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Romance › Re: Why A Guy Should Not Marry A Girl His Age by sirusX(m):
KPhantom:
the OP has a point, for women, they have biological clocks and it runs faster.. If u look at the situation in Nigeria, many 27 yr olds are still hustling, how do u expect them to marry their age mate @ dat time. The girl will bounce herself. So i think marriage has to do with your resources not age. if a 20 yr old that has enuff money to start a family he can marry his agemate, but a 30 yr old man still looking for a job can never afford to marry his age mate except d girl is ready to wait (but hw many 30yr old women can wait eh?)
There is wisdom in your words and I agree with that....but in this case, the OP is more concerned with physical looks and attributes of the lady as the couple age.

One shouldn't get married because of beauty...cz when it fades, what is left?

rose54321:
It's the simple truth.
Einstein once said, the only source of knowledge is experience.
The Bible further buttressed it by saying " "When I was a child, I spoke as a child, I understood as a child, I thought as a child: but when I became a man, I put away childish things."

The older you are the more experiences you've experienced.

While I agree that we have some immature adults, the percentage is slim compared to the generality of adults.
Hope you are clear now..
I admire the way you express things smiley

I have dated ladies in the 3 different categories; same age as me, older than me, and also younger than me...and what really amazes me about it all was that the one that showed much love, respect and understanding was the lady younger than me...and she displays maturity beyond her age.

This debunks the saying; "the older you are, the more experienced you are, and the more mature you are".
This applies both ways...for the man and the woman

Although, this is no way trying to generalize ladies and their different ages in comparison to mine, but what I look forward to is a happy home in marriage.

For me, I get attracted to her personality/character...and her age is whatever it is.

We pray to God...not just to find a wife, but to find our wife
Romance › Re: My Girlfriend Is Frustrating Me by sirusX(m):
Israel5:
I love my girlfriend so much that i could do almost anything for her. Our relationship is a unique one. We've known eachother since childhood and i didn't ask her out before our ship left the coast and she didn't ask me out either but i'm having some challenges with her. We're both introverts but i've almost become an ex due to my exposure .so i need your opinion. I'm frustrated in these areas..
Your relationship sure is unique...but in it you only end up stifling yourself. I can see you craving for more...so you sure need to man the hell up, take charge...else you remain locked up in friendzone and one badt guy would come sweep her off her feet

Israel5:
1. She introduced me as a son of my father. We've been family friends since childhood so her dad knws mine. We lost touch and when we came back as adults, we .. U knw na. Eh en. So i visited her at her father's house and she introduced me as my father's son. Not even her friend fa. And it has become a norm for her. I don't do same.
I see her shy nature at play, and she ain't willing to open up...so baba, the introduction now is up to you. Start in a subtle way and let her family and friends know you both are an item.
I could give clues...but you need to develop your own style

Israel5:
2. She's never hugged me. My gf has never hugged(real hug). She gives me the side when i make a move. She's not DLBC member o. We're both thesame denom. She's not even spiritual like me sef.
This part is weird...you call her your girlfriend, yet u've never had the comfort of giving her a big warm hug from the front or a bear hug from behind. Even IFA cannot help you

You need to let her know how you feel about it, and find ways to make her come out of her shell. The way you approach her matters a lot

Israel5:
3. She's never kissed me. My gf has never pecked me not to talk of kiss. She never gives me the chance. We've agreed on No sex but a lil show of affection is not bad.
There are ways to make her want to kiss you and crave it without her making the moves...silent whispers, romantic texts. It's all about how you paint a picture in her mind

Israel5:
4. She's very shy. Sometimes i think it's the reason for 2 and 3. I can't even hold her hands in the day only at night and her palms get all sweaty in the cold night.
It might take a little while for her to get a bit confident and comfortable. Don't expect much though, cz even that form of pda might be too much for her cz of people around.

Israel5:
5. She never gets angry at me. No matter what i do(i don't cheat), she never gets angry at me. I've seen her angry but it wasn't at me. It makes me scared cos that personality is dangerous.
Have u made her really angry before?...and I hope she doesn't bottle her emotions and feelings, else that can be highly dangerful. lipsrsealed
If she is the calm type, then you need not worry

Israel5:
6. She never visits me alone. She visits me with her gigantic brother and when they come, the brother and i talk football forgetting her presence..lol. And she complains abt that.
Let her know she's the cause of u abandoning her most times. Rather, if she ain't comfortable with you alone at home, there are outdoor avenues were you both can have a quiet time.

