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Celebrities › Re: PHOTOS Nigeria VIRGIN Singer Adokiye Shares Extreme H0t Photos For Your Eyes by smsshola(m): 9:41pm On Aug 10, 2015

pretydiva:
Pix of her hymen or idonbilivit

To a lady like you Habba...pix of d hymen? Shoro niyen.

Jobs/Vacancies › Re: This Is How Much Top Nigerian Banks Pay Their Staffs Monthly by smsshola(m): 9:34pm On Aug 10, 2015

Imagine a councillor going wt a better pay and other allowance.. yet a graduate go after 30 working days wt 150k maximum nd op is saying k..shoro niyen.

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Romance › Relationship Killers You Should Know... by smsshola(op): 9:06pm On Aug 10, 2015

People usually begin romantic relationships with
great hopes. They don’t expect that their love will
end. But, unfortunately, that is sometimes the
reality. And often, there are warning signs that
the relationship is headed in that direction.
Relationship researcher John Gottman offers four
such indicators, which he calls the “Four
Horsemen of the Apocalypse.”
Below are Gottman’s four warning signs – and
adjustments you can make if you see them in your
relationship:

Criticism
When a partner attacks the other person’s
character. Criticism is different from complaining,
which focuses on a particular problem or
behavior. “You are such a slob” or “You always
leave the house a mess” are criticisms. “I’m tired
of finding your dirty socks all over the floor” is a
complaint. It is difficult to have any constructive
response to a criticism, but you can work
cooperatively to address a complaint.

Fix:
Commit to making complaints rather than
criticisms. If your partner tends to criticize, talk
with them about the difference between these two
ways of addressing problems and make an
agreement for you both to complain rather than
criticize.

Contempt
Criticism taken to the next level – a person is
attacking their partner as a whole person.
Contempt is insulting, demeaning, and is intended
to put the criticizer on a higher level than their
partner. It might include name-calling, mockery,
sarcastic humor, or body language such as eye-
rolling or sneering.

Fix:
Lower the tolerance for contempt. Actively work
on building a healthier respect, more effective
communication, and greater appreciation of each
other. Given that this is the most problematic of
all the horsemen, a relationship that involves
contempt will probably need couples therapy to
help them make positive changes.

Defensiveness
Responding to an attack by defending yourself
and then attacking back. Your defense might
involve making excuses, disagreeing, ignoring the
attack, or taking on a victim role.

Fix:
Truly listen to your partner’s complaint,
empathize with their distress, and take some
responsibility for the problem. You can give your
side of the story, but only after honestly showing
compassion for their distress – that is, after
showing that you really want to soothe their
suffering.

Stonewalling
Withdrawing from a conversation or the
relationship as a protection from being hurt. The
person may physically leave or just stop following
the conversation. The person often looks like they
don’t care even though the real cause is that they
are overwhelmed.

Fix:
Talk about this pattern together and work on
being able to identify when the stone-waller is
becoming overwhelmed. Also, develop a plan for
how to give them some space, such as agreeing
to take a break for some allotted amount of time.
Make sure to come back at some point to the
problem at hand.

It is best to identify these patterns early. The
longer they continue, the more they can damage
your relationship. If you find that you keep
repeating the same old patterns despite doing
your best to nurture healthier ones, it may be
time for couples therapy.

Celebrities › Re: Lady Strips For 2face In Front Of Annie Idibia At Sapele Star Music Trek by smsshola(m): 8:33pm On Aug 10, 2015*

Now som1 wl open a thread and say ladies shu not go to boys Houz to avoid been rape...this is an open place an a lady of this calibre wl open all her God given treasure fo d world. Now imagine she and 2face alone and eventually 2face have sex wt her she wl now shout rape...looking for sympathy from one NGO..Ladies need to talk sense to themselves.

I believe there is possibilities she have a guy self...a disgrace to mother wood.

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Romance › Re: For Those Bragging And Claiming To Have Big Dicks, This Test Is For You. by smsshola(m): 10:57pm On Aug 09, 2015

kestolove95:
Pls ma bf needs a dick surgery b4 he kills me with his big dick...is like dat guy dick is 10.

shoro niyen

Romance › Re: Poll: Who Owns A Woman’s Breast? by smsshola(op): 8:17pm On Aug 09, 2015

BOWOTO:
THE MAN AND THE CHILD.

Toh who owns the lion share then?

Romance › Re: Poll: Who Owns A Woman’s Breast? by smsshola(op): 8:09pm On Aug 09, 2015

ladyF:
Lol
The woman owns her brez

Lady F hmmmm...u sure?

Romance › Re: Poll: Who Owns A Woman’s Breast? by smsshola(op): 8:09pm On Aug 09, 2015

ladyF:
Lol
The woman owns her brez

Lady F hmmmm...sure?

