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Biodun556:
G

G for G-string

Rubbish

Hmmmm

There's some sense in this

But she would have learnt her lesson

At least from the national disgrace

viyon02:
Trust this news in your peril

Meanwhile

Templarlandry Nairaland DJ has booked ftc to do his avocation that he is being paid to do by the Agbado king

Really

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99thEnemy:
Hardluck

Why na 😂

Shey you want to sponsor my list 🥺

He is already losing his life even before finding his place in it

Wow

Dogbites is the new cash out method 🙂✨


Crypto may not be a good path atm but could bring good profits....

The second option is better

Brb

99thEnemy:
You dey Kaduna!?

I'm in Lagos 😔

Jewessgratitud3:
It's amazing how I was contemplating making this post before a member here requested or should I say started asking me questions in that line and being a very free and open person, I promised I was going to post about it.

Well... Let me start from my background and up bringing which also contributed indirectly to my nonregrettable actions that has left me in this wonderful marital status.

I grew up in a Catholic christian home where good virtues moral values were instilled in us by engaging us in christian children activities from an early age. The Most social part of my childhood ( apart from school) was around the church then back home with close monitoring. So there was no room for nonsense even up to our secondary and tertiary level. the monitoring was topnotch. So we didn't really get to do shit like our mates who got exposed early to certain lifestyle,; dating number one.

We were overprotected and shaped with these guidelines that a mindset was formed that boy and girl relationship is a taboo ( and it's true). So we knew better than to toll that part.

In the long run, after I have come off age, it became very difficult to date. This was at age 21. Whenever I manage to give a man a listening ear and he mentions sex, I'll run without looking back because that was a danger sign we were taught to look out for. So i was always running away from men because of premarital sex. It got to a point, after looking like that's the only way to get a husband and I was already in my mid twenties, a time when a girl should be getting ready to settle down, I said ok, let me see if I can bend the rules a bit for this one. This man was a chronic responsible bachelor. So I felt it could work out since he's ready to settle down. He was in his mid 30s the and never married. We were in the same compound. So I gave in and we started dating. Mind you there was no pressure from both parents to get married. My parents will never pressure you to get a suitor.

Being a novice in the game, I never knew men could double date or even knew how to handle one when it happens. So, on this fateful day the randy goat came home with another girl. It was our last born that came and told me some girl came to look for him because everyone in the compound knows us together. I was heartbroken and right there I broke up with him without even finding out who or if what they both have is serious. Though I made him cry cos I started entertaining other boys that have been chyking me and bringing them to the compound but I never had anything with them or knew any of their houses. I was just using the to pepper him. Once they say hi, I'll drag them to the compound and we will sit on top of his car sometimes until he now confided in one of our neighbors who now told me to stop that the man is always crying. E never cry. I showed him two can play that game. He tried coming back but I bulshit him.

After that I locked up and never trusted any man. I began to see why my dad was being overprotective. I didn't date again for almost five years and then men were coming but that was when my own shakara increased. I mean responsible well to do men o. That was when men had good jobs from banking, investment and oil companies in ikoyi and vi both staff from five star hotel like Eko hotels and suites, federal palace cos those were the places I worked so I had many suitors and friends but the moment they mention relationship, Ill take off.

Part 2

It continued like that and I was enjoying my life with peace of mind that I forgot about time or didn't bother about it cos I don't care.

When I entered mid thirties, I said let me loosen up a bit but because Ive gotten used and enjoyed single life with peace of mind to that age, I found it difficult to commit again because anytime I tried, I'll start having anxiety. The thought of him cheating on me or even as little as admiring another woman will just make me unsettled and I'll think of aborting mission before it's too late.

So I said to give one man a chance, he too brought another girl in my absence. I found out from the sister and that was it. I called it off he begged and begged that the lady was forcing herself on him and sending him money bla bla.. he made a conference call with his family begging, my mind was made up I dumped him and moved on to a Choir boy Ive been admiring who was also trying to talk me into a relationship. I truly loved this guy and I think I was older than him in age . Though he refused to tell me his age but I was able to deduce from his Facebook profile cos he wrote class of 2006 while I finished 1999 but because I don't look my age, we just looked like age mate and we loved each other.

