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Mekenz:
I will like to go into food stuff business, I need someone to put me through. atleast a million naira will go a long way.

yeah it's will go a real long way...

And also I will advise u specialize in one of the foodstuffs and not all as a start.

Mekenz:
how much can start the food stuff business, you mentioned?

depends on what u wanna get and the quantity.

But with a minimum of 100k u can start anyone of them

henryvic3325:
If you have any good business idea that will fetch good money but don't have money to start it.


You can bring the idea and we work on it

I have business ideas..

Production or exporting?

Production: I have ideas and experience in producing detergents, candles, custards, butter, dettol, toilet soaps, and many more.

To succeed in this kind of business, one must create a type of grade1 packaging and have few experienced marketing team to grow the products.

Exporting: I have a very sure link in northeast, Where you can get Foodstuffs at a very cheap price and resell in southWest or export to neighboring countries and make cool cash , e.g Onions, Rice, Garri, pepper, Locust beans and others..


No one should ask me why I have not been doing the business, because I don't have access to finance.

Op, if u are interested quote me back, and let's start d journey

God!!!

shegun4sur:
What do you mean by victim of sexual abuse. I am assuming you're a male. 8 honestly want to understand

yes I am a male and I was sexually abused by my stepmother when I was very young, d memory still lingers in my head

Lalasticlala self

I am also a victim of sexual abuse. That's more reason I had to create this thread, so a lot of parents can learn to guide and educate their children /wards

Lalasticlala, move to Frontpage let's educate ourselves more about handling of the kids

Dear Parents/Guardians,

I want to believe almost all of us has read or heard about how a young girl of 14yrs old has been defiled by a popular actor.
Whether *the story is true or not*, can we parents learn One or two more lessons from this pathetic story.

Firstly, We must acknowledge the fact that there are Pedophile in our society.

What is Pedophilia?
Pedophiliaalternatively spelt paedophilia) is a psychiatric disorder in which an adult or older adolescent experiences a primary or exclusive sexual attraction to prepubescent children.

The case mentioned above is *not the first but it can be the last if we all stand up to our responsibilities as Parents, and understand what a child is.

A child is a gift from God and He expect us as earthly guardians to take proper care of each and every one of them.

One of our major duty is to keep them away from this psychiatric patients called pedophile.
May God help us all
Below are children care tips

CHILD MOLESTATION!

Child Molestation is also known as child sexual abuse. It is a secret crime involving a range of indecent sexual activities between an adult and a child.

According to the National Violence Against Children Survey, it established that 1 in 4 girls and 1 in 10 boys experience sexual violence before the age of 18 in one way or the other.

TYPES OF MOLESTATION:
-Defilement
-Rape
-Fingering
-Making a child watch pornography
-Exposing the genital to kids
-Indecent touching
-handling etc

WHO COULD ABUSE YOUR CHILD?
ANYBODY
Studies show that over 95% of sexually abused children are abused by persons known or close to the child or the child's family.

ABUSERS ARE MOSTLY NOT STRANGERS.
They are right there in your house, co-tenants, family members, lesson teachers, neighbours. Their friends in school, hostel, classmates,class/school teachers, cousins, uncles, nephew, niece, fathers, step fathers, grand fathers, imams, Arabic teachers, choir masters, pastors, confidants, security guard, maids, family /school drivers, After school teachers, teachers, mummy's friend, daddy's friend, caregivers, strangers........ the list can go on.
Please, do not ask if any of the above is possible because, there is no case of any of the above that has not happened.

CAUSES OF CHILD SEXUAL ABUSE
Parental negligence, carelessness, nonchalant attitude.
It is as bad as No one can be trusted.
We have a child presently carrying a baby that belongs to her father.

OTHER CAUSES:
Absentee parents.
Parents who do not observe.
When the kids are not informed.....
What you watch with your kids.
Indecent dressing by our children.

WHERE CAN YOUR CHILD BE SEXUALLY ABUSED?
✓On your bed
✓Right under your nose, under your roof
✓In the school environment - class, toilet etc
✓Hostel
✓Parties
✓In their room (siblings)
✓Deserted/Abandoned places
✓ When you are distracted etc.

Perpetrators look for opportunities.
5mins is enough to cause a life long damage.

HOW DO PAEDOPHILES GET THE VICTIMS?
1.Grooming
2.Baits
a. Emotional bait
b. Gift bait
c. Financial bait
d. Familiarity & Respect bait.
3. Child grooming
Befriending and establishing an emotional connection with a child, and sometimes the family, to lower the child's inhibitions with the objective of sexual abuse. -Wikipedia-
Gaining the trust of a minor with the intention of having sex relationship with them.

