₦airaland Forum

Dembuk2009:
Hmmmmm.....
I never imagined a question like this could be constructed!!!

Sorry you have to read till the end before u know what was done to me.........
The lesson i learnt from that belittling statement is never to belittle anyone cos u don't know their struggle!
I was such an excellent student that almost all my textbooks in secondary were prizes won.
When i got to jss 3, my parents started having issues and later separated and that was it!!!
I was brought back to daddy's base and became a day student.
I never repeated but I lost all brilliancy!!!.....Ohhh, i struggled to no avail!!!
When it was time to proceed to higher institution, I kept failing jamb for 8yrs though i went to a computer school for 1yr inbetween.
My mum later enrolled me for predegree but yet i failed!!!
So i decided to go for partime studies and runs my way out of the school cos i was already doing petty business.
I met my hubby (then boyfriend)wen i got to 200l and that was wen my life began to change positively bit by bit!!!
He encouraged me more and asked me to rewrite jamb with 3 private lesson teachers coming to teach me.
I passed and got into the university.
Hmmmmm.....I never knew partime studies is way different from full time o.........
I kept giving up from time to time but my hubby was a Godsent!!!!
Fatai (lecturer)made me cry so much one say during my 300l exams.
I was writing a paper wen he came towards me and was trying to go through my answer script but i refused and so he started to laugh saying " she is hidding her script o.......Anything u write self will still be zero!!!
He was saying it wen another lecturer walked in and he still proceeded and gave me mortal combat finishing!!!
He said and i quote " if Bukky is given Yoruba education, she will still fail!!!)
Aghhhhhh......my age mate at that!
The other lecturer just walked out and i cried like never before!!!!
After d exam, i went to the hod to report him, though my hod apologised on his behalf, I never spoke with him until i left school..
If i had continued with my brilliancy, by God's grace, i would have come out with a first class!!!
I graduated, went for service and moved on beautifully.
Sorry for the long post..

Am so sorry you had to go through all that dear..I admire the resilience in you though...e no easy

Immaculatesnow:
If I rush this one, there will say I have murdered something called a human

Lol..is that all you got?
Have u even tried rushing yourself first b4 u rush another person?
Lame!

Immaculatesnow:
This fat ugly dog of lady will not mind her business and face her failing movie career

I will buy your Nigerian verified AdSense account

First of all, buy brain before you buy Nigerian verified AdSense

BIXYBABE:
The girl should even thank her head that d man told him earlier. I don work for s month finished before my boss told me, I will come to his house to collect my salary, I was shocked at first not knowing that us how he always do to all his female workers. I went there since I want to collect d money I worked for, on getting there I him wearing only boxers, I was like maybe it because he dey his house.......As I enter he started saying ''u know what it takes for a man and woman to work together. As I hear so my eyes just clear. I told him he should hold d money that I can do such. The man is bouncer in one big hotel, he was very huge and told. If he laid in me hen, Paradise go destroy

And what did you do about it? After working for a month? And he was not give me my pay? He is mad! I will show him that my madness is even in a higher proportion. I don't even bliv your story anyway..
Honestly we don't even know our rights in this country
Ignorance kills faster than anytin

miracood:
BRODA ADE


stop taking weed..!

Biko keep quiet!
Very weak and dull reply
Ure the one that needs to stop taking weed!

TheRealGuy:
why is she not pregnant yet?

Why cant you mind your business?

KingSatan:
Cursed Couples!



I pity the man who never thought it wise to Marry a Physical Fit Woman who can Attend to her Chores Unaided and still give him Doggy Style et al at Night.

No fun in this marriage.

Always Missionary with her cursed legs that looks like a pencil suspended 1 cm in the air.



What if the Baby is crawling towards a naked wire? There is no way this thing can help that poor child.

All these nairaland chewinggum boys looking for cheap attention..any.. Is that really ALL u can do?nd na person born this one so oo

MyVILLAGEpeople:
Lovely.

But no doggy style or cow girl.

She won't be able to give BJ properly too

Just missionary style only.


But she get booby Sha and she looks good too

Your village people are truly after your destiny, it's a pity they have succeeded...kpele!

MyVILLAGEpeople:
Lovely.

But no doggy style or cow girl.

She won't be able to give BJ properly too

Just missionary style only.


But she get booby Sha and she looks good too

Your village people are truly after your destiny, it's a pity they have succeeded...kpele!

Well for me, i once had a dream of becoming a flight attendant but there are hardly opportunities for Nigerians in Nigeria. So going to an aviation school just seemed like a white elephant project
All the best in your endeavours though
If you have the funds, go to south Africa. That's the only African country a lot of international airlines recruit from. Kindly share your experiences with us as well.
Regards

Nonstoprain:
their cup of tea, please house check this out, I travel from lagos last week to go see my people for village, inside the bus I took, there was this lady that sit beside me with her son, so because the journey was a very long one, I decide to help her carry the baby sometimes so she can rest, finally we got to our destination by 9pm or there about, she thank me for being such a good person and handed me her phone to put my number which I did, after that we went our separate ways, the problem now is that ever since that day she has been calling me not less than five times a day asking me to come and see her, whenever she calls, she will be crying and beging me to come, so that's the situation I find myself at the moment, I just don't know what to do, weather to go or not, please guys what did you suggest, thanks and God bless you all.

