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onyinye2:
But Queen. . . . isn't no the most important aspect. I mean if she says NO, then it means NO. And if he is continues to conclude his sexual desires it is rape. So what do you want her to do, bring out her camera phone and videotape the act so it will show some proof?

So you are saying that after the yes, the maybe, the giggles and the chuckles, the handling on the bed, the shirt half way down, the skirt half way up, she now says no, he should just jump off her and say "Yes Ma'am! Whatever you say!" Not even!


[quote author=HR.hotness link=topic=166449.msg2739326#msg2739326 date=1220296421]@ topic

I spse what she's driving at is that women shdnt put themselves in that situation. . .

if u don't want a guy, why lead him on. . . mean r pretty open with what they want anyways, so d idea that u didnt knw shdnt even arise. when u make it clear to a gut that you're not interested in sex and take away all opportunities for him to take advantage, then d issue of date rape will not even arise.[/quote]Correct! I don't see this as condoning rape, I see it as telling women to be cautious and use the brain God gave us.

Queenisha:
Nigerians girls usually say No when they actually mean "beg me alittle harder, I don't want to appear cheap"

LOL, yeah ruining it for us who actually mean it. . . . because of them, I've had to learn to say NO using my knuckles. I even carry a brass knuck around my neck, you know just in case i need to say HELL NO.

Check it out. . . isn't it a beaut?   I highly recomend it.

[quote author=Ruby_Pearl link=topic=166449.msg2739267#msg2739267 date=1220295649]Ok guys, maybe during the sex, she realized that his koboko was too big and she didn't want anymore. eh.

He was bruising her from the inside
How can I?
When I know the kind of man am getting into a bedroom with?[/quote]LMOA! How can she not have an idea what his abunga looks like before then? I mean we're not talking about strangers who run into each other in the hallway and after saying hello, they start tearing their clothes off. Haba!

The word NO in itself is not should not be used to judge a rape situation in some cases. It's sad how many men have their names on the sex offender's list because of situations like this and once someone's name is there, there is not erasing it.

And guys should also know the kind girls they are dealing with. Not everyone who comes batting their eyelashes at you is inviting you to come sex 'em up.

Queenisha:
If a woman agrees to sex and midstream she decides she doesn't want it anymore and the man refuses to withdraw his bulala, in my books it's not rape.
What does she expect ?
Is the man an inanimate object?
It's rape when it's forced from the get go,but if she says no and he pleads and she agrees and while he's in she decides she doesn't want it anymore, let her deal with it.
That's the prize of fornication
She should just give him a couple of seconds and the whole thing will be over.

Next time she should know not to go with a man willingly into a room with the door locked, onto a bed with the intent of sex.

EXACTEMUNDO!!! This is what she saying! Sometimes I feel sorry for guys, you know they can't turn it off and on like women can.

[quote author=Ruby_Pearl link=topic=166449.msg2739189#msg2739189 date=1220294859]My gosh

^{*whispering to her pillow*} Where does Siskill get this kind of topics from?
I think she means the evidence such as bruises, broken nails etc.[/quote]I thought that might be it but she said defendant. . . who in this case will be the rapist. So how will the burden of proof be on him?

Hehehe, you don't wanna know oh. Save yourself, I'm already a lost cause.

ibkaye:
Hehehe, maybe it isn't criminal to her which is strange, but to me, no matter the case, date rape, stranger rape etc, it is always criminal

lafiya lau na gode, yaya dai? Ahh, just been preparing for school and all, holiday is almost over

Awww, you are going back to school soon? Does this mean you'll even be [i]scarcer [/i]around here?  

In a way, she is calling for women to be more assertive about what they went.

Yes, No, Yes, No, Maybe, I, don't know  What is that for?

If you know you are not ready for sex, be firm right from jump. Don't lead the guy on and when you are one clothing away from being nekkid, you say no, then cry foul when he doesn't stop.

tope2000:
she must have enjoyed it then

LMAO! Yeparipa! You have killed me with laugh. I don't think it is that she enjoyed it, she is just saying sometimes rape victims aren't completely innocent. I think she just accepts that she had some fault in the whole thing.

tpia:
the burden of proof is on the defendant.

Please explain.

ibkaye:
Rape is always criminal

But here is a woman who has been through it, saying it isn't always criminal. Surely, her experience makes her in a better position to talk.


