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This mumu won't stop caln his mother a slut...sm1 shd pls remind him of dat commandment 'Honour ur father and mother...'

This should be on front page. Nice!

Ifyalways for me. Can't believe I almost missed out!

Wow. I luv dis thread. I'm cringin with happiness plus anxiety. Lol

Mtcheeeew! How is this news? CU dat suspended students that ddnt resume when they were supposed to is d one dat will not suspend a guy using a phone- first offence and watchin wateva video on it. I'm surprised he wasn't even expelled. I'm beginnin 2 think d MODs love anything that has 2do with oyedepo. The veracity with which dey put news concernin him, sensible or otherwise on front page is alarming!

[quote author=mondi_cheeks]I already said gifts are given both ways, u take each other out, both parties have to do something for each other. I don't even think u can afford taking a girl out for bottled water sold by a street corner so u shudnt talking abt stuff u cant do. Living in a house built by bricks, using money to buy goods, getting engaged...all those are western ideas so stop being stu.pid and quit pretending as if u are "all african"[/quote]Swt@, we can't blame him, can u believe d security guard was sleepin on duty wen d psycho escaped?? Dat behaviour is totally unacceptable. I've cald for d guy's resignation. He caused all of this! We would be havin a decent conversation with mature and sane beings if not 4d guy's negligence. Hehehe

[quote author=mondi_cheeks]Providing maid services for a man who hasn't even made it official if he sees that ur apartment is always neat don't u think that by that alone he will be able to tell if u can do chores or not U can do the chores jus to help him out once in a while and not to keep him on ur leash. If his mother did not teach him how to look after himself once he "left the nest" why do u make it ur obligation? A sensible mother wld teach her child to do chores before he or she leaves for boarding school or university...how in the hell do they think their child wld survive if he won't have a maid cleaning up after him This whole 'wife material' hs gotten to ur heads...I have seen a lot if husbands being used by their beautiful wives simply becos he wants something nice to show off in public and good looking children, so jus knw that a man wld stay if he wants to, not because of house chores or any of that crap u girls lie to each other about...its 2012 a lot of machinery has been invented for the lazy pple or those who won't have the time to do everything by themselves, washing machine, dryer, dish washer, steamer, microwave...but some clever girl somewhere who cld have spent that time doing something productive for the company she is working for or studying to get all disctintions in varsity, wld rather use that time playing maid for someone else [/quote]Well said dearie. U know one thing I've learnt, once there is sawdust in a man's brain, he can never think straight...No matter how many valid points u raise, he'l choose 2 go d stupid way so we can as well save ourselves d stress of having 2 explain over and over again to a dumb sawdust-filled brain. Having 2 witness a guy insultin his mother over and over again don tire me! Hehehe

[quote author=*Kails*]Ummmm.....the only difference between a relationship and marriage are the papers and the ring sweetheart. The rules are still the same. If we were fck buddies or just dating THEN you'd have a point. But a RELATIONSHIP is serious.

Any responsible woman who LOVES HER MAN. ADORES HER MAN, AND CARES FOR HER MAN will not have a problem treating him like a king ESPECIALLY if he treats her like a QUEEN and does right by her.

No sane woman would live in a filthy, nasty, dirty house with no interest in learning to cook for herself. That is true in itself...BUT no reasonable woman would clean and cook for herself but not her man..esp. if she plans on keeping him. Women need to stop acting like treating a man every now and then is the equivalent to submission and enslavement.

It's not always about "girls vs. boys". That game should be left in elementary school yards and not allowed in the home. Period.[/quote]The only difference is a piece of paper?? Wow, i learnt some new stuff 2day! I suggest u read d earlier posts and see wat dis argument is really about. No point goin round in circles, Let each stick with his/her opinion!

Sagamite: You are a person!

Moronic shyt! You think your miasmic arsse is what is marriable?

Later you will see the piece of shyt going to power pastor praying for the miracle of husband this year.

You must hate your future kids because it appears you intend and plan they will only see their different fathers at the weekends with the way you are going.

I pity the foool that puts a worthless slut like you at home and calls her "wife" in the first place. They only have themselves to blame.

Can't be more convinced that this thing escaped frm yaba left...off I go b4 I get bitten!

[quote author=*Kails*]@topic:

my opinion is and has always been this, if he brings home the bacon, he deserves a hot meal. If he works more than and harder than you, then it shouldn't be an issue to keep the house clean. We are living in "modern times" and in many relationships women are the bread winners. If the woman is working harder then her man, then he can cut her some slack and help out around the house sometimes.

