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MissJoy29:
It's that "unforseen intention" that is the bone of contention here. You may think a human being (in this case, a man) is being nice just for the sake of being nice. But deep down, he has a hidden agenda.

We have been told often times that "nothing is free in freeville". Since we don't know what that "unforseen intention" is, we just assume it's the worst to protect ourselves knowing that we have gone through enough experiences before coming to that reasoning.

Anyway, kudos for being nice...&keep it up.

thanks..that is when he is been so nice to some extend you have to ask him bros y are u been nice to me if he has any intention he will tell you if he says oh its nothing am just bin nice then its fine, if he tels u later then tell him its too late!

MissJoy29:
But that's the impression we have been told to have.
Hmmm...you are different then

not all of us are like dat some of us are crazily nice in a different way..the action of a man does not really matter sometimes it is the unforseen intension behind the action dat matters

MissJoy29:
Chai! Nigerian girls don suffer. I have heard enough Nigerian girl this, Nigerian girls that to last me a lifetime.

Why some girls wil take you as mugu is that we have been told a lot of times(by guys) that nothing is free especially when given by a guy...So it means that there's nothing like "no-strings gift? Is that true?

of course not...any guy dat gives a gurl a gift and xpect something simple means dat he cant a stranger or his fellow man..wat happens to service to humanity..for example i can take u on a friendly date spend on u hav a gud time and trust me no strings attach i hav done da alot of times gurls dat knw me personally can attest to that..so u mean i cant just be nice to a gurl xcept i want something, i find it quite appauling

MissJoy29:
Hmmmm....nice.

Words of affirmation comes naturally to me too. It's not a big deal either

what get me angry with nigerian girls is that when you are nice to them 4 example you sent airtime to a girl even when she did not ask or do something just because u feel like and the nxt thing is the start seeing u like some kind of mugu who dnt knw wat do wit his money n they begin to demand anyhow seriously speaking dat attitude get soooo mad!!
like can i be nice to a girl without she tinking dat i like her or am som mugu!

MissJoy29:
Lol..a lot of girls have acts of service and gifts (just like me ) as their language.

I agree @ it takes understanding to be outstanding for every relationship to work out. Knowledge is indeed key!

act of service and gift its not a big deal to me,helpin in the kitchen and al dat and also buying gift its a normal tin dats wat makes the relationship fun!

MissJoy29:


MelSan is a blend of Melancholy & Sanguine.

Words of affirmation? That's great. A lot of guys have that or physical touch as their language.

yea and alot of girls have act of service gift or quality time as theirs though its not base on gender...but what i find quite appauling is that alot of people dont even know abt this temperament and love language and yet they are in a relationship and i ask how can u understand each other sef? because it takes understanding to be outstanding for every relationship to work out

MissJoy29:
Good different or bad different?

Temperament: MelSan
Love Language (the two most important) :
1) Acts of service (very important)
2) Gifts

What are yours?

of course a gud different which i find you interesting

MEISAN temperament trait i dont think i heard that before i only know of SANGUINE, CHOLERIC,PHLEPMATIC and MELANCHOLIC so do you mind elucidating on that a bit i want to learn something new...
well my temperament trait are a mixture of melancholic and choleric

love language...WORDS OF AFFIRMATION yea i want to hear does positive words dat wil push me to go high...

MissJoy29:
You will surely have a better day. Different? How?

different in all ramifications..what is your temperament trait? and wats your love language?

MissJoy29:
Yes I definitely did

Thank you. Hope you slept well too

oh yes i did..am looking forward to a better day ahead...i must say u are different..

MissJoy29:
Thanks my hero.
Goodmorning

hey! ma crush...goodmorning hope you slept lika a baby?

Tonymario58:
And you wasted your parent's money, evil child

haba! i think you are more evil than i thought..