Politics › Re: Stop Campaign, Apologise To Nigerians For Deceiving Them - Atiku Tells Tinubu by Slurity(m): 2:37pm On Dec 18, 2022 |
Johel: Nothing Godly about urchins,APC and Tinubu....just say by Satan's grace or something else.
If you like vote disaster and your life will be disastrous, me I chose to support a credible one not a thief and a drug lord. which every you like you can twist it to. We are not moved. You can pray to Satan if you like but we believe in God almighty. |
Politics › Re: Photos And Video From The PDP Presidential Campaign Rally In Owerri by Slurity(m): 8:05am On Dec 18, 2022 |
Urheadmaster: Atikulooter is just wasting is time.
Earlier he realises, better for him 
Obi is coming  there is this self denial that Obi supporters like to live in. Obi is the 3rd force in this coming election. PDP and APC are the major force. |
Family › Re: About To Divorce My Husband Who Sponsored Me In School. by Slurity(m): 8:00am On Dec 18, 2022 |
piecuntie: HI NAIRALANDERS ; I am about to seperate from husband who sponsored me in school because I am fed up.
I came from a very poor family. I met my husband when I was 19. He wasn't doing well either, he told me he was an engineer in a public hospital but as time went on I got to know he was a level 3 plumber in the civil service.
Well I was young, naive, hungry and blindly in love. He went to trade school and I encouraged him to go back to school for HND or bsc but he said he was going to sponsor me first. I got pregnant for him in my first year in school when I was 20yrs old, my mom was against it. I got to know he was 13years older than me while pregnant. HE TOLD ME HE WAS 26yrs old.
My mom wanted me to abort it, instead i packed my things and stayed with him. He abused my mom and I defended him. I gave birth while in school and he continued to support me both financially. We fought during those period, series of red flag but I decided to ignore it as long he wasn't beating me. He abused me emotionally. He knew my family was poor and there was no where i could go.
I finished school and my friends told me not to marry a plumber, I declined and told them he promised to go to school.
I finished school and i was scared of depending on him with my child, we were not doing fine at all.
I had no choice than to date a rich guy who helped me with a good job in the year 2017. HE got to know about the guy and i broke up with him. I apologized and we GOT MARRIED LEGALLY and got pregnant with my second child. We spent only 150k.
All the money i made from my salary, I made sure i supported him, i moved out of the family house in the year 2019, we have been there for 8yrs, he couldnt afford to rent a house, I spent 400k, both of us had no friends, we only had each other. I helped my brother and they did well in business. I asked my husband to go back to school, he was still adamant.
We went to a traditional person and they told him there is a curse on his head that i should bathe and do some sacrifice for him, which i did.
By year 2020 he was doing fine, we didn't even go hungry during the lockdown, I supported him with 2million naira and we did our traditional marriage.
IT was his business patners who were notorious cheat and neglected their wife that did his groom men, They introduced him to an association, i have asked him what is the aim of the association, he cant tell me, it is a secret.
3 months after the wedding, he started cheating and even beat me for the first time on our wedding anniversary becaus of the girl, When he saw i withdrawed all financia assistant like paying half of the rent and paying one of the kids school fees. he called family members to beg me and we settled and i bought a family car for us to use.
Since then i have been walking on eggs around him, he tells me i should respect his age that we are not mate, he beat me again last 3 months saying i am as proud as my mother and i abused his mother back.
This monday i had to run after bus to go to work because i told im i was looking for mOney, and he said i just call him a thief. I had no money on me i had to call my brother to give me money. He wasnt even bothered. He doesn't call me again, WE DONT GO OUT AGAIN
I don't stress him for expensive outing our wigs or phone. I bought my phone or trip myself out. He would rather hang out with his friends. He tells his friends and the kids i wear cheap outfits.
My mind is now strong. I don't cry again if he offends me nor complain.
I want to divorce him , sell the car and use it for this UK study route and take my children as dependent without him knowing. I am tired of the marriage already. He is 44 while I am 31. i want to move on with my life.
