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i can speak 80% spanish, my inlaws are the best. never had any problem with them and am still in contact with them. i have 2 kids, they lived most of their lives here in england and lived in spain just few years. i believe they prefer to live in spain maybe becos of the weather cos there's more outdoor things to do.
i know there more different races in the city like madrid, but spain in general is not used to foreigners as britain yet.

am always here i you need to talk ok.

cancel the wedding immediately darling, she's not worth it. at least you knew before the wedding. dont bother asking either of them about the condition you found them in

its easy. dont go back.

he's just an ass, and trust me he will do it again, this time when you're married to him with kids, then it will be very hard to move on. leopard doesn't change his spots darling.

divorced, and not looking for anything either. very nice to be single again. what can i say, it's stress free

hmm, let see.

i think the rich guy will do, darling i can't have a face for breakfast, lunch and dinner. besides that handsome poor guy knows he's handsome and can grab a rich ugly woman for himself oneday, so i wouldnt trust him either. at least if the rich one dumps me oneday, i have enjoyed myself to the fullest and nothing to regret.

by the way am no a gold diggerooooo

first cousins to get married, thats bad, at least make it distant cousins when the blood have diluted abit eh. Their DNA must be formind something crazy by now.

paedophilia thats what it is. don't let them touch or talk to them. these are the ones called 'UNCLES' and many nasty things are going through their brain.
make sure to tell them to keep of anytime they want to do there grabs. there are just up to no good and trust me, you're not the only one they are chasing after there kids.

i was married to a spanish guy, we met in england, got married here 10 yrs ago. managed to live in spain for a couple of yrs, i came back to england following our seperation.
having interracial relationship is just abit hard, especially when i moved to spain. nothing to do with my inlaws cos they are lovely uptill now, but couldn't blend in very much with spain as a whole, i believe its due to them not seeing much of interacial couple that much.
as for the hubby himself he's just like any ordinary man, he has been to nigeria, and blended in very much, the only difference was his colour.
unfortunately the marriage didn't work. well thats another topic.

its better to file for the divorce in ireland. you can file for divorce in the country you reside in regardless of where you got married.
seperation will be consented by the court, then its left for who filed the divorce to file for decree absolute, however this depends if there are children involved, who the children will be residing with during the seperation and divorce, visitation rights, financial settlements i.e, mortgages, savings, pensions,
all these have to be settled witha consent order being signed by each of you. the whole process depends on irish law, but n englan it takes about 4-6months if both parties agree amicable with all the decision with the court getting involved with all the settlements and kids stuff.

anymore info i can help with dont fail to ask

good luck.

people talk crap all the time. washing plate or being a cleaner is still a job just to make a pund and pay bills. you guy in niger think its easy for people living here eh. let me tell you something there is no way you can stop your electricity or gas meter to stop running like you can do NEPA. so bills comin through your door every week and the having phone calls that will never ask you how you're coping, if you ill or not but about how much is needed from you.
abeg if you don wash plate or clean floors you cant eat, not like back home where you can pop in to cousin's, friends or neighbours aleast you can get groundnut.
please if you have never experienced anything over here, its better to shut up.

pete, all can say is just dont tell a soul when your goin or coming, then you wont have all the hassel. some people here telling you, yeah its ok to go and spend the money becos you're meant to for the sake of fun is full of crap. now think about it, showing money back home is all about earning respect even if you're the worst idiot around. you want to go home becos if would love to see ur friends and family right and you expect that vice versa. i know many people living here working 3 jobs just to make ends meet, then after saving some money to go homeafter few years, the go and splash money like no mans business, of cause the exchange rate is great, make empty promises, lift up peoples hope before coming back to see if they can borrow some few pounds from a friend to buy a weekly bus pass for work. am going home in two weeks time and yes i've got something for my family and thats it. they have no idea am coming until i get to the door. just keep low and try to blend in as much as you can and you'll be fine.

i dont see them allowing your family to come and stay for the whole duration of your course. because they will take in account the support you can give them whilst they're here, that is financially, just to make sure that you can bring them and start asking for social welfare and stuff, so your account statement have to be seen, other means of income etc. now as you will be coming in with a student visa, you really need to think hard on what to put in your application.

there's absolutely nothing wrong with clubbing, after marriage or having kids. I believe the fun should continue just as when you were dating, it doubles the fun. lets be realistic, how many commited men out there take their partners out to dinner anymore, to talk about clubbing, they seem to think that taking their wives out woill be cramping their style cos they always wants to have a way to cheat if time allows (not all but most men). am i telling the truth or not