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udemzyudex:
Which laptop and model are you using?

You can't get a laptop that can handle graphic work well for that amount.

Dell inspiron 6400

Help pls, black ink is coming out from the left down side of my laptop screen, it is increasing everyday. I can see it from one corner as if something is moving inside. What can I do to reduce the effect. Untill I get a new laptop, since I am not ready to change the screen because it is too old to spend such an amount on.
Pls if anyone have a cheap laptop that can do graphic work Below 25k pls let me know I am interested.

Pls honorable investors, I am a newbie here, I have decided to join you guys in this stock market thing. But pls suggest a broker for me that will require little or nothing to open a cscs acount and dematerialize my zenith bank share certificate.

I also here that you can open cscs account just with your share certificate. Is it possible for any broker to accept 2300 units of zenith bank shares to do this for me. Pls help me I am a student, but I want to start investing now.

Infocitadel:
my dear

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Finally, after many months of reading and thinking, I'v decided to invest in bitcoin. Pls How do I use few dollar in my domiciliary account to buy bitcoin?. Do e currency exchangers. Like nairaex. Accept dollar account?

enque:
My daughter has had cough twice since birth, but the Paed never prescribed cough syrup on both occassions.

pls what did he or she prescribed

silvoice:
Can my 8 months baby take cough syrup? I hear it's not good. My baby cough started yestaday and baby also vomited twice this morning while coughing. Experience mamas your advice pls

pls urgent help before my wife goes ahead to buy cough syrup. We are having a heated argument over it.

Can my 8 months baby take cough syrup? I hear it's not good. My baby cough started yestaday and baby also vomited twice this morning while coughing. Experience mamas your advice pls

eyinjuege:
You see I didn't mention business to you?

I said insist she gets a job. Such people can't run a business and would eat it down to ruins before you know it.

Let her get a 9 to 5 job, where you don't know the owners and they don't know her.

Let her appreciate what it is to work hard and earn every kobo. You tend to value money then after realising what it takes to make it.

comment appreciated, thanks

eyinjuege:
Insist she gets a job

thank you for reminding me this angle. Before know she was doing store business. It went under because I stop funding it since the business was not moving fine, according to her. now almost on daily bases, she will insist I start another business for her, since I can't provide her needs.
But the challenge is that even when she was in business, I still provide almost everything she needs, help her in domestic work also, even at my own detriment and yet would get nothing in return, other than one complaint or the other in the business .

Sincerely, I'm thinking of starting anything for her that will keep her busy, but this option is even more costly for me now, especially now that she has two kids (a baby and a toddler) to take care of.

Splinz:
Being in charge of finance wouldn't solve anything. In fact, it will even aggravate it, going by women's proclivity to spent on whatever they fancied. I mean, even the temptation to spent more simply because she has the money will likely increase.

Here's what you must do:

1. If you have one source of income, like a salary earner, do well by letting her know what is your salary at month end.

2. Make provision for a sound budget and stick to it religiously, except on emergencies.

3. Tell her your plans. Lets say you want to build a house, buy car, start a business etc. Also, be sure to state how these projects will be funded. Will it be through your savings?

Now, the reason why you must carry your wife along in all of these steps is to get her undivided attention and support. This way, whatever purchases she may want to make, knowing the very size of your pocket, the budget and the plans, she'll simply have to stick to them for the success of the family.

Yes. A reasonable and wise woman will do it. After all, she's your partner and helper for the common good of the family.

All the best!

all your point have been observed: she is aware of all my plan and income. Though a small salary with another source which provide regular income too.
Sometimes I conclude that it's either she does not believe me or she is just unreasonable.

An option now is to let her be in charge of the finance. So that she can do the purchasing of all family needs as someone suggested. Not sure if that will work fine with her. What do you think?

newyorks:
Op i see ur predicament. u romance words instead of hiting the nail on the head. something less than 3sentences u wrote 1000words why? now how can u open up to ur wife without using parables of which u know women don't take such trash as important.

go straight tell her ur burden perhaps she's ur wife not ur boss.

well understood.

[quote author=PaperLace post=58218771][/quote]paperlace your post is very helpful

NoToPile:
Well you have to try to make her understand you guys can't spend beyond xyz amount in a month except for emergency cases.

She's your wife, talk to her till she understands, try not too get too moved by emotional blackmail please. At least you guys have been agreeing on some issues before now.
Economy is one kain, people are being prudent nowadays she should understand that now.

thanks

NoToPile:
Does she know how much you earn?

The post suggests so. If not: YES, that is why the budget comes handy.

NoToPile:
Let her know how much you earn, you guys draw up a budget ,
So she ll know you guys can't spend more than xyz amount for this month.

have been on budget all along, but women tell stories with their mood and men understands this and most time go out of their way to get them out of those ugly moods

Ezigboune:
If she is understandable, then case is closed

thanks, that's the mystery that I'm trying to solve: how to make her understand

My dearest Nlanders, I,d really want to know how one can explain to his wife that his pocket is not smiling at all. The economy is very hard, prices of commodities are high; yet, day to day expenses kept increasing; couple with new and ever increasing demand from the woman.
1. I do agree that a man should be able to take care of his family, but as a woman, is it when he tells you that he has lost his job that you will understand that he does not have again?. If your husband earns an average salary of say 100k, monthly; but spends at least 130k monthly, in sustaining the family, will it be a source of concern to you? I need married women to sincerely respond to this question.
2. I know some would say you better let her know how much you earn. Good! If your husband tells you how much he earns. Monthly, is it not enough to make you adjust to that level? I asked this question because women it seems, are move by the account balance of their husbands, more than their daily income. They usually forget that every man wants to build his own house, invest for his retirement etc.
I still believe that if you have exhausted all available means of communication, in persuading her to cut her demands to the lowest minimum, because you're spending more than your income; you would be as confused as those of us who need the women to answer this question.
Many women use the current account balance of their husband or the total value of his investment as a base for their demand; which I think is very wrong. Because any family. Whose daily expenses is more than their daily income, is technically in recession. This means that in the near future, such a family will go bankrupt. God forbid! It's an experience that I don't wish for even my good enemies.

nairaland wonderful wives, mothers and all loving mothers-to-be; beautiful fiancé and every other intelligent young women here should please tell us how best a husband can convince his wife to cut down her genuine demands, in the interest of the family .