HOW TO IDENTIFY A POSSIBLE ABUSER:
A. Always trying to be around your child or vice versa
B. Child feels uncomfortable when he/she sights the abuser or when the abuser is around.
C. Easily and conveniently accept to care for your child while you are away.
D. Can be hard on the child especially if the child is rejecting his moves.

If any of the above is observed, please, shine your eyes. Or sometimes, your child might feel uncomfortable/rejecting to go to the person when you send him or her Or even go for holiday.

Sexual abuse happens among siblings, set rules, separate their rooms, separate their beds.
We had a case of twins having sex with each other. When they were asked, they said: we see mum and dad do same.

Why should we be that careless?
Because of the carelessness of both parents, their innocent minds were polluted and their lives were destroyed.

WHAT A PERPETRATOR SAYS TO A CHILD WILLING TO SPEAK OUT:
•I will kill you
•You will die
•Your mummy will hate you
•Your mummy will beat you
•Your mummy will blame you.
•Your mummy and your daddy will die.
•He could cut the child, lick the blood and say: "this is a blood covenant between us, the day you tell is the day you die."

Teach your child The SRR action.

S - Shout/scream
R - Run
R - Report

POSSIBLE SIGNS THAT YOUR CHILD HAS BEEN ABUSED:
✓Isolation
✓Aggressiveness
✓Anxiety/Fear
✓Difficulty in walking
✓Sudden drop in academic performance
✓Poor social interaction
and so on.

OTHERS
✓Sexually Transmitted Diseases.

Their dressing is important, dress to cover them please. Teach them privacy. They must knock and seek permission before they enter your room.
It is wrong to bath them together irrespective of sex.

PLEASE NOTE!
children never lie about abuse If your child tells you someone is trying to mess with him or her.... Please believe the child and respond appropriately.

EFFECT OF CHILD SEXUAL ABUSE
-The abused child could become a serial abuser
-Depression
-Suicidal thoughts
-Stigma
-Guilt
-Lifelong psychological trauma
-Aggression
-Withdrawn
-Infected with STDs
Etc

THE BOYS
More often than not,we pay more attention to the girls than the boys.
With my years of experience, boys are mostly victims of anal sex but because we do not pay attention.
For them, healing is a terrible process.

WATCH OVER YOUR BOYS
Something might just be happening and you perceive not. Do not be a hard mum. Strike a balance between love and discipline.
Give your children Sex Education proportional to their age. A child of age 2 or even less is due for Sex Education.
Tell them what nobody must do with their body.
Tell them to speak out.
In the house, everyone must respect one another's privacy.

Child molestation is real, it is more painful if it happens under your very nose.
Please bond more with our Jewels, we want to receive them back to school bigger and better than they left. Above all, pray for them always. The child molesters will not go near them but we must play our part

Thank you all.

Keep staying safe.

Usedappliance:
I urgently need an event food server to join us as a contract staff

2500 per service

Friday Saturday Sunday.
DM urgently
Premierservice2020@gmail.com

am interested pls...
Email sent

folylinklaptop:
sales rep is needed in a Computer sales retail Office in sango ota Ogun state .
Application should possess the folllowing
1 stay around Sango ota ogun state
2.Must be a lady
3Must have SSce,OND,HND.
4.Must be able to read and write .
5Must be able to Work minimum of 1 to 2years
Call or Whatapp 08087701980,09090944574 business hours only 9am to 7pm
U can Refer someone if u have anyone interested.

interested if accomodation is available. I live in lagos

My dad first born has always been lying to my dad that he's abroad for over 15 years, meanwhile big bro Don open church for akure.

We were invited to a church program at odogbolu ogun state, big bro church was also invited, infact he was a guest speaker for the program.

We were shocked when we saw big bro doing anointing and speaking in tongues.

Dad was so shocked and heartbroken.

Dad has always been using big bro achievement to brag among is friends and members that his son is abroad.

Big bro later apologized and gave and excuse that he was deported some years back and didn't wanna let dad know.

He finally traveled though 2 years later. But dad wouldn't believe him whenever he calls, unless he does video calls and show him oyinbo people..

