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greatness22:
Love it when u smile

Hmmmm...shey na dp smile abi na smiley smile
O boy...u go fear my english

Eminentsaint:
Thanks. The Society For Family Health wanted to spoil good guys likely me.

Pix of the rubber still intact...or adonbilivit

JustHere2Observ:
Please which one is analogue phone and digital phone?

Maybe Nokia 3310 or any kpalasa for analogue , and probably Android phone for digital

BornnAgainChild:
Depends on the type of sisiter you refering too cos Sister pass sister.......

Hmmm....with that kain pillow in front, it's either Sister Amaka or Sister Shade

herbie27:
You will both be subjected to a rigorous process, except you claim to be a virgin, bt if u're not and a born again christian, you're nt expected to have slept with the man you intend marring.

That sounds soo wrong in every way

I just wanted to say...don't they preach forgiveness of sins in your church? It seems like the church itself made the rule soo stiff, cz if God was to say that...I believe there would be quite a few marriages in the world based on the particular trend of premarital sex.

Our heavenly father knows our weakness, and he is always waiting with open arms to receive us whenever we humbly turn to him seeking his face.

mhisbliss:
why else would you ask for a random stranger's number? To get her a job in dangotes company? To keep in touch? With a stranger? You and i know his motives so stop pretending

Wow...you really are full of yourself, aren't you?
If this is always your mindset...you definitely have to change that. Never ever generalize, cz life is not just black or white.

Before I was dating I had friends...and even as I'm with my partner I am still meeting new friends.

I don't know his motives & neither am I a soothsayer...so stop making this a big deal.

mhisbliss:
i dont want to waste his time, ok would it be better if i gave him hope use him and dump him?

Lol... He's not asking you to marry him
Give that thought a break...cz not everyone that asks you for your number wants to date you

mhisbliss:
he was behaving wierd, he waited for me for almost 40mins and he wanted my contacts at that spot because he gave me pen, wao

No kidding
I admire his boldness...at least give him credit.
I guess he didn't want to miss out on the opportunity of making a new friend

mhisbliss:
those bolded are my thoughts didn't actually voice it

I get that, but your approach towards the issue was the problem from the start. A little courtesy should go a long way in describing your personality.

mhisbliss:
so in summary you're saying the moment you say hi to a guy it must culminate into a relationship

No...don't misunderstand me

I don't mean every Hi must end up being a relationship. All I was trying to point out was the obvious dismissal of the guy by you from the start...meaning he never stood a chance of even a friendly conversation from the beginning, even if he didn't have the intention of getting your number.

Even if you weren't in the mood, there are polite ways of dismissing him...else people would mistake your actions for pride from your chat description on your post.

mhisbliss:
Him:hi are you done with the transaction?
Me: yes
Him: well am xoxoxo, can i know your name?
Me: am tina(fake name) nice to meet you xoxoxo.
Him: are you from around here? ( i was like what a dumb guy, nope am from the moon)
Me: somehow
Him: how?
Me: i am here on vacation and am not familiar with the area i live, i cant even remember the name of my street, its gra actually(lies)
Him: i can see you're using a smartphone it means you're on whatsapp ryt? ( so everyone using a smartphone are on whatsapp)
Me: yes
Him: can i have your number?
Me: is that necessary?
Him: i would like to know you better
Me: ok, 070bla bla bla (my long lost sim)
Him: he called and its not going, well your number is not going
Me: my real phone is at home switched off this is my aunts phone)
Him: ok heres mine, when you get home flash me
Me: ok
Him: since you don't know your address how will you get home
Me: I'll drop at gra i can locate my house from there
Him: ok see yo around beautiful
Me: thanks xoxoxo, i was like oh God because you gave me pen? He cant read the not interested sign on my forehead?

Hmmmm... mhisbliss

This is definitely the quickest way to lose someone you might later wish you knew.

I hope you didn't judge him based on first appearance or approach, cz I believe there are certain people who would meet you and you would give them rapt attention based on your perception.

What are his chances of meeting you later on to strike a conversation, if you felt that was the wrong time or place...or would you prefer he stalks you?

He saw a chance a took it, so why crucify him?

I know some guys can be a tad annoying especially with the way they act when they met you for the first time...but recognize that friendship transcends to relationship...and relationships are not just about being all lovey dovey, but expanding your network of friends which might turn out to be connections you never expected.

#wordforthewise

mizzbouqui:
10. Don’t blow up when she pays
Some women are very independent and as such may want to pay the bills, or even go dutch and men need to understand that it’s a thing. Don’t cause a scene, agree on something and leave.

What other things do you think men should stop doing on first dates?

http://omgvoice.com/lifestyle/men-first-dates/?geoip
Cc: Lalasticlala

Hmmmm.....I knew a girl that once did this, and she ended up insulting the guy after that he wasn't a man for letting her pay.

Weird enough, she was the one that offered and insisted even wen the guy was not approving

The guy lucky say no be 9ja he try that yeye rough play...else the kain breeze wey go blow am ehn, he go believe say he get Nigerian roots and the witches wey dey find am tey tey don finally catch am.

