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KarmaMod:Lmao! so we are plenty. . . stealing pix from PH. I left one for you on the other thread. |
It is so funny, that you said that because my sister just said the same thing. LOL Me sef, I'm about to give up paapaa. Look what is floating around now. . . Sarah Palin in college wearing a tshirt with [b]"I May Be Broke, But I'm Not Flat Busted."[/b]Now, I'm not saying there is something wrong with it, the issues is how it became public. . . Her own parents gave it to the AP. My question. . . Why in the world will that do something this stupid in the middle of a crap storm? I mean seriously I am beginning to think there's something else going on here, maybe the Republican Party is setting all the the country up for something and they are using these whole Palin saga as distraction.
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KarmaMod:Rotflmao! I on the other hand, I'm hoping they back off! Call me naive but I honestly don't get why they have to bring all the unnecessary crapola into it. |
You know America is going down the crapper when Lindsey Lohan starts making little sense. Lindsay Lohan Calls Bristol Palin Teen Pregnancy "Distracting"Get your affairs in order, pay your debts, Kiss you loved. . . the world is coming to an end! |
A Doctor’ Diary - Understanding the Circle of Life. Birth. I delivered a baby today. It was nice. It’s always nice. There’s something very special about bringing a new life into the world, everyone says that, I know but it truly is. It was a boy. I held him in my arms for a bit and once the pleasure wore off, I couldn’t help but wonder what his life would be like. What I was delivering him into a miserable existence? What if he rues the day he was born? Would he hate me? The person who was instrumental in bringing him into the world? I would The room became silent and the mood apprehensive. He hadn’t cried - The sign to show he was fine. His mom asked if he was alright. One of the two nurses assured her he was, while the other looked at me, waiting for me to hand him over so they can have his mouth and nose suctioned to aid breathing. I hesitated. What if he didn’t want to be here? What if he knows what awaits him? Why should I force life on him when clearly he does not want it. No sooner had the thought crossed my mind when he opened his mouth and let out a loud scream. All three women laughed in relief. I handed to the nurse and watched them coo over him as they wiped him down. His mother watched intently, tears running down her face. He was the most beautiful thing she’d had ever seen, she said. The nurses agreed. I can’t say if his going to be a looker or not but for his sake I hope he is. The world is very cruel to the have nots. Sitting behind my desk 30minutes later, the pleasure now completely worn off, I wondered what was wrong with me. I seem to be going through the motions and it at that moment I came to the conclusion that I was bored. Bored with life, bore with work, bored with love, bored with everything. I need some excitement. I need to remind myself that I am alive and the only to do that , the only way I’ve ever done was through death. . . specifically murder. |
Okay, I guess this is where we bring our personal experience into it to show we’re not talking for talking sakes Well, I am not the one assuming they were forced or not forced. What I am saying here is WE DO NOT KNOW SO WE CAN NOT MAKE THAT CLAIM at this time. We can not make an argument for them being forced cause WE DO NOT KNOW.I said for HIS sake, I hope they don’t get married. I don’t know this 17-18 yr old boy but I know a lot of 17 -18 yrs old boy. I live with a 17 yrs old boy, I head a youth group that includes 17 yrs old boys. I started off as a teen in the program and worked my way up. In the 7 yrs time I’ve been with that group, I’ve had contact over 100 17-18 yrs old boys ( a small number compared to the national total? Without a doubt but it does not take away from what I’ve come to know about boy in this age group). Let me also add that these boys come from different walks of life and except the very few who were forced to grow up faster than they should have (single parents, wards of the states, children living with foster parents) majority of these boys are just babies themselves. It is a known fact that Girls mature faster than the male counterparts and while Palin’s daughter maybe mentally prepared for marriage, based on my experience with them and from reading this boy’s myspace page, I can safely the chances of a 17 yrs. . . this 17yrs old is ready for marriage is very slim. Again, you are assuming here that her daughter is SUFFERING because of her mother’s choice. I mean here we are talking of a woman who was already GOVERNOR of Alaska. Do you really think that if Palin was not running for VP, this news would have not made the news? We are also assuming that the daughter was not consulted before the final decision was made.It is just common sense to know that no one, especially a teenager. . . except one who is a masochist, will