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@ Dailyparrot

I can’t quote you because your post is long. But I need to address somethings.

I don’t leave the parlour because I hate him. Far from that, I just don’t want his troubles. He’s tough and flares at little things, I always try to avoid things that will make him shout.

No one is perfect, he expects you to do everything perfectly which isn’t possible. But I don’t hate him, God forbid I do that.

Richy4:
Yea I know he is great... Since you did not appear with a manual while coming into the world.. so he tried his best to handle you the best way he knows( even though it was not good enough for u)...
When next you were coming into the world, come with a manual so that he can read and know how to treat u ..

You’re not in my position to understand, that’s why you’re saying this. You fathers need to do more, everything isn’t about instilling fear. I get anyway

Richy4:

For u to create this thread about it shows that u feel bad about it...For him to ask u about your whereabouts shows that he feels concern about u... And indirectly missed the kind of son and family he wanted..

Sometimes u can't blame your parents.. it was how they were treated that they try to treat their offsprings too.. some doesn't know any better, some exposed ones tried their best to change the statusquo though... Even u, if care is not taken, u might do to your kids how your dad treated u... But u can change that...

You might ask, how will I change it? Communications... Promise yourself that every fortnight, u will call him and ask him how he was doing... Even if U have nothing to say, tell him that your camp is difficult even when it was not... Start from somewhere... It will definitely help... By the time u do this in 7months, u will start having a lot to say to each other...

Every dad got an imaginary family and sons that they wanted, most times it doesn't happen.. please make your dad's vision of the son he wanted to come true despite his short comings...

Definitely, I’ll try my best. Apart from this, I think he’s great.

crackhaus:
You're not a child anymore though.

Since he's already made attempts to be closer to you, I suggest you try meeting him halfway.

If you and your dad are not relating and sharing 'men' moments, I wonder who you want to have those moments with within the family.

Just try developing a relationship with him because as a growing man, there are certain things about life you will NEVER learn from your mother... I gotta be honest.

Ok thanks.

anthonyuncle:
at this stage, you should start relating and discussing stuff with him,
you will learn a lot from him.

it is for your own good

Yeah, thanks.

crackhaus:
Interesting... but I suggest you should finish your prose by telling everyone exactly why you can't relate with your dad.

There has to be something, what is it?

I think it has to do with my growing up around him. He was quite hostile, so I always have that fear.

yuping:
Some father don't no how to relate with their kids, but he is extending his hands now so embrace him but you want to run.
He go reach your turn.

Who told you I want to run

Abeg leave me joor, he’s dad regardless. There’s no how I will run. Just that he is misunderstanding things.

I’ll find a way to relate with him sha.

yuping:
He go reach your turn.

Lol, depends on how you relate with your children growing up. He was quite hostile while growing up so I don’t have that bond yet with him.

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Richy4:
That should not be a problem for u... Some tall people sometimes feel they wish they will not be singled out as being tall... short people feel hmmm!! How I wish I was as tall as Mr ABC... That's just life....

Adams Oshomole should be your mentor or watch word... if I remembered correctly, he is not too tall, He's not extremely handsome, yet he married one of the prettiest lady in the world.. So rethink, calm down..

I might be wrong but I thought that not too tall people got the biggest ego in the world ...

Thanks

frozen70:
You are not a dwarf, yet your height is a thing of worries to you

Since you said that you have good brain and good result, use that talent to cover up for your height

You should be more concerned on how to love a woman and be good on bed, not about a height that has no impact in love affair

Or are you equally short down there?

Funny at the bolded. Thanks anyway, I’m over it. More important things to focus on for now.

kpolli:
If it didn't bother you then it shouldn't bother you now. You didn't pick your height, there are shorter people in the opposite sex. They'll still love you.

Nevermind, I’m over it. Thanks

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kpolli:
Wait, you just discovered you are 5"5; what did you think before?

Like I said, it never really bothered me. I just became conscious of it, that has passed anyway.

ednut1:
When you secure a job

I’m a freelancer so that shouldn’t be a problem. How does accommodation generally looks like in Lagos, is it affordable?

sholapot:
Come to Osogbo, powerline area, I stay there, in fact, just relocated in January from Abuja, at powerline, we have electricity, 24 hours per day, guaranteed. If they take light, it's either there is fault with the transformer, which rarely happens, power grid failure, or rain. The house where I stay is a one bedroom apartment (room & parlour) self contained, it's 120k. Good road network, water, security. There are other areas where you can get cheaper houses, but their light is not as good as powerline, like 20 hours light per day.

Hello, does what you say here still stands. Is oshogbo a good place to relocate to?

chatinent:
Do you want to chop concre?

Any reason?

illicit:
No

Maybe a rich one tho

Reasons please?

As the topic says, would you advise a fresh graduate to move to Lagos?

What are the pros and cons please.

Thanks

Mercychen:
E go hard small, make I no lie give you.

Let's be realistic. Girls are naturally attracted to tall guys especially when the are average height.
Only very tall girls consider short men and we hardly have such tall girls around these as most Nigerian girls are average or short.

As for me, im easily put off by short heighted men.

I remember the day I had a blind date. Never knew he was short.
So I got there before him. The place was a glass house. So i could see all that was happening outside at the parking lot.

I saw a powerful car park and was expecting the huge guy I've been seeing in photos. He just jumped out of his car, piam!. If not for his face, I wouldn't have believed my eyes but there he was. My heart sank and I was like " chai! Back to square one".

Las Las it didn't work.
I'm not saying this to spite you though.

Just be yourself. You'll find someone that likes you but maybe not someone you really like. Don't know if that makes sense.

It is well.

Oh well........... thanks anyway

Ofadaman:
For someone who claims to be intelligent, It took you to turn 21 before you discovered you're short, and when you did the only thing that bothered you was not being able to talk to girls because your short.

For someone who claims to be intelligent you have a very shallow mental strength to even lose a war in your mind before you even tried , you didn't make any attempt you just concluded.

I'd tell you sir, that you aren't smart or intelligent you're just as dumb as any other average person and if you claim to be the most intelligent person in your circle then you have really dumb people around you

Good day sir

Take a chill pill bro, like I said it never bothered me until recently. So what are you saying.........

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budaatum:
It is indeed easier for 5ft3½ me to say.

Hmmm. Thanks anyway

Bornsinner7:
Since when did height become a requirement for a relationship?

Don’t you know most ladies prefer taller guys?

budaatum:
Point is, this should not be a headache at all.

I get, but it’s easier for you to say. Thanks anyway