Ya ya dai? You've been awol for a while now. I hope everything is good with you

Helen Mirren - Rape Isn't Always Criminal
This will raise some eyebrows. Helen Mirren says she's been the victim of date-rape before, but if a woman says no at the last second, don't go whining your way into court.

CNN.com got a copy of a GQ story that's about to be published, in which Mirren calls date-rape a "tricky area," something best worked out between the parties.

Mirren says if a couple is heavy into sexual activity and the woman says "no" at the last second, technically it's rape, but, "I don't think she can have that man into court under those circumstances. I guess it is one of the subtle parts of the men/women relationship that has to be negotiated and worked out between them."

http://www.tmz.com/2008/09/01/helen-mirren-rape-isnt-always-criminal/

In case you don't know who she is, Helen Mirren is a 63 years old  British Actress, who recently received rave reviews for portraying Queen Elizabeth II in the Movie The Queen. She's also recognized for her outspokeness on women's rights.


Question - Given that She was once a victim of rape, do you think she is right in her assertion that RAPE ISN'T ALWAYS CRIMINAL?

Bwahahaha! You didn't??!

All you people. . . Afraid of a little cold! It's hysterical. Snow almost broke up my bro and his wife. See, she's from Texas (went from Hot Kano to Texas) and the day it snowed 2" she was done and we were all looking at her like. . . Surely, you jest. Hello, that's nothing but fridge ice. If we go thru the winter with 8" as the highest, the whole of Chicago goes insane with joy, saying it was a good season. Oh yeah, my bro almost killed us when we mentioned 8" coz she was already half way out the door. This was 6yrs ago, now she shows off to her family when they come to town.

By the way, I've always imagined the judge's face would look something like this When they tell him "Yeah, your honor. . . There is a third party involved in this divorce - SNOW" Tee Hee
So I totally bored myself to sleep with that, can't imagine what I did to you. . . Prolly in a stupor now. Sorry, hehehehe.

I totally agree. People act like McCain just went "Ayis, you come up here. You will be my VP". . . picking her from the crowd the same day he annouced her. Those sites are like Fox News to me.


The windy City! Chi-Town! The best of the best, the city with the mostest. ^{Please don't ask mostest what coz I don't know. Alls I know is that's what they programmed us to say before getting our State ID.}

Tee hee. . . Sensei, you forgot Salon.

Slate, Huffington and Salon. . . The three horsemen of the apocalypse.

[quote author=Negro_Ntns link=topic=165968.msg2735773#msg2735773 date=1220243058]I doubt that this true. Here is why I said that. We are getting reports of her numerous public appearances at the time when she would have been carrying the baby. She is a public figure, so I am sure there were news reporters around her, so there has to be pictures of those moments, whether in print or on tv. So if this was true, those images would have surfaced from whoever was pushing the claim to substantiate that she lied about being pregnant.[/quote]Exactly That's why I don't believe the story is true. On the link I posted in my 3rd post. . . before the Newsweek article, there are pictures showing a slight baby bump.

KarmaMod:
There HAS to be a dead husband

It'll be very creepy if little Ben ends up having Down Syndome.

Tee hee hee. . . don't worry, with Huffington post is on the case, we'll find out soon. They will manufacture one if they have too.

tpia:
sisikill, you just don't like the lady


Not every woman has a gigantic tummy during pregnancy. And yes, its possible for some women not to look too pregnant even at 7 months, especially if the tummy is small and they dress in a way that covers it up.

I'm not making excuses for the lady- just stating what I've seen in real life.

Lawd-a-mercy! How do I not like her? What gave you that impression?

First, I'm just posting things I found - pros & cons.

Secondly, I clearly stated that I do not believe the story because it is too outrageous and any Obama supporter who thinks this is a good thing is mistaken.

Third, I said I don't understand what this whole thing has to do with anything, if not unneccesary distraction.

I did not call her names or say anything insulting about her and honestly, what I feel for this entire saga is indifference because I am apolitical. The only reason why I find it slightly interesting, is because I thought it had a soap operaish element to it and thanks to KarmaMod for pointing the similarities to Desperate Housewives and see I wasn't far off.

You like misunderstanding me oh

KarmaMod:
Next you'll tell me her real name is Bree Hodge

Rotflmao!! Bree is also republican, no? Aah, now we know which script they are playing from.

Should we start checking for a dead first husband?

