i think d guy's statement didn't sound right but we must all realise dat dis guy is a non-native speaker of English language, he could have meant it in a good way. Maybe if to say im talk am for pidgin or local language d statement for no be d same. Make una no kill am oooh.

@poster "what God has joined let no man put asunder" telling his wife is not a good idea. having an affair with a married man is not good, obviously dats d way ur own husband will be snatched by other girls. Dats d way it is. All d best

its very easy to prepare delicious stew. Though people have their various ways of cooking stew but i'll give you my own recipe. First of all boil your meat, fish or chicken add a little water, onions, and spice properly with curry, thyme, maggi and whatever spices you use. Then blend your fresh tomatoes while the meat is boiling. After blending your tomatoes with pepper, onions and tatasi as the case maybe. When your meat is properly cooked, then get a dry pot, pour groundnut oil, olive oil or anyone you use and allow it heat for sometime till it gets hot, then pour your tomatoes into the heated oil then stir, then add your spices, salt and then the meat. Some people add the water from the meat but i dont because of the fat. Then stir thoroughly and cover the pot. Stir at intervals, your stew gets done when the oil floats on top, then stir well and taste it to confirm if its done.

@sweetchick I dont agree with you at all. Here in the UK the carpenters and d likes even make more money than the so-called nurses. Relationships should be built on committment, caring and mutual trust and not on status what you do, how much money you have, how many houses you own, what car you drive and all that.

whether you do that on the phone or in person it doesn't really make any difference. You've made up your mind to break up with her isn't it? So go ahead and tell her its over better still talk to ur girlfriend maybe you both would sort something out.

i dont get this thing about the guys using her. When it comes to sex i think the guys are the ones been used. Anyways, i think its not right to be with two people at a time. You might end up been like some of those girls who get pregnant and can't account who's d dad of their baby. Be wise and act right.

All i'm gonna say for now is that 2.1 or first class is good because it gives you an edge over others. If you're sent to the university then you should work hard to do your parents (sponsor) proud by coming out with nice grades. The truth is if for instance a first class graduate and a third class graduate apply for the same job the first class graduate obviously has more chances of getting d job. My advice to everyone is this, whether you graduated with a first, 2.1 or third class, try and equip yourself with certifications, maybe masters degree and all that to make yourself marketable in the labour market. Try and add something to your first, 2.1, 2.2 or third class. Some people who graduated with 2.2 are doing better than the so-called first class graduates, some people without university education are making alot more money than the professors.

i think u should be honest with her. Tell her u dont wonna marry her, you can only date but as for marriage thats not gonna work out. You cant marry someone out of sympathy because you gonna live with this person for the rest of ur life. Every relationship must not end in marriage. Tell her now before it turns out to be dat u broke her heart by marrying someone else.

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the truth is osu still exists in igboland. Moreso its not written on anyone's face so u cant figure out one by looks or appearance. then coming to putting a stop to it, thats an impossibility, u can't change the minds of the people. Even in developed countries igbos still enforce it to the later. So for those who wonna put a stop to it i wish you all the best of luck. I for one dont like the osu thing, i feel for them but the truth is nowadays things are not the way they used to be. In the olden days, if for instance its raining and you run into an osu's house for shelter, you automatically become one, trust me thats how bad it was then. The only thing right now is that, its hard for an osu to marry a 'non-osu' if you like. I for one wouldn't marry an osu unless its a mistake cos my father warned me about it. Christianity would have solved it but even strong christians dont agree to marry an osu. why?

hello mate, sign up to sites like www.hi5.com, www.facebook.com and the rest. Post nice pictures and view so many ladies' profiles. It works man so give it a trial and then pick up the courage to talk to ladies maybe on the bus, pubs e.t.c. Its no big deal man, there are loads of girls in london who wonna hook up with guys maybe one night stand wise, never can tell but then u must be willing to spend no matter how little. Atleast go for a drink maybe cinema and all dat. I wish u all the best.
cheers

its a pity. Most of them girls fall so cheap for some reasons i dont understand most times. Some come from rich families, maybe its something that runs in their families or maybe a way of life. But i tell you something, there are still some nice and decent girls in nigeria. Most of these girls that fall cheaply for different guys will end up being mums and someone's wives. What are they gonna say to their children when they start misbehaving? If for some reason they get married and can't conceive then they start blaming the devil, and who knows their mothers-in-law. Especially when they hear you just came back from london, usa, even south africa they would be all over you. Well, i'm not surprised anyway because women dont have conscience (no offence to anyone but dats the truth). I thank God for HIV/aids and the rest of them STDs but my only problem is that the innocent ones would just suffer something they know nothing about.

