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Romance / Re: How Do I Cut Off From This Marriage . Lawyers In The House by slimzypink(f): 9:03pm On Aug 29, 2023 |
Aaaaarghmed:Yea I know now. I will rather do it now than stay long in a marriage I am scared of how worst he can become. |
Romance / Re: How Do I Cut Off From This Marriage . Lawyers In The House by slimzypink(f): 8:46am On Aug 27, 2023 |
YoshihideSuga:I am leaving for my peace |
Romance / Re: How Do I Cut Off From This Marriage . Lawyers In The House by slimzypink(f): 11:25am On Aug 26, 2023 |
Exceed15:Not saying I am perfect either. Issues like I should cook for him and I tell him I can’t cook every day, I cook in fridge and he can serve him self. And I complain that he should watch his weight. Or I get angry when he wakes me in the middle of night to go cook for him and I always say I have to get to work in the morning and he starts argument that I don’t respect him. He is not the worst but his bad side over shadows the good part of him. |
Romance / Re: How Do I Cut Off From This Marriage . Lawyers In The House by slimzypink(f): 8:06am On Aug 26, 2023 |
olril17: What if the marriage was contacted by duress, or threat can it be possible before 2 years on that ground to make it void |
Romance / Re: How Do I Cut Off From This Marriage . Lawyers In The House by slimzypink(f): 7:50am On Aug 26, 2023 |
Dyfynezz12:He hit me once when dating. Though just a a little strike and it didn’t happen again he apologised , he called my family told them what he did and apologised. But I am beginning to realise he his hiding his true self to get what he wants . I have put my self in his shoes that was why I did the marriage. Cause I obviously feel bad he was stuck in Nigeria doing nothing. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: How Do I Cut Off From This Marriage . Lawyers In The House by slimzypink(f): 7:45am On Aug 26, 2023 |
ednut1:2 days before he came back I said I wasn’t interested again. And we should move on , could have stood my ground, he did come back and I still begged we should wait a bit or do the marriage another time. You will not understand when you see a whole family begging you and him begging. I started feeling guilty and just let it happen, hoping we will make it work . But I will always have a better job than him because of my career path and my income will most likely always be higher even if he gets a job if he moves. And I don’t mind if I earn more but I mind when someone sees it as a threat and prefers I lost my job , I feel there will always be major argument cos of the fact that I earn more , and it makes some men act irrationally . He put the fear in me. So yea if I bring him over I fear it will be worst . I will rather help him move to another country |
Romance / Re: How Do I Cut Off From This Marriage . Lawyers In The House by slimzypink(f): 12:13am On Aug 26, 2023 |
Harddiskng: I will get the divorce. Thanks . 2 Likes |
Romance / Re: How Do I Cut Off From This Marriage . Lawyers In The House by slimzypink(f): 11:46pm On Aug 25, 2023 |
SavageResponse: I don’t I will do that . Thanks loads |
Romance / Re: How Do I Cut Off From This Marriage . Lawyers In The House by slimzypink(f): 11:39pm On Aug 25, 2023 |
mbaise1000: Tbh I know this , i wish I can see the future and know that he will not stress me . Yes he can be sweet if he wants to, but the anger issues is really crazy. I am the only one that can calm him down. I fear he will turn on me if we have like big issues. He has said if anybody does what I did to him to his sister he will kill the person. So this are just statements but it makes me get scared that this guy is only hiding is true self to get what he wants . I am stressed. |
Romance / Re: How Do I Cut Off From This Marriage . Lawyers In The House by slimzypink(f): 11:30pm On Aug 25, 2023 |
SavageResponse: Thanks it is the blocking the heart part I need to learn. It’s the begging and begging that I couldn’t say no to that brought me to this situation . Hopefully he gives me the divorce. |
Romance / Re: How Do I Cut Off From This Marriage . Lawyers In The House by slimzypink(f): 11:11pm On Aug 25, 2023 |
SavageResponse:Nope he owes me instead. Gave him some money about 1.6million so he comes back to naija but he said the agent that will procure his travel docs back to naija scammed him and that was how my money went . I am not even asking for that money back . I am just scared of him after saying he will bring me down. No matter the anger that statement is deep rooted to say to someone. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Romance / Re: How Do I Cut Off From This Marriage . Lawyers In The House by slimzypink(f): 11:08pm On Aug 25, 2023 |
Newdawn30:So he was back to Nigeria, if I had held my ground before he came to Nigeria this wouldn’t have happened. I felt it was me who made him come to naija if not he would have kept being in Asia. Long story short I didn’t want to go through the marriage on the said date. But pleas and pleas from hun and family made me just do it. Deep down now I just know it’s a big mistake . 1 Like |
Romance / Re: How Do I Cut Off From This Marriage . Lawyers In The House by slimzypink(f): 11:01pm On Aug 25, 2023 |
fyzaila: Not desperation. In my head he will change but he is not, and we had an issue and he said he will make sure he brings me down at my work place cause I am proud. Though he said he said it out of anger . This word is strong hence I am scared if I bring him in because I feel pity he is in Nigeria he would go ahead with his plan someday 1 Like |
Romance / How Do I Cut Off From This Marriage . Lawyers In The House by slimzypink(f): 10:18pm On Aug 25, 2023 |