Website "debunking" the story

http://www.audacityofhypocrisy.com/2008/08/30/dailykos-rumors-debunked-here-is-sarah-palin-pregnancy-photo-on-feb-10th-2008/

Newsweek Article of an interview which took place when she was supposed to be 7 months pregnant. The Interviewer stated she didn't know Palin was pregnant until she mentioned it.

Palin in the Green Room

NEWSWEEK's Karen Breslau shares a personal moment with the Alaska governor.
Karen Breslau
Newsweek Web Exclusive
Updated: 6:47 AM ET Aug 30, 2008

When Alaska Gov. Sarah Palin arrived backstage for our NEWSWEEK Women & Leadership Event in Los Angeles last March, John McCain had just wrapped up the GOP nomination. Palin had yet to endorse McCain—she liked Mitt Romney—and as we waited in the green room, I urged her to "feel free" to make some news on stage. She grinned broadly—looking back, I guess it was a grin of the Cheshire Cat variety—and thanked me for the offer.

Once onstage, together with Arizona Gov. Janet Napolitano, Palin talked about what women expect from women leaders; how she took charge in Alaska during a political scandal that threatened to unseat the state's entire Republican power structure, and her feelings about Sen. Hillary Clinton. (She said she felt kind of bad she couldn't support a woman, but she didn't like Clinton's whining.)

I joked with her about being on McCain's short list for vice president, and we had a good chuckle. We also talked about the challenges of running a government while also raising a large and young family. At the time, I didn't know that Palin, clad in a loose, dark dress, was seven months pregnant with her fifth child. An aide called me the next day to tell me that Palin would be announcing the pregnancy at home in Alaska and that she had wanted me to know as a courtesy. She was sorry she hadn't mentioned it the night before.

A few weeks later, Palin's son Trig Paxon Van Palin was born prematurely. She and her husband Todd issued a statement saying they knew their fifth child would face "special challenges"—her office later confirmed that Trig had been born with Down syndrome and that the family felt "blessed."

URL: http://www.newsweek.com/id/156190

Right now it's all a buffet of rumours, suppositions and innuendos,  guess you have to pick what you want umtil the facts come out. . . if they ever do.

Honestly, this is why I hate politics. . .  what does this have to do with anything? Unnecesary distractions.

4 Play:
@Sisikill

Lets do a bet. $1000 on whether the story is true or false. 

When people complain Obama is smeared by the right,they act like they haven't seen the left's smear machine at work. http://www.newsoftheworld.co.uk/news/article20065.ece

That's what us Northerners call a Sucker's Bet. I ain't no fool. 

Wait are you saying it is true? If that's the case. . . I'll see you $1000 and raise you $1500.

SeanT21:
I read on this and I know for sure the Baby is her daughter. She covered it up so her fellow Christians would not find out that her daughter had been pregnant out of wedlock.

Here is a pic of her daughter Pregnant.

Actually, they are saying that picture could be from 2006. Of course, there are those who said it was moved from the 2007 photo gallery on Palin's website to 2006. . . who knows.

davidylan:
is this story going to be verified by someone?

Huffington post and Gawker are also running with this the story. Huffington Post - Can't trust them as far as I can throw them and Gawker. . . well it's Gawker. The general feel right now is that . . . like the John Edwards Fiasco, the mainstream media is staying out of it until they have all their ducks in a row or she decides to confess.

Personally, I think the story is too outrageous to be true. She'D have to be completely bonkers to do something like that and then think she can run for VP without it leaking. Jeebus, this is America for goodness sakes, not Nigeria!!

I'm sorry but if any Obama supporter thinks this is a good thing, they better think again. People are already cursing the Democrats for bringing a "Down Syndrome baby" into dirty politics. Let's not forget Americans are bleeding hearts, they love the under dog and right now Sarah Palin is the under dog - The only woman, a mother with a sick baby or a grandmother who will do anything to protect her daughter. Why, I can already hear the gasps of Awwwwwww being thrown her way.

trannilicious!!!

doyin13:
On the news at this hour. . . . . . .There is a manhunt for a female serial killer in Gainesville Florida

Portsmouth are one win away from claiming their first premiership title.

But first, an extraordinary development on the rave that is Bromance

Following research at the Doyin13 institute of science on the recent widespread use of Bromance
by men all over the world, it has been discovered that the fate of the human race could be at stake.

Let us join our reporter Ebonku Abaku in Kyrgyzstan where he is with the eminent scientist.

