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Na wa o!!

Nigerian men are now taking this their olosho business international. Very disgusting set of humans.

I pity the white women that fall in love with these losers called Nigerian men. I really pity them

Flamemignon1:
Stop shaming sex work,we are no longer in the 50s

When nairaland men stop shaming women for sex work, I too will stop shaming men for sex work. Until then....

Zonefree:
Iyaebe, your madness don reach where our Pope dey? No be Nigerian men dey worry you now? Thunder go soon faya you, be careful.

Sir, please are you alright

So judge salary is not enough for him

Disgusting, perverted dog. This is what happens when you don't train your sons well

God, I feel like throwing up🤮🤢

Useless olosho like his fellow men on nairaland.

I hope she secured the bag sha 💲💸💵💴💶💷💰💳

Someone called it the "holy drip" and I agree. I love this picture 😂😂😂

Abeg get out of this thread. In fact delete this thread. You should be ashamed of your fellow men, Wike, and his predecessors for managing the administration of that city so poorly. Trash.

Girl stop playing 😂😂

oz4real83:
These Yoruba obas have been so overhyped that you won't imagine shits like this happen to them, so very disappointing🤦🏽‍♀️🤮

Lol European monarchies are even worse when it comes to scandals.

SonofGod231:
She's right.When I heard the song it made cringe the role of the censory board in the industry...The entire music industry is complicit,The whole lyrics of the song reflects the girl as a decorative meat which was belittling and misogynistic.
Rema just keeps polluting the ears and minds of youngsters.
Ironically,I love the beat so I keep bumping it.

I love the beat and sound too. But I don't support its message.

Hmm! Na wa o!

People dey this world o.

Congrats!!! Bimpe!

J

Papagoodness:
I think, i may not have a choice for now. Thanks

Why don't you teach online?

dontrulee:
LoL, upgrade yourself woman.

Mtchewwww who's this one

Failure2019:
I could remember when I was growing up and discover my preek was curve and small. I thought something was wrong with me looking at the other boys of my age with straight preek . I will try to straitght it with my hands , but thing will still curve . I had to tell my dad and he told me there is no cause for alarm . Never know a day like this will come that I will be proud of it when one banny told me my popcorn is too sweet.😄😄😄😄😄😄😄

Shouldn't you be diligently looking for a new job now

Gosh! No offence, you're so boring, sir.

Please look for a way to make your content more interesting and don't use too much big grammar.

Miracood2:
Tell Mavis Ishanqueen on Facebook to STFU!

Why?

When she's telling the truth? If a gay guy walks up to you in the club and starts touching your arm, not even your bum bum o, will you be happy?? Won't you remove his teeth?

thesicilian:
She's right, to be sincere. There are so many songs out there that glorify unlawful sexual advances, it's almost becoming a norm.
Even some of our 'comedy' skits especially those ones that claim to be doing pranks, kiss or grab, etc. The censorship boards seem to have gone to sleep.

And I wonder why Selena Gomez, a feminist agreed to remix this song.

Maybe she doesn't understand it.

Okay I finally found the thread!

https://www.nairaland.com/6991346/isnt-sexual-harassment-rema#110311079

That's why I don't like the song

The song “Calm Down” by Rema has been blowing up on Tik Tok ever since some Iranian women were arrested for dancing to it in public.

I had never really paid any attention to the song until now but, last night, I decided to go on YouTube and give it my full attention for the first time.

When I saw that it had over 400 million views, I was super impressed.

However, within one minute of listening to the song, I was irritated and closed it. I also deleted it from my watch history to avoid future suggestions.

What pissed me off?

It was this part of the lyrics.

� I see this fine girl, for my party she wear yellow
Every other girl, they dey do too much, but this girl mellow
Naim I dey find situation I go use take tell am hello
Finally I find way to talk to the girl, but she no wan follow
Who you come dey form for? (Hmm)
Why you no wan' conform? (Hmm)
Then I start to feel her brown-bum (hmm)
But she dey gimme smile, smile, woah�

Rema went to a party. Saw a group of girls. Among them, there were the “lively ones” who were down for body contact, but he didn’t like them as they were too all over the place.

Instead, he chose to go after the one girl in the group that looked mellow and out of place. Then - guess what - he decided to initiate body contact with her by touching her bum.

What the Bleep is wrong with these men?

Consent is a much broader topic than saying yes or no.

Consent also covers this habit among men of neglecting women who are interested in the same sexual activities as them to seek out women who have made it clear that they are not.

The whole thrill of “breaking down” a woman’s barrier and inhibitions just to prove that “women are all the same after all” is also a form of sexual violence.