Your cup of tea as well

Shelloween:
Always looking fvckable. ...... Oops!

And..... My diiiiiik is at it again.... Always reacting before my brain at the sight of sexy women...

Seriously so all you fink of at the sight of hard-working and goal getter women is your toothpick preek..
Smh
No wonder you are where you are...ediot

tenmariner:
Your thought mirrors mine..the Igbos have an opportunity now to vote their own into power...

Nigerians Nigerian Nigerians...so all you are concerned about is how to vote an igbo person into power not even because of his articulate agenda to transform the nation but because he is "igbo". Smh....How shallow!

kYjelly2:
As in my brother, really what type of country is this?

Funny thing is they have both ruled Nigeria before, one as a dictator and democratic president, the other as Vice President, yet people still want them back

Why are Nigerians like this?

It's just like if the slaves in Egypt were refusing freedom when God was offering it, like, "no God, we want pharaoh!", imagine that!!!

They all sound like the Pharisees screaming "we want barabbas!"

Who's next? Maybe babangida or bola tinubu for president, sigh!

It's one thing if they rig the elections, it's a whole other dark scenario we are witnessing were our people are actually praising these slave masters!

Have we been so defeated as a people that we have lost all belief Are we that depressed, that we no more care for ourselves, family and country

It's sad bro

As i read your words, tears almost dripped from my eyes it's so saddening...oh I weep for my nation! I weep for Nigeria. Ignorance, poverty, tribalism, has become our way of life. I just cannot believe the two main political parties in Nigeria are endorsing two HOPELESS candidates who have proved themselves over and over again that they do not have what it takes to restore this economy.

Naija...na we dey do ourselve sha...just imagine? Atiku of all people or Buhari? we can suffer in this nation fa. I want to believe there is hope for Nigeria, i so much want to....Pathetic Candidates

geek4k:
I Need Help! I'm Emotionally Traumatized.

Hi guys!

It's quite a long read so I've tried make it as concise as possible..

I bet you'll enjoy every piece as you thumb through.

We've known each other for some time before i asked her out. She gave a "Yes" sometime on August 2014, which has practically made the relationship 4 years old.

At the earlier stage, we had great feelings towards each other, we where literally submerged in love, did stupid and childish things together. Y'al know what love turns one into nah.

We where practicing a distance relationship. Same city, although just a 45min road trip kept us apart ~ we never denied visiting each other as we often did. thanks to 2go and what'sapp.

Time past, amidst the minor quarrels we had a greater reason to remain put, we grew stronger in love ~ i bet we had the best teenaged age. Got to a point we believed we where both destined for each other i was even prepared to tie the knot if only nature treated my pocket right.

All the while, we never had any bed intimacy only kisses and bla bla... Not until sometime 2017 when i went in. Arrghh! Very awkward i must say, just try to imagine where 2 novices are trying to make something of it. All through the session i was just looking for my way in.

The subsequent attempts after taking several xx video tutorials was fairly good NOT GREAT because she had a very bad sex beginning; a rape victim to be precise and that experience corrupted alot in her sex life. You don't want me to go into details, I hate to too.

[b]Note: [/b]She is a very brilliant girl who got great personality, more reason i loved her wholeheartedly. The not-too-great sex paragraphs isn't made to sabotage her memory but because it's a cornerstone of my ordeal with her.

Heads up guys! She started having issues with the sex experience thing. Not because it wasn't SO GREAT but because it makes her backslide from her faith. Ohh didn't i mention? She's from a very strong Christian home.

I guess the devil took its chances on us, never wondered why it took so long before her realization. Now she's trying to be that born again kind of person again. Guys! I'm sure you know what that means.

The privileges i used to enjoy as a boyfriend where all ripped away not even a kiss or bla bla to manage almost drove me into maturating. Not just that, this is also garnished with some funny acts, not having my time et all. On my end it seems she utterly turned her back against me.

The whole quarrels erupted and all made me look myself like a devil trying to deviate God's child. I on the other end I'm just a lover boy trying to fight back for his feelings.

Things deteriorated, we hardly talk and even if we do wouldn't last more than a minute, all the while i was just drowning in sadness and heartbreak.

I still remember when we broke up our sexual relationship and remained good casual friends. My mind chose to cut any connections with her but my heart said otherwise. I couldn't cut it down, the imaginations of never seeing her again dreaded me even.

