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thatgirl504:
Ok, just tell him that you don't like his character and you want him out it's' as simple as that.

Don't pretend and die in silent.

ok, I understand

please forget about the issues I have recently encountered which made me an online begger last year, na condition make crayfish bend. i happen to have access to one of my late father's property, because I know some people will not believe this story, but it is real.

I just have to talk about this issue presently about a nairalander i accomodated late last year.

this guy created a thread that he needs to move to another state (lagos) to hustle, and possibly pursue his football career, he was previously living in Ilorin.

I saw the thread and I really wished to help him with the accommodation, mind u he's not the first person, and he's not gonna be the last I always reach out to if they need accommodation because I know what is to have nothing or be stranded, he's not the only nairalander I have helped with such, most unilag and Yabatech students got accommodation from me for free, I do this because that is what my dad does before his demise, and he has always told me to follow same step and I am glad I always helped out and I think it is hereditary, my grand father did same with his properties also.

I called this guy number, and we talked about how he will move to lag. he was so glad I offered to help him.

early this year, he called me and told me he was on his way to Lagos that I should give him a description of how to get to my place.

when he arrived, I went to bustop to pick him. he was surprised he met a very young man. so I took him to my room to drop his bags, and I took him round the compound and I also introduced him to my mom and my babymama.

I also gave him a bed he will sleeping on, mind you he will be sleeping in the church, because that's is where those I help with accommodation sleep, but they keep their bags in my room, but there is another available room we give out for free to those who sleep in church. but those who I bring in use my room. and they are free to watch films and do whatever they want.

few days after this guy came, i noticed he doesn't greet me, he doesn't even speak to me, but i take it as his character. sometimes whenever my babymama or mom cooks, I tell them to serve him also, but he will never come back to say a thank u.

meanwhile, when he came I explained my own situations to him because I already took him as a friend, I told him how life has turned around after my babymamas and i business collapsed and how we came on nairaland to beg. I told him how I do menial jobs to survive and I told him the challenges he will overcome but he has to tighten his seatbelt to survive in Lagos.

This guy is very lazy, but he's hungry, a lot of people are calling my attention to it...

he said he wants a daily job, so that he can be able to feed himself till he gets something better.
I told him to always follow me to were I carry pop for daily pay, he declined, I also took him to a driver who I also work for as a bus conductor, he said he can't do it, and many other jobs like that which he declined.

I noticed he started avoiding me, but he still come into my room to change to dress.
while he was looking for accommodation on his thread, he said he said he doesn't drink nor smoke, that is one of the things that also made me help me, but this guys roll with smokers and drug addicts since he got to our area. my mom will be mad at me if she finds out the guy smokes.

yesterday was my birthday, while all my tenants and well wishers were greeting, this guy couldn't even say a happy birthday, till this moment he's just looking at me like spoilt yam.

I just got a minibus yesterday as a birthday gift from someone I have once helped, and I will start using it for business from Monday, I still wish to help this guy more and I feel I should tell him to join me as a conductor because this guy is hungry, but maybe he will agree. but I don't wanna be disappointed, because I don't know why he has been so cold towards me. if he declines, I am planning to send him away.

pls any advice on how to deal with this issue. but I don't want to take a wrong step that will tarnish all the good I have done to him.


sorry for the long post.

aroundtheearth:
Happy birthday. Llnp

thank you

6779812012 FCMB
this would be a perfect birthday present for me

debbydams:
Happy birthday guy,, have fun

thank u very much

Dreyton36:
Happy birthday young lad Long life and wealth in good health


Lights up my kpoli in peace

thanks baba agba

dearygally:
Happy birthday slim.. May GOD bless your hustle and strength your muscles.

amen.. thank u very much

mosdii:
Happy Birthday To You.
Wishing you all the best things you wish yourself.

my advice for you is to stay clear off Nigerian Girls because Nigerian Girls Are Useless...All Of Them

lol. thanks a lot bro

SmellySperm:
happy birthday to you...
more vaginas to you buddy

lol, thanks bro

kinibigdeal:
Tell the agent from Tope 081-328-136-78

ok. thank you

BabbanBura:
Happy birthday Bro. Best wishes in all your days

thanks bro

kinibigdeal:
I can send you the number of an agent in Ajah

ok thanks. I will appreciate

I just got a well paid job at Lekki. and I am willing to rent an apartment on the island to aid my expenses monthly.

but I can only afford a monthly payment plan of 20k without default.

pls quote me if you have any available or a bit similar to negotiate.

thanks.