enjoy being the focus of a national witch-hunt, having their lives dissected, their every move followed, judge & condemned, called names by internet bullies and being used a pawn in a political game. Of course I’m willing to leave room for the possibility that Bristol Palin is not your average mere mortal teenager Well, I have a sister and we went through the same sort of situation some years ago (we were not running for VP though). I would say my mum is an evangelical and she had to deal with people condemning her as not being a good enough mother because my sister got pregnant out of wedlock. My mother had to go ahead with her plans to continue pursuing her career and we would not have had it any other way as my sister was already 17 and old enough to not need my mother around every minute to take care of her. Most 17 year olds I know are already out of their mother’s house and living on their own.Your mother was not running for VP though. . . your words and I will just leave it at that. She was already GOVERNOR OF ALASKA, the controversial ABSTINANCE AND PRO-LIFE STATE. She was already in the lime-light when she got pregnant. I don’t know what is peachy is telling you it could be one of the two and since we do not have facts, all we have are assumptions here. Never asked you to VOTE Palin or Shake her hand. Matter of fact, this has not been about Palin but about being able to accept that teenagers will always be teenagers regardless of who their parents be.I don’t know how to respond to this part of your post. That you are comparing the lime-light from being Governor of Alaska to that of running of vice-president of the United States, leave me utterly speechless. When McCain picked Palin, people (both democrats and Republicans) were surprised for one reason. . . she is relatively unknown. In less than 24hrs hours, she topped both yahoo and google searches. Whatever press this would have gotten them had she remained Governor cannot. . . NOT be compared to what they are getting now. I never said you asked me to vote or shake her hands because quite frankly, you are in no position to do that. My last sentence was to reiterate where I stand, I didn’t think it would be taken literally. If I had to pick between keeping my child away from the vultures who call themselves the American Press or advancing my career, the latter won’t even be in the running. This is the choice most mothers I know will make. |
He had watched for almost three week before arranging their "accidental" meeting this morning. He knew she lived alone, had frosted flakes for breakfast every morning and microwave meals for dinner. He knew she loved to exercise to the beats of “Mama Mia”. He knew she used Head and Shoulder’s shampoo and Colgate toothpaste, that every night before going to bed, she would leave a bowl of milk for the neighborhood stray cat. He knew everything about her. “Well I guess I’ll be taking you out to dinner tonight” he drawled and chuckled when her eyes widened “I want to know more about mother of my future children" She smiled. Perfect. He thought |
Kobojunkie:Aren't we also running away with ourselves assuming two 17yrs olds can't be forced by into getting married, especially with the whole nation watching? It's hard enough having a voice you are a teenager in a normal situation, not to talk of something as huge as this. It's nice that you put yourself in the girl's shoes, I have chosen to put myself in the mother's shoes and I don’t think I would be happy watching my daughter’s life being trashed by judgmental idiots, every normal thing she’s ever done, magnified to unbelievable proportions, just because I want to be VP. It was an unfair thing to do with to the child and you are raising the very good point of looking at Palin and her daughter as two separate individuals, makes this even more so. If Palin can’t be blamed for the choices her daughter made, why should the daughter suffer because of her mother’s choices? Yes we do not know what is happening behind closed doors to say the girl didn't think she had a choice in the matter because. . . after all, thinking about herself might ruin her mother chance of becomng VP. I'm not exactly sure what you mean by saying "the above is not based on facts" because the way I see it, none of what is being said here is based on facts. As an outsider, there are two ways to looking at things. . . 1) The everything is Peechy Keen, Aww Shucks mom, it's really neat of you to think about me but I'll be fine, go ahead and run for VP and I will stand by you no matter what" way. 2) The everything is Colossal disaster, Why are you forcing me to do this? You are only thinking about yourself and career, not what you will put me through" way. The truth lies in somewhere in between and it is pointless to challenge people because they do not see things in your peachy keen way and vice-versa. I'll say it again, I find it hard pressed patting Sarah Palin on the back because I don't think she did right thrusting her daughter in limelight like this. The latest dirt that has been dug up on this poor pregnant 17 yrs old are pictures where she is supposedly drunk. Whether it is true or not that she was drunk, is not the point, nobody needs this kind of stress, no pregnant 17yrs old needs this kind of stress. So forgive me if I'm not lining up to shake Sarah Palin's hands and saying "Well done. You did the right thing" |
