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Simple...she has to do the expected

But seriously, this is something she ought to discuss with her man, where they both come to understand each other's views and approach to sexuality, tho in a way being physical still counts for something but it's best wen they're married so they get to learn a lot from each other...realising that they both need to be free & open minded about spicing things up

kilokeys:
U r lucky.. Pple like us have exhausted the English alphabets... We are now in Greek..

I have option Sigma sef.

Got me laughing real hard


Truly, even wen one is in a relationship we still find that we might get interested in other people we come across. The same goes for others we have as close friends that we sort of have genuine feelings for...or maybe a crush. In a weird way, they become plan B.

Ladies that are mindful of their biological clock...including those that are lukin for a made man tend to scout for a plan B when plan A seems to be no show.

The fact that partners choose to stick together in love is what counts. Remember that before him/her you had friends...& even if there's a breakup u'll still have friends.

So I wouldn't classify this as cheating as long as no one made a move for plan B yet...& even if one did, as long as it's an open relationship it still ain't cheating.

But...wen you start nursing an idea of being with another & your partner doesn't know abt it, then you can start talking about cheating.

diva90:
Flash back to school days during exam when pple are collecting extra answer booklet and you haven't even written on half of your first one

Epic
Lecturers go feel say na you dull pass...especially wen na all of u dey class during lectures

Realwvn:
My wife always wants to have sex with the lights off. We’re talking complete darkness. Every time I try to turn the lights on, she asks me to turn them off because she ‘can’t get in the mood’ with them on. It turns me on to see her body during sex, so I’m getting tired of this arrangement.”

Tallesty1:
She wants black children

Side effects may include...

Themandator:
OK. But before I let you go, know this : God gives Rev Frs from a purpose : to impart you with knowledge and understanding of the mystery of the kingdom for it is given unto you to know the mystery and operate them. If any father is not fulfilling this and you rely on church groupings to know, then his priest hood is needless.

After the way has been pointed then you engage in seeking and finding but someone with grace must, like lecturers, point you to your way....

I was amongst the best during catechism class for first holy communion and confirmation. A block rosary activist and spiritual father for persons during baptism.

All the above did not impart my destiny. A married man like me knows what he is saying :my wife is a cadet by virtue of the Father being a knight... But today, she knows better.... Christ death is so we can reign as priest and Kings and it requires the operation of the mystery to walk into the power realms.

My entire family are Catholics except myself.. And then my younger brother that I told to go to winners for sometime and see if he can find the words for his healing... He is a crazy winners, Today.


my mum called me, recently and after giving me what she thought were sound out I ask her told listen and I gave her scriptures and charge that she confess that my understanding is extraordinary.... She confessed that my words gave her insight that wasn't there and her faith welled up. She was supposed to minister to me but got it from me the way no father has eve told her.

She now wants me to talk to her all the time

If i was to ask...do you think that everyone that goes to your church each day gets the message of the pastor?
Do you think everyone goes there to listen?...so does that make his position as a pastor needless in imparting knowledge and understanding of the mystery of the kingdom

One can't tell what's in the mind of an individual. The person might just be in church just to fulfill all righteousness, dance to the drums, have fun, meet friends, get a few new digits and then head back home.

1 Peter 2:9 says..."But you are a chosen people, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, a people for God's own possession, to proclaim the virtues of Him who called you out of darkness into His marvelous light"

From my earlier description, what if a person's encounter with God was not through the pastor himself, but through other activities in the church, or with a member...does that make God's word any different
We all are called to be priests...filled with God's abundant grace to spread His word and not just waiting for the priest in church.

Take your everyday life for instance...there are people that you take an admiration to and want to listen to what they have to say regardless, and for some others, you might not seem interested at all, hence their words fall on deaf ears. Does that make the others less smart or less knowledgeable?...it's all about perception. The same way you might choose not to listen to the teacher in class, it's either you find the lecture boring or the teacher is not delivering the way you want it...or in ways you comprehend.

You said you were amongst the best in your catechism class for first holy communion and confirmation...i've been there, and that doesn't count for much...rather it's the heart that matters regarding your destiny. People looked up to me like i was well grounded in faith, but there were others more devoted to christian life than i was back then...and even though they were not doing well in class i wished i could emulate them in their ways cz i knew they were way better than me.
I remember a faith class in a protestant church in which they brought them all to the front of the church and gave prizes to just the 1st, 2nd and 3rd. I wondered what was the aim and purpose...cz i felt it might make others feel less of themselves...plus, what if the others were better than them in the practice of God's teachings?

Regarding being a spiritual father during baptism, do you have any idea what responsibility was entrusted to you?...you add to the life of that child and make an impact in his/her destiny...i had to learn, because i also am one. Not everything revolves around us and our lives, because we were called here on earth to serve others.

As for your wife and her father...the positions in church don't matter. we wouldn't take that to heaven. Each person is responsible for their life. I have heard of protestant pastors who have children living in the world...does that make the pastor or the congregation any less?

