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THE AMAKA:
this is sad.

someone is proud to admit their self hate on a public forum.

who

i dunno.

Fhemmmy:
That will be up to her, i cant answer for the woman now.

i know it will be up to her, but would you like her to forgive you? inside you must be feeling something, like "i really want her to forgive me or i just want this marriage to end"

steve49ja:
Is Knowing That Your Wife Has Been Unfaithful Enough Reason For Divorce?

Yes!

Fhemmmy:
It is more than enuf reason to end the marriage.
i dont wanna know that another man has been sucking her nipples and yet suck it again, no way.
God no go lemme see fire for inside "konga"

just a question for the two of you.  is your wife knowing that you're cheating reason enough for her to ask for divorce even if you wholeheartedly apologize and is sorry for your act?

what's your hair regimen like? the products you normally use?

use the health search engine you will find plenty answer to your questions, this has been discussed

marrying someone out of pity also means living ma whole life in pity. no can do for me

keep quite for where? i will talk and ask him oo. i mean what if he dies suddenly without any last word on his investments and assets who gets the money? and how in the world will i know he has some hidden fresh greens! na lie oo.

i mean it can be for some folks who takes any kind of cheating super seriously because it's a betray of marriage vows and trust.

however, it's not always the case especially when the cheating eagle is genuinely sorry for his/her act and not sorry because he/she got

caught and also if the cheating was unintentional like i mean the person being under the influence of alcohol (though not a good excuse

though). the trust maybe lost in the marriage or maybe weaken, things can still be worked out.

Ben20001:
If you had a better job, you wouldn't have the time to gather such information.

i wouldnt really mind if it's my business or not, she's defiling her marriage vows and i dont personally condone cheating of any kind so i must find a way to talk to her directly or indirectly. what's bad is always bad no matter who's doing it and if it takes an outsider to make it right or make the person come to the realization of their act why not? of course this is just me.

Fhemmmy:
Talk to the sister, cos when the wahala starts, the shame will be on y'all.

being the younger sis and talking to her about her personal affairs, hmmm for some means fire, some wouldnt take it lightly even though they know what they're doing is wrong. well i thinking taking this approach depends also on the type of relationship the person have with her elder sis.

@ post

what about your mom, cant you tell her to talk to your sis about this ongoing affair?

gosh hard one! ultimately it will be ma mom, i got only one of her.

but i guess it kind of also depends on the type of relationship the person have with each woman, i mean for some if their mother/wife is this Jezebel incarnate with no repentance in sight it will influence their choice.

it's a big NO. the disadvantages of it wayyy outweigh the advantage if any sef

i like suprises

never!

tine:
@ Sissy, it is grossly unfair and it caused the women a lot of pain. He did it for his own selfish reasons. which I'm afraid is why a lot of people do things.

Exactly! he prolly be telling them not to worry that when the times comes it will happen blah blah knowing fully well that time aint coming anything.

gosh those ladies starting from Jodie Marsh are seriously embarrassing

too much of everything even in cloths is really bad. she/they just give the phrase "flaunt it if you have it" a very bad rap

@ Mivoh

ehmm. . . if i get you there. . . . you will receive a hard knock on the head from moi

btw am loving some of those clothes/dresses you ladies are posting. nice!

tine:
My fathers Friend did that a long time ago. he had 7 sons and 1 daughter and decided it was enough. F[b]unny enough he then went on a marrying spree, and the women could not understand why they could not have children, apparently he hadn't told them about the vasectomy.[/b]

but thats kinda selfish and unfair na the women probably be blaming themselves thinking the problem was with them