It should be 50/50.[/quote]We r talkin relationship, ure talkin marriage! Cleanin, cookin and washin won't be an issue for a married woman who lives there!

Lol. Funny this babe stl gets advice. She was last seen in 2007, she probably would have forgotten dat she ever posted on this site sef but I learnt a lot from dis old thread. The principal one being...Do not be 2 quick 2 judge. I used 2 hate married men with extramarital affairs with all my heart. Well, I stl do but I learnt there is a better way 2deal with it than throwin tantrums. D main responsibility lies on d wife. Be nice 2ur husband, dress well, look good, treat him well, do those dinner dates once in a while, and most of all; COMMUNICATE. I pray God helps us all and I hope d op is married 2 a 'single' guy now.

Mondi pls stop joinin issues with dat thing. U shld know by now dat hez not feelin fyn, he'l just keep going round in circles and drag u 2 his level. Let him marry his maids, dey'l do d washin and cleanin with no excuse! I can't see a sane woman marryin d God_forsaken thing!

I think dis topic is overflogged...@ sagamite n d likes, pls date ur housegrls dat'l gladly clean n wash 4u n let's have peace.

[quote author=Dolly-Parton]ppfffff [/quote]Can I help u? Y quote me??

@true2myself...spot on!

Bowen alumni. Keep d flag flyin dear, we r proud of u!

dmcdad: Why won't people acknowledge something good? Why is it that it was the sweaty armpit u saw?

Brova don't take it personal, I can see d lips, very sexy one. I can see ur shirt wit d last button unbuttoned, probably too tight or ur style and I can see d strings of water @ ur back...I guess dats d new digital picture style. I really don't und why all d babe saw were d sweaty armpits, I didn't see that!

Adaeze003: lmao.. Bro don vex! Lol can't believe I almost missed the party. Sorry broda but we won't die single.
Read something about Africans and 'our culture'. Now let me remind him about the African culture. In the east, you're not allowed to have your fiancee in your house till after your trad marriage and in the south, till after the white wedding so forget this trash about spending the weekend if you wanna talk about culture. Now, after marriage is when she is meant to be your helper as another person said/wrote woman means helper lol! If so why not ask any 'woman' for help? Its only after marriage that this woman is meant to help you as you two have become one. Help means to aid if I'm not wrong and that means you must be doing part of the work. In this case, it means the both of you JOINING forces to have a successful MARRIAGE and if her part is to do chores then its no big deal.
About the spending issue, y should a guy spend money on a girl that's not his wife? Its simply because he wants her love but uhm money can't buy you love but it can get you a cleaner . Sometimes, girls are to blame. He's buying your hair, furniture and bought you a lappy/bb then y won't you clean his house and wash his boxers? Lol. Its all in the mind, he's giving you and you feel a need to do something in return(sometimes its as bad as giving your body).
Guys should even be careful about girls who just walk into their lives and start doing the dishes cos she might just be after the marriage.
Bottomline... Washing and sweeping for you is not the only way a woman can show that she's 'wife material' if she always appears neat, her home is always clean, and she serves you delicious meals when you VISIT her odds are she will take care of your home just fine.

Thank sis, u jus kiled d topic. God bless u plenty!

[quote author=kalv_in]The name woman means helper of men...so y d hell won't u help?..wats now the difference between u and my friend john.[/quote]Ask ur mama and ur sisters 2 help u. They gladly will since dey were born 2be a man's helper!

Ishilove: Esere my love, ignore the walking anus. He is just pained that I made mention of the fact that he is a pathetic little attention seeker.

Sis myn, wen ppl react 2 accusations lyk dat, u shd kno it hit dem @ d most sensitive part of their body. He never believed anyone wil uncover his super stories, jus keeps fabricatin n dishin dem out wenever necessary, just as it suits d topic...hahahahahaha...awaitin his novel sha, d talent musnt waste!

Ishilove: This guy has come with his stories again. Come o, is the girl in question the one whose father a few months back didn't want you to marry because you are his major opponent on Nairaland?

Or perhaps she is that one your people in the village prepared for you and tried to force you to marry??



Kai, this guy ehn. Oniro buruku

Hahahahahahahahahaha....n 2 think I actually believed d guy's super story. *rollin on d floor*...u no go kill person!

ichidodo: THIS IS ALL F**KED UP. SO IT IS TRUE! SO MANY WOMEN AROUND BUT NO ONE SUITABLE FOR MARRIAGE. SH*T!

Mr man, if u want a housegrl and not a fiance, dem plenty well well... its not by force 2 marry grls lyk me. U can get a babe dat wil do ur laundry, cook ur food, sweep ur compound, wash ur siblins clothes join or even bathe for u as d case may be since u suddenly became handicapped when u got a grlfrnd.

