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Ladylite:
This is too good. Wow.

Yet I refuse to be a single mum

yes cause you wrote your own destiny and fate by yourself, nobody is wiser than God...
what that will be will always be,just pray for Grace...

Ladylite:
This is too good. Wow.

Yet I refuse to be a single mum

yes cause you wrote your own destiny and fate by yourself, nobody is wiser than God...

ruffkenny:
My dear,we wonder why white people's marriages don't last,but that is because they are real,they don't wait for u to cheat,but flirting is enough for break up,they don't wait for you to flog them with a belt,but one slap is enough for breakup..English people said,ones a cheater always a cheater and ones a woman beater,always a woman beater.. Please this guy does not respect you,and without respect you actually have nothing together.,how can he abuse you even when you just caught him cheating??..Go and get a self worth girl and get a guy who is gonna love you and treat you right just as you deserve, please dear that small and irresponsible boy does not love you nor deserve you,you are a good girl and you deserve the best..Move on from that family,go get yourself a better guy..if you ever go back to him,you have shown him u can't do without him and he will treat you more trashy and shitty in the future,please he is not the only guy in the world.Become emotionally strong,think with your head not your heart,respect yourself and find your way..

Thanks so much
I appreciate...

Mymynd4u:
I will tell u d truth.. Notin but the truth.


Don't marry him... Break up with him.. If he kills u, his family dt loves u and beg to go back to him will find a way to make their son go unpunished.

Secondly, I guess u r a broke girl and the guy has money.. So it's very hard for u to leave such man bcox u don't wana be poor again.. Set awon broke girls

Don't mind, I am a broke guy too sha

3rdly, if this story na lie or movie, I will curse u till ur 4th generation... I can't waste my time commenting on fake stories but if it's real, u r safe

I'm not a broke girl,I do lend him money anytime he is broke though he do pay back times two of the amount, besides we've been on the breakup going to ten months now and I've been paying my bills all alone ...
this is my life story not a movie..

gregyboy:
Are you mad...

Abi you were high when you wrote this if you are my daughter i will lock you up for this statement and i go shoot the idiot

please temper justice with mercy
no sir ,I'm not mad..

SamjohnnyB:
Just check ur profile now.. Nice stories.. But I suggest u open a blog and post all these creative story there. At least u will be getting some money from google ads.

Anyways, i posted a real story of myself for advices..



Thanks to the person who moved the story to Facebook.

dnawah:
he can't stop,he will never stop.u know hanging is the price of people who kill their husbands.move on.

deep

greatbrian:
Nice story.......... U should channel that talent into writing script for money not for attention

you can at least link me up

Hardebaryor:
You want to sign your death warrant abi. Please cut all ties with him even his mum and his sister. Leave him with no trace of you. Love yourself before loving anyone

Ok thank you,I've heard you

AdorableSapphir:
Ewooo.... So after the beating and embarassment you still can't read tye writing on the wall that that man is not fit to cohabit with a human being and you're here asking what you do?
Go back, let him kill you, then in the spirit world you understand better what you should have done earlier.

Its like the man sabi the thing weweh coa thats the only reason a woman will stick to a.monstrous man even to the detriment of her own life.
Abokor Ku.

hahahaha

Ajosh431:
Dont go back to him. You don see the signs now o, no be when una don marry now you go dey run up and down dey write "dear joro"

Thank you so much

Homeboiy:
U shouldn't have

I later regretted the action cause i could have saved myself from the drama

Homeboiy:
He threw u out because u slapped him back after u have called him a bastard


Una too get anger issue


Dey your dey

Una too no go work

I only retaliated.

healthserve:
Me I have a question to ask. But I want to avoid influencing your decision . The question I have is

1. Can you get another guy if this guy gets another?

2. Is this guy the best you can get?


However you answer me please consider it your answer o


Viicfuntop Beta person. What's up may chick

sure ,I can get another guy,I'm beautiful and hard-working.