IceColdVeins:
I need a young person(male/female) that can work as an attendant in a betting+playstation shop.
Requirements: Utmost Honesty, Mid-level computer literacy, Intermediate knowledge of Video games(PS 3 mainly), Knowledge of Online betting, Ability to work under pressure
Location: Irebawa Street, Oke-Ira Aguda, Ogba, Lagos
Remuneration: Very attractive pay

Kindly quote this post if you are interested.
You can refer someone you know that fits the post.

am very interested sir.
08129200781.

jolak5:
Responsibility’s
Assist in duties, answer phones, follow up on missed calls, people that left messages, follow up with the clients Post and respond on facebook.
Job Requirement Microsoft office, excel and powerpoint Strong Communication skills Professionalism
Attraction: Basic salary with the potential of earning Bonuses Experienced is preferred but we will train the right person Intern are advised to apply
Location: Oluyole, Ibadan
Application: Send Resume to Deexclusivetutors@gmail.com

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naijatour:
A sales person is needed in a bakery at Ojodu Berger.
Salary 20,000 to 30,000
Send CV to hr@laughingloafbakery.com.ng

I already sent mine

How do we apply

Problem no Dey finish

slimman007:
Oga leave story and pay him back his money.This is the behaviour of an average Nigerian when they borrowed money will not want to pay back.An average Nigerian is terrible when it comes to issues like this.I can bet with my life that you will not pay back that money even when you finally have it that is the character of an average Nigerian.Terrible people that is why is risk to borrow an average money.spitt

seriously, I have plans to pay him, I just need time to be able to gather myself. Even to feed is a problem. I just started a job recently, I trek to and fro everyday to work, that's how bad it I presently for me. He's my helper and I respect him a lot despite what he just did but I will definitely pay him.

After all my pleads to u. And u think calling me a scammer is the next thing, right?

Truly I borrowed money from u and I am not financially okay to return it.

It's not like I absconded with ur money, at least when I lost my phone, I sent u a mail on nairaland to notify of the development so u can still have a means of communicating with me and u wouldn't think I ran away from u.

And I have also sent u series of messages to u to give me time to find my feet.

Though, u have given me a lot of time already and u have been lenient enough, but u don't want to understand that things are not really moving well for me.

This that u did is really unfair to me.

No matter what u post here, I will make sure I return ur money soon.

And mind u, I am not a scammer and would never be one, I have conscience.

*And if I scammed u and I do not plan to pay u back, everything I ever worked for and all my struggles in life should be in vain, amen*

Investnownow:
This is crazy. The sorrow continues whichever way you choose to go. Lol.
What's your qualification?. I may be able to hook you up with something better.

OND? Thanks

Xiaomi1:
where are you

surulere, Lagos

Connected1:
First of all, ignore those people saying they can't do a minimum wage job because if you send them your CV or ask them for financial aid, they will not help you, they only care about themselves or sometimes their family.
Secondly, if the status of the 30k job is that of a contract staff and you are in a good department then they will surely make you a permanent staff and you will now be paid a salary and not wage anymore.
somehow you will fill up your fares with some overtimes or side jobs.
You can do your 60k jamb work and save at least 20k if the company that offers to pay you 30k doesn't have a good promotion record.
Lastly, you are the ultimate decision maker.
I respect you for being a good citizen and not indulging in fraudulent activities.

thank u sir

lelion:
My brother, none of is a job in real Sense. What did you study?

business admin @ yabatech

ajuzie101:
I strongly advice you go for the permanent job. Because after the contract job you will be left with no job for the moment. Meanwhile i can replace you in the data entry role.

Thanks

lol...

rookidmart:
Permanent job is better than temporary job.
Depending on the job, you might be able to move up in ranks and earn more, meanwhile your current job, after a month that's it.
Also the depending on the nature of the job, the second job bag be valuable experience that can boost your CV.

understood, thanks

sisisioge:
Biko stay where you are and keep doing it and applying to other places. That 30k job will not you less15k once you take out your transport and other expenses biko.

At the end of a month, you would have increased your experience and who knows what else that could happen. That guarantee of work provided by the second job is crap.

exactly my thought. Thank u ma

frozen70:
You said the first one is for one month

Then the second one is temporary

Meaning after one month you may be idle if you take the first one

But the second one will keep you busy pending when it will be off, which may take over three months

But just follow your heart

the second isn't temporary but permanent.

I already understand ur point ma. Thanks

Stevenbright:
I asked just to be sure!

It is not even an option to consider. Reason being that the daily transportation of #700 and maybe plus daily lunch will finish the salary and hence you will be working for free.

I thought about that also but I just need to weigh my options very well