That being said, lemme paint dis scenerio...I cook, clean and wash for my bf/fiance everyday I go dere, it has become my job. He comes home and is pleased wit me. He gets used 2it and stylishly or jokingly chides me wen I choose not 2do it or don't do it well OR I do one or two thnz wen I'm dere, dats if I have 2, he assists me and we have fun n one day I surprise him. I do all d house chores n everythn...he gets home, sees it, hez impressed and really happy wit me. I do dat just once in a blue moon.

D only time u have 2 do shakara and get a guy 2do all wat u want is wen ure dating. Ure a queen because he still hasn't married u so he wants 2be d best he can be. Guys r no fools..once u get married, everythn changes. U don't get dose special treatments anymore. U become his wife, he becomes d head of ur home. So wen u slave wen u shld be enjoyin, wen in ur life do u want 2 enjoy? Wen do u want 2be treated lyk a queen? (And I mean regularly) Wen do u want 2 do shakara for a guy over and over again while he keeps chasin u? It won't last forever so why slave wen u shld be enjoyin?

Note- U do d house chores once a while 2 surprise him/ please him so its not dat ure lazy or not capable.
FOOD4THOUGHT

DaWhiz: I don't believe its in the Bible or its a sin. Truth is, its a sign of respect in the Yoruba culture (and I think in some other Naija cultures too) to remove your cap when you're relating to an elder. So basically, people do it to show their respect to Baba God. But if you sincerely don't believe in it, I don't think its a big deal. IMHO

Jus wat I wanted 2 say. It is just a sign of reverence. Some men remove dia caps wen dey r about 2 speak wit elders! It shows reverence and respect, more lyk culture mixed with religion.

nous: I am a lady and I think it is wrong and an act of desperation.
I know many people will abuse me and say all sorts of rubbish but I won't be offended because we are all entitled to our opinion.

Abi o thank u my sister...sweep d compound 2? Wat kinda housegrl job z dat? Personally I'm very neat n I can't stand untidiness but y turn myself in2 a househelp? I could get sm1 2 clean d compound n i'l probably do d dishes n put his clothes in d washin machine...dats if I know hez been very busy n ddnt have time 2 clean up. We do it together if hez around, I will never clean a man's mess while he sits sround n watches tv, never! U can be rest assured dat hez gonna mess it up again n wait 4u 2 clean up cuz uve turned it into ur pry assignment.

Osuofia for me!

Nawa! So because u asked 4ur alawee, extension! Govt cannot be criticized? Yet d same govt ddnt applaud all ur pro-NYSC write-ups? To be seen but never 2be heard? We stl have a long way to go in dis country. Sad, really sad!

Sleek 05 for Miss NL (June 2013)... Reserved!

Wow. Dis z goin 2be fun. Wen is d finale?

[quote author=mosun_ade]Whats all that about? All churches do that. Inclusive of Redeem. It is not by force, so, what are you crying about? If you have you give, if you dont, you sit still. When they call for special offerings, it could be for specific projects, programmes or some community work somewhere. Why do you all assume it is so they could defraud people? People willingly give millions, because they have been so so blessed, but because you are broke and poor, you think it is a taboo or 419 for people to give money in church. SMH. If you understand the principle of giving, you will every week look for the nearest church to give something to, but if you dont, you will continue to think like a pauper and blame yourself when you find people progressing from God's hundred fold blessings.[/quote]I kinda agree wit u. Can dis whinin abt pastors stop? One thn I believe is dat ppl dat sow reap. I don't think people r fools, if they r not blessed or don't get an increase, dey won't give. Its as simple as dat but dey continue 2 give cuz diaz a visible result. Its dat simple! Why r we now takin panadol 4 oda people's headache? Its their money, not urs n dey choose wat dey want to use it for... attended ashimolowo's programme once whr he asked 4 dis 100 dollar seed, after dose dat could afford it had given, he asked d congregation 2 stand up n blessed evrybody...including those that could not afford and those dat didn't give.
Experience 2012 is round d corner, d'yu kno how many millions is spent on dat event every year If ppl dont sow 2wards it, how will it be possible so pls can d whining stop already? D all-knowin God blesses each man accordin 2 his heart!

okpara ugo: So Nigerian ladies dont read. Am yet to see a girl condole on this thread. Goto Miss Universe thread and see them basking in frivolities.

Human brain differs.

Pls u don't always have 2 talk, smtymz its just better 2 keep quiet dan 2 spew trash!