MZrapper:
Auntie wey mumu. Na your corpse them go carry commot for him house. Dey there they whine yourself.

hummm

pansophist:
Some things are forgivable, if its clearly unintentional and ambiguous in nature (such as a white lie), but to even accept him back, after he has declared with her cheat-mate that you're a witch, only goes to show the little self-respect you have for yourself, and which probably determines his respect for you. No one will value you more than how you value yourself.

Furthermore, you could have controlled your emotions and just leave when you caught him in the sexual act during your visit, which if you did, the embarrassment would not have occurred. Cheating is not an happenstance, no one falls randomly into the act of sex, cheating is a premeditated, orchestrated action. You could have just left, get yourself together, and facilitate necessary measures to evacuate the relationship, it's just the right thing to do no matter how hard and attached you are.

As for your last paragraph, You may forgive him, but should never have accepted him back. Its cowardice to be nice and understanding to someone that has consistently proven that he doesn't respect you, and count on your gullibility to always forgive, since clearly, it appears that you're the one that needs the relationship the most, not him. The fact that the fuckee your caught him with didn't even protest his loyalty to her but was watching a movie during the fiasco only goes to show he is a chronic philanderer prostituting with sluts, and will expose you to STDs.

He betrayed your trust and faithfulness intentionally (the operating word being "intentional", pleading should be treated as nothing more than an exercise in futility. Accepting him back means only one thing, that you are probably of a low value, that you do not respect yourself, and that you need the relationship more than him. These are qualities that in the long term, turn people off, as it makes them feel like their partner is not the catch. To him, you're clearly not a catch. Never. Accept. Him. Back.

You may also need to work on your self esteem, because in all honesty, I can't understand how you can tolerate all these abuses, and still contemplating if you should be accept him. A classical case of Stockholm syndrome.

perfectly said
God bless your brain..

Jaubdu:
Are you doing something,like working or bizs

yes
I'm a business woman
I deal with hairs and hair products

foleskay:
Eleyi gidi gan o! Wait was the lady you met him fvking the same as the one you caught him with on phone? If they're different then your bf is a chronic slut and I don't see him stopping soon.
All those stuff of him shouting he would kill himself if you don't come back re emotional blackmail, and d fact he beat and disgrace you over the olosho is only evident of his low regard for you.

Well its seems you still have some feeling for him so its complicated. For now don't agree yet, let him just keep begging. Let him keep begging don't even listen to his sister!!

yes she is the same girl

Mykel51:
You can forgive him but don't go back to him...he would abuse you even in marriage. For the fact that he had the guts to slap you...even in the front of a prostitute and even strip you naked. It's a NO - NO.

About the suicide, he can't commit suicide, he is just using that to force you to change your mind. And if he does commit suicide, his blood is not on your hands.

Cheers

cheerssssssss

Jaubdu:
He will still beat and mess you up if you go back to him. You can forgive him but don't go back. He has a nonsense proud heart and he has no respect for you.

understood
bless up

AmazingELixir:
Good...he is a real Gee

you mean real gee do beat women? interesting

Dgoz:
Forget that suicide trash he is yarning. Don't go back to him, let him commit the suicide let us see. I repeat... DON'T GO BACK TO HIM. You deserve better

thumb up sir

meum:
Una relationship get plenty drama. If you love the drama forgive him and stay but if you don't forgive him and move on. Trust me you'll be fine. Forget that suicide threat. He won't die cos of one hole when has been digging plenty holes anytime he wants.

Person wey get key dey knock door?

I dunno what's wrong with some women. What am I even saying na those kind guys Dem dey like.

lolll
I can't stop wondering on how I go dey knock the door when I get key

Jaubdu:
. Don't you think you appear so cheap?

I'm not cheap,but can you put more light on the statement?

agbonkamen:
Don't go back to that guy Let him commit suicide who cares. What is it with Some Nigerian guys and sex, cheating without respect, egoistic and selfish. Madam plz respect yourself and cut him off

I really appreciate alot

franchasng:
Hahahaha, I have nothing to say my brother lol, the guy is half mad and the girl is helpless, sighs





The only thing that scares me when I read all these type of stories is having a female child, imagine my daughter a princess, daddy's daddy's jewel, precious one being treated like this in the name of dating or even marriage, God abeg oh

sigh!!