AngelAhnie:
When a guy breaks up with a girl it seems normal, once the Lady do the breaking up you hear different stories.

I was her father Christmas

I paid her school fees

I paid for her upkeep

I bought Christmas cloths for her

I did this, I did that...bla bla bla

op even mentioned miscellaneous expenditures..
learn to move on guys, ladies suffer worst in the hands of some (monsters) guys.

I'm just saying op don't take this to heart

I try not to generalize that one side suffers more. I'd rather say meeting the wrong person can be a disaster for any guy or lady.

Some things hurt more and can get you bitter, saying things you never thought you'd say

BrokenHeart2016:
Pls don't fight ontop this matter, you guys have been making sense so far, I just need your counseling

Sorry about misreading my tone. I have no intention of fighting, just helping her understand the message from AfroKnight

AngelAhnie:
You said he should be faithful to his next chick and you contradict your statement. Telling him to get a substitute....no vex, e make sense to you

Read again and be mindful of his tone... He is trying to advise him to be good, and in the end he reminded him that being all goody goody might not pay.

Though I am not in support of the double dating, but I feel there are some things he should do different next time. I hope he figures it out

Expectations! Expectations!! Expectations!!!

It seems you did alot for her, and you feel cheated now that it's over. Maybe in the end she felt that wasn't good enough. It seems like you were someone she chose to be with because of her situation, and now she feels it's time to move along to the next best thing.

Truth is, she never loved you. Maybe she felt something for you, and to her twas conditional.

Anywayz, there's always two sides to a story...and you definitely can't tell it all on this forum, so I do hope you find time to pick yourself up and move on cz people come, and people go.

Take solace in knowing the person for you is still out there, despite the search that has lead you to wrong directions...you would definitely find her and look back on this moment and laugh...cz she would make the past be a forgotten memory.

Not every relationship ends in marriage...most times, they are for you to learn from and prepare yourself for the journey ahead, being wiser and smarter that you already are.

Lol...seems like shez got 6 fingers

The thumb ain't showing much

The index finger is on her lips

and there are 4 more knuckles

IRIEBOY:
thanks alot

Ur welcome

Wounds take time to heal...and it's best you give her time to get over the past. Take things slow and help by doing things you know she would love...things that get her all smiles and laughing...looking forward to sharing memories with you.

In every way try to show her how things would be different from the past, and be there for her...encouraging her through all the things she's going through.

saintdennis:
Guy it's 2016, nobody cares about sextapes... you would be surprised Anita hogans kids(if she has) are fully aware their mum had nudes leaked.

When u counsel the kid eventually they become numb to ridicule. Even in obodo america pornstars kids live a normal life.

Maheeda, afrocandy kids dey there em no complain lol.

Guy....I get your scene

But reload and think about the average naija situation

Iffa hear say the mama or papa of the guilty one no care...or even the in-laws, talk less of the children or worse...bad belle neighbours

But why?...OP
3 days

Not only did u talk about armpit...you just had to add "the odour down below"

Cutehector:
Hello people
Remember Anita Hogan? The movie actress?

Ok her nudess got leaked...

Buh she's still married lol..

I am not against the marriage though, but I'm curious...what about her kids?

What if they themselves or their friends stumble on it?

That could really take a toll on the child's psyche if his mum becomes an object of ridicule

Project400:
What a thread!!

You go fear that kind fear

Battle of the wallets

Them wan use their figures give the OP heart attack

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djgreenland:
Tell....

1st post on NL....

1st to comment.....

Nah...that's incomplete. Rather, you should have added

1st post on NL....

1st to comment....

On a snake thread....

Lala...do the needful and take it to the promise land

Wait
I thought ladies were supposed to have the softest of bodies, so that guys could enjoy the feel of yansh and boobies.

I am trying to imagine hard chest like a man and rock bottom

Maybe those men who are into other men wouldn't mind this version of a woman for a change

At least you go form Gay with pride
What do you think?

Lala, hope you are taking notes?

Na to count losses remain.

So, as only the food can be salvaged...as you walk out the front door with his pot, the response suppose be "the person that would marry me would be indeed lucky to eat this kind of food"

Hmmm...how can one tell now without being biased?

We need to invite a 3rd party next time to the slaughter ground to be the judge and referee

123aisosa:
Hey guys, i will be telling u on my oppinon top games i have played.
1.clash of clan
2.clan royale
3.piano tale.

Fell free to add more.

Marvel1206:
My top 3 are:

Mortal kombat X
Modern Combat 4
Brothers a Tale of Two Sons

but the list plenty sef

The Walking dead
real Racing 3
Dead trigger
The Dark Knight Rises
Limbo
Fifa 14
Fifa 16
Ww2K15
God Fire
Oddworld Strangers Wrath
Game of Thrones
Assassin's creed pirates

don't forget to check my signature

Wait ooo...I opened the thread thinking I'd see Temple Run, Subway Surf and Candy Crush