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i dont like sharing. go do ur many other concubines

even 1billion in bank account wouldnt do

[quote author=na2day? link=topic=355613.msg4998747#msg4998747 date=1259222849]u see why u r lucky i married u [/quote]married ke?

OP

hope your worryings is now lessening with all that folks here have said to you. so stop aching over it. your husband is on the way, he is just stuck in traffic.

Fhemmmy:
Like i said, that will means that people are marrying not cos they wanna but cos
1. They wanna make God happy
2. They wanna make our society not to frown at them

So where do the people marrying stands, where is their own happiness?

no. it means people are marrying coz they want to. its because of those reasons they marry, something you cant achieve with dating. and there will be no greater happiness in this life than making God happy. the blessings of it you cant count. so, that alone is an absolute good enough reason for who choose it. remember also that marriage for believers is the only legal way to have sex,not everyone fancies out of wedlock kids and premarital sex. God doesnt, so does many people and cultures. even the bible says that those who cant resist the temptations of the fresh, should go and marry. marriage is ordained by God, and if a person wants to enjoy the benefits of it, dating isn't a choice.

[quote author=Lord_Reed link=topic=356757.msg4987508#msg4987508 date=1259076111]Do Nigerians Murder The English Language?  Yes we do[b] so take us to the International Court of Justice and sue us[/b]![/quote]

smooooooth:
who are this peeps and where do u all jump out from. are u better at pronunciations, t[b]hen pronounce this, G.E.T. L.O.S.T[/b]!

Lmao

[quote author=mama-gee link=topic=347504.msg4990561#msg4990561 date=1259107325]Food section serves for Agriculture. [/quote]sorta

must we click whatever happened to posting the whole SS on here

sad. no wonder the bible says Spare the Rod and Spoil the Child.

the mother. the man might have donated/contributed the sperm but if the woman didnt incubate and nurture the baby for 9 long months and painfully push him/her out through that little hole, there wouldnt be no baby.

two of them plays an important role, however, the woman deserves the Oscar while the man deserves the Golden Globe

they have the last name that i bear

society and culture mandates it. even though, truly and deeply inside many womens heart, they wouldnt want to be get married but many havent got the option of saying no

ma popping lipgloss

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[quote author=mama-gee link=topic=193494.msg4989227#msg4989227 date=1259091204]How do I make my skin color lighter? [/quote]i heard charcoal really work well. those who have used it says its like magic!

why dont you try it and come give your own testimony

madlady:
I am toying with the idea of chemically straightening my hair. 
Fed-up of using the tongs on a Sunday night and my hair looking like I have just put my finger in the electric socket by Wednesday.
Does anyone chemically straighten, if yes what products do you use, does it make your hair fall out and finally how long does last before you need to do it again.

am guessing you mean relaxers. since you havent relaxed for ---------- yrs or months, i think it would be safer for you to go a salon to get it done that doing it at home. mizane or affirms relaxers are really good. tried them. loved them. [size=4pt]_{thnks Karma}[/size]. designer essentials are also good. normally, some people retouch every 3 months, while others every 6months or 1 once a yr, i guess it sorta depends on you and your level of comfort with your hair. as for cutting of hair, that also depends on the hair texture, relaxer and the person doing it. if not done properly or instructions are not followed properly it could happen. it doesnt cut my hair though

Fhemmmy:
All these things you have listed can be achieved by dating and by have a lover, and not necessarily have to have the paper that says you are married . . .wont u agree?

no they all cant be achieved by dating. many of them you have to have that marriage certificate. remember marriage is the highest level of commitment one can make.

for example the reason of security---including power, honor pride, respect etc

in many society, many married people are given more respect,power than daters and single people. there is also economic and financial benefits that many married people get, daters and lovers cant get. also in many societies, marriage brings honor and pride to ones family and society, something dating doesnt. and also not every society and culture recongiznes "dating" as a commitment unlike marriage. there are some things that will require that the person be married not dating or lovers to get it

also you cant achieve the sacredness of marriage by dating or being lovers.

and its not even as if the so called males they kill themselves over are any better the females, many of are full of irresponsibility and uselessness but as long as they have a carrot under there, its all good.

tRoOE:
Was just kdding wit you
Offcourse I do believe Real Love exits b/c ve once experienced , but it a pity it doesn't exist anymore in world
My heart needs to be protected from this thing called love
But Will i give true luv a chance? Not likely or Never

okie . it still does exist though

@tRoOE

nah, i dont mean lust or infatuation. i mean genuine love. dont really fancy those true love phrases, cox they have truly lost their meanings these days.
yea, it might be hard and even more harder for many ppl these days to believe that there is such in these day and time, due to all the abuse and bad raps "love" gets nowadays but believe you me, it does exist. :

embarrassing

gotcha ya

dont get confused by "genuine" maybe you havent experience it. ok, lemme use the popular love "true love" or real love

michelin89:
If getting married because of lonliness is an extremely bad reason, what about getting married out of pity?

its equally bad. the former is usually the most popular of the two. i say its a very bad reason because marriage NEVER completes anyone contrary to the popular myth and belief. you have to complete yourself FIRST. but when people twist this, they usually and most often found themselves even more empty

contd from the last thread

while there is no definite answer to why people get married, because its such a personal thing, the followings is usually among them

companionship
security---including power, honor pride, respect etc
wants a family
pressure
arranged
love---they share deep passion and connection and wants to take it to the highest level of commitment which is marriage
money
loneliness (very bad reason)
out of pityness
cultural and social norm mandates it
sacredness
convenience
and then, there are ones that have no reason, just want to get married. well i guess thats also a reason

the list is endless. different peope=different reasons

u have a thread about it? iwill reply there

@ post

genuine loves knows no disability or ability. when it comes to genuine love there are no boundaries. you dont set limit on love. its easier and safer to say no or yes now, but life is full of uncertainties and tomorrow is pregnant who knows what it will give birth to?

what reasons do u have in mind that werent satisfying to you?

@BB

And with regards to majority of the posters saying you need to look after your appearance, I don't think that is relevant, it is what is inside that should count,

i sort of understand what you mean. there is more to a person than their outward fashions and appearance. however, most men are very visual. something about you have to attract them first before they actually get to know the real you inside. people do get addressed by her they look, while this shouldnt be but sadly it is. if her appearance is dull, and appears as someone who doesnt really care much about herself or gives a damn about the next neighbors opinions of them, it will reflect in them. if she lacks confidence it will reflect. so sorta agree with you that outward appearance should be the all and all, she shouldnt also neglect it. it matters how you present yourself outside because sometimes we only have one chance to make that lasting impression.

@ poster

above all, you MUST have(learn to have) confidence in yourself. because there is nothing more sexier/attractive or most sexiest than a woman with CONFIDENCE. it shines/glows wherever go you. and trust me REAL men love it.

Fhemmmy:
Nice one, but we yet to even figure out why people get married

Lol. people marry for many different reasons while others marry for no tangible reason

wedding is more important not everyone/state/country etc would recognize traditional marriage. TM is still good though