₦airaland Forum

how about her getting a job so as to pay for her High BP drugs and take care of herself first before dealing with her so called husband? in other words she needs to have a means of income/savings in order for her to decide/plan whether to stay or leave since she wasnt working before and dependent on the so called husband.

question though: Is her so called husband beating her?

the OP said they got into an argument which isnt a rare thing in r/ship or marriage. guessing the dude has some serious anger issues. yea it might be hard to move on at first but i believe that would be the best decision ever, hard? yes, impossible? no. just hoping she isnt easily deceived by his sweet tongue apologizes becos he will definitely hit her again.

what if the rich man/guy becomes the poor man 2morrow? a poor man can also acquire those things through hard work and persistence i think you're setting your ideal man high on the scale and as a result might have too many disappointment imo. but who knows you might just met the guy/man of your perfect description.

dont mean personally your family brothers on less of course they too are beaters, i mean some your male folks in general

he wanted an abortion which is against my ethics: She vehemently refused and threatened that if i dont do it , she would take an overdose of a dangerous drug and won't care if she loses her life in the process.

it's sad that she was raped. however, there's no other direction to fellow here but to stand on your ground. you cannot abort the baby for her simple. dont let her threats make you change your mind. stick to your grounds. it's her body, her choice. if she desperately needs abortion let her go to other place or whatever she wants with it, you're not going to be a part of it. it's against what you practice plain and simple. since you've advised her to reconsider and discourage her but to no avail now it's time to tell her you cant perform any abortion on her. just dont give in to her threats/attitudes.

choose ke? you can advice them but not choosing for them abi cant they make their choices?

amosexy:
I guess dat will make our love stronger

are you been sarcastic or dead serious

sunnykiss:
just imagine dat kind of dumb question.cant you google and read on hiv,fct babe abi u be carrier na till 3009 cure dey come

how is a dumb question it' either you know the answer or you dont

@ post

no cure as of yet, but there is hope on the horizon.

okie

not a big fan of gold

mohawkchic:
~Jury's still out on it for me. . . .i want to see the front View,cant decide on the side View

same here

i see no bigger in it, if it bothers you much save his real name instead of pet on your phone too

tell that to some of your idiota brothers

IF only she's the one that married me.

[quote author=machu_1 link=topic=310350.msg4360844#msg4360844 date=1250428578]Thanks for the replies.

You all are right. Back off coz only God knows what lies in the future. Could get worse.
So, the whole year has just been wasted? Horrible![/quote]horrible you say? i say it's awesome, it would have been horrible and miserable + terrible if you get married to him and live you whole life in agony. be glad/happy you were able to spot it before you're trapped not every woman gets that kinda lucky

if thats what he wants, he got my support

[quote author=machu_1 link=topic=310350.msg4357908#msg4357908 date=1250364134]U've been dating a guy for almost 1 year and he plans to marry you any minute from now. His parents have met yours once and have talked about the Introduction and bla bla.

On this lovely day, u both get into an argument and he slaps u real hard on the face that even ur arm is affected.

What will you do?[/quote]times that with the number of arguments/disagreements you both are going to get into when you're finally married. better find your way when the light is on. this is just the signpost of many things ahead. and i hope you wouldnt carried away by his sweet tongue of apologizes because he will definitely DO IT AGAIN. my dear LOVE DOESNT HURT.

@ Stillwater maybe you could try asking a friend/family to help you figure out you real shape?

awww. . . my Gabyy is now a MOD

much love sis

THE AMAKA:
the person who posted this thread in the first place.
she is obviously discussing bleaching cream.
someone else said they used it and it messed up their feet, so they discontinued use.
this is obvious she is talking about bleaching cream.

someone willing to openly admit their self hate.

the poster of this topic has yet to say otherwise, so what do you think?

she's looking for suggestions, as you can read from her post she said. she's been looking a good cream since, and seeing the one her sis is using and effects wanted to know peoples opinion on it. and whether it contains any bleaching/toning indigent. which Funkybaby says it didnt work for her, which is understandable because even if it contained bleaching or not, everybody's skin is different what might work for you, wouldnt for me. she might not be necessarily looking to bleach her skin, so i think you were rushing to premature conclusion when you said she's self hating. you could suggest any good cream out there for her to try.

Fhemmmy:
I agree with you and i know it is not fair.

i know, i mean if only people in this world would live by the golden rule "Do unto others as you have them do to you" the world will be a better place.

Fhemmmy:
I mean the men's ego will never allow a man to forgive such, can u imagine kissing the woman and remember that another man don kiss her, the man will get angry just like that and probably go cold, so i think it is even better for the woman to ask for divorce than go thru the torment of cold shoulder.
If she cheats and ask for forgiveness, i am not sure i can forgive oh, i will be real, but if i can, maybe God can give me some special anointing for forgiveness sha

double standard always in existence. can you also imagine the woman kissing, sucking and tugging you knowing that some other women done the same?