Take it away Ebonku

Ebonku-  - -Thank you Mumuni. So Dr D13, your paper alleges that mankind's future could be
at stake with the recent popular use of Bromance

D13            Yes Ebonku, we were lucky enough to study two subject, code named Hannibal and Eldee
under stringent lab conditions and our results were shocking

Ebonku       How so Dr.

D13             Well, after the use of Bromance, we found that two hitherto heterosexual males were
                   fundamentally transformed, to the extent that women gave them no pleasure anymore.
                   Our best attempts to reverse the transformations proved futile. Our measure might seem
crude but they under normal circumstances should have yielded results. We enlisted the services of Serena Williams, Halle
Berry amongst others, but our lab rats proved unresponsive. It was a most alarming discovery

Ebonku      Were you able to replicate these tests in any other way?

D13               Yes, the same results we had when Bromance was tested on Canines.
Heterosexual Bingo became Homosexual Bingo. irreversibly so.

The consequences I shudder to think about. . . .

Ebonku           Quite astonishing finding DrBack to the studio

Whoaoooo! Dude I am sooo gonna sue you for Slander. . . Libel . . . false reporting. . . whatever! That is SO NOT what Bromance is all about! How is it a fair test when you have Serena Williams in the there? Serena Williams!! Actually, it proves that Bromance works because NO right thinking man will look at Serena Williams and feel anything!

And Halle Berry? You killed their libidos showing them Serena first! Duh!!

I hereby submit my evidence forthwith. . . whereforth, abeg whatever the english. Who in their right mind will find this tranny look alike attractive??

I won't say haunted, haunted but after my grand daddy died, I used to hear his voice in the living room, making comments while watching TV like he used too and for awhile, he's favorite tea cup will be sitting on the kitchen island even though nobody used it. . . of course, it could have just been my brothers messing with my head with the tea cup coz I like Ghost stories.

Lol, everytime I see the name. . . that's what pops into my head.

doyin13:

LOL, that's it?

[quote author=Ruby_Pearl link=topic=165719.msg2735633#msg2735633 date=1220235320]^{*screams as she obnoxiously chew on her 2 day old buble gum*} Hey, yo, sisikill, seems like you got more customers.[/quote]Oya, Ruby let's talk. Who sent you gangan? Tell me, i will double their money, Trible sef.

Abi, which one is customer? Nigbati mi n se Madame ile asewo?

[quote author=Ruby_Pearl link=topic=165719.msg2735638#msg2735638 date=1220235699]Sisikill, am a few months older than eldee. . . .[/quote]Ah but you see, that's the beauty of Bromantics. There are so secure in their manhoods, age is nothing but a number. Are now getting the true picture? The endless possiblities? Are you? Are you?

I pity you and Riskie, if you don't get on board now.

[quote author=Negro_Ntns link=topic=165719.msg2735582#msg2735582 date=1220232935]Whattt?? I can't believe my eyes!  

Is it Sisikill or *Sisi[b]skills[/b]? Clear demonstrations of a highly literary mind.  I'm watching you Moremi.  [/quote]Channeling Betty Boop with the eye batting

Innocently

Whatever do you mean, Sensei? 

I hope I'm not in trouble oh! All that spanking talking. . . it is just demo. I have no idea what it all means. 

eldee:
@Sisikill
I'm laughing out tears right now
You're one crazy somebody abeg . . . and to think you wrote up that thing in just three minutes
To start arguing with you is stressful jare . . . only Gos knows what you'll compose next :

Lmao! stressful? I don't know if I like the sound of that oh. Okay, I'll give you a break.  

Hannibal:
You would be the judge to that. . . . . All i know is your limbs would be tied with a horse whip applied.

Far from it.

Yeah, Yeah, Yeah. . . you've been promising that for how long now and still no action. Warreva!

Good! I'm glad 

[quote author=Ruby_Pearl link=topic=165719.msg2735589#msg2735589 date=1220233116]@eldee
So to argue with her is stress, but you wan come and bash me?

@sisikill
t'e ba fun mi ni diamond ati gold, maa stop e [/quote]Hey, hey no bahing here. Your Advert is already running, I ain't about to get sued for false promises. You two are gonna start together even if it means I have to tie you up and unlike someone, I'm not all talk.

Goolu and diaaamon coming right up. I'll even throw in silifer. . . just stop with the skipping.

doyin13:
See as this place full like Vee Pee tank.

