₦airaland Forum

tRoOE:
Typical Yoruba man **shake head**

i beg to differ. this is definitely an african thing. not just predominate with a certain tribe only.

Fhemmmy:
Yes, shd be by forc, u did it together and u shd at least be there to hold her hands for support

it should never be by force because lets face not everyone is comfortable or would be comfortable with the site of childbirth. some people are Hematophobia. the site of childbirth is not a pretty scene. also some women would definitely be very uncomfortable with their husbands seeing them in such position. and some would want their privacy. and some wouldnt want the pressure that would be on them if their husbands were to be there. not every woman would actually want the presence of husbands there.

for the sake of sanity i would like to know

there is nothing that i can really that makes me completely happy more than seeing/making others happy i guess happiness is contagious after-all,  also little children makes my heart bubble. their innocence melts my heart.

how do you relate to people? are you approachable? maybe its something in your personality or attitude of which you may or may not actually be aware of that instantly puts them off. i know how medical school could take a toll on your social life but its possible and doable to manage the tons of books with having a girls night out.

as for your appearance, you can still appear presentable and classy without being trash or too sophisticated. sad, but people do often time address you by you look. so if you think you havent been putting much effort in that fashion department, then its time to get a makeover. however, dont over it. if you are the simple type, dress like it but with class.

also you location could also being the hindrance. inasmuch as you would want an igbo man, dont set that limit on yourself because Love knows NO LIMIT. let love decide where it will land you. arent there igbo churches in NY you could attend? try to find predominately nigeria or igbo churches and start attending them, and while there try to make friends dont appear desperate because every relationship starts with some sort of friendship.

also try as much to attend ibo or nigerians gatherings, like parties, weddings etc. above all things dont forget that God understands your heart better than anyone else. talk to him, he surely will listen to your prayers and concern. dont forget him.

you are still young at 26, its not as if you are 36. dont appear desperate, because desperation attracts desperation. sometimes love happens when and where we least expect it. so dont just give up yet.

remember marriage is not a destination. its a journey. some people starts the journey early, and others later. but when it is your time you will surely make the journey.

there is more to this story than a woman marrying and not wanting sex on her wedding night.

give Buddhist a childboard, huddhist would want their own, plant and tree worshipers would demand their own, so would ants worshipers.

do one and leave the other, it turns to claims of favoritism and discrimination.

Pharoh:
It is not rape since you are legally married  to her.

i bet you never heard of marital rape

lol

goodluck with dat

still learning how to work in heels

only if i was papa -gee

^^^

Lol

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TheSeeker:
Matter of importance has to be involved but in the long run. when you want to make a decision, you must put that into consideration. Sure, he doesn't have a right to lay hands on anyone, but what ever happened to your communication skills in your relationship?

ofcourse we to have discuss it but the fact still remains i wouldnt take it lightly on him for hitting him especially if i met my friend before him

fool me again

i want them in a plate

carry go jare. i no won dat wayo kiss

u must first vomit all d foods u ate dat i bought with the money

me n recession cnt b the same sentence. gosh i need to get me a new man w fresh mints. am done w/your brokeness n empty bank acct

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skimmyboss:
U mean, they turn you on?

no. its more than a mere turn on

tell men nah. the baba wouldnt know na

no get me started

i love tall with not too lanky or mascular build men especially those in uniforms . . . police [size=1pt]_{(minus the nigeria police oo)}[/size], navy army etc something about them gets me!

i talk am . kai! tell me more. where did u put it? in my food or water?

i no wan those kinda sticks. i wan those wey 'em dey use for there. those kind w/pointed mouths

lai lai. i think say na charm u use hold me sef becos i no deal w/poor men like u but. . .

now u cnt afford it, it don to wetin happen to spoons

i no wan spoons. na sticks i want. poor man

foods taste berra w/those sticks