thesilentman:

I hope so.It was a rude shock to me.I had been pondering on the loan i took on her behalf and the least i expected was the attitude she's giving me recently.It's just maddening.Thanks for your suggestion.

😂😂The way you talk sef. You took loan on HER behalf? You should have left her and your baby to die na. You are helping your family, bros, not only her.
You better calm down🙄

beekind:
I am a 38 year old Nigerian American citizen dating a 26 year old Nigeria girl.
I grew up in Nigeria but travelled out to the USA when I was 25 years old, I am a citizen now and doing really well for myself.
I met a beautiful and godly Nigerian girl on facebook and we have been dating for some months now we are now thinking of marriage, she is in Nigeria while I am in the USA.

Some weeks ago my dad asked me to do some tests and send to him, (He is a medical doctor), I did them, turns out to be fertility tests and all was perfect.
I just told him about my fiance and my plans to get married in some months time and he said she has to do fertility test before he can agree to the marriage.

This was very shocking for me as he insisted that it is his position, I haven't told my fiance cos I dont know how to and my fiance is scheduled to pay my parents a visit for the first time in Port Harcourt in 2 weeks time.
My fiance is from Delta but lives in Portharcout as my parents while we are from Port harcourt.

My dad has said if I cannot tell her that he will, what do you guys think ?

Honest advise please and admin kindly push to front page for wider advise.

Thanks.

How about you both carry out the test? Among other tests, this is important. It's shouldn't be up for question that she should do the test too.

dboY1123:
It is a month already that my mom died in my hands.. I am really depressed!! I have been seeing life as nothing and vanity, I can't get over her, memories with her kept coming back really hard I tried to keep myself busy by watching movies, playing games and so on..But that doesn't stop my mind from remembering her.

These days, nothing bothers me again, not even life or death, I still have a father but it doesn't change things..

There was a time I went to school (my ppa), my proprietor was trying to pacify me by talking about when he lost his wife back then and everything, I started feeling uneasy and extremely tired..it wasn't stress at all my stomach started aching and I felt like vomiting or even passing out..he noticed it and I quickly left his presence and I went back home to shower and rest..

Please how can I get over my mom, I'm so obsessed with her and her memories kept coming in my head that every time I felt I could have done something to rescue her despite everything I did, taking her to state hospitals and even private.. I am the last born and I am about 29years..I have elder ones like 45(first born) but I took so much responsibilities when she was sick and I was only the one she could call everytime she's depressed due to memory loss..I later found out her sickness was related to heart failure and it was congestive heart failure she was going through.. All those times we thought she had nocturnal asthma like early last year..

It was only last month we knew that it was cardiomyopathy or cardiomegaly heart related.. The general hospitals we took her too didn't say anything like that, one of them only said her liver seemed bigger than the normal one..And we thought it was edema cz her legs were swollen.. So, it was heart related disease and it led to cardiac arrest or heart attack cz she just vomited and stopped breathing all of a sudden..

You'll be alright. Just know that she won't be happy that you are still sad. Hold onto the happy times you had with her, how she made you smile, and how you made her smile too.
And make sure you take care of yourself. Since you know what led to her demise, you can learn to live a healthy life too and go for regular check-ups.
Stay strong.

Anny505:


Exactly what I wanted to say, someone printed 500 copies of IV and can't take out atleast 30 and give to family or extended family members. Omo the guy no rate OP be that for the family.

Family don know say him dey marry.

Born2winnx:
The wedding is holding today and have made up my mind not to attend because the dude invited me through WhatsApp. It annoys me how children of this days has no regards or character for their elders. they are changing everything all in the name modernization.

How can someone, I know the exact date he was born be inviting me through WhatsApp, no respect at all, sending the scanned card copy there.. what happened to the hardware copy he printed? I had to tell him, he laughed it off saying bros nor vex the 500 copies he printed was not enough to share self. I didn't want to press the issue farther my mind is already made up.
He won't see me there today.