Sorry for the long write up I just hope this is not coming from Mummy Ada that I know because this look like her story. However, since you did not write this to seek for advice, I will not say much. You are free to do all you have mentioned for the sake of your mental health, peace and safety, but that part of taking the children from him will be hard for you alone to decide. Let the divorce process take care of that. If it is possible to give him a last time of about just 3 months of silent and no trouble.He may come back to his sense. |
Politics › Re: Soludo, Obiano Leads 1,579 APGA Presidential Campaign Council by Slurity(m): 7:41am On Dec 18, 2022 |
PrinceOfLagos: This one's are still angry that Peter Obi dumped their ass
But I wish APGA well still This your Dr Jeff is the most stupi white man in the world. That is if guys did not Photoshop him to what he did not know anything about. Apart from Igbo, any other person supporting Obi is a fool |
Politics › Re: LP Gubernatorial Candidate Commissions Party Office In Akwa Ibom (Pictures) by Slurity(m): 7:37am On Dec 18, 2022 |
Juanmike: Or Oshodi section of thuggery meeting. The Peace achieved with Lagos thuggery meeting by PAC government is more than any state in southeast east without thuggery. Lagos is 17million people has peace more than those in southeast of less that million population. Use your head when you attack others |
Politics › Re: LP Gubernatorial Candidate Commissions Party Office In Akwa Ibom (Pictures) by Slurity(m): 7:34am On Dec 18, 2022 |
Nairalander248: Post saved for after election...
I will remind you.... You will be too embarrassed to remind him. We know your type will start shouting rigging after the election. |
Politics › Re: LP Gubernatorial Candidate Commissions Party Office In Akwa Ibom (Pictures) by Slurity(m): 7:33am On Dec 18, 2022 |
Juanmike: I am Yoruba my vote is for PO. You are the few idiots without sense in Yoruba land now. It is normal will have some bastard in over to million people. |
Politics › Re: LP Gubernatorial Candidate Commissions Party Office In Akwa Ibom (Pictures) by Slurity(m): 7:31am On Dec 18, 2022 |
OnyeAshuaUru: LP is finishing strong. You need to encourage yourself, LP need encouragement to enable them waste more money, resources and time. At least it will help some state positions to be won in some states in the east, But Obi will cry blood when results start coming out. He will come far 3rd. |
Politics › Re: Stop Campaign, Apologise To Nigerians For Deceiving Them - Atiku Tells Tinubu by Slurity(m): 7:27am On Dec 18, 2022 |
Johel: Urchins are stupid people Na....I rebuke them,they are cursed with stagnancy and backwardness. Call us more names, Tinubu is not Buhari, and not APC. Tinubu is your next president by God's grace. Amen |
Politics › Re: Stop Campaign, Apologise To Nigerians For Deceiving Them - Atiku Tells Tinubu by Slurity(m): 7:26am On Dec 18, 2022 |
Is Atiku not part of APC that campaign against PDP, Now he is PDP he suddenly became a saint to talk against APC. Politicians are shameless |
Politics › Re: Imo, Osun Top States With Highest Attacks On INEC Facilities (Photos) by Slurity(m): 9:13pm On Dec 17, 2022 |
PrinceOfLagos: The Tinubu supporters on Nairaland will leave Osun and carry south east on there head because of there hate for Peter Obi You are not even ashamed of yourselve. You are putting a single state of Osun to same statement for camparism. Osun vs South east. Anyways, the minority will always think like minor |
Politics › Re: Hope Uzodinma Donates 27 Campaign Buses To Bola Tinubu's Campaign (Photos) by Slurity(m): 3:21pm On Dec 17, 2022 |
limeta: State money Corruption in the highest order take it easy on yourself, I know you are in pain, the vehicle will not disappear after election, it is still state property. Ndo |
Politics › Re: No Politician Can Save Nigeria, Only A Revolution Can - Deji Adeyanju by Slurity(m): 3:12pm On Dec 17, 2022 |
God1000: Confused activist, I really don't know what he stands for, he will say one thing today and say another thing tomorrow.