Horus:
[size=15pt]Your curly woolly hair[/size]


Please understand that the solar system travels as a whole across the galaxy and that this actual galaxy travels across the universe this is scientifically proven. But what scientists’ aren’t telling you is about the role 9 ether and 6 conscious ether gases play in reality. Understand that from a scientific perspective atoms and molecules are the substance of matter and anti–matter it is the combination of gases that created the sun which in turn made planets which in turn made life on earth - all under the will of the most high forces absolute nature. Now know that 2000 AD marked the end of a 6,000 year winter period in this solar system. It was within this period that 6 ether gases represented by thought processes linked to the moon had a dominance over the earth. Global warming is linked to the entering of the sun cycle, which begins in 2000 AD onwards and will last for thousands of years to come. This galaxy is on a 72 million-year cycle around the universe. The creation or evolution of the Nubian black race started within a sun cycle that’s why your hair is woolly and grows up to the sun with 9 ether heritage. The other races evolved within a winter cycle on the planet that’s why their hair is straight and grows down and doesn’t have the power to curl.African people must now embrace the science of your hair 9 ether when your hair curls it forms a circle. This is your scientific link to all space-time and matter. As everything in existence is made up of atoms, which are in the shape of a circle, the sun, the planets, blood cells etc are all circles the curl of your hair in to a circle is your genetic link to the creation of the universe itself.You are closer to the genetic peak of what human beings can evolve in to on earth more than any other race. The hair symbolises creation itself the dot,the line and the circle must have existed before the atom. The fundamentals of all existence within a three dimensional plane. A hair that curls into a circle is the physical representation of all existence in man. It is a symbol recognised throughout all the boundless universes. All planets, all stars, all atoms, gas particles, blood cells indeed all existence for they are all circles. Your curly woolly hair is the link to everything - absolute nature. All humans are tied to absolute nature as the dot and the line are covered by all races, but the curl of the hair into the circle is the completion of 360 degrees – absolute as anything that travels the line of the circle will travel forever. It represents a universal template in reality itself the nature of nature. Understand that if the circle curl of woolly hair is a universal symbol and all suns and planets are circles, then you are genetically tied to the creation period of the universe. Remember you are people of the sun with skin that is protected from the sun more than others – can you see the link. Know that because your hair grows up to the sun you are tied to the universal ecosystem of nature as every plant,tree grows up to the sun as well.This is why you are the manifestation of nature in human flesh. See from the stem of the hair which eventually curls in to a circle overall makes the 9 shape. This 9 shape as stated; being tied to nature through the circle becomes the human representation of 9 ether on earth, as life force gases had to exist to create all existence including the creation of this solar system.These are hints to the science of your woolly hair that will never be taught by Caucasian – please understand that.One of the best things you can do in serving your God or nature is respecting it. This means respecting the environment, which was made by nature(neteru), or God. Now understand this doesn’t just relate to looking after animals, forestry, reducing CFG gases etc. It also implies the agreeable treatment of all solids, liquids and gases needed to preserve pro-life forces.These life forces include forestry, water and most importantly the human species. For a human to actually look after themselves through good dieting and health in their original state preserves the positioning that nature or God genetically gave that individual. Now understand that when you destroy your own body through drugs, preventable diseases etc you are also helping to destroy nature itself. This is because you are a part of nature. To harm yourself you are actually aligning yourself with the negative death forces within absolute nature. This is why suicide is negative you are sacrificing your own existence to the death forces within absolute nature. To eat healthy, diet correctly, stay fit enhances your own life which represent the positive force of absolute nature. Now this also includes the physical appearance. It is very concerning the regression of the woolly hair in the west especially the US. If your god loves you, is all knowing, created everything, then why would you change how he made you. Lets be serious ! You are rejecting the way god /nature made you and are following the Caucasian appearance. Now overstand the laws of opposites exists on different facets of reality. The opposite physical appearance to the Nubian race is the Caucasian race.Someone here represents life forces the other death forces. Who is it ? Let’s see. The woolly hair to become straight needs a heat or chemical reaction that destroys proteins in the hair follicles which maintain the genetic properties needed in hair growth up to the sun. The destruction of the hair proteins is a genetic death. Nubian women are aligning themselves with death forces – antinature as you are killing off the genetic ties with nature. Nubian women are continually tempted by their own black actresses, music artists and models to change their hair – the eve syndrome (temptation) – they be-lie-eve (belief) it is an improvement. Now please understand it is liberalism within marketingthat makes you think this is normal. Suppression within our race is still running rampant and this marketing enforces it. Another brainwashing technique they use is to show you African women with woolly hair in the poorest conditions on TV they also show homeless black or insane women with woolly hair. The reality is they don’t have the time to look after their hair in its woolly state simply because they are just trying to stay alive. Many Nubian women rebel against this physical positioning the media has giving our women with woolly hair. Nubian women must realise that you are following someone else’s image of beauty.The elite of the Nubian women are those in their original image as it was women in this image who were the first beings who evolved from water to give birth to all human species. Though scientist working for government agencies are now trying to link the birth of mankind with Asia. They are trying to alter history as you read this. Nubian women you are in a league of your own when you are in your natural state. When Nubian women take on Caucasian traits(straight hair / dyed hair / contact lenses) you give positioning power to Caucasian women. The beauty of women will be based on their terms. They will only guide you further away from your natural state. The suppression of Nubians is continually enforced through black hair products like Dark &Lovely. The lovely element to them must represent the straightening of the hair as you are dark by nature. Amongst women the physical leader of the straightened hair is the white women whose race due to their weakness of genes and genetic mutations has the most variety of hair and eye colours.They have successfully converted the other races in to thinking this is an advantage in beauty when the variation appearance reflects a weakness in genes. The spiritual leader of the straightened hair is the Asian Indian woman.Liberal white women all get their spirituality from East Indian cultures. The spiritual unification of the Asians is taking place right now the Caucasians and the Indian Asians are joining their spiritual forces to go against the sun movement. On a social level this is seen in the Caucasian women and her followers adapting to Indian fashion. On an economic level this is seen in the west building tighter links and joint ventures with India and Pakistan. It is also seen through the growth of small retail businesses throughout the world. They are a genetic family unit - the Caucasian and Asian.

WTFFF

Fhemmmy:
Only a mumu wont want forgiveness now, u bet, i will like her to be able to forgive me, except, if i really dont want the marriage anymore but i am not the woman now, and[b] it is harder for a man to live with adulterous woman than it is for a man to live with ashy wife[/b]

interesting, care to expandiate on that?

but what if she cheated and ask you to forgive would you?