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dollyjoy:
Most guys would switch off their phone immediately and pretend not to be the one she came looking for!!

It seems you've experienced such situations before. Lol

The 1st time I did it was by my girlfriend (now wifey), a medical lab scientist. I was actually indifferent 'cos I knew I wasn't promiscuous but I knew it could be contacted through other mediums aside sex.
Second time was @ a general hospital, I felt relaxed & at the same time nervous. It's a mixed emotion. I did that at the request of my Church during wedding preparations.

OfficialMURIC:
We expect CAN to condemn this dastard act, as it is perpetrated by one of the followers of Jesus (pbuh). We also call on Nigeria government as a member of Organization of Islamic Cooperation (OIC) to donate money and other relief materials to the affected Muslim ummah in Newzealand.

Your stupidity knows no bounds. Read your comment yourself & see your foolishness in the open.

Satan66:
This is why I don't like Christians, Always judging.
It's her life not yours, if you wanna live in a church then do it
We humans want to actually enjoy this life and have fun.

You aren't human! You're a condemned Lucifer.

refiner:
only a fool takes advantage of an innocent poor girl... if u love her, love her truly not cause of sex!

I guess you're a victim of such situation.
However, you're too quick to judge op. He didn't forced d bitch to enter his room. What friendship is there between a cat & rat.
Besides, d word 'innocent' is wrongly used here.

OladimejiRufai:
U are welcome sir!

We have heard you.

But about what you said, check this out...

Lol...you know what your siblings do in situations like this?
... innocent man on his knees, OladimejiRufai standing next to him with knife in his hand... shouting ALLAHU AKBAR ALLAHU AKBAR while slaughtering d innocent man.
Your seven (7) virgins are waiting for you in hell!

Jesuschild247:
A female friend of mine is finding it diffucult to have sexual urge and it is becoming a problem to her this problem have destroy her previous relationship is there any drug that can make a female go crazy for sex

Your moniker, Jesuschild247, should not indulge in sex as U're still a child.
Remember today is Jesus' birthday & he was born for you.

softwerk:
This one forgot to take his drugs today of all days, Christmas

You yourself knew he's right. Your hole in as described.

LolaO:
Lol, thank you

Could you add me to ur WhatsApp contact? 08061611862

istoms009:
Muslims are not terrorist. Islam in no way encourage terrorism rather its a religion of peace. Why are we so sentimental whenever it comes to Islam or Muslim issue, practice your religion in peace and let me practice mine. In every religion there are blacksheeps who doesn't really unewsstand d concept of d religion but to my surprise those few blacksheep will be use to judge. I am a Muslim and I am proud to be one. I don't critisice ur religion. Let's learn to advocate peace and stay in peace, dat is d only way we can move forward and succeed as a nation.

When last did you hear Christians shout "our religion is of peace"?
The Bible says "...by their fruit you shall know them". Even English proverb says "action speaks louder than words".
You Muslims claims ur religion is religion of peace yet you're the most violent human being! Wherever you have Muslim majority, d minority groups are in danger. I'm speaking from experience!
Go to Arab countries, the minority Christians are oppressed and forced to change their faith. Iran, Jordan, Turkey, Syria, especially Saudi Arabia their shrine headquarters!
Don't tell us ur religion embrace peace, act it!

OladimejiRufai:
how do i seem confused

What Islam teaches vs what people do... they are two different things

how is this confusing?

If a Christian rapes, does that necesarily mean Christianity supports raping?

If a hindu steals, does that necesarily mean Hinduism supports stealing

Kindly show me what is confusing there and please when u want to give that a try, make sure ur brain is activated in the activity

I mean make sure u use ur brain

Your religion is evil. Anywhere Muslims are, peace will be wanting.
Of course, you won't reason with me because what you've got in your brain is pure water.

I think the OP has a very bad taste of choices

gloria34:
Lol, thanks dear. I have no intention of replying such comments, they are out to troll and i Cant allow such comments get to me

Hi gloria34, of course, those hurling abuse @ u are wrong. However, I think I understand their feelings towards your post.
You're a single mother if am right & this guy came to you with love & passion, probably it might work out btw you too. You knew that but don't want that, probably now or even never.
Also, you want him around to keep your company or whatever U want him around for.
You're imprisoning him please.
Tell him straight you don't have feelings for him, then you'll not feel guilty of delaying & wasting his time.

Amakababe:
what lady (age 18-45) hasn't done an abortion before.
all na wash.
u suppose dey thank her for telling u sef lolz.
women don't usually say things like this, unless she really loves you, its to grave things. fool, go on your knees and thank her.

Abortion Expertise!

Liliyann:
Message not understood!!
Love issa scam,those in it, are doing it for their selfish gains!!
I don't believe in it

Once you found true love, you'll understand it really exist. Actually, I understand that love brings lots of heartbreaks, that's why I prefer friendship to love too.
Thank God I've found true love. Hope you find yours.

