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Re: A Lady I Tried To Help Scammed Me by gassbee: 8:51pm On Mar 13
Fake story

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Re: A Lady I Tried To Help Scammed Me by Heathrow44: 8:51pm On Mar 13
Slimslimqq:
Lets be careful of those we intend to help. not all who ask for help needs help.

I am still a struggling young guy, but the little I make I share with those who doesn't have at all. that's my nature, and also I know what it is to be broke.

Last month, I came across a Lady's post on Facebook, that she needed 1k to survive for the weekend. I went through her profile and I noticed she's real.

Though, I was also broke, but I had 1600 in my account, so I reached out to her and sent her 1k as she requested.

she later chatted me up and sent her number to call and also appreciate my gesture.

we talked a lot and I got to know she lives in Benin city alone and sometimes spend days with her boyfriend who happens to be a fulltime broke yahoo boy.

I talked to her about the risk of living with someone who doesn't have a job and rather be involved in yahoo, and also I gave her samples of how desperate yahoo boys use their girls for ritual, but she defended him that he's not that type.

along the line, I learnt she had a skill, fashion design.

I discussed why she hasn't been using her skill to help herself grow, but she complained lack of funds to get a sewing machine and also that people don't sew clothes in Lagos

I told her about Lagos, and she seems interested. in fact, I told her my mom has a sewing machine that she doesn't use frequently, that I will discuss with her to release it.

she was happy, but said she doesn't know anyone to accommodate her in lag, but she has a friend who's married but not sure if she can accommodate her.

then I promised to help discuss with my mom and fiancee so that we can help her with accommodation and the sewing machine, and she seems glad about it.

I discussed with my mom and fiancee about it, and they agreed I bring her. my mom showed special interest in helping her in a little way she can afford when she heard her story.

I told her the latest development, then she asked when would come, I told her that anytime she likes, then she told me she doesn't have enough money for transportation to lag. she has only 2k while tfare would cost 5k, I promised to help her with 3k the following week, not that I have it, but I had faith I will get it for her.

Then two days after, she messaged me that she would be coming on Saturday(today) because she owes a lot of debt and they are threatening to embarrass her on sunday(tomorrow). I should help her send the 3k so she can start coming.

I struggled and fasted just to help her raise the 3k, so that she can start coming.
I also noticed my mom about the development.

ulcer almost killed me because i made sure I help her send the money yesterday evening, I didn't any healthy food because of the savings.

this morning, I sent her a message to know if she has started coming and she replied yes, that she's in the bus. few hours later, I didn't hear from her, I sent her another message to know where she has reached, but she read and didnt reply me.

meanwhile my mom was already worrying me about her situation. so I collected my mom phone to call her, to my greatest surprise was hearing loud music and noise in the background, immediately she heard my voice she cut and blocked my moms number and mine.

Before u bash me, know that she isn't the first I tried to help, some nairalanders can attest to this, because I am accommodating, both male and female. I took after my late father. because I believe God rewards those who have good heart.

I am not pained because she scammed me of the money I suffered for just to please and help her. if she had ask, I would have given her, but because she played and fooled me and including my mom, I am pained. that I don't think that will stop me from helping anyone else In future.

Her details, pictures, and some screenshot are available below as evidence.

phone no: 09152130407
acct details: aigbe osariemen Jennifer
bank: UBA
acct no: 2126475810



Report her to the police, and approach the court to mandate UBA to retrieve your money from any bank account she has with UBA or even other branches, ask the court you were scammed and wasn't a willful deposit!!! But op u are sex starved hungry sex slave that wouldn't mind going hungry just to have sex, ur mom should be ashamed of u if she's not, I'm ashamed of u!!! U need to teach her a bitter lesson, now I know y nollywood actresses make money and nengi bought her house is cos of men like u!

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Re: A Lady I Tried To Help Scammed Me by Goztino(m): 8:53pm On Mar 13
CaptainPrice1:
God has seen your pure heart. She lost a great opportunity just because of petty scam. God will surely reward you since your heart is clean towards her...

That Yahoo boyfriend of hers will surely use her for ritual...

So you believed this story? shocked
Wonderful.

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Re: A Lady I Tried To Help Scammed Me by Slimslimqq: 8:57pm On Mar 13
Heathrow44:




Report her to the police, and approach the court to mandate UBA to retrieve your money from any bank account she has with UBA or even other branches, ask the court you were scammed and wasn't a willful deposit!!! But op u are sex starved hungry sex slave that wouldn't mind going hungry just to have sex, ur mom should be ashamed of u if she's not, I'm ashamed of u!!! U need to teach her a bitter lesson, now I know y nollywood actresses make money and nengi bought her house is cos of men like u!
boss I am not sex starved, besides if u know me fully then u will know I don't blink before helping anyone. I have 2 nairalanders(guys) living with me free..
Re: A Lady I Tried To Help Scammed Me by Slimslimqq: 8:59pm On Mar 13
Goztino:


So you believed this story? shocked
Wonderful.
boss the story is true.. @least I added some screenshots and evidence.
what do I gain to spoil someone name without her wronging me
Re: A Lady I Tried To Help Scammed Me by Goztino(m): 9:01pm On Mar 13
checkmatez:
Girl head... you[b] are interested in someone else girlfriend and spewing trash[/b]... this reverse psychology bullshit you think you are doing won't work on everyone... lied about involving your mum and about helping guys too, You are a small boy and I can see through you.

