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funola:Your head is in there ![]() |
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Everyone is wired differently and you shouldn't expect her to enjoy the same things as others...especially your EX Get to learn her love language and how she wants to be talked to and treated The same way some like vulgar words, others like sweet and gentle words While some prefer hard and fast, others prefer smooth and slow The same way people indulge in some form of fetish, others frown against it Nothing in life is mechanical...you both have to meet each other half way PS: I hope you plan on wifing her, else you need to get yourself sorted out on the sex thing |
usman3688 From all you're saying, it's obvious she has a particular deadline to being single, and she sees being married as the next thing to achieve (some ladies are wired that way...if not parental or peer pressure). So, her questioning your plan for your life was to know when you would be ready to take her to that next level, or if she's even a part of your plan for the future...so, based on all you say, she sizes you up to know if you're worth waiting for, and if you can provide the kind of financial security she needs in a home Her love for you is conditional, and even if you've done a whole lot for her in the past, what matters is now and the future Usually, students within the same age bracket currently dating in school marry based on different scenarios: 1. Either you get a job/start a business asap and the pay is good enough to raise a home 2. If she's the trustworthy type that sees potential in you and wouldn't mind being committed to when you'd be ready 3. If you both focus on career goals while dating now and plan to get married later on Either way, it seems you might lose her to a guy (your mate or someone older) who's an already made man or on his way up Usually, you hear the talk...date a younger lady (it's not a guarantee, but then you're given time to hustle up before you take the next step or she plays the marriage card) MY ADVICE: Communicate about what's necessary: *get to understand her feelings, emotions, mindset and plan for her life. *since you both drifted apart, you need to begin again and try to reconnect...cz you just can't continue where you left off and start talking about marriage *on your plan for the future, get her to explain what she meant by "scattered"...maybe she has a better idea on something she feels you might be doing wrong *never be pressured into marriage cz you feel she's the best thing that ever happened to you In the end, only you can decide if you fight for her, or just let her go |
QueenSuccubus:You haff spoil finish |
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Your problem...is not a problem (in Reekado Bank's voice) Here is the solution to your problem https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6uGLhRyCZ8c |
Hmmm....this kain thing get benefit Make people no dey complain again ooo
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Am I the only one who finds this story romantic?? Like a scene from a movie ![]() Truly...everyone has something that they would find attractive in someone they meet maybe her eyes, lips, face, smile, the sound of her voice...whateva I guess he only acted on impulse...and couldn't explain why Except...he's a perv, then his case is different |
To sample Iya Basira delicacies
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Celebrities like Davido giving free Ice cream at shoprite
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Filling station during fuel scarcity Or when people hear say NUPENG boss dream say dem wan strike
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Pensioners Protesters Voters ...anywhere money can be shared Even job hunters are not left out
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Nothing ventured...nothing gained For those who can...it's worth applying |
prettythicksme:It goes beyond sex...it's more about how much you care about the person and willing to make things work...recognising that you want a future with your partner Also, do they want the same thing too...and how committed are they to the relationship People who would cheat would cheat despite the distance...even when you have your partner living in the same place as you, there would be someone out there that would catch your attention...but the issue remains; would you act on impulse or principle? |
Taiye4Christ:22 years...post NYSC is not giving room for much graduates who would love the opportunity ![]() |
His hand is strong...I was expecting some veins from excess gland to hand kombat ![]()
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FuckBuhari:Seriously
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FuckBuhari:
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spyroxy1:Togo Ghana Niger Cameroun No be small journey overseas ![]() |
That bra fit sew wedding gown...100 yards |
When it's not Big Brother Naija ![]() |
omosedollar:I didn't talk about the 14 year old girl dating...I meant that if he indeed appreciates her as a person, he can help her in ways such as: getting the best out of her studies and focus on school (that's why I mentioned grooming her to be a lady he would admire) |
The guy is old enough to date...true But the relationship got sexual way too fast A her age, I expected maturity on the side of the guy to watch what he says to her and how he acts If he's attracted to her, I don't see why he can't be patient and groom her to the type of lady he needs I know people have found their life partners in teacher-student scenarios b4 |
LeView1:True...trust is one thing that kips a relationship strong thru moments like this...cz you know your partner and their commitment when it comes to you. But taking a look on the wild side...it only takes a first impression to create that attraction It might be about the intentions of the old friend (whether shez told him about her man or not)...that's if shez swayed with words, physique or material things |
soberdrunk:You mind dem ![]() The driver fit sue those corpers for invasion of privacy In the comfort of his front sit, na there dem start to dey snap as he dey discharge his duties ![]() |
LeView1:They are wise to only be cautious You don't wait till it happens and say "had I known" I know not all girls are the same, and this might truly be a platonic catching up with an old friend scenario...but she rily needs to put his mind at ease, as you can see he's not comfortable about it |
You opened the floodgates of konji...and want to pullout At year one for that matter, what if she no fit hold body nko? Guy, you don add extra course for her this semester...how to create an olosho 101 She can like to carryover...as heartbreak dey come cz you wan leave am |
They need to flog that dead body with better koboko What nonsense!! ![]() Shey na wetin your mama and papa send you go do for school? Shey dem complain wen dem born you say you ugly? Na young girl send you ontop one way errand go grave...cz na she bring you come this earth shey |
Any small mistake now...Trump no go let Nigeria hear word He go just finally make up his mind, add us to the list of banned countries sharparly ![]() |
Smellymouth:Are you sure she didn't just finish using it...and in all the excitement, decided to shoot a video ![]() |
iluvdonjazzy:Your case is different ![]() |
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