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KPhantom:There is wisdom in your words and I agree with that....but in this case, the OP is more concerned with physical looks and attributes of the lady as the couple age. One shouldn't get married because of beauty...cz when it fades, what is left? rose54321:I admire the way you express things ![]() I have dated ladies in the 3 different categories; same age as me, older than me, and also younger than me...and what really amazes me about it all was that the one that showed much love, respect and understanding was the lady younger than me...and she displays maturity beyond her age. This debunks the saying; "the older you are, the more experienced you are, and the more mature you are". This applies both ways...for the man and the woman Although, this is no way trying to generalize ladies and their different ages in comparison to mine, but what I look forward to is a happy home in marriage. For me, I get attracted to her personality/character...and her age is whatever it is. We pray to God...not just to find a wife, but to find our wife |
Israel5:Your relationship sure is unique...but in it you only end up stifling yourself. I can see you craving for more...so you sure need to man the hell up, take charge...else you remain locked up in friendzone and one badt guy would come sweep her off her feet Israel5:I see her shy nature at play, and she ain't willing to open up...so baba, the introduction now is up to you. Start in a subtle way and let her family and friends know you both are an item. I could give clues...but you need to develop your own style Israel5:This part is weird...you call her your girlfriend, yet u've never had the comfort of giving her a big warm hug from the front or a bear hug from behind. Even IFA cannot help you You need to let her know how you feel about it, and find ways to make her come out of her shell. The way you approach her matters a lot Israel5:There are ways to make her want to kiss you and crave it without her making the moves...silent whispers, romantic texts. It's all about how you paint a picture in her mind Israel5:It might take a little while for her to get a bit confident and comfortable. Don't expect much though, cz even that form of pda might be too much for her cz of people around. Israel5:Have u made her really angry before?...and I hope she doesn't bottle her emotions and feelings, else that can be highly dangerful. ![]() If she is the calm type, then you need not worry Israel5:Let her know she's the cause of u abandoning her most times. Rather, if she ain't comfortable with you alone at home, there are outdoor avenues were you both can have a quiet time. Israel5:Let her know the things you have done that she shoved away...and next time tell her what romantic gesture you have planned up for her so she sees everything you do. I know it sounds frustrating...cz ladies are rather fond of surprises Israel5:Hope you aren't misinterpreting her actions?...that is, if she was blushing and shoving you off Complements should rather be spontaneous and sincere Israel5:Someway...somehow you have to communicate cz that's the foundation of every relationship. If you both get married, how would you handle your home? |
Cutehector:It's a feeling that you feel you are feeling, and hope the other person feels the same way you are feeling...Gba be ![]() |
simtosul:Well...for starters, what's being felt isn't love It's more of admiration leading to a fatal attraction. It's more of a single girl craving for something more...and the homely boss seems to strike something in you...maybe his persona, his looks, the way he talks and acts that makes you feel so giddy inside, or how he treats his wife in the office. Have u watched the movie; obsessed? The boss was always being his flirty self, and even though he had no intentions of doing any flings...that didn't stop his temp secretary from misinterpreting things. I'd only advise you to find a distraction from that distraction. Go out more...meet people...start up a healthy relationship and get more from life. As some people would say...[s]the best way to get over him is to get under someone else[/s] ![]() |
halfricanadian:I wouldn't refer to it as love. It's more of infatuation/physical attraction to her beauty ![]() Bia...OP come and change the topic of the post |
oliver5:Everything ké...when there has been no nakamora involved. ![]() Guy, you better collect your 3 years rent sharply before you are evicted with immediate alacrity. Don't mind me spewin trash ![]() Really, you should know your lady better...and 3 years ain't no joke baba. Do dig deeper and find out the truth, so you know where you both stand in the relationship. Be careful though, cz losing one's trust is not an easy thing to undo. |
Stupedinluv:Bia... Stupedinluv You make it sound like your world revolves around you or how you look. But truly, if you're placed with the lady below and our fellow romancelanders are asked to vote...your numbers would never compare to what she would get. To each his own...and every lady is beautiful in her own way. There's always someone out there that loves a particular lady for who she is....shape, size, faults and all & she becomes his everything...his beauty beyond words
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20bc:For where!!! ![]() |
vchykp:You suppose take her to mama sharpaly so she fit chop the kain slap wey dey reset brain to factory settings. ![]() On a lighter mood...i'd say keeping thoughts bottled up inside is a recipe for disaster in any relationship. Relationships are built on the foundation of communication, that is, finding every opportunity to discuss and get to know much about each other. There is no hard and fast rule and neither does life have a defined template...but we all keep learning about each other everyday and almost through our lives because people change. You are the man in the relationship, and you need to take charge and be bold in handling things. You talk about she being the one...well, I dunno about love being a give and take issue...because that means for everything you do you have expectations from her to reciprocate. Love entails more of giving without expectation of receiving...because what you do for her, is done because you are willing to do it over and over again out of love. but... I don't expect her to be unresponsive, because if she truly loves you, maybe there are other ways she shows it and you aren't taking notice of it. I'm not talking about nackson oo ![]() It goes beyond physical gifts...although it's the thought behind the gifts that counts. So, like others have said... i'd still advice you both find a quiet time in between your busy schedule to sit down and talk, cz that's the only way you can grow your relationship to what it needs to be. |