You are a very smart guy. I noticed that Nigerians easily believe every story they read.
Have you asked yourself why of all the people in the world to help, it is this beautiful girl he saw?
And because he was afraid people would bash him, he had to include his mother and the fact that he also helped men.
You guys should be smart. This is a case of deal went wrong.

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Re: A Lady I Tried To Help Scammed Me by Slimslimqq: 9:01pm On Mar 13
i926:
Would you have sent the 1k, if it were a guy? undecided

Would you have stressed yourself, this much if na your fellow man need help?

You would have collected a loan from CBN to buy her sewing machine and shop. Ode!

You deserve to be scammed.

I am sorry if u found this painful. but like I said on the thread, I find joy helping out be it male or female. thanks though
Re: A Lady I Tried To Help Scammed Me by Lukaku95: 9:06pm On Mar 13
Slimslimqq:
lol, just listen to yourself. u sound like a fool.
how possible can I accommodate her if I do not tell my family(my fiancee inclusive) ....I said it earlier, not everyone would be like or think like you. I won't quote u again. I hate fools.
I am sure u are a Yahoo boy self, that's why u sound so pained
you get fiancee but ordinary 3k you sent , you don already broke to pieces.. how you go take marry that your fiancee.. ?? Stop decieving yourself

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Re: A Lady I Tried To Help Scammed Me by BabbanBura(m): 9:07pm On Mar 13
Slimslimqq:
Lets be careful of those we intend to help. not all who ask for help needs help.

I am still a struggling young guy, but the little I make I share with those who doesn't have at all. that's my nature, and also I know what it is to be broke.

Last month, I came across a Lady's post on Facebook, that she needed 1k to survive for the weekend. I went through her profile and I noticed she's real.

Though, I was also broke, but I had 1600 in my account, so I reached out to her and sent her 1k as she requested.

she later chatted me up and sent her number to call and also appreciate my gesture.

we talked a lot and I got to know she lives in Benin city alone and sometimes spend days with her boyfriend who happens to be a fulltime broke yahoo boy.

I talked to her about the risk of living with someone who doesn't have a job and rather be involved in yahoo, and also I gave her samples of how desperate yahoo boys use their girls for ritual, but she defended him that he's not that type.

along the line, I learnt she had a skill, fashion design.

I discussed why she hasn't been using her skill to help herself grow, but she complained lack of funds to get a sewing machine and also that people don't sew clothes in Lagos

I told her about Lagos, and she seems interested. in fact, I told her my mom has a sewing machine that she doesn't use frequently, that I will discuss with her to release it.

she was happy, but said she doesn't know anyone to accommodate her in lag, but she has a friend who's married but not sure if she can accommodate her.

then I promised to help discuss with my mom and fiancee so that we can help her with accommodation and the sewing machine, and she seems glad about it.

I discussed with my mom and fiancee about it, and they agreed I bring her. my mom showed special interest in helping her in a little way she can afford when she heard her story.

I told her the latest development, then she asked when would come, I told her that anytime she likes, then she told me she doesn't have enough money for transportation to lag. she has only 2k while tfare would cost 5k, I promised to help her with 3k the following week, not that I have it, but I had faith I will get it for her.

Then two days after, she messaged me that she would be coming on Saturday(today) because she owes a lot of debt and they are threatening to embarrass her on sunday(tomorrow). I should help her send the 3k so she can start coming.

I struggled and fasted just to help her raise the 3k, so that she can start coming.
I also noticed my mom about the development.

ulcer almost killed me because i made sure I help her send the money yesterday evening, I didn't any healthy food because of the savings.

this morning, I sent her a message to know if she has started coming and she replied yes, that she's in the bus. few hours later, I didn't hear from her, I sent her another message to know where she has reached, but she read and didnt reply me.

meanwhile my mom was already worrying me about her situation. so I collected my mom phone to call her, to my greatest surprise was hearing loud music and noise in the background, immediately she heard my voice she cut and blocked my moms number and mine.

Before u bash me, know that she isn't the first I tried to help, some nairalanders can attest to this, because I am accommodating, both male and female. I took after my late father. because I believe God rewards those who have good heart.

