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GloShare:
Focus on yourself brother. You need all the help at the moment.
You can't lift others if you don't rise.

I understand sir.. thank u

for those of u saying I want to bleep the girl, u are only saying so because that's the way u do your things. but I am different. firstly, I can't cheat on my babymama and moreover she lives with me, secondly, when my father built his church and house, he also built a missionary house to create shelter for those who don't have place to sleep.

come to our house and see different people both male and beautiful female students living here for free. anyone of u can send someone to confirm this.

I only continued from where my late dad stopped, but I am surprised with the kind of mentality some of u guys here are displaying that I wanted to bleep the girl.

though, I might not be financially okay, but I have talked to my mom about her and she agreed she will do her best to train her till she gets on her feet in Lagos.

please u guys should change this kind of mentality so that Nigeria can move forward..

i won't quote anyone who bashes me again.

peace unto y'all ....

Disclaimer12:
The funniest part of this story is someone who's starving, fasted nd and almost had ulcer just to raise 3k saying he's trying to help someone! Lol! Bra! That girl u think you're trying to help seems to be living a better life than u judging from the picture ! Better go hustle harder! There are lot of people that need your help in your vicinity! But u chose a sexy looking fresh girl from Benin! Bros I'll tell u the truth u need more help than the girl In question! Give me your account details to send back the 3k plus extra 2k for data

When u get to my house, u will meet 10+ people living for free, excluding upto 15 tenants that haven't paid house rent for a year plus because the country is bad. we do that because we are humans after all, everybody bashing me here are those that wouldn't mind if someone is dying on the road because they want to form hard man. thank u for the gesture, I didn't create the thread to get back my money, I just shared my experience trying to help her

ukaface:
See ehn bros.... Forget generosity and going out of your way to help people. Those people if table were turned go chop your eyes.
Generosity doesn't work in Nigeria, everybody dey look for who them go chop from,but when it's payback them go run.
I can't do this mistake you did
Sent her money,Sent tfare,still hustle accommodation and work for her,shuuuuuuuuuu.....you be father Christmas?even father Christmas no do reach like this...your own Na pro version.

This ought to teach you a lesson,if you like continue.
Forget about God blessing those who give abeg,you just got scammed dude...lol ,or maybe your blessing is in the future.

lol.. thank u

Collinsaik:
for the sake of ur mental health , suspend anything like helping strangers for now. suspend it indefinetely. ur mental heath is at stake here. u can't keep pleasing others and displeasing yourself. be wise !

u are right.. but I easily get emotional if anyone ask me for help, but i will work on my self

GloShare:
I believe your story sha... although I am disappointed.

My disappointment is not even about the benin girl.


I am disappointed you have a fiance when your account balance is just 1600.

You need to forget woman and double your hustle.

What do you do for a living ?

I have a mini bus that still has a lot of mechanical fault, and about my fiancee, she's my babymama and has been living with me to take care of our son..

I am hustling a lot and I don't look at women. I was only trying to help that girl leave Benin and no strings attached.

jesmond3945:
mr man we are not kids. I have been there before. If na your fellow man you for no send 1k from your last card. You see the girl pix loose your guard. Guy man die guy man bury am

maybe that's the way u think, but I do my things my way. believe me or not, the deed has been done, life moves on

coming2america:
You, yourself..you are in hell fire. And you are tryng to help someone leave her hell fire.

You don chop today?

Foolish boy

did u really need to insult me? telling her to leave there was because of her safety, i do not intend to have anything to do with her but she requested to move to lag, and I felt I should help in my little way.

we are not the same, I live my life differently, and he get why. live yours.

EmmySparky:
op is a fucking liar...you told your fiancee that you wanna bring a girl to come live with you and she agreed...continue ...and I am sure if it was a guy u won't help him...forget that nonsense u added about nairaland guys living with you...it's a lie ...I know your type...u don't eat decent meals and you are broke bit claim to house people and even willing to add an extra mouth ...guy na children u dey tell tales by moonlight?

I remembered I didn't mention u to believe the thread. pls go to bed. its not entirely ur fault though, I was too kind and foolish

sauceEEP:

OP leave matter for mathias this is a hookup parole gone wrong.

eyah, sorry. but not everyone will think like u do.

Nazgul:
You have a fiancee, yet you chatted with her on Facebook and was even willing to go the extra mile for her comfort, my brother you wanted a taste of her coochie, how can you refer to her as dear, if you were truly helping her with no strings attached?

Do you know the problem habouring a complete stranger could cause your relationship?

What if she actually came, and started falling in love with you, and you reciprocated by getting her pregnant, how would you handle both women?

The total money you spent on her isn't even up to 5k, I don't see why you had to upload her pics, very childish if you ask me cos you're the one to blame not her. You can't expect her to leave benin for you a total stranger in Lagos.

Next time use your head.

ok

twilightsparkle:
guy u too kind

I think so.. but I am already regretting it self with what some guys here are accusing me of

patoski39:
what was ur plan for her feeding and accommodation since u claimed u were broke

I told my mom about her, and she agreed I bring her. we were planning to set her up with my mom sewing machine and she will get a space from my fiancee shop. but its well...I give up, I think I was too kind sha

for those of u criticizing me for trying to help a lady. here is a proof(thread) of one of the guys I currently accommodate, https://www.nairaland.com/6221619/how-homeless-folks-lagos-sleep#95580874
though I took his permission before I copied his link... I will also ask the other guy if I can copy his thread were I reached out to him.

so pls, I am entirely different from what u all think

BabbanBura:
Hard luck bro, please contact me, you need help yourself.
I have had such experiences alot that I am hesitant helping especially ladies.
Anyone paying good with evil will once day pay the consequences of such actions

u are right bro... evil people will one day face the consequences of their actions.
sent a pm

Goztino:
I'm not doubting that you were scammed. It's obvious you were.
I am doubting the story you put out there.
The true story
You sent money to a strange girl hoping to Bleep her when she comes to Lagos but the deal went WRONG. You got scammed and you are now crying foul.
Within you, you already know this is the pure truth but you have to include your mum and include the fact that you also help other men in other to distract people from the reality and attract pity, but unfortunately we still have smart people who think outside the box

I understand that some will think outside the box but trust me, I got no bad intention towards her. I was planning to handover her to my mom, as I have already discussed everything with my mom. remember not everyone has a bad heart

i926:
Would you have sent the 1k, if it were a guy?