its quite unfortunate that your boyfriend is behaving this way. I hope you use some protection while having sex. I guess you know what time it is. HIVAIDS knows not been together for 4 years or something. I think you should talk to him about it.

i dont blame the guy. i think the girl in question has some skeletons in her cupboard thats why she's sort of panicking. If your ways are straight why should you be bothered about the private detective thing? Go straighten your ways. Dats it for now.

hi, my stand on this is that there should be effective communication in any relationship. If for some reason you dont fancy a guy or girl whats the point starting off a relationship with him or her? It doesn't make sense. Then if for some reason(s) you dont fancy him or her anymore why wait for so long a time to tell him. If you happened to be in the same shoes as him how would you feel? I personally dont believe in double dating, it should be one person at a time. It's unfair, i really pity this guy that is about to be dumped. Its not a nice thing for one to experience. I guess she's been saying all them stuffs like i love u so much and dont wonna lose u to this guy.

if customer care is what you love doing then my advice is that you build your career there.

obviously premarital sex is a sin, the issue of hiv/aids should even make everyone zip up. Sex was ordained by God for procreation and not for fun as most people see it nowadays. So my stand on this is that we all keep away from premarital sex as it can ruin you. We can all do without sex.

hi, its a pity that u hooked up with him. But the question is this, r u one as well? If you're one then its alright otherwise no amount of spirituality can get things right. If you wonna go ahead and marry him then thats your cross which you have to bear. Another thing is this, are you willing to accept whatever comes of the union in good faith? Just search your mind and then know the next step to take.  Thats why its always good to find out about one's family backgrounds earlier on. I for one wouldn't advice anybody to go into that. Most people can't travel to their village(s) and can't even talk in public because of this. My advise is that you think twice before taking your final decision. Even far away here in london its still an abomination talk more of in Igbo land. All these traditions are still been enforced to the later. I wish you all the best.

Some guys will definitely marry those prostitutes. Some nairalanders might end up being victims. They no dey write am for face ooh. As for me i wouldn't like to marry a prostitute. Its pardonable when you dont know but when u're aware that worsens the whole situation.

whats @ unhappyman talking about?

hi, i cancelled mine by insisting, i insisted dat i sent it on time and even put photocopies of all the letters i've been sending them. they kept insisting i didn't send it on time, they even sent a letter threatening court action, i even went as far as going to citizens advice bureau to seek advice but then d lady asked me to fone them up telling them i sent their training materials back on time. So, i got home dat day and foned them up and they said its been cancelled. I only lost one payment of £70. Dat was it, then they sent me a letter stating that the contract has been cancelled. Did u record their package? If u did send it via recorded delivery which i believe u did then dats enough evidence. Photocopy it as well and write them and above all fone them up. Was it a card purchase u did? if its not a card purchase then u could cancel it wiv ur bank but if its a card purchase then u can't cancel it without skillstrain's consent. They have to cancel it. Thats it for now. I wish u all the best. Dont hesitate to contact for further advice. cheers

the link aint opening on ma pc as well. please rectify it and get back to us. thanks a million times, nice one brov

i think dats weird man, dats not our tradition/culture.

9ija gurls are not the most beautiful in the world. I think everyone's entitled to his/her opinion. In my opinion 9ija gurls are not the most beautiful in d world. Beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder. dats all i can say for now. cheers

for myself i wouldn't like to marry from a broken home. I pray not to marry from a broken home. If u feel like going ahead then u have to bear whatever comes out of it. I wish u all the best. cheers

which exams r u talking about? what's ur discipline? well, i graduated from computer science in 2004. cheers

hello brov, go to www.studyinsweden.se. u might find one of their undergraduate international courses in english. cheers

moving nigeria forward? Its only by divine intervention. The only practical way is revolution but who's gonna lead the revolution? i think all we have to do is to pray to God to hasten up in changing the face of the earth. Cheers