He's more of a rabble rouser
Only Peter Obi can make Nigeria an Eldorado You more confused that Demi Adeyanju for mentioning Obi. Obi that could not turn around Anambra positively will save Nigeria? You need brain resetting. |
Politics › Re: Tinubu: APC PCC Defends Yahaya Bello’s Absence From Rallies by Slurity(m): 1:12pm On Dec 17, 2022 |
Racoon: They will always have an excuse for any stupidity even if the facts are glaring for all to see. This is what APC have long introduced into a sacred duty like democratic governance. So terrible! take it easy on yourself, PAC has truly not delivered up to expectations but that does not means they have not tried to reasonable level. We are voting individual mainly and not party and Tinubu is the next president by God's grace. |
Crime › Re: Man Stabs His Roommate To Death Over N300 Electricity Bill In Delta (Photo) by Slurity(m): 7:45am On Dec 17, 2022 |
Not let the title of the news deceive you, it is not about 300, it's about uncontrolled anger. If you are weak in controlling anger, at a point during the argument, You will forget the value of the money in question. |
Education › Re: Gov. Adeleke Reverses Osun State Polytechnic Tuition Fees. by Slurity(m): 6:39am On Dec 17, 2022*. Modified: 11:22am On Dec 17, 2022 |
Oddfinder12: This is what Nigerians see in Peter Obi. A leader that listens to complaints and makes reasonable change immediately! No the one that will tell us to Labour in vain or tell us to shurrrruuuup. For demanding a better and a change of government! Which Obi are you talking about? Both Obi and his supporters knows nothing about good governance. Joke apart, you guys need to understand the difference between want and reality. If Obi has characteristics if that of Jesus which it is impossible, he will never win a presidential elections except he has no opponents from other regions of the country, that is the hard pill to swallow as reality. Obi CAN NEVER be Nigeria president, it just impossible. |
Politics › Re: Nigeria, Three Others Top World Bank Debtors’ List by Slurity(m): 6:29am On Dec 17, 2022 |
PureMe01: Thiefnubuu wants to become president to make the number 1 on the list Tinubu has it in record to be the best governor to every turn around situations of a state. You are talking to exposed citizens and not fools |
Politics › Re: States Where Atiku, Tinubu & Obi Will Win In 2023 Presidential Elections - SBM by Slurity(m): 10:28am On Dec 16, 2022 |
KWARA AND OSUN IS SURELY FOR TINUBU. PLEASE READJUST YOUR CALCULATION. |
Politics › Re: States Where Atiku, Tinubu & Obi Will Win In 2023 Presidential Elections - SBM by Slurity(m): 10:25am On Dec 16, 2022 |
YOU MUST BE JOKING TO THINK TINUBU WILL LOSE OSUN |
Politics › Re: Australian Students Urge Nigerians To Vote For Peter Obi (Pics) by Slurity(m): 9:01am On Dec 15, 2022 |
Gossipninja: Try to learn English first.