Okay nowwhat is the topic at hand

Now here is a self assured man if I ever saw one. . .  so, what are you thoughts on Bromance?

Obiageli, I'm begging you. . . please tell me what Kanu did to you? Please now!

[quote author=Ruby_Pearl link=topic=165719.msg2735552#msg2735552 date=1220231862]Yes it did na.
Now my boo boo can't bare to go one day without holding hands with his friend and skipping along the park.

Makes our r/ship stronger. . . . . ^{*rubs her heart*} Stronger  [/quote]E wo ati skipping yi sha! nko mi ti wo.

What now? Ruby, I am on my knees begging you.

Hannibal:
Sisikill, tell me one reason i shouldn't whack your knees with a baseball bat??

Good spanking or bad spanking? Oh you did say on the knee. . . okay, okay no spanking! I'm sorry, I'll go back to my Green apple diet and I'm going back to the literature section like my good friend suggested. I came, I saw but I didn't conquer.



You aren't really angry. . . are you?

[quote author=Ruby_Pearl link=topic=165719.msg2735544#msg2735544 date=1220231523]lmao!!
you dey crase
rotflmao!! Imagining that got me laughing[/quote]What? Can you fit deny Bromance didn't work for you two? Eh ehn.

[quote author=Ruby_Pearl link=topic=165719.msg2735389#msg2735389 date=1220227938]I'm sorry eldee ^{*pets his cheeks*} So very sorry!

Wow! Your cheeks are soft
On a serious note, I apologize for the misunderstandings.[/quote]

eldee:
@toyin
You know what . . . let's just flip the page
You're my person jare, and leave my fresh cheeks alone

Hmmmm. . . what do we have here? 


BROMANCE COMMERCIAL.

Ruby is sitting on a swing, Eldee is pushing her gently. Camera pans in, she pets his soft cheeks. He smiles and looks into the camera.

Eldee - 10 hrs ago, I had problems expressing my feelings. Every time I tried to, the opposite of what I wanted to say came out.

Ruby gets off the swing.

Ruby - Yes, it was a frustrating time for both of us. I was this close to giving up.

Eldee - Then one day My friend came to see me.

In Black and white -  Lexicon and Eldee talking.

Lexicon - Dude, I have the answer for you.

Eldee - Nothing can help me now.

Lexicon - No, no listen. . .  Have you heard of Bromance?

Eldee - Bromance?

Lexicon - Yes Bromance.

Eldee - What’s that.

Sisikill Suddenly appears.

Sisikill - Bromance is the first step to a new and improved man.

Eldee pushes Lexicon out of the way.

Eldee - Interesting! Tell me more.

Sisikill - Bromance is the process of making guys feel comfortable enough in their skin to be open about their feelings. The first step is to be open with another guy, once that is done, the rest comes easy.

Hannibal comes into the scene, he is holding a rugby stick

Hannibal - Surely there is more to it. Some hidden fees, contract. . . kissing, candle light dinners, feeding each other and sending cards?

Sisikill - Nope, nope no hidden fees, no kissing or candle lit dinners. Just two guys being friends.

Eldee - Neato! How do I start?

Sisikill - It’s easy. First, Hannibal put down the stick, now give ne your hand and yours too, Eldee.

Sisikill joins both hands

Sisikill - Now walk to the field and after 2 mins, stop holding your hands.

Eldee and hanibal walk a couple of feet and then turn,

Hannibal - Wow! This isn't bad.

Eldee - I agree

Sisikill - Told you, easy as ABC.

Hannibal & Eldee - Thanks Sisikill.

Sisikill - No problem guys. That’s why I am here.

Black and White fade. Ruby and Eldee on a picnic mat, Eldee is feeding Ruby fresh strawberries.

Eldee - Bromance saved me.

Ruby - No Bromance saved US.

They both smile and look into the camera

Ruby and Eldee - Thanks Bromance!

Voice over

Bromance. . . a man's path to emotional growth!

Riskie:
Bromance is just a nice word for "I have homosexual tendencies that I can not/am not willing to hide"  ^{**not that there's anything wrong with homosexuals**}

Ay yi yi! You girls are worse than the guys, I'm doing this for us oh. I'll tell you one thing, when the guys finally change. . . you are nothing getting any! That's right -  NO BROMANTIC GUYS FOR YOU AND RUBY! ^{How do you like them apples?}