school years to be get over once they reach maturity after graduation upon landing on first job.

Unfortunately, in TODAY'S WORLD, there is no tell when it STOP, maybe 45, maybe 60.

I never date PLAYER before, but i can see the type of man like PLAYER to avoid dating with.

Na Lie!

It's unethical for a man to live off a woman. Women are used to guys taking care of their needs and it's the right thnig to do unless she wants to be independent like me so this your reasoning will not cut any water for you.End of story.

I am not denying the fact that a man is expected to take care of women. But I need you to understand that in scenario like this, the woman is expected to be totally submissive to the man.

IF this is women's believe about this, then am so sorry to say that women are not equal to men then, even if its just for this singular reason

Women are used to guys taking care of their needs

Good. I concur.

Grand momma nothing oooo. . . I was just doing ma thing. . . . . . trust me

@ topic.

I just want all the ladies in the house to know that if we flip this topicthe other way round, ladies will start to call guys names. Claiming they always attack them here. You ladies are doing same here right now.

Definately there are some men that are like that, you know just parasitic and all that, but we have more women like that compared to men. Some girls will even say it loud and clear that they are out 2 go into a relationship just to milk the guy.

I want to ask the ladies a question, does being a woman gives you the right to be a "moocher" ?

Just like the ladies have been saying, I would have anything serious to do with a lady who's just with me to milk my pocket. If a lady doesn't earn at least 70% of what I earn, no show for her. We must do all 2geda.

You wish.

Silly doesn't wish. . . . . . .

He Knows . . . . . . . ama catcha yah red handed.

@ Topic.

She must be very tolerant
She must be God-fearing.
She's expected 2 be a professional
She must love sex and kisses
She is expected 2 adore my family as I would adore hers
She must be so neat

I don't care if she cooks well, am not a food person

What's going on here? You guys should leave your chantings for your night meetings, abeg.

This sentence is a perfect evidence that suggests that the author is "tripping" for them already. Thats how it starts.

They are deadly and this runs in their blood and that's their nature (probably due to their bitter and painful experience during initiation).

Not deadly brother, but disciplined and decisive seems better. And your suggestion of painful initiation shows how ignorant you are.

@ topic.

Times without number

I am even praying to God to make me stop after marriage because I strongly feel am still going to continue.

First you say guys are fake, yet at the same time complain that we think they are not trustworthy

I'm confuzzled

@ D-reloaded

Hey sis., I said most guys here are fake not all. And the ladies too have their problems which has someting to do with past experiences and story they were told. These combintion of problems will definately reduces the chances of stuffs happening here. It is most probable that one of the intending couples will have one of these problems, hence, it wouldn't work.
Getit?

BUT I WILL SAY IT ANYWHERE, CULTIST WILL EVERLY MAKE A GOOD HUSBAND IF HE IS A KINDDA GUY THAT LIVE BY THE PRINCIPLES OF HIS GROUP, There are guys outhere who does not even know what cultism is THAT ARE MORE WORST than a frat guy, The guy's personality matters too

Word. A man that can get to abide by rules is a disciplined man, and a disciplined man stands better chances in keeping a woman.

But why do you "FLY" when you can "SWIM the whole world"

@ Tipsydude.

You are very right. I didn't study at IMSU, but I know it's like that in every school in Nigeria (I ran several "programmes" in southern 9ja uni.). Back in UNAD then, it was "motion ground" and the several restaurants in where we have WEMA Bank. Then, if class is so calling, we "structure" under the trees close faculty of social sciences.

I don't know how the place is structured anymore ooo.

I must add that, back then "we" don't chase women, but girls somehow attach themselves and wanna hang-out with "us" (my friends oo, I dont knw how it operates with other friendship ooo)

So girls, be honest. Anyone can date anybody. What really matters is the person's heart. I knew som born-again chaps back in school, and what they do is worse off!

@ howfar.

Na u sabi

@ Topic.

Most guys here are fake!

Most ladies here suffer from stupid idealogy that suggest that men are not trustworthy and honest simply because of past experiences or what they were told.

These are the reason why stuffs like serious relationship can happen here.

And I think its really stupid for a human to say another human is way below her league even if its true. [s](if u check out the the bf, am sure he's gonna be 1 slimmy, spineless scrub)[/s]

@ Topic.

I put my hand on my chest and say confidently that I am a "dog that swam the sea" for over 4 years at the university and i loved girls then. I still "swim the sea" now years after, and women still love me. And definately Am a "dog that will swim the sea" till i die, and surely a woman is gonna marry me some day. So what's the sh*t about?

It works.
It doesnt work.
There is no known recipe/rule here.just like everything in lyfe,we take risks and hope for the best.i have seen long distance affairs lead to marriage,i have seen some crash like a pack of cards.whatever,it is for matured minds,lots of patience and trust,Honesty is a must if it MUST work

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Hey. In Life there are some "supposed risk" that are really not worth it and taking them just amount to simple stupidity. If you consider long distance relationship a risk, then my dear, it sure pass as stupidity.

If you would be quite honest pal, would you mind if u compare the numbers of those that worked out as against those that did not? the result should be self convincing.

It doesnt work believe me. You guys can be great buddies and leave room for friendship "upgrade" when u are still far apart. then when you guys are closer to one another, you can start the relationship proper.

But it's all sh*it. . . . . . . Even relationship with close proximity still sucks, talkless of a long distance one

@ Poster.

Your friend, his girlfriend and you are all stupid!


bunch of idiots with great sex drive.

I must add that sex is for smart people and great sex is for extra smart people.

@ Topic.

Met my gf at Access bank, she attended to me and i got carried away by her very cool voice and plain beauty. . . . . she cldnt stop help herself stealing glances at fineboy too . . . .and we just hit it off. The end. . . . . Glory be to Almighty God.

(Ibo film). . . . . . .lol