FalseProphet1:
I see you impregnating an underaged girl between now and June. This I have seen.

u did not see shit..

gaius01:
Arrrrrrrh

Happy birthday bro.
Wishing you long life and prosperity .
Actually I don't have anything to give but a word of prayer can go along way.

Dear God, Thank you for adding a new year on to your son. Father I pray that this new year open doors of new breakthrough in his life and his family. I pray that men will favour him and you will crown him with your own favour, in Christ Name I pray..

amen in Jesus name.
thanks u so much for this bro.

Jentle244:
Congrats on your new age. By this time next year you must have achieved what you plan to achieve. Amen

Flex na your day but flex with caution

amen oo. thanks so much bro. much love

hello Romance landers

By the grace of God, I am +1 today.

it as been God all the way. many of my mates are dead, some are sick, some are in prison, I am not mocking them but glorifying the name of God. here I am today, in good health.

though things might not be moving well the way I want, but I still thank God I am alive healthy to witness this wonderful day.

also, I share the same date of birth with my dad, but its so unfortunate he's no longer alive to celebrate with me. I love him, but God loves him more.

pls family, show your boy a love to make my day o. a happy birthday will go a long way. thanks

hello family landers

By the grace of God, I am +1 today.

it as been God all the way. many of my mates are dead, some are sick, some are in prison, I am not mocking them but glorifying the name of God. here I am today, in good health.

though things might not be moving well the way I want, but I still thank God I am alive healthy to witness this wonderful day.

also, I share the same date of birth with my dad, but its so unfortunate he's no longer alive to celebrate with me. I love him, but God loves him more.

pls family, show your boy a love to make my day o. a happy birthday will go a long way. thanks

where u later able to get the accommodation?
i was d person who called u to offer u an accommodation at moshalahi bustop. but I haven't seen u since then. u said u wanna discuss with your kids about it

do u really expect d bus to move when Sunday igboho is inside? they go push am tire

OlawaleBammie:
Seems u re a woman, as a man u re not to be emotional, nature didn't teach us that.

Why would i get emotional just cus my fellow human, a woman, ordinary one at dat talked to me?? Someone that is rich by the virture of her mans success?? Bro u Bleep up joo.


One single word from me to the woman wil keep her shut and confused, even embarassed as well.





As she was blabbing you should have just cut in and said, mtcheeeeeewwwww, oponu(imbecil.e) i bet u she wil abruptly keep shut in wonder.

But mind u, dont let her near u.

I have shakes it off and moved on with my life. thank u sir

BigDick70inch:
I'm sorry if that is the case bro....

But.....still wouldn't understand why a woman will rather resort to insulting your rather dan getting been helped......

Are u really sure of that too

i was shocked same way u are.. but I believed she's a proud type, so she looked down on me because I offered to help

Bankalert:
Yo, you got a babymama and a wife for real? How did you manage to pull that off?

babymama is my wife

BigDick70inch:
Oga stop fabricating stories just to garner sympathy......

Didn't u say u got a job recently worth at least 80k....

No human......will start saying all that to u cos I wanted to help my nigga....

remember I said I haven't gotten my offer letter, so there's no way I can start work. and i never fabricated any story, its really happened to me. I only needed motivation and advise from nairalanders and I have gotten it. thanks for ur observation.

valentineuwakwe:
This your story is touching and I really felt for you and fall for it....a woman's insult should never have made you come out here to tell the world what you are passing tru, instead you should have told us the debts weighing you down.

using pity to get something especially money is fpway too back n i wanted ask for your account number to send you something until I saw n read most comments from other nairalander!

you have two moniskers here n you saw your babymama control her own? they gave you money n you called them loans? would you repay all who sent you money here all you got if you say they were loans?

don't your babymama have family or friends to run to in this case? why support her I her business since she is only a babymama and just paying your child school fees or is she your wife for real n you were lieing to us?

