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kinggogo:
Dis section is rili turning into smthing else

Weird dudes evrywhere

not okay with ya, then leave!

dollyjoy:
Sex is very easy to abstain from.

like you're doing it right

greatdeal1408:
cheat on her too.

Sight ya man...

OP, you be dude of this 21century na, why let girl carry u dey play like this na
don't stress yourself up over a cheating issues like this, cause i wouldn't think about it if my GF did cheat on me.
act like nothing happen, like it not a big deal since she'll be giving ya her attention whenever it needed!
then enjoy the pussy with condom while the show still goes on...
and a piss of advice "DON'T YOU EVER BREAK UP WITH A CHEATING PARTNER"

dacblogger:
Was it nt you that posted something abt your g.f looking ugly without make up and now you are looking for a
g.f huh

Ya following up and don't wanna loose guard...
sight ya

Softcurls:
All these people are lying to you... your thing is small

Women do care about size... it's not about what it does but about the respect and fear it commands.

If she is pleasuring herself just know u aren't doing it right... I think you need to punish her a bit... be rough n catch her by surprise. She won't use that cucumber again

Correct woman people like ya are hard to find! you just yarn wetting burst ma brain "it's not about what it does but about the respect and fear it commands."
Even noticing a big cock in a boxer or trouser about arousing, e dey spin girls head! .

Splinz:
Op, you don't get it.

Satisfying a woman in bed has nothing to do with dick size, it's all about understanding the act of love making.

That you're able to penetrate a woman doesn't mean you know how to make love. Even with a 0.5inch dick, you can still give her an earth shattering orgasm.

see big talk!

Fabulocity:
You're really bold though. While some will open a new account to ask this question.
So for that reason alone, I'd answer your question by quoting the very cliché saying, "size doesn't matter, it's how you use it".
And a girl opened a thread today praising guys with small tools as she found them to be better lovers.

And too much of everything is not good. Moderation is key

Sis... Abeg it matters in some cases. no one is good or bad in bed, just depends on the two partner. meet girls that doesn't like pre-intimacy but straight forward to sex!

QueenSuccubus:



This is a very serious kweshun...

But OP, every gayl has different taste when it comes to sizes tho.. Even if u only have 3 or 4 inches if u know how to work it out, I bet she will stop using cucumbers to satisfy herself

3/4 inches ke ...

chccho:
Hi all,so I started dating this wonderful lady a few months back barely 3months though she is out of the country we talk every second like next door neighbours.

The relationship started fantastically we talk about everything and anything and never get tired of talking.This happens to be the kind of lady I have been praying to God for all my life and I started to say within myself I would like to marry this girl in fact my plan is to settle down with her next year if we can work things out and she is also down for settling down as we have discussed all this and much more.
As usual relationships face ups and downs and couples disagree. Little by little we would have some issues and get over it and Move on . in fact we started making plans to spend Xmas together and we were super excited about it.

All of a sudden a few wks ago about end of a October to be precise we had a lil misunderstanding and from then on things started getting worse. We started talking less,she started giving cold responses and snapping more at me.
I started to wonder what's going wrong with our relationship? I confronted the issues and tried to remedy it all but this girls behaviour just changed towards me.overnight she just became a totally different person to me. Right now we hardly even talk or chat and she is not even bothered about it. This has been affecting me for the past 2-3wks now and I have tried everything to salvage the situation but it seems things keep getting worse in fact she would even snap at me sometimes at any little attempt.

To me I am beginning to think she has found someone else cos her sudden change on attitude doesn't add up to me.. I am thinking calling off the relationship as I can't be hanging in a relationship.
My feelings r hurting so much right now and I don't know what to do.
Pls only matured and wise comments.
Thanks

EYah @ OP, so there are niggas that still gives themselves headache like this

Bro, my kindly advise to ya, is don't just overthink about anything that concerns a girl even if she has grown to become a woman in this 21 century, reason is that[i] girls/women are just a confuse being that they themselves don't know what's going on within them, they wanna have everything perfect while they doing the least perfect things in a relationship they're into...[/i]
OP ya don't break up with girls just because the relationship is unstable or your GF is giving ya a serious headache like the one you experiencing now though you choose to go through that! only break up with a girl when you know insides ya heart, that ya can't forgive her, for her action and you don't want to hurt her thoroughly by attempting revenge Don't give her space, don't be too serious about girls issues, just play around it, what a girl will give you (sex, comfort, money, peace of mind, fidelity and co.) trust me you'll do nothing to earn it, but she'll gladly give with a big on her face...