Israel5:
6. She complains i'm not romantic. This is the worst part. It makes me go haywire because she frustrates my every effort .
Let her know the things you have done that she shoved away...and next time tell her what romantic gesture you have planned up for her so she sees everything you do.
I know it sounds frustrating...cz ladies are rather fond of surprises

Israel5:
7. She does not take my words seriously. She insists i tell her words like, 'you're beautiful, i love your butt, waist, dress, i love you' et al but when i do she goes like, 'o pls, stop joking jawe'. It leaves me empty.
Hope you aren't misinterpreting her actions?...that is, if she was blushing and shoving you off
Complements should rather be spontaneous and sincere

Israel5:
8. I can't tell her all these. This is the killer part. My complains break her bones and leaves her heart broken like i dumped her and i end up cuddling her with sorries and i love youss.
Someway...somehow you have to communicate cz that's the foundation of every relationship. If you both get married, how would you handle your home?
Romance › Re: How Would You Define Love To Someone Who Has Never Heard It by sirusX(m): 1:55pm On May 23, 2016
Cutehector:
I really don't think love is a feeling..
It's a feeling that you feel you are feeling, and hope the other person feels the same way you are feeling...Gba be cool cheesy grin
Romance › Re: True Confession: I’m Attracted To My Married Boss, Should I Tell Him? by sirusX(m): 1:12pm On May 23, 2016
simtosul:
The problem is that I’m in love with my boss and I
can’t admit my feelings to him. Everybody will think
that this is just a pretext for getting a promotion or
for keeping my job. They can’t understand that this
is love actually.

And what if he refuses me flatly? I will look like an
absolute fool. How will I look him in the eyes? I’ll
have to quit my job although I really like it and need
it, especially in this economic crisis the country is
currently facing.
He is also married and seems to have a good
marriage going by the way he reacts anytime his
wife comes to the office for a short visit. I can feel
that his attitude towards me is different but
sometimes he acts in the same way with the other
ladies in the office and that gets me confused.

I don’t know if I’m reading the wrong signal from
him though. It’s really hard for me to hide my love
but it’s even harder to admit it.
Do you think I should let him know how I feel?
[Tobore writes from Port Harcourt, Rivers State]


www.naijagists.com/im-attracted-to-my-married-boss-i-dont-know-how-to-approach-him-port-harcourt-babe-confesses/
Well...for starters, what's being felt isn't love

It's more of admiration leading to a fatal attraction. It's more of a single girl craving for something more...and the homely boss seems to strike something in you...maybe his persona, his looks, the way he talks and acts that makes you feel so giddy inside, or how he treats his wife in the office.

Have u watched the movie; obsessed?
The boss was always being his flirty self, and even though he had no intentions of doing any flings...that didn't stop his temp secretary from misinterpreting things.

I'd only advise you to find a distraction from that distraction.
Go out more...meet people...start up a healthy relationship and get more from life.

As some people would say...[s]the best way to get over him is to get under someone else[/s] wink
Romance › Re: The Day A Very Beautiful Married Woman Stole My Heart... by sirusX(m): 4:04pm On May 21, 2016
halfricanadian:
Wat a man spent on nd paid to pleasw him is wat u falling in love with

Get a girl nd groom her to ur taste

Remember God said who ever lustfully looks at a woman has committed adultery with her already with her
I wouldn't refer to it as love. It's more of infatuation/physical attraction to her beauty undecided

Bia...OP come and change the topic of the post
Romance › Re: My Girl Accepted A Marriage Proposal From Another Man Without My consent by sirusX(m): 6:45pm On May 20, 2016
oliver5:
A girl Who am madly in love with for three years now, accepted a marriage proposal from another man without my concept. Even when I confronted her of it she denied it was not true. I have been in love with this girl without sex. We did everything together. Am confused what do I do now?
Everything ké...when there has been no nakamora involved. angry
Guy, you better collect your 3 years rent sharply before you are evicted with immediate alacrity.

Don't mind me spewin trash grin

Really, you should know your lady better...and 3 years ain't no joke baba.
Do dig deeper and find out the truth, so you know where you both stand in the relationship.
Be careful though, cz losing one's trust is not an easy thing to undo.
Romance › Re: 6 Reasons Why Slim Girls Will Always Look Better(photos) by sirusX(m): 6:07pm On May 20, 2016
Stupedinluv:
Oh nigger sit your ass down grin

Those girls dont look anything like bones to me or anyone, stop twisting the plain truth.