You talked about advising your younger brother going to winners for words for his healing. i don't know if you are talking about looking for "miracles" or "God's word"...whichever it is, the catholic church provides for that also if you understand much about the church.
PS: i'm not against any church, as i also have friends and family going to winners and even other denominations, and i even get invited for programs...but still, going there doesn't change who i am..."a crazy christian"

I wish i could give you numbers and you get the chance to meet and listen to other learned catholics i've met...they would give you that feeling that your mum felt...and then you come to understand their wealth of knowledge of the scriptures...and who do you think taught them??

Life is not just black and white...but there are grey areas. Each day i try to understand and learn more about myself and others also.

It was nice to hear things from your view...on this note, have a wonderful week

Themandator:
You are still saying the same thing : without the after mass programs and society, it is difficult to find spiritual fulfilment, within the Catholic Church.

My summary : As a Catholic, majority are stock at the level of children of God.. And are perpetually under the elements of this world because the homilies rarely points you to sonship.

I guessed u dint get me or I dint explain well
I meant all those activities helped me get a better understanding of the church and the mass (sumthing I neglected)...helping me listen, meditate and find that spiritual fulfilment.

What you don't know....u have no understanding, so u say the things u say based on what you bliv. But who am I to judge. Based on what I know I could say some things about protestant churches of even the muslims, but I know that my views are sum1 from the outside looking in & it would be different from one who has been in that faith and taken the time to learn soo much

Themandator:
I stopped attending church for almost a year that my parents had a chat with me and I told them the church wasn't imparting me.

Larryfly:
Knowing Christ is not enough bro... Fr it is written that even the devil knows Christ and trembles. What is required of us is to build a perfect relationship with Him so that he ll walk with us in life. It is in this building of rship that we get confused of the path to follow. Though we all accept that its through Christ but men have created so many Principles on their own

How active where you as a catholic? Was it just a Sunday thing or did u delve deeper to understand more?

We all are born into homes where we find ourselves being in the same church as our parents...fact
But in growing up as a child, was your home the type where your parents sit you down and teach you more about the church, or did they welcome questions from you so they could explain more about the teaching for the day or an understanding of your faith.
I never had the luxury of all that as a child, so in my search for an understanding, I took to reading books on faith and spirituality...besydes the Bible
*don't mind me...i love books*

The church has an amazing library of books from different authors, and would rouse your curiosity to read more. I know the mass might seem too straightforward or routine, but it has a purpose; "our salvation", which I guess u might not have understood. I wish you took the time to understand every part of the mass in its detail.

The kind of life i used to live before was not helpful if i was to call myself a christian, not until I decided to challenge myself to do different. I became a part of the opus dei center "helmbridge", and also joined the lay readers, where I hold an active position, and also being a part of the youth fellowship in church where I am a part of the word group; learning from people and also delivering talks when called upon.

The thing is I don't know much as a christian, and I'm still eager to know more, and I'm forever thankful to the people I met so far in this life's journey...people i call my teachers and motivators...and as my principle in life, I look to the prayer of St. Francis of Asisi

One question that still puzzles me is where do we draw the line between faith and morality?...cz i do bliv an atheist with a good heart would seem better than a christian who disregards Christ in all he does

girlhaley:
Hilarious


Its by accident na.....don't you see?

True...twas an accident

I could say the same for this

For some people, they're used to calling their partners by name, so what if by coincidence they bear the same first and middle name?

I asked this question and someone's response was "NO", with her reason being that calling his name in a romantic way would sound soo odd...and worse when you talk about the bedroom.

What's your view?

@MuyiRano
if na so e be...all men go fear walk down aisle

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JennieCutie4U:
Wow... 1st time to comment on nairaland after how many years of reading without commenting. Abeg mk una welcome me joor.








Nd thanks for dis info. Now i knw berra

Lol...I guess you don't need anyone to tell you much abt NL

At least it's a gud thing u started saying sumthin...either you contribute to the laffs or the learning process

ehis05:
What if bola meets a man...tunde..n tunde is ready 2 settle down as well as bola...dey test drove..bola noticed tunde cnt satisfy her....same tin hapuns wit tom, dick, and harry...n dey surely all test drove bola....what does dat make Bola??

(A) A tokunbo commodity
(B) A konji gauge
(C) A bedmatics testing app
(D) All of the above

Angelis:
Please is there any Engineer among the shortlisted?

Dunno the head count....but I got the invite

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What gives?

15 minutes sure was an understatement
but anywayz, the assessment was more about accuracy than speed...
- how well you understand the concept of the question
- how precise u can be in xplaining how u arrived at the required solution, taking note of evry li'l detail

But hey, All izz well...as they'd say. May God see us thru 2d nxt stage.
take care y'all

realbomax: hope guys surprised halliburton by answering all their 25 questns?

It's possible....but mehn, twas lyk a race; & 20 minutes seemed lyk 20 seconds.

I bliv evry1 dat hasn't written should hv bn notified by nw. PwC usually sends a reminder mail so they don't miss it

I'm guessing you might be referring to Lasgidi. well, there are lots of schools, though i don't have a concise list, but anyways...here's a link i stumbled upon earlier on;
http://job-managers..com/2013/03/grange-secondary-and-primary-school-job.html

you can check it out...and also, try google searching, i bliv results are bound to turn up.

@Toyota Cowrolla
Lwtmb...seriously!