Are you a married man? How are you managing her needs even when it appears you're spending more?

Pls no bashing of women here because they are unique creatures that God used to give life a meaning. #yourmotherisawoman

nell4:
your price is not encouraging at all .that is modern day slavery

you are right, and he even ask you to check plagiarism. I prefer to write free articles for newspaper website than his slavery articles.

Jesusbabygirl:
It is not a waste of time. When you terminate a TBills, you won't lose your capital and you must have definitely gained some interest. So pls go ahead

ok thanks, that's encouraging

silvoice:
ok thanks, that means it will be terminated within 24 hours. I hope the fees will not be much, cos I want to terminate 182 and go for 364 days

Pls I need ans. Anyone that has terninated tbill should help. I want to terminate 182 days and go for 364 days. Is it a waste of time and resources or should I go ahead?

kwallet:
Termination is done before COB on d day I.e b4 4pm. U will b required to write a letter then submit. U'l also b charged some fees.

ok thanks, that means it will be terminated within 24 hours. I hope the fees will not be much, cos I want to terminate 182 and go for 364 days

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Pls how fast do banks terminate tbills? Asked first bank to change the tenor of my investment, but it seems the did not effect the change. So I want to terminate it an repurchase longer tenor tbill. Any suggestion pls?

zaynie:
Hello.
I don't really advise anything medicated for babies

Why dont you try Dove Pure and Sensitive. Many moms sweat by it.

ok thanks

wholesomegrace:
Broda, I don't think her advising you to see a Pead means she thinks anybody is illiterate. I myself don't know anything about Rainbow Medicated Soap and if presented with this situation (boils and rashes at the same time), I will stop applying my lo's regular cream and take baby straight to the hospital.

I hope your baby is getting better now. If so, please what did you eventually use?

we're using coconut oil with an anti bacterial cream mix with sulfur. It's been clearing gradually. We want to change the bath soap for the baby. That's how rainbow soap came into the picture. Baby is fine, gaining weight, no fever, and very active. Everyone say is not something serious. I honestly didn't want antibiotics for the baby now. I will see a doctor if condition did not improve, but it is improving.

Zheemub:
Pls mothers here help, my child has little boils on his head someone suggested I should be bathing the 5months old baby with rainbow medicated soap and rubbing it on the head briefly and wash after. Can I use it?

Please kindly take your child to see a pediatric doctor.
Don't self medicate on a child.

You are right, but while advising people, don't just assume that they are illiterate. I only wanted to know if rainbow medicated soap can be used on a 5months old baby as my wife has already purchased one, which she said two women have told her that they used it on their child when he/she had similar hair rashes/boils. I told her not to use it until I made my own inquiry. So I just wanted to know if anybody have used that soap here on their baby.

Pls mothers here help, my child has little boils on his head someone suggested I should be bathing the 5months old baby with rainbow medicated soap and rubbing it on the head briefly and wash after. Can I use it?

Solowande:
If he can't afford new apartment, then he shld wait still his rent expire. He shld not do anything physical. Why dis ur guy dey sure say e landlord na witch? Na witch dey know witch o.

he is just suspecting him. He wanted to know if there is a trick he can use to confirm his assumption. I'm equally curious to know if any trick existed, to know if a person is a witch that's why I open this thread..

For those who do not believe in these extra ordinary negative energies and their negative impact on peoples live, you need to have a rethink; because they're real and are affecting us daily.
But what we don't know is their cultural practices that made them scary to us; and at such tend to be like a nightmare to many.
Just thinking, because something got me wondering recently, when a friend of mine confided in me on how witchcraft attack occurs almost on a weekly bases in his house. Many times, he wakes up with strange marks on his body. Now, the prime suspect according to him, is his landlord, whose character sometimes poses certain question on his mind.
When I asked how, he noted that the landlord sometimes talks like a child, especially in issues concerning money, though a nice and likable fellow. "His simple and friendly nature will make you think that he cannot kill a fly , yet, I am suspecting him" he said.
He really wants to know how to tackle the landlord if he is responsible, because the house he also learnt, has a history of people parking out, before their rent expires.
he wants to confront him physically to know exactly, if he is aware of this witchcraft in his house. Note:
1. he cannot move out since he just rented the house with his last money.
2. Do anyone know what he can tell the man to make him stop tormenting him.
3. What do you think he should do physically, apart from prayer and fasting which he has been doin but yielding little or no result.

forzarush:
Visit a general hospital and see a paediatrician.

ok thanks

blueandbirds:
Bros the first thing you need to do is to take the baby to an hospital and leave all this them say them say people; obedience they say is better than sacrifice, do the right thing please..

hahaha! we actually returned from the hospital that asked us to use the lincosin stuff, to tell the woman that the boils are still appearing, though we could not see her. So it's the nurse that we met there that talked about septrin syrup or ampicillin syrup. But i was not ready to do a trial and error on it, that is why i decided to ask other professionals here of there opinion. cheers!