I met him when he just finished serving and was squatting. I was out of job then but one thing that made me stick with him was, even though he was not working, he shared whatever little he had with me. We were together when a very rich young pastor came asking for my hands in marriage. I told him about it and he started feeling sad that because he doesn't have a bearing now some guy wants to take me away from him. I on the other hand don't really fancy the pastor but wanted to force myself and see if it will work but it wasn't working because I didn't have feelings for him. To now make matters worse, he started showing stinginess. In the three months we courted, we didn't get to sit together because he's a pastor so we only see in church, stand and talk very briefly and disperse and each time he kept posting me about money I asked for to enable me travel for Xmas and the day was fast approaching. It was my Choir boyfriend that wen to borrow money from one girl selling recharge card to give me to travel. Now coupled with the fact that I don't even like him, i just texted him to look for another sister. The highest he ever bought me was two two hundred naira recharge card a stinkingly rich ajebota pastor for that matter ( 2014) but he would always call me.

Lastly, in 2016, my bobo got a job in Chevron with a nice apartment in lekki. Before then we had a small quarrel and we're not in talking terms because I requested for money for hair to attend my twins introduction and he told me no money but he didn't tell me he was saving for an apartment. Even then, how much? So, after months of not talking, he called and invited me over to see his new place. A surprise I guess. I got there and we had a nice time. He tried to make it up to me. He gave me his short and polo to wear that day and took me to a pepper soup joint. **Smiling**
later we got back and ad I was about to shower, I saw a used shower cap in his bathroom. He now handed me a new one from his wardrobe where there were many more. I asked him who used the one in the bathroom, he said baby don't start again. I held my peace.
The following morning he did something that I can't say for sure what really happened.

I slept over because there was no way I could go back from lekki to the mainland that day. That night he came to disturb me and I told him you know we can't be doing this. Please let wait till everything is formalized. When he wouldn't let me be, I left him and went to sleep on the floor. In the morning he woke up and was saying you, you, I was just looking at you as we were talking someone knocked on the door. It was a ladies voice. My ex went to meet her and they were together for almost 30mins before he came back inside. Me i didn't talk. I suspected he went to do nonsense because his thing was up when he left only to come back and it has come down.

We prepared and left together that morning for work. When I got home, I called and told him off. Na small thing dey vex me. He didn't believe it. So many things on my mind that made me take that huge decision. Men are not worth my type.

Since then till date, I stopped anything relationship especially if it's not a born again and I must like him. I faced my God ever since and decided to give myself peace. I can't stand a cheating partner. Disease dey town and I don't want to end up a baby mama.

Now, with the way things are, no jobs, the few decent men can hardly fend for themselves let alone catering for a family, I just decided to let sleeping dogs lie. Make person no come enter from fry pan to fire. Some family men now are dumping their family and running away from their responsibilities leaving the women to carry all the burden. So tell me what will make marriage enticing to me again? Abi na domestic violence? Biko Biko.

Hmmmm
Tbh
You've really tried your best.
You seem to be the kind of person who finds it difficult to settle for less.

Not for any thing.Not even time.

Most ladies, would have desperately forced themselves into a loveless or unfair marriage because they feel they won't be relevant again after a while.

You are the kind of person that would prefer making herself into relevance instead of seeking it desperately.


That's completely admirable

That's the definition of a lady who knows what she wants and won't settle for less or bring herself down for anything.


You have grown to be a person who wants affections as much as she can give.


Interestingly,I can imagine you have gotten to this point with an incredible amount of love and affection you long to offer.

It's there in your heart.

The thing is,the more the years went by, the more the love you want to give increased and the higher your emotional criteria went.


When you meet a person,for you to really love this person, the feeling you must have for this person was increasing with time and now it has gotten really high.

This is why those people you have met recently are not your spec.