Would you have stressed yourself, this much if na your fellow man need help?

You would have collected a loan from CBN to buy her sewing machine and shop. Ode!

You deserve to be scammed.

I am sorry if u found this painful. but like I said on the thread, I find joy helping out be it male or female. thanks though

Goztino:
So you believed this story?
Wonderful.

boss the story is true.. @least I added some screenshots and evidence.
what do I gain to spoil someone name without her wronging me

Heathrow44:
Report her to the police, and approach the court to mandate UBA to retrieve your money from any bank account she has with UBA or even other branches, ask the court you were scammed and wasn't a willful deposit!!! But op u are sex starved hungry sex slave that wouldn't mind going hungry just to have sex, ur mom should be ashamed of u if she's not, I'm ashamed of u!!! U need to teach her a bitter lesson, now I know y nollywood actresses make money and nengi bought her house is cos of men like u!

boss I am not sex starved, besides if u know me fully then u will know I don't blink before helping anyone. I have 2 nairalanders(guys) living with me free..

Xenry:
Lesson learned, move on.

sure...

cchub:
what if she thinks you're a ritualist that wants to harvest her skull?

I mean, you met her on Facebook, she can't be that trusting.

I'm not in support of some of her action too but you sef reason am.

you told her to leave benin and come to lagos that you'll be feeding her, accommodate her etc, pesin wey you no know.

you could've way billed the sewing machine to her instead of she coming to Lagos. what if she dies huh?

I know you only wanted to help and I commend you for that buy guy this is nigeria, 2021.... never ever loose guard in any form. .

lol, u said it all. I think I over acted on her case. thanks

stanliwise:
You actually had good intentions but remember

"Love is gonna get you killed,
Pride would be your death" - Kendrick Lamar

Not wanting to show love (pride) is death itself but also
showing love is a very risky thing and you kill you also, it is only better than pride because there is chance it could turn out positive, which was what you wanted.

Next time be realistic with your the love you show, let people prove their worth before you press the pedal. Helping her with 1k as a stranger was fine.
But advising her about her yahoo boyfriend and saving up money for her with little or no information was a very big risk, I am happy you didn't go further than this before things turn sour

noted boss. thanks for this

checkmatez:
you are running helter-skelter to send cash for a girl to come and be living with you... it irk me to see you adding your mum and fiancee which we know you made that up... you are an opportunist... what brought up her boyfriend is a full time yahooboy.. so we will be on your side, her pic must looks fresher than yours (that's what made you interested) ..won't reply on this again but your psychological bullshit won't work.... Go and work and stop looking for someone to add to their suffering.

lol, just listen to yourself. u sound like a fool.
how possible can I accommodate her if I do not tell my family(my fiancee inclusive) ....I said it earlier, not everyone would be like or think like you. I won't quote u again. I hate fools.
I am sure u are a Yahoo boy self, that's why u sound so pained

stanliwise:
@Slimslimqq
Not everyone is good.
Also nice gesture are also a risk. it is a risk to act nicely, so you took the risk and then you lost.
it is part of life.

But my advice to you is this, next time help people with value.
From your story, the girl was only lacking money. You never mentioned places she has value except you mentioned she has a skill.

But at no point did you know anything about her kind of person.

In other words,
"when dealing with strangers, always expect strange behaviours" - Stanliwise

like u said I don't know much about her but I was only worried the kinda life she's living and I decided to help her leave the hell fire, atleast with the little help i offered her in Lagos, she can finally stand her ground in years to come rather than risking her life with a Yahoo boy.

thanks for these piece of advise

punisha:
I am only worried that aside being this broke, u have a fiancee....

bros, hmm....

and so? pls don't derail the thread

checkmatez:
Girl head... you are interested in someone else girlfriend and spewing trash... this reverse psychology bullshit you think you are doing won't work on everyone... lied about involving your mum and about helping guys too, You are a small boy and I can see through you.

u think everyone would be like you..
just shut up and learn.

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kelvinrhs:
You're trying to help a stranger from Benin to Lagos

What if she comes and die in your house? what would you tell your neighbours or the police?

But let's be more realistic, try to limit the type of Good you do (I don't care if your Mr Nice guy attitude is hereditary)

People does not always pay good with good

And this is real life, what goes around does not always comes around (It might but it will be @fter a long time)

i understand u.. thanks

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OlayemiAshraf:
Bruh.. you're a real nigga ..

The little you had,you still decided to give someone that needs....mehn I respect you...

As for the girl don't worry , they'll soon use her breast , her skull will be use to drink pap....

*Sip lean*

lol.. she will definitely regret it at the long run

CaptainPrice1:
God has seen your pure heart. She lost a great opportunity just because of petty scam. God will surely reward you since your heart is clean towards her...

That Yahoo boyfriend of hers will surely use her for ritual...

amen to ur prayers

Draslo:
Omo ase ni e. If na your fellow guy, you go dey tell am cockk and bull.

I am sure u saw where I said I help both male and female. some guys here on nairaland live with me. stop saying shit