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dannyrhymes600:
sure... if you can endure being punched in the mouth and eyes

endure nko, buhari ni

Polynek:
Eeeyea I wish I have oo, am the last born in my family, but none of my elderly ones hv touch me bcox am very physical, due to my steady visit to the gym house. anyway leme enjoy the stories in dix thread

eyah... but is it fair if u beat up ur senior ones in presence of ur neighbors?

Erojepromise:
op made me laugh, there's this day l tried beating my younger brother that's 12 years old omo l got the shock of my life as this boy started fighting me back, l beat him up but not without me having some scratch marks on my necks since that day l resolve to just shout and hit him only a little not too hard make e for no turn fight

lol... nowadays I just nag a little and move way from the scene.. I cannot come and be embarrassing myself. he be like say I will hit the gym soon

dannyrhymes600:
my lil bro is bigger than me in terms of muscles, we are both 6'6 tall but he naturally has big size, he doesn't look at my face nor reply when I am angry at him. plus I am a very good boxer but no one at home knows.

I think I should also learn boxing..

one of your previous thread, u said ur parents(clearly stating your father also) do not care about u and ur education. now ur father died when u were 7 years old and u are now 17. shey you dey whine me ni? even a small kid will not fall for this shit...

see oppression... God when? I dey hustle hard, baba answer my prayer...

Richnerd69:
Tell that to music producers.

bro, how are u today?
am also a lover of music, I can play all types of drums. but I am still learning piano. how far with your piano training? have u been able to master it? am sure u are now a guru, can I get a training from u? I have a Yamaha piano..

Ahmad62:
My junior brother beat me up?... Hahahaha you make Me laugh, my eyelids are stronger than him

lol... am sure u are a body builder

samyj2477:
I don laugh tire o. hustle mk u get ur own house...d only solution b that.

i swear.. if I tell u all my experience with these boys ehnn.. u will laugh and wee wee on ur body

mezico96:
Nah...but I fear my immediate younger sister oo, am taller than her, but she is bigger than me... the thing is, she is quick to apologize for her mistake but once she does you better not talk about it anymore..

We don't fight but the scar she gave me is still on my skin till date, that girl hard gon, she don't mind shooting you when provoked.I call her sadist aka PANDA

Surprisenly her husband is skinny and tall like me...just waiting for the day he'll come with his people that my sister beat him up

lol, please quote me when she does, I wanna hear d gist

Lifestone:
The point is that violence don't solve problems. At the age I imagine you to be, you should have developed a non-violence ways of extracting compliance from them.
But at least you dey use your sense

bro I can't even use violence for those boys, they will just embarrass me

kelvinrhs:
Why will you want to be beating your brothers


Who still does that?

We are no longer in the 90's and you sound like someone in his early 30 since your junior brother that you senior with 9 years is now part of the special forces

Try to learn anger management and take life with simplicity


We only have one life, live it happily and not with a chip over your shoulder


My 2 cent though



Back to the thread question; Growing up, there was one girl in my area, with a very small body and she use to beat her senior brother and her senior sister


It dey always sweet me to watch Especially when she beats them and they start crying

read the thread carefully, i have two younger brothers, the first is a military, the second which is 9 years younger is d one that beat an adult up yesterday.. I fear the two of them, I cannot come and disgrace myself from those lads

Albertone:
What is stopping you from getting built too?

I no fit. he get why

Let's have fun..

let's share our experience fighting our younger ones.

as for me,
I am the second born to my mom, I easily get angry at any slightest provocation from my younger bro, I beat him very well, but few days after the fight I will be feelings pains in my body as if I carry weight, but since he became a soldier them no born me well to look at his face. anytime he annoys me, I just use style to shout at him and walk away, because I cannot imagine me fighting him because he is more taller and built than me. he is in special force, so he has learnt judo, boxing and lots more, I can't allow him to use me to do training.

our last born sef is taller than and built than me. whenever he does something wrong, I will just shout at him and threaten to beat him but he doesn't get scared if I threaten him. I am 9years older than this boy ooo.

yesterday, he fought and beat up our neighbor, an elderly built man for that matter, I fear o.
no wonder this boy doesn't fear me, see the kind person he beat up, I thought to myself..

I have promised i will be using my sense to scold the two of them(siblings).. I cannot allow some small boys to yeye me..

pls share yours, let's have fun
let's hear how u have handled your younger siblings.