Now,There's this level of feeling you must have for you to see this spec you have been looking for






Let me just stop here for now...🙂

PaganTerrorist:
Wrong

I get

Th US or Israel

PaganTerrorist:
Wrong

Why

Explain first

Exam of writing things I want

That would be fully paid for

I have read everything I need for that exam.
I am fully prepared

I am just waiting for the exam rn 🥺

PaganTerrorist:
If you were Boko Haram , where would you attack ??


$5 for anyone that mentions a better idea



Drop your Eth address, I'll be reading and crediting massively

Aso rock

Just be visiting up and down 😅

Look up to God


He can change the work for a better one

Without consequences

RushManni:
No one is looking at the fact that if this girl had obeyed the commandment of thou shall not fornicate she wouldn't have fallen into this ....... People want to keep shying away from the root cause cos of not wanting to answer religious ...

If not easy sex what else reduced her value in the eyes of the guy, and made her look only better as ritual bait ?

Or would we call this one too, marriage preparation ?

The idea of boyfriend and girlfriend indeed is satanic ..... But who would boldly say it ?

When you're ready for marriage you do that which is required......


RIP to the dead. Her family which will be in sorrow now I pray God be with them.

And our young generations may the likes of our yeeyebrities (who of course are misleading them to be too sexual) never see them.....

Wasted just like that.....

God!

You made all the possible sense with this comment 🙂🙏

Bobloco:
“It’s inexcusable . . .  We regret the mistake and we take the incident very seriously,” BFS director-general Georges-Simon Ulrich said at a hastily convened press conference in Bern.




In Nigeria, no one takes responsibility

INEC told us there was a glitch. No explanation was given about why the glitch happened

You dare ask for an explanation, you are told by the electoral umpire to go to court. You go to court, instead of the judge to rebuke the electoral umpire, the judge look you in the face and say that you couldn't convinced them that there was a glitch.

Every election year, we keep moving in circles.

An election that happened in 1993, 30 years after, that election is still being adjudged as the best election Nigeria ever had

No progress at all

I ask, are we cursed or are we the cause

You know
You are absolutely right with everything you said
Yeah

But
What you typed here
What you'd type somewhere else
What you'd say verbally about the country somewhere

None of it can really fix anything
Until we act and not just type/talk

Youths find it easier to organize massive rallies for a Mohbad that has gone and does not even know that anyone did anything for him on earth, than protesting against the consistent decline in the economy

Instead they prefer online

Which does not make sense

Just imagine

Evil people supported terrorists to come out to kill a large number of innocent people's loved ones and Family, to kill CIVILIANS

Now they are protesting.

How animalistic.
It's like they are protesting that they have the right to kill those people 😄

If I was Netanyahu.
I would destroy every last country that showed even an atom of Support for the Palestines

These people don't know that

Even if Israelis in larger numbers than this probably protest in Israel that Netanyahu should forgive the Palestines/Hamas, it can never work.


They must pay dearly for this that they've done.

So that next time, they would think about the consequences of what they want to do at least 4000 times before they think of doing it

MAMMAN777:
Members of the Iranian Basij forces staged a mock arrest of a man dressed like Israeli Prime Minister Benjamin Netanyahu during a rally to show their solidarity with Palestinians in the capital of Tehran

They should goan try the arrest in reality 😅

MAMMAN777:
A girl wearing facepaint showing the Palestinian flag and the Arabic slogan "Al-Aqsa flood" looks on during a rally in solidarity with the Palestinian people in Damascus, Syria's, central Arnous Square

Even if she puts fire on her face
They are all joking

Typical example of the right thing at the wrong time 😅

All I know is that

Those killed in Israel will not go unpunished

Even if they protest day and night

Are they mad 😂
The people that lost entire families should see the protesters and be like

"Oh okay. They are protesting. Netanyahu, don't worry. Let's just live them alone"

Animals! 😑

Every country with it's own problems

The problem of that country majorly includes gangs/Cartels

Hmmmmm


Kinda makes sense ✨

malcom1X:
True 😄

🌝😒😒😒

malcom1X:
They understand.

Ohh So melindi ebu has nawki ashi to goom 🙌 kuso hara hitu be saqoona 😳