I am not saying they should get married, in fact I'm hoping for his sake they don't get married. I just think it is unfair to demean the person he is or will be because of some childish writings on the web. I find it hard pressed patting Sarah Palin on the back for "doing the right thing" for her child because to me, this is not the right thing. The right thing would have been not putting her child in this position in the very place. They said they knew she was pregnant before she accepted the offer. . . is she really that deluded to believe this won't matter or is Alaska really that far away from reality? Jamie Lynn Spears whose mother was only going to right a book about bringing up daughters. . . not running for VP of a freaking nation, got so much crap thrown at her, I swear if I had the means, I would have whisked her away to Kawo, Kaduna for reprieve, not to talk of the daughter of a candidate running for VP. She has caused the poor girl who is probably already sick and scared from being pregnant unnecessary stress. Is it worth it? My issue has absolutely nothing to do with politics, it is about parenting. Period |
Honestly, I am not looking for trouble, not that I don't but not when it comes to religion but we need to be fair or at least pretend to be fair in the manner things are done. So it is with a humble and gentle heart I ask the moderator to please, please move this back to where it really belongs. |
Okay, I see I may have shot my mouth off too soon. Seun, my sincerest apologies. I understand and. . . thanks for everything. Didn't get a notice that it was moved not deleted. Question - WHY IS THIS THREAD ON THIS SECTION??!! This is not about religion, it is about censoring a literary work, can we please move it back to where it belongs? Not many of us come to this section and it defeats the purpose of having a discourse about it. Thanks. |
swazi:Hi Swazi. Okay, I'm sorry but I don't understand. . . why did they break up if she thinks he is the one? What was wrong about the time? It's just so sad they broke up like that. . . you know. |
@ OpeLovely That's a really sweet story but is it real? habumaks:You know what. . . I totally, completely, absolutely 100% agree with you. I've often wondered how married people do it, having someone underfoot 24/7. I mean do they ever feel the urge to say "Don't you wanna go do something outside. . . away from me? You know. . . maybe friends you wanna go see? Say what about that your old friend, lagbaja. . . you haven't seen him in awhile, go see him. Go! Pleaaase Go!" This is why I think even though couples are. . . couples, they still need to be individuals. Have your own friends, your own hobbies, your own thing OUTSIDE of the relationship. The day a guy tells me he wants his world to literally revolve around me is the day I run 4-40 in the opposite direction. . . Lol, okay I kid, I kid I'm not gonna run! I'll will myself into a freaking bird and fly!!! I hear if you do it with all your heart, wishes come true. ![]() By the way, I love that song!!! |
crisp:LMAO! You are not serious! Although I'd love to see a cyber drama, that would be one for the books. |
Its amazing how politics take the upper hand even in family and private issues. Does the guy described above come across as 'husband'? NA HUSBAND BE DAT ?. Na wa o. The main problem i have with the whole thing is the Palin's speech on it. All of a sudden, what her daughter did was now the beautiful thing to do, with her painting the 'happilly ever after' scenarioI hope to GOD you are joking about this. The boy is 17 yrs old. . . come on! Can you honestly say you didn't write something when you were 17 that if we got our hands on now will make you look. . . unappealing? I know we're trying to tie things together, cut and paste to fit a preconceived scenario but can we do it without over-reaching? |
Queenisha:LMAO! You'd be surprised to find out some girls will be all over that like bee on honey Ooooooh kinky ![]() |
Helen has received a lot of criticism from rape campaigners for her comment but one person is standing by her. Avedon Carol, author and co founder of Feminists Against Censorship says Mirren should be honoured for speaking so openly. Like Mirren, Carol was 'date raped' by a former boyfriend, but did not press charges The author and campaigner believes there is a refusal among rape campaigners to acknowledge that sometimes taking a case to court may do more harm than good. "I think it is time people admitted that the idea you can always take these things to court is wrong. "If it is your word against his, he isn't going to jail. You have to look at where these things really come from and get to the root of it to sort it out." |
tpia:LMOA!!! ![]() |