Heistman:
Una get wahala o.even Nollywood no dey talk story reach una....

Btw, confused about what? Sheyb bra and panties still hang for your body the last time. This time na Stark naked he go chase u into the street with koboko in hand

I don get your message bro
thanks alot

Heistman:
Una get wahala o.even Nollywood no dey talk story reach una

maybe I should start writing script.
is that your own advice?

I'm 24 years,I met him 2018 through a friend of mine and we started a relationship,he introduced me to his family and friends and we were good together,his family all loves me most especially his elder sister who already took me as her own Blood,I even do visit her from time to time and she can't do without checking on me always..
it all started October 2018 when he was chatting and fell asleep not locking up his phone then I decided to check into his inbox,I saw one contacts saved with a guy's name,I wanted to stroll down till my finger mistakenly opened the chat,he had actually saved a female's name with a male name ,I read through all their conversations and it was the same method he usually chat me with that he do also use to chat with the lady,the lady even knows me that she referred to me in one of her messages.. "is your witch already sleeping?,and he said yes"..,my temperature became so hot that I woke him up from sleep immediately to explain himself,he never denied,he said he met her during a friend's birthday and he slept with her once ,I told him to choose between her and myself,we were on it till day break and I left for my place,two days later he sent me a screenshot of his text to her and a voice message to proved he already broke up with her and we were good again..
few months later(Early Thursday morning)his sister called me that she had be trying to reach his number to tell him that his mother will be coming around to see him but his number wasn't going through, I've also been trying to reach him also but it was switched off,she said I should please take my own key to the house and wait for his mom so that she won't stay outside the apartment,she said the woman is already on her way (he lives in an estate). I took my bath put on something light ,took my own key and rushed down to his place,on getting there I was surprised that the door wasn't locked ,I didn't bother to knock the door, I just went straight to the room , opened the door and I found this guy fucking another woman without condom early in the morning,he was surprised to see me ,his preeq went down instantly ,I was really shocked,my blood became so cold that for 3 minutes there was no word coming from my opened mouth,the lady managed to use the bedsheet to cover herself up and the guy has wore himself a boxer,I later found a statement "did you intentionally switched off your phone cause of one night stand bitch while your mom is on the way coming?" he replied me with a dumb answer that didn't they teach me at home to knock before entering into another person's house? this statement arouse my anger and i called him a bastard ,then he landed a heavy slap on my face which I retaliated immediately,then the real match began as he brought out a bent and beat the hell out of me, stripped me naked and pushed me out of the house while the girl was sitting on the bed watching free Cinema,i was really ashamed of myself that I should have turned back and go to my house and spare myself that disgrace,I don't know what to do or where to go with my naked body (only bra and pant remained) then he opened the door and started throwing out all my belongings in the house at me,I was happy that at least I will have something to put on,I wept and I left the place with everything,his family doesn't stop calling and begging ,he later came to my place in the evening with his friends and apologized,I forgave him ,after few days he messaged me that I should give him space cause he was ashamed of how he treated me,he said he can't withstand seeing my face anymore,and I granted his request, we broke up April last year ,though carried his sister along all through and it doesn't affect the relationship between his family , friends and I .
Now he has been coming around begging, telling lot of people to beg me that he will commit sucide if I don't come back , that he has realized his mistakes,I'm really confused cause I don't know what could have ran over him.. please help..

Sheggz22:
Ma'am.

Inasmuch as I respect people's rules and values

I will never stoop so low to allow one yeye girl laidat to be cussing me anyhow

Am only tolerable, I'm not Ode nah

like seriously,she did you a great favour by telling you that you are stupid,and that stupidity is running in your blood. Egbon ode ni yin pelu nkan ti e nso yin o..

Op
she said you are stupid and you decided to quit abi?
Yes,you will remain single if you decided to turn your relationship into a war zone ...

itsme01:


Cuddle her and tell her some more lies, best time to reformat her brain is after sex

Please never fall asleep after sex, as thats a mans window of opurtunity.. womens own is before sex


..

you Sabi work very well ooo

gbayi padi e