I am not pained because she scammed me of the money I suffered for just to please and help her. if she had ask, I would have given her, but because she played and fooled me and including my mom, I am pained. that I don't think that will stop me from helping anyone else In future.

Her details, pictures, and some screenshot are available below as evidence.

phone no: 09152130407
acct details: aigbe osariemen Jennifer
bank: UBA
acct no: 2126475810

Hard luck bro, please contact me, you need help yourself.
I have had such experiences alot that I am hesitant helping especially ladies.
Anyone paying good with evil will once day pay the consequences of such actions
Re: A Lady I Tried To Help Scammed Me by Goldenklassy: 9:09pm On Mar 13
Op keep doing good,but wisdom is profitable is direct...render help to strangers at distance,dont rush in bringing them too close..your mom gat good heart
Re: A Lady I Tried To Help Scammed Me by Goztino(m): 9:09pm On Mar 13
Slimslimqq:
boss the story is true.. @least I added some screenshots and evidence.
what do I gain to spoil someone name without her wronging me

I'm not doubting that you were scammed. It's obvious you were.
I am doubting the story you put there.
This is the true story
You sent money to a strange girl hoping to Bleep her when she comes to Lagos but the deal went WRONG. You got scammed and you are now crying foul and claiming to be a helper with some cooked up lines.
Within you, you already know this is the pure truth [b] but you have to include your mum and include the fact that you also help other men in other to distract people from the reality and attract pity, but unfortunately we still have smart people who think outside the box

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Re: A Lady I Tried To Help Scammed Me by Slimslimqq: 9:14pm On Mar 13
Goztino:


I'm not doubting that you were scammed. It's obvious you were.
I am doubting the story you put out there.
The true story
You sent money to a strange girl hoping to Bleep her when she comes to Lagos but the deal went WRONG. You got scammed and you are now crying foul.
Within you, you already know this is the pure truth but you have to include your mum and include the fact that you also help other men in other to distract people from the reality and attract pity, but unfortunately we still have smart people who think outside the box
I understand that some will think outside the box but trust me, I got no bad intention towards her. I was planning to handover her to my mom, as I have already discussed everything with my mom. remember not everyone has a bad heart
Re: A Lady I Tried To Help Scammed Me by Slimslimqq: 9:17pm On Mar 13
BabbanBura:


Hard luck bro, please contact me, you need help yourself.
I have had such experiences alot that I am hesitant helping especially ladies.
Anyone paying good with evil will once day pay the consequences of such actions
u are right bro... evil people will one day face the consequences of their actions.
sent a pm
Re: A Lady I Tried To Help Scammed Me by Nobody: 9:21pm On Mar 13
cry guy u too kind
Re: A Lady I Tried To Help Scammed Me by patoski39(m): 9:24pm On Mar 13
Slimslimqq:
I understand that some will think outside the box but trust me, I got no bad intention towards her. I was planning to handover her to my mom, as I have already discussed everything with my mom. remember not everyone has a bad heart
what was ur plan for her feeding and accommodation since u claimed u were broke

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Re: A Lady I Tried To Help Scammed Me by Slimslimqq: 9:24pm On Mar 13
for those of u criticizing me for trying to help a lady. here is a proof(thread) of one of the guys I currently accommodate, https://www.nairaland.com/6221619/how-homeless-folks-lagos-sleep#95580874
though I took his permission before I copied his link... I will also ask the other guy if I can copy his thread were I reached out to him.

so pls, I am entirely different from what u all think

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Re: A Lady I Tried To Help Scammed Me by Slimslimqq: 9:28pm On Mar 13
patoski39:
what was ur plan for her feeding and accommodation since u claimed u were broke
I told my mom about her, and she agreed I bring her. we were planning to set her up with my mom sewing machine and she will get a space from my fiancee shop. but its well...I give up, I think I was too kind sha

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Re: A Lady I Tried To Help Scammed Me by Slimslimqq: 9:30pm On Mar 13
twilightsparkle:
cry guy u too kind
I think so.. but I am already regretting it self with what some guys here are accusing me of
Re: A Lady I Tried To Help Scammed Me by Bayokun(m): 9:37pm On Mar 13
You struggled to raise 3k and yet you wanted to help someone with feeding and accommodation. Well done sir

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Re: A Lady I Tried To Help Scammed Me by Nazgul: 9:53pm On Mar 13
You have a fiancee, yet you chatted with her on Facebook and was even willing to go the extra mile for her comfort, my brother you wanted a taste of her coochie, how can you refer to her as dear, if you were truly helping her with no strings attached?

Do you know the problem habouring a complete stranger could cause your relationship?

What if she actually came, and started falling in love with you, and you reciprocated by getting her pregnant, how would you handle both women?

The total money you spent on her isn't even up to 5k, I don't see why you had to upload her pics, very childish if you ask me cos you're the one to blame not her. You can't expect her to leave benin for you a total stranger in Lagos.