Since, in other to achieve this conquest, these types of men will invade your personal space and cross your boundaries over and over again until you can’t take it anymore.

A lot of women will end up giving in. Not because they want it, but because they are exhausted and believe that once they give in, he will leave them alone.

And yes, those women are right.

These men literally discard these unwilling women once they have “successfully broken” her.

As far as I am concerned, I will never listen to this song ever again. I know that I’m just one in a million but for me it’s a nopity nope.

No matter how nice a song sounds, if the lyrics border on disrespecting and violating another human being or people, then the song is automatically trash to me.

By Mavis Ishanqueen on Facebook.


I created a thread about this about a year ago too.

I'll look for the thread and post it here.

https://www.nairaland.com/6991346/isnt-sexual-harassment-rema#110311079

BreezyRita:
Mtchewwww
His hometown has no electricity, water or good road (because I can't call that winding, hilly death trap a good road).

Has a house that's unpainted and uninhabited.

It beats me how these people get this confident. The Adiabo where corpers make contributions monthly to be able to buy fuel and power their gadgets? The Adiabo where there isn't a single good school? The primary school is empty, most of the children are either home or in the farms or fishing.

The health center is a dilapidated, abandoned building.
The mighty hill one has to climb up and down to get water from nko? That is if you can stand the dusty water from their streams. I used to buy water from a neighboring village and pay Okada to bring it for me.

Mtchewwww

And he was giving out millions of naira to some community leaders that supported him.

Cross River State go hear am

All these clueless politicians.

Don't spank your child except it's absolutely necessary. In very very rare cases. Very rare. But I think you shouldn't do it at all.

MechanicMike:
Siofra i feel like yanshin thou, are u watchin blue film now? . anyways, were u able to get knew naira note from yor bank?

No I haven't been able to get new naira note o.

You want to dash me, sir?

Let me send my address so that you will waybill it to me

I think it's really pretty 😍

Mumu08:
I'm 32yrs old man. Doing well for myself. Have a good job. I am looking to get married soon in Nigeria. I don't know if there is any suitable God fearing, virgin, and a good man here on nairaland who is also looking for a committed relationship

I donate MechanicMike and HeartlessMan. Trust me they are very submissive, well-mannered virgin men.

😋😋😋

I love the tears of broke men. So delicious!!

@ the first bolded. I see it happen a lot to actresses and musicians like Tiwa Savage, Iyabo Ojo and even Tems and Chimamanda the writer.

It's a pity. I'm not even angry with them anymore for hating on women. I just pity them now.

They'll be fine in the end.

✨ Why are Dusty M e n Mad at Ashanti? An Insight into Unactualized Masculinity ✨

Recently, a 'rapper' started a thread on twitter to shame the beautiful artist and star, Ashanti, for going on vacation a lot and being unmarried. The 'rapper' went onto brag that he is married, has kids, and also has a 'rap career'. Well, it's not too difficult to see why a gorgeous, wealthy, talented, and famous woman would trigger some dusty 'musician' we've never heard of - but why do dusties delight in putting down women who are living their best lives and minding their own business? There are so many clips circulating of podcasts where beautiful women get 'humbled' with gleeful m e n in the coments taking to their sticky little keyboards to partake in the negging, age-shaming, and relationship-status shaming. It is the favourite spectator sport for the modern dusty.


Why are these dusties so irked by women, especially beautiful and successful ones? When they're not furiously jerking off to their images and weeping into their crusty old gym socks, these m e n turn to the internet to vent their frustrations at the injustice of human mate selection. Why aren't gorgeous women impressed by dusty p e n i s and crusty pennies? This fills them with impotent rage, because these unactualized men find it too hard to compete for the women they really want and can't have.

Instead of investing that energy into becoming better m e n, they want women 'humbled' and to lower the bar even further so that anyone could step over it and have access to the femininity and beauty that they all crave. Mate competition is actually good for m e n and their masculinity - without the need to compete for women, there would be complete inertia and therefore no progress.

The comedian, Dave Chappelle, observed that m e n only get nice things because women like nice things, and if a m a n could f*ck a woman in a cardboard box, he would.

In the past, the m e n who couldn't compete in the mating game would end up in monasteries, or sent on raids as the vikings did with their young and expendable male population. Nowadays, they start podcasts or mouth off on social media.




By Suha Deeb via Facebook

Of course.

It is written in the feminist Bible, in the book of the radical feminazi. My favourite part of the feminist Bible.

After they will come to nairaland to insult and wail about women