So quick one, I will try not to make it long. I was living in an Asian country and I met a Nigerian . I had a very good job, apparently I got a better offer to another country. But then I was seeing this guy . He proposed marriage i was a bit held back as I wasn’t so sure of it. Anyways his parents came to mine in Nigeria and we did a kind of online trad wedding. I moved without him to my new country. While he was left back in Asia. Told him he would have to come to Nigeria so we do court marriage then I can apply for him to join me. The issue now is that before he came to Nigeria as I was coming for a short visit, I broke up and said I don’t want to do the court marriage . But he insisted his family kept begging and I stupidly agreed. There have been so many red flags that made me scared 1-he drinks a lot and I have tried to caution him . He said he changed 2-he was illegal in the Asian country for over 6 years making it seem like he is using me for visa purposes 3- his anger issues is top notch and it seems I really can’t control his anger 4- he has nothing doing just anywhere hustle is he does , no focus . all he has is big dreams and he said I should take a loan for his dreams. 5. Told him that if he eventually moves in with me he must work. But I am scared that the lazy attitude he had will still be there . And for some reasons he always attacks me that I am proud cause I have a good job. Now I am not looking down on him to be Honest. I can be with a man who I am higher than but he should show prospect of wanting to be better than me or at least prospect of wanting to work. Now he has been illegal in Asia for years so he never left cause he had no papers but because of the court marriage he took the leap and left. During the court marriage on the the day I said I couldn’t go on with it.all my friends that knew him said I shouldn’t go on with it . And he begged and begged. Felt bad for him and I agreed. At least so I take him out of naija back I went back to my work and he is left in Nigeria just for me to process his papers . But I am having those fears again. That I made a big mistake. My brother met him and the first thing he went doing was going to buy alcohol about 33% own and he downed it in front of my brother he was just meeting the first time . Even on the day of the counselling at regristry the lady there was saying your husband is not patient and all. So I am in a dilemma I want to look for a way out . How do I divorce him. I fear he will not give me the divorce. Court marriage is barely 2 months as well. Admin please don’t take this to front page 3 Likes |
Celebrities / Re: D'banj With Davido, Ubi Franklin, Alexx Ekubo, Yomi Casual by slimzypink(f): 11:39am On Jan 02, 2019 |
That black one open mouth like he wanna give bj. Disgusting pose to form fine boy |
Travel / Re: Young Shall Grow Bus Driver Drank & Smoked Before Accident – Survivor Recounts by slimzypink(f): 12:31pm On Oct 25, 2018 |
Bastard rivers if u tell them they are speeding they start shouting on you |
Celebrities / Re: Ifu Ennada Blasts Dee-One: "I Can't Get Into The Mud With A Pig" by slimzypink(f): 7:19pm On Oct 22, 2018 |
That dee one no just get sense sha 2 Likes |
Romance / Re: Lady Who Turned Stripper To Pay Fees, Shows Off Cash, Buys 2 Range Rovers by slimzypink(f): 3:20pm On Jun 11, 2018 |
Where can I drop my CV 2 Likes |
Celebrities / Re: Wizkid Vs. Michael Jackson: Who Wore It Better??? by slimzypink(f): 10:22am On Dec 26, 2017 |
is Michael Jackson dead? |
Romance / Re: Lady Who Trolled On Short Men But Married One, Slept With Ex Two Weeks To Weddin by slimzypink(f): 10:30pm On Oct 10, 2017 |
short guys don suffer 2 Likes 1 Share |
Celebrities / Re: AY Makun, His Brothers & Sisters At Their Parents Remembrance Service (Photos) by slimzypink(f): 12:48pm On Aug 14, 2017 |
good 4 them |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) / Re: EPL: Arsenal Vs Leicester City Preview...Drop Your Views And Predictions…!!! by slimzypink(f): 12:13pm On Aug 11, 2017 |
Iheanacho to score the winning goal Vardy to score also.... Marhez to perform magic Arsenal to lose Kanu nwakwo to get injured 1 Like |
Religion / Re: Seven Nigerians Make List Of Top 20 World Richest Pastors [see List] by slimzypink(f): 3:08pm On Jul 31, 2017 |
if they calculate that oyedepo money well e go big massively 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Celebrities / Re: Shina Peller Visits & Greets Ooni Of Ife, Ogunwusi (Photos) by slimzypink(f): 4:58pm On Jul 28, 2017 |
ThatFairGuy: |
Celebrities / Re: Shina Peller Visits & Greets Ooni Of Ife, Ogunwusi (Photos) by slimzypink(f): 4:16pm On Jul 28, 2017 |
NOTHING NEW! you know how many senators and abuja big men bow down for me 4 Likes |
Celebrities / Re: Oge Okoye Pictured With Her Son by slimzypink(f): 2:08pm On Jul 28, 2017 |
fine boy |
Business / Re: How Did You Make It In Life? by slimzypink(f): 11:51am On Jul 28, 2017 |
very easy... Sugar daddies did a great job. and to cut the story short i have travelled to 15 countries, have a lexus jeep 2013 and another toyota camry 2014 plus i have landed properties, and great asset in the bank. hence sugar daddies thank u 5 Likes 4 Shares |
Celebrities / Re: F.Shaw Olufemi Olukayode Adeyemi Profile: Ex EFCC Handler Was Stabbed By Robbers by slimzypink(f): 12:46am On Jul 26, 2017 |
i dated him 2009 |
Sports / Re: Why I Hate Ex Chelsea Captain, John Terry So Much - Cesc Fabregas by slimzypink(f): 6:44pm On Jul 20, 2017 |
is chelsea captain not mikel obi |
Phones / Re: Etisalat Confirms Changing Name To 9Mobileng by slimzypink(f): 4:47pm On Jul 18, 2017 |
buharinism the best government in the world. Change is really here. 3 Likes |
Celebrities / Re: Rita Dominic Celebrates Her 42nd Birthday Today by slimzypink(f): 1:05pm On Jul 12, 2017 |
wow nice skin and pretty.. and almost as beautiful as me |
Sports / Re: Chelsea Ready To Offer Real Madrid €80million For Morata by slimzypink(f): 2:15pm On Jul 10, 2017 |
is he a football player? |
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