Ode Baba e lode, Iyalaya e ponu. Omo ale jatijati. Go and support people that hates you been successfully. |
Politics › Re: Labour Party Postpones Rallies In Ekiti And Ondo by Slurity(m): 7:30am On Dec 15, 2022 |
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Crime › Re: Armed Men Enforcing Sit At Home Burn Vehicles In Imo. Shoot One (Pics,Video) by Slurity(m): 6:25am On Dec 15, 2022 |
2blessed01: So sad.... May God punish all politician sponsoring armed banditry in d SE... keep deceiving yourself, it is ignorance and stupidity combine that is killing the SE and not politicians. Know this and have peace |
Politics › Re: Australian Students Urge Nigerians To Vote For Peter Obi (Pics) by Slurity(m): 6:19am On Dec 15, 2022 |
Gossipninja: They aren’t eligible to vote but we hear the message loud and clear. Peter Obi is Loved all the way from Australia! They are fools. Obi cote deserve a vote to lead even a local government say less a nation |
Politics › Re: Labour Party Postpones Rallies In Ekiti And Ondo by Slurity(m): 12:38pm On Dec 14, 2022*. Modified: 3:15pm On Dec 14, 2022 |
We are expecting him to come and disgrace himself. If Obi see 50k votes in the whole Ekiti, he should go and share testimony for great vote. We are not fools here. |
Politics › Re: Tinubu Promises Double-digit Economic Growth At Kaduna Rally by Slurity(m): 6:51am On Dec 14, 2022 |
God1000: Lies upon lies, he will later deny making such promises.
Tinubu thinks governing Nigeria is the same as Lagos state.
political godfathers don't make good leaders We don't care, Tinubu is the next president by God's grace |
Politics › Re: Tinubu In Kaduna, Vows To Eliminate Kidnappers, Bandits by Slurity(m): 6:50am On Dec 14, 2022 |
A4bello: The same way Buhari did abi... All contestants are promising and are not different from Buhari |
Family › Re: Lost His Wife About A Year Ago, Planning To Go Into Relationship Again by Slurity(m): 10:43pm On Dec 13, 2022 |
DouyeEbi: Hi Nairalander, A friend of mine lost his wife about a year ago.... October 2021 to be precise. He has a son who has been with him since the incident... His Mon is now telling him to get married again because of his son. He is now asking me if it too early to start a serious relationship that can lead to marriage. I say let me bring it here for advice. Thanks and You think the answers you get here is what will help you guys decide? Learn to please yourselves than please others |
Politics › Re: Pictures Of Osinbajo Dripping That Got People Talking by Slurity(m): 4:30pm On Dec 13, 2022 |
SadiqBabaSani: The man that Nigeria missed, too bad so also we missed Abacha. Who is missing Odale? |
Politics › Re: Court Dismisses Action Alliance's Certificate Forgery Suit Against Tinubu by Slurity(m): 3:33pm On Dec 13, 2022 |
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Travel › Re: Amputee Who Does Menial Jobs Fixes A Road In Amassoma, Bayelsa State (Photos) by Slurity(m): 11:27am On Dec 13, 2022 |
Enemyofpeace: There is dignity in labour
To all those moderators that banned me and all those bad belle people that hissed, skipped and mtcheeeeewed me on nairaland this year, take your end of the year gift� You a savagery. I like your stubbornness. |
Romance › Re: This Girl Is Bugging My Life. What Should I Do? by Slurity(m): 11:09am On Dec 13, 2022 |
Thebest12: There is a girl I asked to be my girlfriend. She said no to me. But she keeps disturbing me. Chatting me up everyday. I have tried to snub her several times but she keeps sending messages.
Pls what does she want and how do I get this girl out of my life . I want to block her, if I do so am I not overreacting? Younger to be a man first before dating |
Business › Re: If You Had Known This Earlier, I Believe You Wouldn't Spend Lavishly by Slurity(m): 9:24am On Dec 13, 2022*. Modified: 10:24am On Dec 13, 2022 |
Allison012: OP. we wake up everyday take our bath and bounce out to work. Working day and night for peanuts. How do you wants us to invest when all the peanuts we work for goes to feeding and other neccessities? Even savings we no fit do for this buhari and APC economy. Make baba GOD help us make we vote the right person for 2023. HOW MUCH DO YOU SAVE OR INVEST UNDER PDP JONATHAN PERIOD? IF YOU INVEST THEN, YOU WILL NOT BE COMPLAINING NOW, THE FACT IS THAT, HE WHO CAN NOT SAVE OR INVEST WITH LITTLE CAN NEVER SAVE OR INVEST WITH PLENTY. YOU NEED THE HEART AND NOT THE MONEY |