That girl/lady, avoid contacting her for now, at least a week, after that call her teasing her like "my rainbow, you murdering a young man here slowly............." but if she did contact ya first before that one week just try tease her, don't take her conversation serious, just tease her and play around the topic, don't show over seriousness...

Can a guy be deliberately stingy to a lady??
YES! to that question.
It's all depends on the girl...

Raine80:
It takes discipline. You cannot chose your situation or the person you fall in love with. It's not for everyone but so far it's worked well.

seems like it working for ya

melonsoup:
Aww! That's a new one...

without a pics ya earn it

HUh, serious one but come o 5years to my age, huh the bae senior my two sis o...
What matters is, if she got 70perfect of what i want in a woman and it not too obvious in her stature that she seniors me up to 5years of age, Then I'll love her thinking of even marrying her!

melonsoup:
Meh! You get what u ask for

Brutal girl

melonsoup:
Relationship101. Don't ask about my virginity.

You ask, I will lie and it will be damn hard for you to see beyong my panty.

you'll lie good to know one of those girls that lie

OP, for this kind century self wetting e na talk reach that side self u want marry her wey u go dey ask her jamb questions wey majority of girls go fail ...
Now listen to this;
Girls know what a guy wanna hear, and she believes that will make ya take her serious from the way she view your mentality, so next time adjust... though such conversation could come up when ya about to do the real deal, so maintain till then, trust me things will sort itself out

Loyalblak007:
despite the fact that it is an irrelevant question...still...I don't lie about mine if asked..,Of what benefit is the answer to you guys? IF SHE SAYS YES YOU'LL SAY SHE IS LYING & IF SHE SAYS NO YOU'LL SAY SHE IS A HOE

What do you guys want for Christ sake?

Haba disappointed you don't know... "PUSSY" And steady giving whenever requested for

Eyah OP, ya don't have to change who you are, you just haven't connect yourself with the right people yet... and please don't ever think a guy will stay faithful to ya cause you good and loyal to him, if a guy wanna be faithful, he will even if he knows his GF isn't faithful to him... for a guy to stick with one partner depends on him and not the girls attitude, commitment or anything...

Don't know much about this man but me just dey feel am

Raine80:
And that's our concern how? It's between the pair who know what was going on.

Haba see wetting ya dey talk na who cares what was going on, yet she no park commot for my house before she go Bleep another man... Haba, that kills the ego and self-esteem of any man. just imagine ya brother wife doing this stuff or my own wife go Bleep for outside carry belle come house . what are ya saying na Raine80 assuming am the real victim na so ya no go feel for me at all abi Me ain't judging here but just saying she could have divorce thy husband and go enjoy herself!

AngelAhnie:
Some women are very wicked

huh, hope ya ain't wicked too cause to me that woman, she isn't wicked, she's just enjoying herself just that she could have divorce the husband and do everything legally

Beamborla:
Even your ego won't allow you admit I'm right.

No problem

lol see this damsel shaa, nobody's right or wrong in this life Bae , just do what works for ya and if ya believe in God, pray smartly, but if ya believe in Logic, smack it hard!

Raine80:
We don't know what was going on in that marriage. It's not for anyone to label her as anything nor to view the husband as the husband victim as we don't know what really happened all those years under that roof.

nobody cares about the process but the END. I.e The woman cheated on her husband boldly with full confident self, go relax, Bleep another man well till she get belle . Chai

Get a baby mama, and it saves ya all the headache

Beamborla:
Sweetie, I'm not sure you've been following for real cos if you've been following, you wouldn't say the boldened.
Even judging from my post you mentioned, your assertion is wrong.

Marriage is not for the fickle minded. Lots of compromise are to be made in marriage and all egos are meant to be kept aside. The problem comes in when people allow their ego get in their way, when they expect the spouse to make compromise and sacrifices while they remain their rigid selves

dey there na

Beamborla:
If you talking about licking your ass, hell no!

If it's about pleasuring your loins and manufacturing babies, if she signs up for it

If you talking about supporting you and giving you peace of mind, you better earn it. She should, though

If it's about house chores, honey, the earlier you learn to involve yourself, the happier your home would be.

lol... been following your quote for some while now and u sound as if marriage is a do or die thing, my dear, for same reasons you've mentioned here, same reasons many men regretted their decision marrying a woman... now, majority of men in Nigeria are just thinking of getting a "baby mama"... short cut to the whole process saves so many things like; women headache, spending to much on unnecessary stuff e.c.t