Next time use your head.

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Re: A Lady I Tried To Help Scammed Me by Slimslimqq: 9:59pm On Mar 13
Nazgul:
You have a fiancee, yet you chatted with her on Facebook and was even willing to go the extra mile for her comfort, my brother you wanted a taste of her coochie, how can you refer to her as dear, if you were truly helping her with no strings attached?

Do you know the problem habouring a complete stranger could cause your relationship?

What if she actually came, and started falling in love with you, and you reciprocated by getting her pregnant, how would you handle both women?

The total money you spent on her isn't even up to 5k, I don't see why you had to upload her pics, very childish if you ask me cos you're the one to blame not her. You can't expect her to leave benin for you a total stranger in Lagos.

Next time use your head.
ok
Re: A Lady I Tried To Help Scammed Me by checkmatez: 10:22pm On Mar 13
Slimslimqq:
ok
bitch boi got served... delete her pic and information ..but leave the one you will use to foam(soap)later... and next time please help a guy in your area

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Re: A Lady I Tried To Help Scammed Me by sauceEEP(m): 10:27pm On Mar 13
grin grin grin grin
OP leave matter for mathias this is a hookup parole gone wrong.

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Re: A Lady I Tried To Help Scammed Me by Slimslimqq: 10:41pm On Mar 13
sauceEEP:
grin grin grin grin
OP leave matter for mathias this is a hookup parole gone wrong.
eyah, sorry. but not everyone will think like u do.
Re: A Lady I Tried To Help Scammed Me by EmmySparky(m): 10:43pm On Mar 13
op is a fucking liar...you told your fiancee that you wanna bring a girl to come live with you and she agreed...continue ...and I am sure if it was a guy u won't help him...forget that nonsense u added about nairaland guys living with you...it's a lie ...I know your type...u don't eat decent meals and you are broke bit claim to house people and even willing to add an extra mouth ...guy na children u dey tell tales by moonlight?

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Re: A Lady I Tried To Help Scammed Me by GrandFinale2021(m): 10:49pm On Mar 13
Ikillbrokehoes:
Fear Edo girls
Bini girls to be precise
Re: A Lady I Tried To Help Scammed Me by GrandFinale2021(m): 10:51pm On Mar 13
EmmySparky:
op is a fucking liar...you told your fiancee that you wanna bring a girl to come live with you and she agreed...continue ...and I am sure if it was a guy u won't help him...forget that nonsense u added about nairaland guys living with you...it's a lie ...I know your type...u don't eat decent meals and you are broke bit claim to house people and even willing to add an extra mouth ...guy na children u dey tell tales by moonlight?
simping is a curse my brother

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Re: A Lady I Tried To Help Scammed Me by Slimslimqq: 10:52pm On Mar 13
EmmySparky:
op is a fucking liar...you told your fiancee that you wanna bring a girl to come live with you and she agreed...continue ...and I am sure if it was a guy u won't help him...forget that nonsense u added about nairaland guys living with you...it's a lie ...I know your type...u don't eat decent meals and you are broke bit claim to house people and even willing to add an extra mouth ...guy na children u dey tell tales by moonlight?
I remembered I didn't mention u to believe the thread. pls go to bed. its not entirely ur fault though, I was too kind and foolish
Re: A Lady I Tried To Help Scammed Me by EmmySparky(m): 10:54pm On Mar 13
GrandFinale2021:
simping is a curse my brother
honestly bro the guy just dey make me laugh...guys like this dey make these girls look like superwomen...they don't know that any money spent on any woman who isn't your family is a waste...total waste

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Re: A Lady I Tried To Help Scammed Me by EmmySparky(m): 10:57pm On Mar 13
Slimslimqq:
I remembered I didn't mention u to believe the thread. pls go to bed. its not entirely ur fault though, I was too kind and foolish
Thank God u have admitted...
Re: A Lady I Tried To Help Scammed Me by coming2america: 11:03pm On Mar 13
Slimslimqq:
like u said I don't know much about her but I was only worried the kinda life she's living and I decided to help her leave the hell fire, atleast with the little help i offered her in Lagos, she can finally stand her ground in years to come rather than risking her life with a Yahoo boy.

thanks for these piece of advise

You, yourself..you are in hell fire. And you are tryng to help someone leave her hell fire.

You don chop today?

Foolish boy

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Re: A Lady I Tried To Help Scammed Me by Slimslimqq: 11:13pm On Mar 13
coming2america:


You, yourself..you are in hell fire. And you are tryng to help someone leave her hell fire.

You don chop today?

Foolish boy
did u really need to insult me? telling her to leave there was because of her safety, i do not intend to have anything to do with her but she requested to move to lag, and I felt I should help in my little way.

we are not the same, I live my life differently, and he get why. live yours.

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