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FERNANDEZISBACK:
Check up..holla'ed at ya..

MadamVanessa:




Beautiful and adorable.


I hope this hansom man is not a glutton, he looks like one

I will post mine soon here let my nairaland family congratulate me. I know my man is on his way.

moshuur:
ohhh.....I guess u were part of those holding Luna....right?
Actually my own regret was not learning futures trading before the Luna crash.
I would av cash out gan tru it

moshuur:
An opportunity presented itself some few wks back....Luna
did u take it??

francisobiabo:
It's a harsh one from the lecturer however, I think he did the right thing (it could have been possible the lecturer had been advising him to do the needful but all fell on deft ears).
A student must always appear in a responsible way and behave nicely. Higher institution is a farm for tomorrows' leaders not a park for some irresponsible, uncultured and unmannered folks.
Thank you.

delerx:
Pinch of salt

musicwriter:
Sorry, but they are not meant for children. They are meant for people who are awake or half awake and looking for additional input. Only such group can process what in your naivety is "atheistic" information.

Finally, I am not an atheist.

Quality20:
they are married and have husbands , those who have lost husbands re marry with time

musicwriter:
What you see there is very ancient. Those snakes are the oldest continually existing member of the community, so they know everything going on around them.

The sacredness of the snake is the first universal type of belief that spread from out of inner Africa to the rest of the world when black people still ruled the world. Even before the ancient Egyptians but the Egyptians adopted it too, like the rest of the world.

The snakes since ancient times know the places that are kind to them, so they know exactly where to go and where to avoid. And they were not worshipped, rather they were merely revered.

By the way, that's where Jesus Christ evolved from over thousands of years. But that's the type of information you'll never hear in school, church or other so called learning centre.

The negative image associated with the snake today began when Europeans became a world power and blackmailed the snake (a symbol of black powder) using the Genesis story in the bible and made the whole world believe that Africa, the snake, the ancient Egyptians, and black is evil. And that's the true origin of the fall of black people.

Anybody who's interested in further information, part of this was explained in the article: what is Satan? What is Lucifer? The biggest secret in the world

Izprince:
Take her to a driving school, when she is done and you confirmed she is good to drive... buy her Pontiac or matrix car...

Coldie:
Make una dae laff until one white boy because of the aboniki something happen to am and them arrest the boy that time una go start to shout Black Lives Matter but blacks especially Nigerians will never behave themselves

Southernigbo:
Well we all know that these women unlike many other tribes don't cheat. The reason for this is mostly because of their upbringing and religious inclination. By nature they are so shy as well and hardly wanna expose their nudity except to their husband, even at that many only practice intimacy with their husband in the darkness of the night. Their shyness is really out of the world. They are also very obedient and submissive and will hardly ever disobey their parents, husband and imams

Medianna:
Wahala for who no know you

Medianna:
No na... Na my friend tell me say e happen for her area for lugbe oo.
(In case you want to verify the story)

Medianna:
2 kids na govt property na.
Reminds me of a man that was complaining that his wife is always giving birth to twice, and concluded that he doesn't want to sleep with her again.
Then decides to impregnate his mistress abi na side chic and she gave birth to triples.
Congrats sha

Ay04z:
Lolz.... See u..... I just got. Married... Just like 7 months sha....
I can see majority of the comments here are like it is because of the financial responsibility dat make d a man to be very boring,
Lie.... But mind u... Wen a man got married if na d type wey love to mingle and drink beers with d guys... And carry olosho abt.... B4. He must first of all decide dat. Dat one don end already... If he want peace to reign.
Ur wife is ur closest padi....
And again. Marry ur type.. And also neva marry a jobless lazy Nigerian girl who doesn't want to try to huzle at all.. It will end in premium tears... Cheers...marriage sweet. For few people and i pray my. Own continue to be like dat...

Nazgul:
I'm afraid that your observations are on point cos I have the same observations as well.

The most recent was my cousin brother who got married in 2020 before the lockdown, as I'm writing this we barely talk these days, even to reply WhatsApp messages na war. And when he does it's one complain or the other, ranging from how things are hard and since I'm single and an only child, I should assist him financially, to how his wife has changed, to how their one year old child consumes food like an adult... etc.

To understand him much better, I decided to put myself in his shoes. I'm a single guy, I renewed my rent last month (April) and I sat down to calculate all my monthly expenses. Data, fuel, gotv/Netflix, electricity, security, LAWMA, feeding, gas, miscellaneous...etc.

My point is if a woman comes on board that budget would tripple cos kids would be expected, she might want you to open a business for her, courtesy of your pocket, she might come with her younger sister to help out whose training and welfare would be on you, she would sometimes want you to assist her family eg, parents, siblings writing exams, school fees, rent...etc.

Now while your expenses has tripled, your income most times remains the same or even lower, you would resort to borrowing just to sustain your home, of which she won't even appreciate cos according to her, it's not enough, other men out there like you are performing much better for their families. You would live all your life working to finance the home, even your own kids would be strangers to you and love her more when she buys them Christmas clothes from the money you gave to her. They would grow up loving her as a sweet mom and vow never to see her suffer. forgetting all the sacrifices and dreams you gave up just to give them a better life. After pondering through all these, I understood my cousin's situation much better.

If I'm to be honest there's nothing special about marriage, it's more or less like bondage for men. And benefits only the women. Marriages if you have noticed have have reduced greatly, there are so many guys in their 30s and even 40s who aren't even talking about settling down. Would you blame them....of course not.

Women these days aren't helping matters. They dump the larger chunk of the financial responsibility on the man in the name of men are the head so it's his responsibility to cater for the home. But what they don't understand is God created women as a helpmeet, meaning they're there to lessen the budern of the man and not to add to it.

Open any topic here on Nairaland and talk about responsibilities in the home. More than 99% of the female replies would be that it's the job of the man and the man alone.

Women need to change such mindset, cos it has killed and drained the honey of millions of marriages.

Kollins11:
So you mean he blocked siofra, Iyaebe, Jennyclay, Candidlady, Islandlady, Onyi22 and other leeches?