When I did mine, I knew how far distance I trekked to invite his elder brothers face to face, bought several drinks.

I just hope he invited his in-laws through WhatsApp too

Shey you want to eat the card ni?

Go along with the tides and times. Your children may not even use IV. Maybe you will decide not to attend.

JEWELofHELL666:
This is an unpopular opinion, but it's the truth. Chinelo caused her own death.

As a medical doctor, she should know better that a gunshot wound is a medical emergency that requires basic first aid applications like stopping the bleeding, using hand, cloth, etc.

But what did she do? She decided to chase clout by opening her Twitter application and going through the stress of typing "I'm in the train. I have been shot, please pray for me."

This is a bad first aid practice. It changed a lot. The hand she should have used to stop the bleeding was used to call for prayers on Twitter. To her, her followers' superstitious prayers are more effective than first aid.

May her soul rest in peace.

You're an animal sha. You think this is action film where the person shot will remove belt and alcohol to treat wound, abi?

Oponu

Someone that is a thug himself.
Oponu

silentvoice:
This appearance has been on my private part for as long as I can remember. It doesn't itch except when I shave on some occasions. I'm a 23 years female and not sexually active, is there a way for me to clear this? Does anyone have experience on what this is? I also keep having reoccurring boils close to my vagina

These occur due to shaving with shaving stick. Try using Veet or any good hair removal cream that you don't react to (remember to follow instructions), or waxing. The more you shave, the more the bumps occur.

Wear good cotton panties as well. Avoid using body sprays or any alcohol based deodorant there.

Finally, when you are at home, make breeze enta your body. Peace!

Sammy07:


Nope I prefer Saga and his loverbird

The babe switched herself with Cross na

chymeze:
Hi everyone. I really need to know...where exactly is the right place to apply a perfume? Under the armpit? The cubital fossa of the forearm? The neck? On your clothes instead of body?

Oil perfumes on clothes, it will last longer, even after washing
Body Mists (especially Alcohol free), on body. Inner wrists, behind the ears, pulse points on the neck.
Alcohol-free perfumes can be sprayed on body too.
Other Alcohol-based perfumes, spray a little distance from your clothes, because some of them stain outfits.

CharisEleos:

Awwnnn.. this woman is gone?
Was she ill? I mean .. she was still looking young and healthy for her age.

So sad.

COVID complications

DanielAlhassan:
How will you feel if you find out the girl you are in love with who also claim to love you back is pregnant for another person
Your opinion is highly welcome
No insult
Asking for a friend who is about to commit suicide
Please advice him
He is reading your comments

I don't want to be harsh, but.......

Please, let him buy his coffin down.


It's a pity that he wants to end his life over something so, so trivial. He should move on.

#sigh

0KNM:
fine girl where? I’m not sure if you wear glasses or not. Please clean your glasses

All of Una wey talk say person no fine, u fine? Especially you, ask yourself first, are you beautiful or handsome? You can't create anything, yet insulting the Creator's work.

Get sense and use wise words. Don't enter Nairaland and turn senseless.

Kogi boi, my foot.

This clip is so old. Like 4 years now.

Shey na recycling una don dey do?

Shey it's me that will sneeze near my sister, and she'll be asking if I'm sneezing or laughing.

Kolewerk!!

Those of you that sneeze like bazooka, enle oh.

Starkid3010:
Especially that of Ui we are tired
They are thieves

So the acceptance fee of UI is much? Compared to the ones we see here?
Shey you want them to add money ni?

Oshey!
"You smell nice" Part 2.

You wey dey talk say person ugly, u fine?
Answer!!
Ordinary clay face, you can't mold.
Vain!!

wickyyolo:
He will soon go to war. Then only advantage is that he will be buried with respect unlike the soldier here.

Did anyone tell you he will die?

Happy birthday to him. May he grow in strength and wisdom in Jesus name. Amen

Evangkatsoulis:
Botany. Pffft...

Excuse you?

Beebah, my darling. Congratulations to the Botanist Scholar