Romance › Poll: Who Owns A Woman’s Breast? by smsshola(op): 8:07pm On Aug 09, 2015

Hello guys and ladies in the houz; I come across this question online and I was really wondering who owns the woman breast?

Is the child or the father?

I want the ladies to be precise as in, in their own view who really own those lovely stuff?

To the guys...its been said no matter how old a man is he love breast is this truth?

so let the comment roll in and let c who owns it.

Romance › Re: My Opinion: We Ladies Should Stop Visiting Guys. RAPE Is Real!!! by smsshola(m): 6:22am On Aug 09, 2015

@op while u might be right, but it may not be the whole truth..now look at an issue that happened to me and a lady..I went to a sch Nuhu Bamaili Kaduna state polytechnic to c my bae.After we talked and gist I decided to c her off to her hostel my car parked outside the gate on getting to the I pressed my key to open the as the car opened wt d side mirror coming on board a lady standing there was attracted to me instantly.

seeing the look in her face as she stand still I decided to play the trick of what am hearing about the sch I quickly beckoned on her I asked her to enter and wt d AC on already I started the guy and lady talk. She was so comfortable and smiling...saying I don't ur bae to c me or ur wife thinking am married or possibly to kno my rltnship status..

To cut d story short she was willing to follo me home but I thought of my God nd my love fo the lady I was there to c I booked appointment wt her for anoda day after we exchange numbers.

If I take this lady home...and av sex wt her she can easily com out and tell those who care to listen I rape her,she was willing to folo. The same way there ar bad eggs among the men likewise its not all ladies that ar saint...som ladies wl even call a guy that so not make a move dindirin..or fool and other names.

on men slpin wt under age som of them may be possed or jus wicked though my opinion is not a reason for men to be rapist. This thing is like a coin wt two side...only the victim kno the real truth.

Imagine the case of Joseph in the bible wt portipha wife if Joseph did not run and he was caught in the act won't the woman claim he rape her even wt the run he still end up in prison..

To all victims of rape my heart goes out to u all I pray the Lord console u and the wound heal quickly.

Nairaland General › 7 Things You Should Never Do In Lagos by smsshola(op): 9:47am On Aug 08, 2015*

2. Put Your Wallet in Your Back Pocket

While most Lagosians are nice and helpful there
are always folks looking to take advantage of
unsuspecting tourists (and locals!). Never place
your wallet in your back pocket, as you are bound
to lose it – sometimes without even knowing.
Be smart, use common sense and keep an eye on
your wallet is , particularly when you’re in
crowded places such as Obalande, Oshodi and
Balogun market.

3. Flash cash around

Whether it’s when paying for things on the street,
counting your money or taking out a wad of cash
and then asking the waiter how to figure out the
bill, flashing cash is never a good move in Lagos.
The Nigerian currency is not hard to figure out.
Always keep a running tally in your head so you
do not have to whip out your cash and start
counting; this will also protect you from thieves.

4. Try to cut in line

With so many amazing things to do in Lagos,
sooner or later you are going to have to wait in a
line. Whether you’re queuing up to snag rush
movie tickets, trying to grab a meal at a popular
eatery or waiting to use an ATM in a shopping
mall, you are going to have to wait along with
everyone else.
If you stealthily try to make it to the front, you
will be caught and blessed with the wrath of a
crowd of scary, impatient Lagosians…and this is
not something you want to deal with.

5. Taste street food with no intention to buy

In some part of the country, street vendors will
encourage you to have a taste of what they are
selling, even if they know you may not end up
buying.
Some people actually eat to their fill by tasting
street food from numerous vendors. However, in
Lagos, if you are going to taste it, you better be
prepared to pay for a portion, even if it is as small
as NGN50 worth. Most street vendors will reign
insults and curses on you, while some other will
take a step further and cause an embarra$$ing
scene if you refuse to make a purchase.

6. Pay a hawker before collecting the purchase

Despite the ban by the state government, the
traffic in Lagos ensures that there are hawkers
lurking around to meet the needs of stressed and
tired commuters.
If you are looking to buy anything from a hawker,
never give them the cash before you receive the
item as there is a huge chance they will
disappear with your cash and the item. Also, if
they need to give you some change after
purchase, do not hand them the cash. Instead,
ask them to return with the change you need
before you make the purchase.

7. Compare Lagos with life elsewhere

This applies mostly to visitors. Do not spend time
comparing things in Lagos to things in other
cities in the country or even around the world. Do
not complain that it is crowded and there is
traffic almost on every street or that you come
from an area with cheaper transportation. It is
just rude to say where you come from is better
than Lagos – so why did you visit? Things are
DIFFERENT in Lagos. The sooner you learn and
accept this, the more enjoyable your stay will be.