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Wanbissaka:
thanks for the good gesture but i dey owerri

ok.. best of luck

if u need d accomodation in lag, send me a pm

Djamel:
Bro i read all you wrote and i think i understand why he's acting so......i think its just his character....i'm also like that kinda...talk to him about how you feel....people like that are mostly loners....introvert....like,i dont want to disturb you kind of a person.....lemme mind my business you mind urs.....mostly they are kind people by heart.....

for him not wishing you well on ur birthday, you would have jokingly reminded him its ur day and he hasnt said anything to you.....he isnt that foolish to still keep mute....people like that needs you getting closer to them not them to you.

as for the job,bro no be everybody dey do any how job.....give him time, but still make him see reasons why he should look for something he feels he will be comfortable doing to help himself too.......you've tried and may God bless you for ur kindness

thanks for this bro, I spoke to him and I feel he is not truly interested in doing those kinda jobs. but I fear he is playing with hunger, though I heard from someone that his family sends him money weekly, maybe that's why he so relax

valentineuwakwe:
@op you are becoming something else on nairaland, o...why bring personal matter to the public? the guy you are talking about just replied you above n was saying a different story.......

where you making up all those stories about the guy or what?

always, you want to share some thing to appear good or sound good on nairaland where as thousands have done what you think you are doing n have never mention them publicly evennif the beneficiaries are ungrateful.

you invited this guy n if he is acting weird, N.a. your house, tell him to leave, its that simple...your happiness n peace of mind matters most.

he has already threaten you so be careful...


I will wait to hear him tell his own side of the story...this will be so interesting!

that person that quoted me is just catching cruise here. and about me bringing d matter on nairaland. firstly, I met the guy on nairaland before I decided to help. secondly, I decided to speak out because of his weird ways because I don't want to do something and later feel like I did something bad so I had to come for advise.
thanks

Truvel:
My Dear, Don't Send Him Away. U Av Done Ur Best. Just Leave Him To His Fate & Face Ur Life & How U Will Stand Financially. When He Gets Tired, He Will Be D One To Leave. Don't Send Him Away, So As To Maintain Clean Sheet In Ur Good Work.

ok, thank you so much

illicit:
Ok
He may not be what or who u even think he is....

who knows self

illicit:
Mention him....

I will search and post his thread soon. but he hasnt been online for a while according to him

blackboy:
Guy no tell him say you wan use am as conductor. He go say that na yourplan since, to use him for something. Just let him know you need a conductor if he knows who can do the job.

i am not forcing him ooo, I will only ask if he's interested.

Igboid:
Matters arising.

My advice is that you sit him down and tell him what you feel about his present situation.
Tell him your expectations of him and how he has not be meeting them. Hear his own side of the story.
Give him time to see if he takes in your words and change for better. If he doesn't, then kick him out. You have tried enough.

On a personal note, I doubt the guy is capable of change. He has big dreams yet too arrogant to start small, which was why he thinks the legitimate jobs you offered him were beneath him, even though he has no shishi.
His type are usually toxic and make up for their laziness and inability to work dirty to change their own lives, by blaming everyone around them. They are also prone to crime since they desire success without hard work.

You don't need his type around you if you want to go far in life, his negative energy will drain the life out of you.

u have a very good point here. thank u

Skyfornia:
I don't know why people are ungrateful...just keep doing your best OP. The mistake you made is that you didn't discuss the duration of his stay..I have helped people too but I always discuss the duration of their stay before allowing them to stay.

So that if I throw you out after our discussion, the gods won't blame me.

yea u are right... but I have also done same to some people and it went well, he's own is just different. one of those i refered and was accomodated by my dad in the past bought me a minibus yesterday has a birthday gift. the guy spent just 3weeks with us before he got a good job. now he came back to repay me, though I wined him that I needed it but I never knew he has a plan already

99thEnemy:
SmellySperm , hope say no be you them the talk about.

Lol, not him though

Sonnobax15:
Jokes apart,op, your type no reach better 10% for this country presently...You be good man, that I must say.....But make your kindness no Cor turn to bad, God forbid....

Some people no really need help.... just imagine am.... You enter Lagos wey be nobody's land but fortunately,you see person wey accommodate you for free....Then the only way you think you can pay him back is by putting your lazy ass in one place...I hope this Nairalander dey see this my comment cha..

seriously, he's making me feel that helping him is a bad idea.
though I will try talk to him when he's back and I will update you all

lalasticlala rocktation farano
pls I need more experienced views thanks

Perfectsouth:
if only people could realize that in life, their health and sanity really matters in any situation, they will be fine..
Imagine, na you help person, na you still dey get headache and workedup..
The earlier you take a decision and stand for your sanity sake, the better.. If you don't have a clear head and mind, it will be difficult for you to achieve anything cos those feelings and thoughts will keep dragging you and make you lose focus and concentration

an eye opener. I understand u perfectly well..

SmellySperm:
you've tried your best bro...just send him away already..

dude fit get small willywilly for body,it's obvious he's a pussy a**niqqa, everybody can't get to the top in life

congratulations on your new bus,cheers to ur new hustle, you're a real OG

thanks bro. it God all the way

Kriss216:
I guess he will see this post.



So, let me ask him direct... Ogbeni, wetin be your problem? You wan dey form Boss for person house? Forget age aburo.

lol, seriously I hope he see the post but he is currently not available for a while, he said he sold his phone to fund his transportation to lag

Cutecharlz:
Have you talked to him about his recent behaviour?

no I haven't .. i don't want it to look as if am stalking him