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A very tough one
you can't expect her to tell you her top secrets likewise you.
from your write up it's obvious she still love that ex and finding it hard to move on for some reasons; guilt, ashamed of her actions, and she has no one to trust about her top secrets, etc....
Back to your questions, if you did love her and still do, then show her love, care for her, like she meant the world to you, always be there for her, break your principles for her, communicate with her in every aspect of her life, have great sex with her!(very important, make sure she squirts) don't cheat on her, don't tell her an expensive lies no matter how hard it is, etc...
if you can do all that, then she'll tell you all you need to know, then you can go ahead and marry her...

but for me, numbers don't count only with girls though, otherwise with cash numbers of abortion, dick, dates, i really don't give a damn, so far i love her selling points and she has got what it takes to be my wife... i'll love, marry her everyday

They date fair guys but dark skin guys rock them on bed

enshi:
Not true... Check well

Don't argue

Berlynn:
helooooooooooooooooo!

yeah yeah, it me

kateskitty:
Verily verily I say unto you
I ain't

then let that dawg that wouldn't like to be tag coward come claim his highness
the nigga don dey fear, don't be, just show up, or i take her from you and hand her over to the brave dawg

Berlynn:
IT IS FINISHED!! lmao

Can still see your ass behind ya.

leofab:
am not..if you slide in my sm..I will ignore you for one year before I start replying you

Fat girls just love to ignore niggas, i wonder why shaa

kateskitty:
Sorry boo, someone already beat you to it

someone told me about a "foreign lie", now I've come to experience one
szen.... kateskitty dey lie, she's single.

kateskitty:
It is you Nigeria Guys that have a problem with chatting a lady
One minute you guys are professing love like it is water
Two minutes you guys are proposing marriage.

Nigeria guys learn from that chat yourself

Abeg avoid us go marry oyinbo
you go suck d**k tire

princessnike:
Time 2 open up 2 my nairaland crush

go ahead...
Free puna'ni on the call

kateskitty:
I just love the way this DM chat flows
Nigerian guys can be such creeps when it comes to chatting up a lady.

Nigeria Guy: Hi you look cute
Lady: K
Nigeria Guy: I love you
Lady:
Lady: Already

lols
calm down, you ain't funny, just laughing at you!
assuming a 9ja dawg chat ya up with such sentence, you would have replied with "k"

leofab:
Onyibo girls and straight forwardness shaa.. y'all should check that chat

You see your life
"hard to get and keeping your kitten to yourself" want to ruin you.

dacblogger:
The time has come for me 2 open up to my nairaland crush... ,enough is enough.

you want give person free kitten be that o

airminem:
Hahahaha, Toss Her To The Kitchen

airminem:
Hahahaha You Ve Brain In Cranium. Twale

For her mind now, she's funny o

NLchikeeto:
I don't get d concept of a guy, grabbing a girl's ass in photoshoots trending these days................4 me,it makes d girl looks slutty............see how d guy grab d ass like say na him pillow.

Am coming for yours very soon

so get prepared

Nothing of such OP...

Girls headache

Even the OP that took his/her time to post this and ask such question, got something wrong with his/her thinking faculty...

AshawoGirl:
OK send me a pm. Let's see if your preek Is small I will expose u on Nairaland

AshawoGirl:
Am telling u. 80% of Nigeria guys can't hit for 10mins except with drugs.
All tribes Igbo Hausa Yoruba.

I won't say otherwise, but i can assure you that some 9ja niggas can go 5 rounds without drugs

AshawoGirl:
Weting I do u. Is that not the truth. Or is your own not small? Shift for road

You can't be real

Estharfabian:



Bad belleh...

Bad belleh bawoo

shey you don't know that all those loved prophet by God as stated in the bible Bleep enough of girls yet them wife no do anyhow...
you nko want my dey eat only your kitten, madam i don tire jawee

0ubenji:
U too dey vex sef..
I dint posit that scenario to u in a marriage situation too.
I'm saying nothing bad if she sleeps around too when u guys are not married mehn.. As long as she loves and respects u
She sleeping around when u guys are married and when not married are two different tinz mehn. As long as she loves and respects u..it doesn't matter
So nothing bad she does same Cox u both ain't married as u did too

Abi no be so?

That dude never break bottle for your head yet to dey talk say he too dey vex...
What's really the difference between marriage and serious date abi na serious relationship
nothing bad if she sleep around ke but think na, shey Father Abraham wife sleep with another man abi na the wife yarn the husband to go Bleep one of the maid

lovelygurl:
I can't believe I just read this crap. You think it's only physical abuse that's bad? It's ok for you to be abused mentally uhn? I hope you also think every lady that cheats on you still loves you and isn't bad?

This bae dey para o!
but some dude don't just give a f*ck...

Estharfabian:



loL.
It's Balderdash. Every Sane person should know this.
A dude that Cheats on A woman he's involved with Has no respect, Love for that woman.

if someone really Claims to love someone, then, they could no more cheat on them than they could physically Harm them.

Going by his Irrational, Unethical, Dumb logic, it's Okay for a woman to cheat too, Right? if she feels an itch the husband can't scratch? 'Coz what's good for the goose should damn right be goose for the Gander.

Lol
For your mind now, you don write something wey make sense abi

Gflat:
Some people are so good in their game you can't spot any of the aforementioned. You should rename the thread to Cheaters guide for dummies.

Sight you man, your kind of intellect is needed in NIGERIA

pocohantas:
Anybody can fall for great liars.
It's not gender specific...that's why oloshos get the well to do husbands, because they know how to package and deceive guys too.

Most of these guys screaming virgin on NL would still end up with refurbished virgins. Naso life be.
They say they love natural beauty, but the NL girls with makeup have the highest likes...men are more confused than women.

Not having a car doesn't make anyone a good guy, it's also not surprising that you somehow had to make the thread a materialistic thing.
So many girls have been heartbroken by 'broke' guys, some by rich guys. With the rich guy, they find it easier to compensate themselves with the fun times. I won't blame them, two lovers have sex and a girl is made to feel she is the one that got 'fuc-ked'.

With what I see on Nairaland...most of you guys are on a mission to smash poosies, both good and bad guys. Chicks have learnt to give to the highest bidder.

It's simple cause and effect.

Gosh, she burst my brain shaa

That will probably expose lots of students that don't read
though i agree

After death, every human cease to exist. FACT
you can go do some research through this bible verses;
Ecclesiastes 9:5, 10.
Acts 7:60; 13:36.
Psalm 146:4.
Genesis 3:19.
After Adam die, Adam did not exist. Therefore, when Jehovah said that Adam would return to the dust, He meant that Adam would return to a state of nonexistence. Adam would be as lifeless as the dust from which he was made.

No be me talk am o, but it all came from the bible!

What a scary thing to think of, but everybody gat die, even that bae with fine face, nice curve and round big boobs, chai, imagine...

Recoverd:
Well, if u look like a criminal or a tout, cut it

i like your own hairstyle

2017 about to come.
Me will just wait till they start yabbing Olumba Olumba in 2017 crossover night cause even T.B Joshua self don tire to prophetic about this buhari regime