Celebrities › Re: Photos Of The Day: When A Child Met His Grandfather's Twin For The First Time... by smsshola(m): 9:20am On Aug 08, 2015

The kids be like am I seeing double...pls I need explanation.

Crime › Re: TOBECHUKWU: America's Most Wanted Cybercriminal (pictures) by smsshola(m): 7:19am On Aug 08, 2015

Naija sha...we av them lorishirishi the good, the bad and the ugly.

Politics › Re: Lola Oguntade: How I Gave Up Everything To Campaign For Buhari by smsshola(op): 8:50pm On Aug 07, 2015

himkers:
Mumu gal. She take style dey find job; am not surprised say no yoruba babe,,, they always have this 'licking-a$$' attitude

shoro niyen....

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Politics › Lola Oguntade: How I Gave Up Everything To Campaign For Buhari by smsshola(op): 8:33pm On Aug 07, 2015

A 22 year-old-girl Lola Oguntade has narrated an amazing story of how she quit her job in a bank and became a ‘chronic’ campaigner for Muhammadu Buhari.

In her interview granted to SaharaTV, Lola said she gave up everything to campaign for “Change” during Nigeria’s 2015 presidential election.

The “Buhari girl” quit her job in a Nigerian bank in order to focus on supporting the APC’s presidential candidate in the March 28 election.

Oguntade was not joining or being funded by any political party or Buhari’s campaign.

Lola said: “The majority of people are not on social media, so I decided to talk to them on markets, they also have their PVCs so they should know about General Muhammadu Buhari.

“I met somebody from the Facebook campaigning team and they invited me to their meeting. When I came they were just looking at me and I understand that I was the youngest one there.

“And they began to nominate official people for campaigning and I raised my hand and said: I want to be an assistance coordinator of this group.

“Everybody looked at me: Who are you? You have just come and want to be coordinator of this group.”

“When I was giving my speech I said that as a matter of fact I am not experienced. I have passion for Nigeria, I have passion for General Muhammadu Buhari, I am eager to sacrifice to work for this organization.”

Then the young girl talked about the desperation that came after shift of polls from February 14 to March 28, 2015.

“After they postponed the campaign, after they postponed the election then there was show because the people were upset and we can’t give up,” Lola said.

“We didn’t have money, and only the encouragement from Facebook kept me going. So when people said we don’t have money I said don’t worry the God will provide.”

Lola further stated that when she needed money to organise rallies, she wrote on social media and Nigerians donated the money.

“They were really supportive and encouraging. I was not funded by the APC, it was all done by Nigerians. I gave money for campaign, Nigerians gave.

“Then they sent me invitation for the inauguration but I really didn’t have money to fly to Abuja, I chatted with my friends and they said Lola you must go.

As for her current affairs the Buhari supporter said: “I keep advocating for good governance. We have to ensure that Buhari will deliver all his promises.”

It should be recalled that the former military ruler Muhammadu Buhari, who turned a democrat, has become the first opposition aspirant to win a presidential poll in Nigeria.

Final results showed that Buhari beat Goodluck Jonathan by more than 2.5 million votes.

Jonathan called his rival to concede defeat and congratulate him. Buhari’s supporters took to the streets to celebrate on March 31.

President Buhari has already more than two months in the office, and he is trying to do his best serving Nigerians. However the delay in appointment of ministers, new Boko Haram attacks and drop of the national currency, naira, mar the performance of the new administration.

https://www.naij.com/510062-gave-read-confessions-buhari-girl.html

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Politics › How I Gave Up Everything To Campaign For Buhari by smsshola(op): 8:25pm On Aug 07, 2015

A 22 year-old-girl Lola Oguntade has narrated an amazing story of how she quit her job in a bank and became a ‘chronic’ campaigner for Muhammadu Buhari. In her interview granted to SaharaTV, Lola said she gave up everything to campaign for “Change” during Nigeria’s 2015 presidential election. The “Buhari girl” quit her job in a Nigerian bank in order to focus on supporting the APC’s presidential candidate in the March 28 election. Oguntade was not joining or being funded by any political party or Buhari’s campaign. Lola said: “The majority of people are not on social media, so I decided to talk to them on markets, they also have their PVCs so they should know about General Muhammadu Buhari. “I met somebody from the Facebook campaigning team and they invited me to their meeting. When I came they were just looking at me and I understand that I was the youngest one there. “And they began to nominate official people for campaigning and I raised my hand and said: I want to be an assistance coordinator of this group. “Everybody looked at me: Who are you? You have just come and want to be coordinator of this group.” “When I was giving my speech I said that as a matter of fact I am not experienced. I have passion for Nigeria, I have passion for General Muhammadu Buhari, I am eager to sacrifice to work for this organization.” Then the young girl talked about the desperation that came after shift of polls from February 14 to March 28, 2015. “After they postponed the campaign, after they postponed the election then there was show because the people were upset and we can’t give up,” Lola said. “We didn’t have money, and only the encouragement from Facebook kept me going. So when people said we don’t have money I said don’t worry the God will provide.”

