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Phema:no! Don't get it wrong. She had told him in d past that she don't hav a boy friend, since 2yrs dat he knew her, her lifestyle shows it, but he himself has dated women. So wether Virgin or not was nt an issue 4 him. Believ it or not, most women wil nt open up on dat, especially if dere 1st experience is bad. Again it's now dat she's staying 2day b4 travelin. B4, he does d visitin. |
Phema:yes! he was surprised 2 hear from her dat she's a virgin cos he has never demanded 4 s*x until now. But Heh! Does it mean he can't get a good advice here? |
Odilafta:this thread is not 4 singles pls, that's why i posted in family section instead of Romance section ok! |
darisgod:thanks madam, ur advice would be appreciated. |
Hello, someone need advice, pls only responsable married men or women should comment on this. Singles, my apology in advance. He has paid her bride price. Because of his job and few other logicstics from her own schedule, d wedding was shifted forward to atleast, 8 months time. He is an advocate of no s*x before marriage, jus lik her. Now she visits him more regular at least twice in a month and spend 2days or so before traveling. D problem is d responsability of marriage is now telling on him, even though he was yet to start enjoying d sweet side of marriage. He is now wondering whether he can sustain the surpressed sexual feelin til afta weedin. Though both are strong christian. Yestarday night he had a passionate talk about it wit her. Excerp: "let's hav a protected s*x, because i don't want u 2 be pregnant before our weddin" ans: "no pls let's hav patience" He: " we are already married by law, only waitin 4 God's blessing thru weddin" then she opened up. Ans: " i'm a virgin, i promised God that i wil not do it until after my weddin. Dear, i'v kept it 4 a long time. I wil not be happy if i break that promise." he was short of words and find it difficult to convince her. Pls he need advice on how to cope til after d weddin, since it wil not be proper to tell her to stop visiting regularly. Men in NL, Do u have similar exp. How did u handle it? Women, do u think she's right? If no, what do u think he should tell her? |
texaco1: ok no prooblem ,I want to believe you saw the amazon fulfilled sign on the item before buying. Now what u need to do is log into ur amazon account, go to contact amazon section, then click on chat , you will be logged into a live chat with an amazon representative . Tender your matter to them ,and they will resolve it.ok thanks. That means it has taken too long to arrive. |
texaco1: did u buy from a seller on amazon or from amazon itself ?from amazon itself. According to amazon, tracking info. is not available for their "standared shipping option " which i used. But they gave me "DPGM 08/13/14" as my tracking no. and shipping date |
pennstate: Where you told they where going to ship to Nigeria for you?yes they ship books to nigeria and my account status is showing shipped |
Guys how long does it take Amazon to ship books to nigeria tru standard shipping? I bought 3 books since 1st of August, shipped through standard shipping. I'm yet to reciev it afta a month and 24 days. |
[quote author=silvoice][/quote]my wonderful, and respected nairalanders. I need matured minds here to help me in settling the list, since i want to do it in a low key, and then do my wedding. Pls i want experienced single or married couples to comment here. Pls don't use it to abuse others. U can marry a cheap wife but other circumstances wil make u spend more, vice versa. Thanks, we lov u all. |
Mcoldsoja: Congratulobia to yu bros.thanks a lot |
bravolad: Oil Change Interval is a combination of different factors. In defining "extreme driving conditions", the vehicle manufacturer considered a number of things:thanks a løt ur coment is very educative and useful. I belong to category 1. But do ordinary oil have time to lose it protection on engine like synthetic? |
CityNG: The best method to determine oil change interval is to send your used oil to a lab for testing (please don't tell me that doesn't exist in Nigeria. It does and you just have to do the research to find it).this is exactly my point. Atleast it has nothing to do with date. |
[quote author=Bossforeva][/quote]is not issue of a particular car. It's a general believe here in nigeria that we should service cars at most every 2 months for conventional oil and six months for synthetic oil, regardless of mileage. Am thinkin that it's a bad idea to change oil with date, like weekly, monthly etc. rather than usage. Reason is that a car that cover 3000miles in Nig. within a week might be due for change while another that is yet to make 1000 miles after 4 months would stil be fine. |