Naijatalktalk:Consensual ké...so he now speaks orangutan He then decided to run nekede *hope he asked for her hand in marriage sha?* Now he don turn orangutan to baby mama Chai...blood of konjinus |
Ibro2005:The op didn't post about the man's religion...so what makes you think he is not a Muslim? Even if there was a single queue for men and women...would that stop a man from lusting after another woman on a different queue? The mind is what matters, and how one chooses to discipline himself...thoughts and actions alike |
selfdefence:No worry....they don dey recruit for 9ja. Just hope say fine chicks follow send application. ![]() |
In life sometimes, we tend to make sacrifices...when there seem to be no easy way to. But i'd say you offer up everything to God in prayer, making him the foundation of your decision. Like others have said, I do believe you can achieve everything both ways...it's all depends on your approach to the situation. Apply wisdom...and remember, communication is key. |
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i know sey our presido sabi smile... but the way e do him face like pesin mess one kain evil thing for dia ![]() This one pass me o... and that na the gift wey them dash pesin
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cheezy4whizy: I don laff throweyscatter leg na the trending swagu *iffa hear* ![]() but all you see in the pix na concept...model looks & ol |
CaroLyner:Seconded...cz if you truly need to expose someone and warn others, the IG handle should have bn given...& besides, i'm sure maybe he might have a picture if her somewhere ![]() |
BoiledHead:Oga boss....light no dey ![]() |
Chai ....all the Dubai wedding don waste Dem for don arrange court wedding with few friends and family ....& right now change go still remain All that glitters truly ain't gold ![]() |
Someone poured gasoline on him...in this trying times when fuel dey expensive and scarce. |
Pre-wedding pix usually reflect a concept...or sumthing particular to the couple; "maybe how they met" So, going with that i'd say...they met on a plane wen they wer travelling to watch a match... & sum1 decided to get freaky ![]() The look on the guy's face tho.... epic! You know hez hungry ![]() |
Oyin93:Curious question? ![]() Cz the packaging don resemble chest nah But wait ooo...if u reason the matter between man and woman, difference no too dey o Na just size of everything *some men even carry pass some women* ...& bsydes both man and woman own dey sensitive That means guyz don dey giv girls free lookery all this while Chai !!! Adam, you for chop that apple 1st ooo |
Chai !!!....see offering and tithe *if daddy is her source of finance sha* For the pastor, this na typical case of "wen devil wan show u better pepper" ![]() |
Mannylex:Lol, I get that feeling...4me twas 2 girls at a go. So here I was passing by the corridor to their room and hailed them, only to get a response I dint hear so well. Then I decided to go in and find out whatsup as their door was a bit ajar, only to witness the sight of sumthing ![]() *weird enuff, they usually locked their door wen they're in* The next thing I heard wer screams that alerted them boiz around who saw me come out laughing later and realised I had seen the holy grail. Na so them follow laff the matter.Anywayz, I had always wyned them as i suspected they both go unclad in their rooms and that day confirmed it. Later on, they came to my room and said they must retaliate...that they must see my own as a payback. *see me see wahala* |
Davindal:I'm trying to relate with your thoughts, and I can say it's not easy...cz we come from a world where appearance is sort of the 1st thing that attracts one to a person, but ova tym we ought to realise that marriage requires a lot more. You come to love each other...flaws and all, cz u know no one is perfect *even you* You learn to sacrifice...cz you would do it a thousand tymes ova *cz shez worth it* You come to complement each other...cz u become each other's strength wen the other is weak You come to see the best in her...even wen she can't see it in herself You stick with her and remain faithful *even wen other options seem soo tempting*...cz nothing compares to the way you feel wen with her But in all...what happens wen beauty fades? Do you see nothing left in her...or would you still see the lady with a beautiful heart you fell in love with 4me...I'll still go with what others said about working out together...cz that is how the bonds of relationships are strengthened, knowing that even wen things seemed tough, you stuck by each other through 'n through |
All iz well with your soul... R.I.P Floreat!!! to a great mind |
jopretty: RoyalBlak007: ebubemicky: Sexytemi: leke12: Wuminity:Count and find out what's up ![]()
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Different people have different attitudes they bring into a relationship. I once had a girl who told me plainly that she would never work on fixing any relationship she's in, except it's her marriage. Well...that's a whole diffnt level. As 4u...I'd advise you try communicating your views to her, & her response should tell you what you need to do. Let her understand that it takes two to make things work, else u find urself struggling in the relationship & trying to please her...& that is a one-sided relationship. If it leads to a breakup, always remember...before her you had friends of the opposite sex, & after her u'ld still have friends. |
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