Bluntly speaking. I'm very emotionally sensitive with dealings with her. My happiness depends hugely on her, hence, any unfair act she gives set my heart ablaze. that's exaggerated though, but it's just as bad as that. Every now and then I'm always emotionally traumatized and this has bad effects on me.

My Regrets?
I wouldn't blame myself much because i was inexperienced and naive when our feelings was blossoming, I let loose my 100% heart commitment and now the consequences is just as fatal.

If i had known and took precautions earlier I'd have moved on with my life by now. But unfortunately, the reverse is just the case here.

Back to the present.
I've discovered that even the casual friendship hurts me. I mean Yes! No sex, no kisses i get it! I don't just get a dedication from her, no special moments everything is just as boring AF and this disgusts me.

This is where your I need advise.
Respective of the fact I'm still emotionally attached to her, I've accepted my faith of letting her go the issue now is doing this practically. It's just too difficult for me to handle.

Beside this, i feel we might later need each others help one way or another as we're both distant learners in same institution.

The feeling of not seeing her ever again dreads me alot whilst i doubt I'm capable of moving on if i don't cut her completely of my life.

Sometimes I feel the cause of this crazy feelings is because she deflower me. I don't just know why it's this much.

[b]Note.[/b]It might sound to you that she stopped loving me or never had feelings for me. But the fact is she's too very in love with me all along even till now. Her faith is just strong and nothing can supersede it.

Insults are welcome. But first understand its usefulness her before you waste that effort.

What do you think i should do guys?

And what is wrong with her faith Oga? There is noting wrong with redefining one's standards if u ask me. And judging from all she has been through and how foresighted u attested of her, i fink u should let her be pls. The only thing I can tell you to do is communicate with her. Shift grounds and Be open to her. If you can't cope with her new standards ,take a bow and leave her very simple and straight forward.
las las, evryone go dey alright.
Btw, sex is seriously not everything.

[/b][b]Note.[/b]It might sound to you that she stopped loving me or never had feelings for me. But the fact is she's too very in love with me all along even till now. Her faith is just strong and nothing can supersede it.

Insults are welcome. But first understand its usefulness her before you waste that effort.

What do you think i should do guys?[/quote][b]

And what is wrong with her faith Oga? There is noting wrong with redefining one's standards if u ask me. And judging from all she has been through and how foresighted u attested of her, i fink u should let her be pls. The only thing I can tell you to do is communicate with her. Shift grounds and Be open to her. If you can't cope with her new standards ,take a bow and leave her very simple and straight forward.
las las, evryone go dey alright.
Btw, sex is seriously not everything.

Shugavee:
and so what?? Because u know one, just one, u start generalizing? if she still talking abt boyfriend n so ?? My anuty got married when she was about 41 years , hv two kids already n she’s happy ,,, so what r u saying,,, won’t she talk about boyfriend till she finally gets a man,,,, is she begging u for money? ... live ur life n mind ur business.

Women shaming women...don't kind them jare...is it even her business if she is not even married? We live in a very nosy society.they won't mind their business

donstan18:
Shot fired!! What a bitter truth! After bashing her, you all will still log out and face reality of what she said

Look at them, a lot of them up there wishing and saying she isn't happy with her family, all because she said the truth, all because the truth is bitter.

Even without being told, an evening newspaper lady should know that she has no right to celebrate birthday because she has been biologically expired, psychological traumatized, sexually useless, maritally screwed and aboki-cally suyalized.

A single lady still celebrating birthdays, going to wedding parties and still doing boyfriend/boo at 30+, is a disgrace and a big shame.

Sensible evening newspapers will do nothing to end their predicament but............

So spinsters that find themselves in that category should stop living becos they are not married? No wonder the country is the way it is....wot a way to think!!

EmekaMD:
I used to be indifferent about Nigeria as a country but it's sad to say that I'm almost hating Nigeria now.
Never ever felt this way about Nigeria before..

Imagine the desperation of this present government.
They're not desperate to do what is right so people would keep voting them, instead they're desperate to keep themselves imposed on Nigerians.

I hate everything that happens in Nigeria now..
Speaking from my heart of hearts

I feel you bro..it's just so sad..I don't honestly know if there is hope for this country they have turn Nigerian politics to their birth right, their father's property, or inheritance. they have turned the Labours of our past heroes in vain, we have mow become a laughing stock to the international community.Both PDP and APC are completely useless....so sad

Karlovich post=715 45818:
Afonja women and disgrace are like bread and butter, disgusting people

My God how can u qualify a group of people as disgusting?
Gosh...ure so despicable..Later this ediot will be the one screaming racism racism evrywhere while he himself is the chief racist. Tribalistic olodo

PresidentAtiku:
PDP gave us NAFDAC,ICPC,EFCC and other strong organizations that this clueless APC is using to form busy....

Now APC is has introduced to our electoral process, VOTE BUYING..

Naija who did we offend no tori olorun?

Seriously I tire ooo..it is well!