2 other nairalanders here @jalodo2 and @ mamamajic made shocking revelations about you n it got not only me but others who may read this story confused about helping you or believing your stories.

infact your story here really tell alot and I don't blame all those seeing it as fake or calling you out as a scammer begging for money again online...

let me continue reading other comments n watch how it all goes my brother.

cheers!

those revelations were half truth. a thing led to another,and all d same I am not begging for money, I just shared my experience with people for advise and motivation. thank u sir

gaius01:
Cerebellum: the back part of the brain that controls balance and the use of muscles

See 1st bolded
2nd bolded, you lack it.

See one part of some body brain.
@Your name
@Your comment


Frivolous !!

bro I swear, I like ur vibes, am always following ur comments. I love d way u relate and react

majamajic:
What this guy does is tell a pity story and started collecting money from NLers .


Last year he used the monikers soulstalker and mummyire , he made huge sum with both accounts

Some NLers still borrowed him money , all he did was to deactivate the accounts and come up with this very account Slimslimqq and another account here on this thread that I will not mention yet .

HIS TRICKS - story telling kind of scam , he is not begging u for money , but u can see he told all his money problems

This kind of scam na u go enter by yourself

He did this same story lines with the 2 monikers soulstalker and mummyire

Search soulstalker and mummyire , and come back here , u will see it's same story lines still going

Am out !

jeez!!!
humans never cease to amaze me. did I tell u I needed u to help me with money?
its not ur fault anyways, na me carry my life problem come meet shits like u..

Dreyton36:
Let me put myself in your shoes and reply the woman because me no get shame when it comes to a woman trying to disrespect me for being nice

You see that word called "self respect" I no dey use am play that's why I respect everyone

Me go reply the woman say

"Madam thank you for the insult ogbanje wey they predict who go blow and who no dey blow

Who see u now they insult me go think say you get level
Na ordinary preek wey u wan go collect naim make u dey shout like this
You wey ur matter don cast for area , ogberaga
Abeg femi say make u dey wash ur puna clean , swear say ur children na ur husband the their real father make ogun kill u

Omo I go find my way jeje , how u go they run conductor job and u no get mouth , you thank God say u never jam better woman wey her mouth bad

Woman don ever tell u say ur armpit dey smell make u dey try baf

Alaye man up , me and you know say if you get money she no fit tell you those rubbish, instead to take her words to heart, make u instead let her words ginger you

Alaye go they bomb steady


Lights up my kpoli in peace

lol, anyway thanks for this..

majamajic:
Last year u used 2 monikers , soulstalker and mummyire , right ?

Why did u deactivate both monikers and bring up Slimslimqq ?

mummyire is my baby mama's moniker not mine. and moreover she hasn't deactivated. thank u.

majamajic:
What's the name of the moniker u used to borrow and receive money from NLers last year , cos this is not the moniker u used then . U just opened this one this January .

yes that's true. this is not d account. I have deactivated the account(soulstalker)

SweetiliciousD:
Hahahahahaha.

All I can see here is self piety.

You cannot be brought down except you give consent... All what she said can never define you except you agree that she was present the day you were created, of which the answer is hell NO

Your mind is playing games on you but do not allow it.

Everyone's journey is different and no one has same exam script with the other. Most reason why she is dead wrong!

Life is a journey. You are not there yet, but you are still moving believe it or not. Maybe you made wrong decisions in the past, yes, they are only lessons learnt for better decisions ahead! Your decisions never defines you either cos you are capable of better ones too.

One thing is sure, your life is yours, you lose control the moment you allow others decide how you live it.

Mind you, there is dignity in labour. "A penny earned is far worth more than 10 dollars found." Abraham Lincoln.

NO ONE'S OPINION CAN DEFINE YOU. Everyone know in part, but when you give up, it is over for you.

You are stronger than the world around you only if you can tap into the innate strength deposited in situ.

You can't dwell on the powerless words thrown at you. Tell your self the truth which is: YES, I CAN, AGAINST ALL ODDS.

Wake up and keep going. The only law that keeps you up on a bicycle. The moment you stop, while on a bike, you are next to downfall.

Once again, HEY YOU, GET UP AND GO!

thanks very much for this piece of advise

kalu61:
In some countries, you could have sue her but it's well man.

Na money bi fine boy. Double your hustle. Convert the insults into motivation.

sure bro. thanks for this