Dear car gurus here, i have some issues that bother me in this country, as regard to how we Nigerianize everythin as if we are different from other countries. For instance: Almost Every car manual would stipulate btw 3000km and 10000km as a guide to know when your engine oil is due for change. But in nigeria every mechanic would want u 2 change your conventional engine oil atleast, every two months, even if u did not drive up to 1000km. I asked why, many said because of d weather and hold ups on our roads. Are there no occasional traffic jam in Japan? USA and other countries that manufacture these cars? Yes weather condition is a factor, but that would be extreme weather of summer or winter. Again, our weather is neither hot nor cool. As far as i can remember, i'v not seen snow in Nigeria. Apart from some part of d north that are very hot, places like lagos and PH, we have average weather that maybe cool in d morning, hot in d aftanoon vise versa. Now that cars are being manufactured in Nigeria, D question is, are they going 2 reduce the mileage, say 1500km to 5000km based on imaginary percieved hold ups or would d manual be d same as the mother countries? Do date have anything to do with oil change rather than usage? I went into an arguement with a mechanic who told me 2 change my car engine oil that are yet to drive up to 980km when i told him that is been 4 months since i change oil, because i only drive d car on sundays. Someone should pls educate me more on this |
corisande:thanks my dear |
silvoice: Yes! Guys am back . It was a success. The warm reception given to me and my people was very intresting and fun filled. They asked her to accept or reject me b4 they wil drink. She simply smiled. And before i could say jack robinson, d palmwine glasses appeared and d atmosphare was that of complete merriment. YES, d list is so long but not as outrageous as some posted here. Cheers!chai... my beloved NairaLanders, not even a congrat from anyone. Chai or atleast welcome me to a life of restricted freedom. |
Yes! Guys am back . It was a success. The warm reception given to me and my people was very intresting and fun filled. They asked her to accept or reject me b4 they wil drink. She simply smiled. And before i could say jack robinson, d palmwine glasses appeared and d atmosphare was that of complete merriment. YES, d list is so long but not as outrageous as some posted here. Cheers! |
cheruv: just extend the IV to me joorthank you. I assure u that u wil get my iv 4 d main occasion by Dec. Or the wedding sometime next yr. If u are within d proximity. 5 Nairalanders dat know me in person, has already promised to be present. I may even giv them a canopy as NL Committee of friends, by God's grace. |
cheruv: and very likely na absu babeyou are 99.99% right. Why not guess d dept. Also, so dat i wil make it 100% |
Life indeed is funny 4 so many reasons |
Ihuomadinihu: Na wa o. So Abia ladies are expensive?i don't think dey are different from other igbo communities. Their marriage is fairly expensive. But i'm in love dear |
delpee: You can transfer freely by clicking on Own Account Transfer. Its user friendly.thanks |
silvoice: pls i need advice on how to go for this my marriage introduction. My wife-to-be is an Ibo girl. i hav some questions which I'd Like my useful NLs to help me, because my parents are late and i don't really know who to ask this question and get an objective answer. 1. should i ask my girl to tell me what is needed 4 first introdution according 2 their tradition or jus go wit cash? 2. if i go with a friend is it ok or must i go with an elder at this 1st stage? pls i need sincere advice, b4 i make mistakewao! Afta all said and done, d date is sat.13 sept. All road lead to a yet to be revealled hamlet in Abia state. Guys is not easy ooh! But i thank God. |
BigBossMan: It seems you are not a frequent user.pls i hav savings and current a/c in gtb. Current is the default a/c, can i transfer from my savings a/c to my default a/c. If so how? Cos i only transfer from my default a/c to others tru ibanking. |
chinelo5: I was completely honest with my parents about our income and what we could afford. White collar jobs and no money for frivolities. Dad took it from there and tailored the expenses to what his son in-law could afford. It just depends on the kind of in-laws you have and the other factors I mentioned earlier. I know ladies who will insist on full implementation of that list, to show everyone that their husband to-be has "arrived". They forget that there's life after these "few hours" ceremonies!thanks |
Hahaha! Hahaha! But wait o0H! (frowns) Who turned my humble thread into a vocabulary battle? Look, if the cognition, of the confidential and unconfidential confidency is presently high, then the moral mentality of our antiqual antiquity would be called to question. (Gramma101) Hahaha! |
john650: That's right, safety should be the operative word when shopping for a tyre. Things to lookout for is the date of manufacture, tread wear number, temperature resistance, speed symbol, maximum load capacity and traction. |
Bossmd: I'm happy your problem is solved.na soh! I was really surprised at d simple thin that would hav led to unneccesary expensis |
GAZZUZZ: Congratulations on finding the problem, now do a proper fix, get the proper rubber hanger/holder and remove the wire, after a while the wire will brake or get rusty.ok |
chukel: it could be the exhaust. just make sure all the exhaust rubber hangers are present and none is laxpeww! guy u a are a million percent right. i jerked d car, went under, the inner exhust ruber was weak. i used wire to tie it that's all. d sound disapear. d auto engineer came, saw what i did and said is ok but maintained that my shock is weak. i laughed and gave him t fare back to his workshop. driving back home was sweet and soundless. thanks to u all, especially gazzuzz, etc |





