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Are nigerian women that bad, any small tin, my wife... my girl friend... my sister

Both chichi and the couple are lying!!!

For a sane mother, your baby was held and you kept quiet? Told no one about it, kept calling people who asked you to pay your debt. There is a hole there, from her expression I see no pain, no anger.

For the couple, you could see the man is an aggressive person, somewhere around 2 minutes in the second video he hit something, I don't know what he hit though. He said something that had to do with chichi hanging out with ladies believed to be prostitutes and guys said to be hoodlums which means he knew where she was. Knowing fully well a baby's life was at stake yet no tangible action was taken.

From my own perspective, the couple was looking for cheap labour so they helped chichi that will forever be indebted to them, chichi on the other hand never even wanted the child, she is young and she wanted the freedom that comes with it. The child's death hurts me so much that I wish the 3 of them could be imprisoned

He left the country

Have u seen rec?

preshman22:
the story is quite unbelievable

That was why I posted it..

All these mumu nollywood stories.
Actions have consequences, stories like this makes it look like the past is the past. The past is a path to the present, be cautious of what you do, it will haunt. You wanna rip the good you sowed but wanna have it easy with your bad deeds. Tread carefully

Its sad the movie industry have no plans for its legends. Sad!!!

I find it hard to believe all these stories. Boring!!

Me I'll start yahoo

Leave the house

Front page please

pmoye:
This is advice is really for Nigerian ladies. Please and please do not marry a man that is not rich. Your very life will depend on it. You heard me... How long you live as a woman may well depend on how rich your husband is. This may seem like an over-generalization, but a very needful one. Quite a troubling percentage of Nigerian men can not handle a woman who is more financially buoyant.

Ideally it shouldn't matter how much each person earns, because I believe that the husband and the wife should be one financially. That the home should be planned like a company with budgets, financial planning, sound auditing and all... But from the much we have seen around the average Nigerian family is far from this ideal. We often have what increasingly looks like a union that appears more to serve a cultural/societal expectation, a union that is sustained just so that the society can think you are happily married, while between the man and the wife it is more like between US and China, between Northern and Southern Nigeria, a perpetual cold war and bitter jostling for resource allocation and control.

I have seen women who have died because the husbands couldn't afford antenatal care and used ego-motivated argument to keep the women from accessing timely medical care... And of course, few years or even months after that those wicked men would later bring in other wives into the house.

The poorer the man, the more wicked, the more angry, and the more deadly he generally is in Nigeria. Do not let any man or any woman convince you to marry for love. There is no such thing as that, just a queer surge of hormones that makes you think you are in love. If you marry a poor man for love, hunger and suffering will soon reset your thinking, and by then most women feel too culturally compelled to remain with the toxin of a husband they have. Take a cue from evolutionary development in animal kingdom generally where females select the most suitable male for mating.

Do not simply believe in a man's future plans and dreams. If he doesn't have money now, he is not ready to be a husband. No matter how much you think you love him, treat him like the case of AS genotype (yours) marrying an SS genotype (his). And this is something I respect some Igbo men for. They will never think of marrying a woman unless they are economically ready.

If he is earning N30,000, or N40,000 or N90,000 per month he is not ready to marry. These are just examples from posts I have seen around here. Do not be fooled, the amount on the payslip is not always available for taking care of the home. But that's the talk for another day.

Some of us are probably never going to get married, I personally find it very scary to read about how men because of poverty increasingly turn against their wives in marriage... I may be too traditional though, because I do not fvcking care the money the wife is bringing into the house. Her role as a mother and a wife is already supremely more than you need to compensate for as a man. If you are a man, do not get close to a man when you are still poor. It is wickedness. It is dishonesty. It is crime against humanity. Do not sell her a future hope of becoming a pastor and other popular silliness.

Marrying a lady when you cannot completely and single-handedly take care of her is gender violence. Stop it.

This made front page to show your level of thinking. Sad ladies are becoming less responsible

OloshoMan:
You mean God punishes aborted babies who literally did nothing to deserve their punishment and buhari still roams about freely.

Even if I later discover that God is real, I'm still not worshipping a God I know that I'm kinder than


Thank God I'm an Atheist

You see how kind He is? He hasn't struck u with thunder

It's too late... The rot has gone deep. That is no longer the problem

Make ena dey keep weapon for house oo, at least make 1 soul follow if not 2.

DaveHarry:
We don't watch 17th century football tournament in my house.

Lwkm...lies!!!

The moderators can't identify an already posted topic, how many times do you want to post this lady that wants to snatch her neighbor's husband?

And for you, stop the cloutzzz

DaveHarry:
You want to compare European tournament with your baseless afcon, abi na wetin?

As baseless as it is, u family will stare at their screen till it's over.

raphy:
He is not English so he was misunderstood he didn't mean to say Africa little tournament.

There is a cliche in there just free the man

Do you even understand the word cliche

Joysticks:
Is AFCON not a little tournament? Boring matches with under 2 goals and poor video coverage.

STFU!!! It's all we have and we embraace it

Richdad50:
They give up their limbs and eyes for the club but not for the country.

The country doesn't even deserve a drop of sweat

Odewaleadesoye:
Thank you so much for this great observation and recognition Sir.

I will sincerely appreciate your kind gesture Sir.

Are you sure you didn't lift this story? Even the headline doesn't look like yours

AsampeteNwaanyi:


is he a Yoruba Muslim or Christian

What has that got to do with his demise

There is time foolishness, this is not the time.

busterr:
No be that guy that missed open net in 2010 world cup thus sending Nigeria out of the tournament and was even laughing and chewing gum like a cursed jack ass after the miss?
You won't get a birthday wish from this user, get out respectfully sir.

So he was 28 then!!!

FutureIsFemale:
Your dad pretends too

I like ur spirit

FutureIsFemale:
Cause men are evil pretenders

Men?
So ur dad pretends?

FutureIsFemale:
Men are terrible.

Please lawyers in the forum. Help me reach out to this lady on Facebook. Her phone number is on her Facebook. Let's try and make sure this man is locked up. Why waste someone's time?

Let's use him and teach other men a lesson.
Thank you.

And may God Almighty punish any man who does not have intention of marry a lady but uses marriage promises to sleep with her. May he die miserably.

Why did it take her that long to realize..??

AllahIsShit:
It was even further away from your ignorant, illiterate, child rapist POOphet from Mecca.

Eeyah!!! Its sad!!!

ivolt:
Do you mean the man is not a muslim?

I'm not really concerned about the hypocritical news or his irrelevant comment. I saw his name and it was kinda annoying

How much and what is the config

AllahIsShit:
To me, you have over painted the issue, I won't blame the man until I hear his side of the story.

Simple matter you can report to your Muslim community on campus or a Muslim lecturer who can try to appeal or settle the matter amicably.

But apparently the only solution for Muslims is to report online and not only that but until you find way to rope Christians to your mess so it will look like religion war again.

The man you are talking about is also a Muslim, but you chose to hide this fact because lies and lying is an integral part of your faith.

It is for this reason that only a fool would jump to conclusions without first hearing from the lecturers side of the story.

The way you rushed to nairaland to report this man is just creates the impression that you are willing to use lies to start a religious war.

Sense is far from you I must say...

Kastonkastroll:
Abeg getout joor. You cant compel anybody to give his money to someone he doesn't want to give it to. I tell you guys, if dangote(my role model) asked us to contribute money for him, I wont mind giving him my last 5k even if I have to go hungry.

You're a sign of human devolution

News like this won't make front page. Na snake, people dying dey give Dem joy