To me thick girls are fat girls with nicer/shapier muscles. But they are still fat and would get fatter anyway.
Bia... Stupedinluv
You make it sound like your world revolves around you or how you look. But truly, if you're placed with the lady below and our fellow romancelanders are asked to vote...your numbers would never compare to what she would get.

To each his own...and every lady is beautiful in her own way. There's always someone out there that loves a particular lady for who she is....shape, size, faults and all
& she becomes his everything...his beauty beyond words

Romance › Re: 6 Reasons Why Slim Girls Will Always Look Better(photos) by sirusX(m): 5:38pm On May 20, 2016
PunkyV:
What hmmm? Want me to show ya? wink grin
shocked
Romance › Re: HELP!!!: My Best Friend Is Turning Out To Be My Worst!!!. by sirusX(m): 2:00pm On May 19, 2016
20bc:
[color=teal]I didn't read anything and I have nothing to contribute. Maybe the person below me will have something to say [/color]♣♣♣
For where!!! undecided
Romance › Re: Can This Kind Of Relationship Ever Work? by sirusX(m): 3:20pm On May 17, 2016
vchykp:

Without wasting much time,lemme go straight to the point, I've been in this relationship for close to a year nd we are doing just great and happy in the relationship,but the little I know about relationship,relationship is a give and take thing in all aspects,well I'm sorry to let you know that mine is different.

This lady in question has never done anything for me, I'm always the one doing, even on my birthday, no gift from her,I was the one that took her out instead of the other way round,I take care of her bills ranging from her phone bill,making her hair,buying wears. Cosmetics & perfumery etc, just name anything,I'm feeling things are not going the right way cos she has never thought of buying or doing nothing for me, this has been eating me up but I can't confront her because I don't even know the right word to use


Please my fellow romancelanders help a confused brother because your comment can go a long way in my life, SHE IS THE ONE I'M WILLING TO TAKE TO MAMA
You suppose take her to mama sharpaly so she fit chop the kain slap wey dey reset brain to factory settings. angry cheesy

On a lighter mood...i'd say keeping thoughts bottled up inside is a recipe for disaster in any relationship.
Relationships are built on the foundation of communication, that is, finding every opportunity to discuss and get to know much about each other.
There is no hard and fast rule and neither does life have a defined template...but we all keep learning about each other everyday and almost through our lives because people change.

You are the man in the relationship, and you need to take charge and be bold in handling things.
You talk about she being the one...well, I dunno about love being a give and take issue...because that means for everything you do you have expectations from her to reciprocate.
Love entails more of giving without expectation of receiving...because what you do for her, is done because you are willing to do it over and over again out of love.

but...

I don't expect her to be unresponsive, because if she truly loves you, maybe there are other ways she shows it and you aren't taking notice of it.
I'm not talking about nackson oo cheesy
It goes beyond physical gifts...although it's the thought behind the gifts that counts.

So, like others have said... i'd still advice you both find a quiet time in between your busy schedule to sit down and talk, cz that's the only way you can grow your relationship to what it needs to be.
Romance › Re: Hot Zoo Keeper Impregnates Female Orangutan Ape (photo) by sirusX(m): 1:55am On May 17, 2016
Naijatalktalk:
However, the zoo keeper had denied everything. He denied any wrong doing on his part.



“He said everything he had done was consensual,” explains police chief Abubakar Jaar. “He said he loved each and everyone of the animals and was very sorry he had impregnated the orangutan,” he told local reporters. “He says he did not know orangutans could get pregnant from humans,” he added.
Consensual ké...so he now speaks orangutan shocked
He then decided to run nekede cry
*hope he asked for her hand in marriage sha?*
Now he don turn orangutan to baby mama huh
Chai...blood of konjinus
Foreign Affairs › Re: Man Ejaculates On Woman's Leg While Standing Behind Her On Queue In Bank by sirusX(m): 11:36am On May 16, 2016
Ibro2005:
That is why Islam is good always.

We don't make a single queue of same men and women
The op didn't post about the man's religion...so what makes you think he is not a Muslim?

Even if there was a single queue for men and women...would that stop a man from lusting after another woman on a different queue?