Politics › Buhari: It Is Time To Return To Agriculture by smsshola(op): 8:11pm On Aug 07, 2015

President Muhammadu Buhari on Friday,
August 7, said that the time has come for
Nigerians to do more than pay mere lip
service to agriculture, as crude oil and gas
exports will no longer be sufficient as the
country’s major revenue earner. Femi Adesina, the special adviser to the
president on media and publicity, said the
leader of the country made the declaration at
an audience with Dr Kanayo Nwanze, the
Nigerian-born president of the International
Fund for Agricultural Development (IFAD), at
the presidential villa, Abuja “It’s time to go back to the land. We must
face the reality that the petroleum we had
depended on for so long will no longer suffice.
We campaigned heavily on agriculture, and we
are ready to assist as many as want to go
into agricultural ventures,” the president said.
He also pledged that his administration would
also cut short the long bureaucratic processes
that the Nigerian farmers have to go through
to get any form of assistance from
government.
President Buhari also told the IFAD president
that improvement of the productivity of
farmers, dry season farming and creative ways
to combat the shrinking of the Lake Chad
would also receive the attention of his
administration. Meanwhile, still in his bid to bring change to
Nigeria, President Buhari has ordered the
ministry to produce a plan for the
establishment of a military industrial complex
for the local production of weapons for the
needs of the Nigerian Armed Forces.
The president gave the directive at the
graduation ceremony of the National Defence
College, Abuja , through his media aide, Garba
Shehu.

Naij.com

Celebrities › Re: Whats Wrong! See The Photos Cynthia Sent Her Fiancee (photos) by smsshola(m): 2:18pm On Aug 07, 2015

I op am not the only one seeing that dark side of the lady by left hand side...

Celebrities › Re: Who Among This Stars Do You Think Is The Queen Of Nigeria Music Industry Of Now? by smsshola(m): 2:16pm On Aug 07, 2015

Naija queen indeed..

Crime › Re: Man Killed While Negotiating With A Commercial Sex Worker by smsshola(m): 1:59pm On Aug 07, 2015

Konji hmmm sex...ehen.

Career › Re: Increment Of Workers Salary Will Reduce Corruption – NLC by smsshola(m): 1:55pm On Aug 07, 2015

How wl the increase stop corruption...?

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Politics › Re: [PICS]: Nigerian Army Delivers Heavy Blow To Boko Haram by smsshola(m): 7:48am On Aug 07, 2015

May the lord protect the lives of the innocent at the battle front..

Politics › Re: North, S/west Do Not Need The Rest Of Nigeria – Alamieyeseigha by smsshola(m): 12:55pm On Aug 06, 2015

Alamieyeseigha im ma dey talk so he has finally find his voice...

Phones › Re: How To Get 325mb For Free On Mtn by smsshola(m): 5:11pm On Aug 05, 2015

@op pls can u tell us the process of tweaking, for som1 of us that don't kno pls.

Business › Re: First Bank’s Rising Loan Losses Is About To Spell Doom For Its Balance Sheet by smsshola(m): 4:47pm On Aug 05, 2015

aameyah:
Gosh. Where will my savings be safe

.

UBA...

Celebrities › Re: OH Dear: Singer Rihana Exposes Her Entire Asset In Revealing ‘bikini’ Costume At by smsshola(m): 11:43pm On Aug 04, 2015

I wl click the link after slp.

Crime › Re: 18 Yr Old Boy, Rapes 82-yr-old Woman For 4hrs. What He Did Next Will Shock You by smsshola(m): 11:39pm On Aug 04, 2015

Aiye nlo a to....if na Africa wey we dey we for say na ritualist the guy be abi he dey look for power.

Now wey be say na abroad d issue happened wetin we go com talk.. nairalander go say end time thing..anoda version go say KONJI na bastard.

This world self....som ppu ar jus possessed.

Celebrities › Re: TRUE LOVE: “she Was There When I Was Rolling Around On Okadas” – Olamide by smsshola(m): 11:31pm On Aug 04, 2015

Enoquin:
You said 'some' and yet 'some' marry without splashing much money and still break up. It is not only the rich that break up.
Na their headache jare

Lol abi..may God helep us.

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