OladimejiRufai:
What exactly does Islam itself say about a woman wearing make up and revealing her adorned face before non mahram men (strange men)

That is why whenever I see an argument against Islam, i dont bother to argue sometimes because some times, what Islam is being attacked for is NOT even part of Islam or endorsed by Islam.

look at ur post now. U attacked Muslims saying what u said making it seem like Islam is irrational if it commands women to cover thrmselves and allow women to use make up

meanwhile, what u are attacking Islam for, Islam itself forbids it.

in the Shareeah, it is PROHIBITED for a woman to display her adornments before strange men hence what u see in that picture is HARAM for a woman to do.

But u saw a Muslim doing it and u assumed that is what Islam supports.... That is a weak and poisonous mentality that u need to get rid of ASAP

Never judge Islam by the actions of Muslims, rather judge the actions of Muslim by Islam

What Islam itself teaches vs what Muslims do... these are two different things.

Before u criticize Islam for anything, make sure it is actually part of Islam. if it is what u see people do, then it is not tenable enough

meanwhile the prophet pbuh also told us that there will come the time when Muslims will be deviating from the right path. Now think about it. if that is the case, what if what u see a muslim doing and thinking it is part of Islam is actuslly a manifestion of the prophecy of the prophet (meaning what that Muslim is doing is a form of deviance) will it be right to judge Islam by it?

Educate urself man/woman

Now read the message and not the conveyer (me)

I am not a saint

U seem confused yourself.

"...What Islam itself teaches vs what Muslims do... these are two different things."

Islam preaches peace but Muslims are violent right? Correct!

LolaO:
My name + first letter of my surname

Is your surname Oyenusi?

LolaO:
Thank you

116. LolaO(f): Quote Post
scnonline:
You are beautiful

Don't mind him, you're not that beautiful, my opinion though.

Sky is the limit

You don't need to reply. Act as if you didn't see anything because sending it to you might be a mistake on her side.

NwaAmaikpe:




What if she raped and stabbed herself just to implicate somebody?

No doubt your brain has been washed in Tetraoxosulphate vi acid

May her soul rest in perfect peace and may God comfort her family & loved ones.

nikkypearl:
hey!
I am an Architect, and I am not rude

I am a Civil/Structural Engineer & I am not rude.
Nikky, we can work together. Here's my number 08061611862

Nobodys:
too many... way too many.......


All I'll say is, parents should keep eyes on their children especially the girl child. we have a lot of perverts and paedophiles in this world, you won't believe what little girls go through at their tender ages...

Create a bond with your children so they can tell you anything... In my case, I was too scared to tell my mum so it kept happening and happening and happening....


When I see random children, I just imagine what they may be going through....It's saddening....

So sorry for your experiences. Sorry again. I hope it wasn't your dad's doing? I'm sure you'll hate all men but just know dt all men aren't d same.

Nobodys:
12 dumbos actually liked this post and some other idiots shared it ... anything to boost your wrecked ego and validate your mentality about women.....you all are stupid..


As for the element that typed this trash, you are sick and you've got no one to tell you.

You seem upset! Did Wilfredpat22 right? Did u gave ur virginity away for a plate of meal too? Just asking...

Wilfredpat22:
Only 2% of us get molested by men. We just like playing the victim or vulnerable part. If you ask any average Nigerian lady how she lost her virginity, Rape is the common answer. No one will like to say she gave it up freely for a Hungry man size indomie and two fried eggs.

As early as the age of 13, most of us already know the ‘Bottom Power’ and using it to gain more financial strength from men

As we ladies always say in our small discussions

“Closed legs does not pay the bills, Open legs does’

Does that mean you have it away @ age 13 too? Just asking...

And this trash made front page? So what's the lesson to learn here?
This site is gradually becoming dump site.

January 18th

smileing:
Please I need responsible advice

Many were coming as suitors but I don't know why I let him come closer.

He forcefully took away my pride and I was hurt. He said he did that cos he doesn't want to lose me

I wanted to leave but I couldn't cos I love him.
I don't offer sex cos I'm religious and I believe it's a sin. Told him to wait till marriage but he wouldn't.
for almost a year we ve been courting I didn't allow him touch me.

Till this day he forcefully had sex with me .
He wants to come pay my dowry but I'm not sure that my people will let me marry him. I too went and prayed about him and they told me that he is not my husband (about 5 different people said it)

He is OK, financially, is educated and promising.
But not God-fearing as I wanted.

Now I'm pained for what he did to me .I'm grieved cos I wanted to lose my pride on my wedding night.
and I'm thinking of leaving him cos I'm hurting so much now.

I feel less of myself and sinful too


Please what should I do?


those that married non Virgin how did your spouse take it. I need to know cos it ll help reshaping my mindset

Dear sis., Heed elderly advise. You said 5 different people advised you not to marry him, they all can't be mistaken my dear. What d elders see from afar, u can't see it even if u climb Mount Kilimanjaro.
As per the virginity issue, the man that deserve you will still love you with ur status.
You seem to have a good heart, he raped you that means he wanted to force u into marriage with him, he didn't deserve you young lady, he will do worse when you finally marry him.
May God guide you though.