The mind is what matters, and how one chooses to discipline himself...thoughts and actions alike
Romance › Re: Photo Collection Of Sexy Female Police Officers On And Off Duty by sirusX(m): 4:00am On May 14, 2016
selfdefence:
I was expecting to see Nigerian officers
No worry....they don dey recruit for 9ja. Just hope say fine chicks follow send application. wink
Romance › Re: My Boss Or My Boyfriend -- Who Do I Choose ? by sirusX(m): 2:09am On May 14, 2016
In life sometimes, we tend to make sacrifices...when there seem to be no easy way to. But i'd say you offer up everything to God in prayer, making him the foundation of your decision.
Like others have said, I do believe you can achieve everything both ways...it's all depends on your approach to the situation.
Apply wisdom...and remember, communication is key.
Romance › Re: How I Ruined My Marriage Because Of Pride by sirusX(m): 1:51am On May 14, 2016
undecided

Politics › Re: Buhari Presents A Portrait To Biya In Abuja by sirusX(m): 8:54pm On May 04, 2016
i know sey our presido sabi smile... but the way e do him face like pesin mess one kain evil thing for dia huh
This one pass me o... and that na the gift wey them dash pesin

Celebrities › Re: Temmie Ovwasa, YBNL First Lady In New Hot Photos by sirusX(m): 4:59pm On May 04, 2016
cheezy4whizy:
cute pics. but y my babe no dey fit snap dis kind pics na only to dey scatr leg snap.. hian
cheesy cheesy I don laff throwey
scatter leg na the trending swagu *iffa hear* grin
but all you see in the pix na concept...model looks & ol
Romance › Re: Is This Photo Real Or Photoshop by sirusX(m): 12:41am On May 04, 2016
halfricanadian:
Photo real shop cheesy
Nah....real photoshop wink grin
Romance › Re: See How This Man Got Robbed By A Lady He Met On Instagram by sirusX(m): 4:18pm On May 03, 2016
CaroLyner:
for some reasons i dont believe this story
Seconded...cz if you truly need to expose someone and warn others, the IG handle should have bn given...& besides, i'm sure maybe he might have a picture if her somewhere undecided
Romance › Re: Disadvantages Of Ladies With Stretch Marks. Reasons Why You Shouldn't Date Them. by sirusX(m): 5:46pm On May 01, 2016
BoiledHead:
Nobody force you to comment.

The post stands.. if e pain you. Hug transformer
Oga boss....light no dey grin
Celebrities › Re: Tiwa Savage's Filing For Divorce Was Cause Of Tbillz Suicide Attempt by sirusX(m): 10:43pm On Apr 29, 2016
Chai ....all the Dubai wedding don waste cry
Dem for don arrange court wedding with few friends and family ....& right now change go still remain

All that glitters truly ain't gold embarassed
Crime › Re: Man Set On Fire In Katsina Outside His House (Graphic Pics) by sirusX(m): 4:25pm On Apr 28, 2016
Someone poured gasoline on him...in this trying times when fuel dey expensive and scarce. shocked The person no try o
Romance › Re: What Is Your View? Pre-wedding Picture by sirusX(m): 10:48am On Apr 25, 2016
Pre-wedding pix usually reflect a concept...or sumthing particular to the couple; "maybe how they met"

So, going with that i'd say...they met on a plane wen they wer travelling to watch a match... & sum1 decided to get freaky wink cheesy

The look on the guy's face tho.... epic!
You know hez hungry undecided
Romance › Re: Hey Guys.... Would U Have Sex With This Kind Of Women If The Opportunity Arises? by sirusX(m): 10:25am On Apr 25, 2016
Oyin93:
why are they covering the upper part of their body?
Curious question? huh
Cz the packaging don resemble chest nah

But wait ooo...if u reason the matter between man and woman, difference no too dey o
Na just size of everything *some men even carry pass some women*
...& bsydes both man and woman own dey sensitive

That means guyz don dey giv girls free lookery all this while shocked
Chai !!! Adam, you for chop that apple 1st ooo
Christianity Etc › Re: What Pastor Victor Kanyari's Daughter Is Posting On Social Media by sirusX(m): 10:46pm On Apr 24, 2016
Chai !!!....see offering and tithe cry diaris God o
*if daddy is her source of finance sha*

For the pastor, this na typical case of "wen devil wan show u better pepper" undecided
Romance › Re: 10 Hilarious Ways Ladies Act When Guys Accidentally See Them Unclad by sirusX(m): 8:25pm On Apr 24, 2016
Mannylex:
BTW, it baffles me why ladies scream so loud when u bump into them. In my own case, when I bumped into her, she turned her behind, placed her hand to cover her below, then tilted her knees , the funny thing is in the position as soon as she bends , all she's covering in front is completely exposed behind. grin
*not everyone would understand this, shoutout to the hommies who gets the gist*
Lol, I get that feeling...4me twas 2 girls at a go.