Hannibal:Good Thinking!!! ![]() All these li'l gold digger running around, trying to fleece a guy. Puh-Lease!! |
Sucked Dry? Lmao! They will soon move us to the sexuality section! |
There seems to be this notion that the guy has to pause as the sexual level increases to ask permission. To Touch breast Guy - Lover may I? Girl - Yes, you may. To Touch Nipples Guy - Lover may I? Girl - Yes you May. To Put hands in panties Guy - Lover may I? Girl - Yes you may. To slip fingers into Guy - Looooffaaaaaaa . .mmmmay. . . mmmmmmay. . . aaaaaaaah? Girl - No you may not! Come on!!! Let's be real now! |
tpia:Is funny you should mention Mike Tyson because she actually said that she does not believe Mike Tyson is a Rapist. Answering if she reported her own date "rape" she replied. . . Asked if she reported the incidents, which took place when she was younger, to the police, the 63-year-old replied: "No, you couldn't do that in those days. It's such a tricky area, isn't it? Especially if there is no violence. I mean, look at Mike Tyson. I don't think he was a rapist." |
There lies the problem.LMAO! You should be a lawyer!! Okay, I'm gonna go with Helen's scenario here which involves the following 1) Voluntarily goes with a guy 2) Takes her clothes off 3) Engages in activity in the bed 4) Then says NO at the very last minute. This has gone way beyond heavy petting. It is almos entrapment sef, what stops any girl from delibrately going the distance, say no last mminute, then turn around and scream rape. I might come of naive here but I say if you don't wanna do the act, keep the clothes on. In my opinion, cases like this take away from the real rape cases, very much like how every time the race card is pulled out for minor infractions, it diminishes the real impact of racism. This is another quote from Helen i agree with. . . "I don't think she can have that man into court under those circumstances. I guess it is one of the many subtle parts of the men/women relationship that has to be negotiated and worked out between them." |
To Clarify Helen Mirren's comment, she is saying that not everything sexual act called RAPE is RAPE, which means it can't be criminal. Helen's contention was that a woman who voluntarily ended up in a man's bedroom and engaged in sexual activity – but then said no to intercourse – could not seriously expect to take that man to court on a charge of rape if he ignored her last-minute insistence that she did not want full sex. |
Question - Is there a material psychological distinction to be drawn between the act of power and control in a stranger rape, and failure to control lust in a sexual encounter by two individuals in a relationship? |
Okay ladies. . . flirting is NOT a fundamental right so stop acting like someone is trying to take your rights away. It is simple - IF YOU CAN NOT END IT, DO NOT START IT. . . except of course, you are on the web, then you can say "Come and get it Pappi, I'm all yours! Grrrowwwl as you lie on the couch, in your ratty sleep shirt, stuffing your shirley cover face with pringles, watching Scrubs for the 20th time or am I the only who does that? ![]() |
tpia:LOL, I was wondering that too. Okay, I need to make sure we are at least on the same page on which country laws we're talking about. . . American Law right? The defendant (that is the alleged rapist, the person who is being accused, the guy) having the burden of proof here is wrong because it violates the whole "Innocent until proven guilty" rule. The Accuser (the woman) is the one burdened with proving she was raped. |
GOP Establishment Wrestles With Bristol Palin PregnancyI'm a little confused with the bolded portion. Are they saying they expect more? Why. . . I mean didn't they vet her properly? Why are they acting like McCain just picked her from the street. |
Obama Says Palin Pregnancy “Off Limits” |
Lawd-a-mercy! Aren't they still wrestling with the "Is Trig Sarah Palin's Son or Grandson" issue? However will the GOP deal with this now? |
[quote author=HR.hotness link=topic=166449.msg2739381#msg2739381 date=1220297102]why would u go so far if u aren't going to go all d way. . . d issue with date rape is that its usually guys u've just met. harmless flirting is ok but why go with him to his hotel room if u hav no plans of going all d way[/quote]Exactly! Once you start, you better be ready to finish it simple. tpia:Really? How can he prove he didn't prove he didn't rape her? I'd think she is the one who has to prove she was raped. If that's how it is, then it's is completely unfair. |
You know this won’t be a problem if everyone took my advice and conducted there relationship like a business transaction. 1st phase (Introduction) if you like each other, then you go to the 2nd phase (Listening to each other’s offer and counteroffers this is where the woman can ask for a thorough perusal of the man’s abunga.) 3rd phase(Accepting of rejecting the offers) if you accept, then next step 4 phase (Draw papers up stating the clearly what the terms and conditions are) Voila! Rape will be a thing of the past. |
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