₦airaland Forum

Xpol:
you want to teach and mentor people but everytime you keep writing "I am teach you" you couldn't even notice your error and correct it all these while.

I hope it's not copy and paste you're teaching those imaginary students/learners.

TheFreshVanilla:
This is what happens when you watch those youtube Nollywood movies like "How A Poor Cleaner Captured D Heart Of Her Banker Boss". Try your luck. Na slap you go chop.

LadyRosa2:
It should not be something new,or not doable.
Look, if we can praise a woman for painting, it shows that Nigerian ladies are not daring at all.

We are no longer in that century. In many countries women drive trucks and its normal.

That's why I encourage that nigeria women should begin to do these things and see it as normal.

It's not everything a man should do,or you call a man to do. As a woman , you must have value for yourself first, it helps.

Some girls no even fit fix bulb, so why can't you fix bulb? Must you be helpless even at the simplest things?

Na these docility dey make men dey insult us ,
" What do women even offer except pussy!"

jackmrandy:
Better start warming up now. Associate and mix with people. When people are discussing try and pay attention to what they are discusssing especiallly if its a topic of debate like politics, sports, movies, contribute. You do read, so don't tell me you don't have idea about anything.

build your confidence.

its good to feel relax when alone, but don't allow it to affect your self confidence in public and in your speech publicly. Me that can address thousands of people Publicly now, it was not a one day thing. its a gradual process.

bonechamberlain:
Unfortunately a lot of Nigerian ladies reason like her, only that they can't come out openly to say it. The present generation might be another wasted generation. (Especially from 25years below)

Chiefigho:
Banks loans are actually cheaper and better but the procedure and requirements are what are my constraints.
If you have a link to help me get it from the bank, I will appreciate it.

22o62021:
We bonded so well together, she is an NYSC member. She told me that she has a boyfriend but she has called off their relationship because the guy has beaten her twice. The first time , the guy did it in front of his mother to the extent that she lost a tooth. And spent days in the hospital

The second time the guy slapped her because she told him that he comes home late.
She said the guy is a serial cheat, she has caught him on different occasions.

They dated for 6 years. But the guy will not accept the break up. Their families knows each other.

I have her the love she deserved, pampered her so well. I told her that I know she will go back to the guy one day, she said nooo I can’t do that.

One week after I said that to her. The guy was calling and pleading. She stopped picking my calls. I stopped calling her.

I sent her a text to know what is going on. She said it’s not what I think.

I said fine. I deleted her numbers and move on.

This is to say that most girls are confused.
I think they prefer abusive men but on the internet They rebuke them.

SportsHD:
Got a pussy, lost his piece.

RenaissanceGuy:
Lazy Nigerian youths celebrating university buildings they graduated from years ago while working for N25K salary at a private sec school and selling airtime online.

Humanoid01:
I have no idea what this is, but the part where you said he doesn't know the difference between 17 and 71 got me thinking about dyslexia or dyscalculia. From your narrative, the greater part of his problem points towards arithmetics, so it's more likely to be dyscalculia. It's also possible to have more than one learning disability, so chances are he's suffering from both.

People with learning disabilities are not necessarily dull (or unintelligent), it's just that the parts of their brains that are responsible for the performance of generally easy tasks which are difficult to them, are in a state of disorder. I'm a slow learner, but I don't consider myself dull, and that's because I believe every individual needs specific conditions to enable them learn effectively.

That boy may be even more intelligent than all of you. He needs to visit a psychologist or learning specialist who understands what it means to have an LD. Stop wasting money on lesson teachers.

I got the following from a website and it fits with some of the descriptions you made:
Dyscalculia

A specific learning disability that affects a person’s ability to
understand numbers and learn math facts. Individuals with
this type of LD may also have poor comprehension of math
symbols, may struggle with memorizing and organizing
numbers, have difficulty telling time, or have trouble with
counting. https://ldaamerica.org/types-of-learning-disabilities/