So here I was passing by the corridor to their room and hailed them, only to get a response I dint hear so well. Then I decided to go in and find out whatsup as their door was a bit ajar, only to witness the sight of sumthing shocked lipsrsealed cheesy
*weird enuff, they usually locked their door wen they're in*
The next thing I heard wer screams that alerted them boiz around who saw me come out laughing later and realised I had seen the holy grail. wink Na so them follow laff the matter.
Anywayz, I had always wyned them as i suspected they both go unclad in their rooms and that day confirmed it.
Later on, they came to my room and said they must retaliate...that they must see my own as a payback.
*see me see wahala* shocked
Romance › Re: Should I Still Keep Faith In Marrying Her? by sirusX(m):
Davindal:
Please guys! What do I do now? I hate plus size ladies aka OROGBO, and can never marry one. Should I completely ditch her for good, even though I still love her deeply? I need an advice.
I'm trying to relate with your thoughts, and I can say it's not easy...cz we come from a world where appearance is sort of the 1st thing that attracts one to a person, but ova tym we ought to realise that marriage requires a lot more.

You come to love each other...flaws and all, cz u know no one is perfect *even you*

You learn to sacrifice...cz you would do it a thousand tymes ova *cz shez worth it*

You come to complement each other...cz u become each other's strength wen the other is weak

You come to see the best in her...even wen she can't see it in herself

You stick with her and remain faithful *even wen other options seem soo tempting*...cz nothing compares to the way you feel wen with her

But in all...what happens wen beauty fades?
Do you see nothing left in her...or would you still see the lady with a beautiful heart you fell in love with

4me...I'll still go with what others said about working out together...cz that is how the bonds of relationships are strengthened, knowing that even wen things seemed tough, you stuck by each other through 'n through
Education › Re: Augustine Ariwodo Ibegbulam Is Dead by sirusX(m): 6:43pm On Apr 22, 2016
All iz well with your soul... R.I.P

Floreat!!! to a great mind
Romance › Re: How Many Animals Can You See in This Picture by sirusX(m): 6:32pm On Apr 22, 2016
jopretty:
7
RoyalBlak007:
The Elephant..The Donkey....the Dog....
ebubemicky:
Fish. Elephant. tortoise. Horse. Dog. Cat and rat. 7
Sexytemi:
8, fish, tortoise, elephant, dog, cat, donkey, giraffe, rabbit.....the tail looks like snake......
leke12:
8,fish , tortoise, rat, elephant, cat, snake, horse, dog
Wuminity:
i can only see 6
Count and find out what's up wink

Romance › Re: How Do You Handle A Gf Who Never Makes The First Call For Reconciliaton by sirusX(m): 11:33pm On Mar 28, 2016
Different people have different attitudes they bring into a relationship. I once had a girl who told me plainly that she would never work on fixing any relationship she's in, except it's her marriage. Well...that's a whole diffnt level.

As 4u...I'd advise you try communicating your views to her, & her response should tell you what you need to do. Let her understand that it takes two to make things work, else u find urself struggling in the relationship & trying to please her...& that is a one-sided relationship.

If it leads to a breakup, always remember...before her you had friends of the opposite sex, & after her u'ld still have friends.
NYSC › Mckinsey Nigeria Young Leaders Programme Fellow 2016 For Corpers by sirusX(op): 5:40pm On Mar 25, 2016
Overview
Our one-year Young Leaders Program (YLP) is an internship open only to Nigerians doing their mandatory national youth service (NYSC). Interns work as integral members of our teams, experiencing McKinsey life firsthand.
The Young Leaders Program helps to develop exceptional young local African talent into real leaders. At the end of the program, high-performing Fellows may receive an offer to join McKinsey as a full-time consultant.

Desired Skills
Suitable participants will have:
An academic degree (all disciplines accepted)
Two years or less of continuous work experience in any industry
Great potential in leadership, problem solving and entrepreneurial drive

Apply here:
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OR
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Note: Be sure to select Lagos as your office preference and YLP Fellow as the job title you are applying for.
In order for us to review your application you must attach the following to your online application:
Your current CV
Copies of your academic transcripts to date and your final year of high school results
Completed leadership questionnaire (if you do not have this document kindly email lgs-recruiting@mckinsey.com)

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