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Omoakin120:
Hello everyone, I have something bothering my mind for a long time which I need an advice on.

I have a girlfriend which I really love so much, we were friends before i started falling for her, we've been together for long, I enjoyed her company, she's the best woman to me, she's everything you'll love a wife to be in character, caring , love and all.

Unfortunately, I have a problem, and the problem is that, she's not that beautiful to me. I'm a kind of person that doesn't like trying what my mind doesn't fully want, whenever I think of her, it's only that aspect I don't always like.
I've always fantasized of marrying someone very beautiful cos that's what I want. The problem is that this girl is so good to me , I have no problem with her, but I'm only thinking I can get fed of her with time cos of her beauty which is not up to my expectation and I may likely cheat on her.
Please, I don't know what to do, can I still risk being with her or leave her.

Op I challenge you to marry the most beautiful girl in the world and watch how that beauty will fade away after some years.........reading through your post I noticed your not really matured, just another teen struggling with hormonal issues, I promise you that as you get older your perception will greatly change but before then let me give you an assignment......

Go out on a Saturday, visit a couple of wedding venues (say atleast 15 to 20 venues) then come back and tell me what you noticed.

And what's wrong if they want to succeed? What is even wrong with this irritating northerners?, is it that they are scared of ruling themselves or what?

Unity beggars........

OkikiOluwa1:
I m not a Zombie, not stereotyped. You are the Zombie. You can lick my ass & Fu ck off!

Zombie

Op u are right

OkikiOluwa1:
You v no balls to give advices here. Your advise is terrible & can break a union or home.
You need to be reasonable, careful & get required experience if possible before dishing out childish stereotyped advise to relationships.

Clap 4 urself, qualified relationship adviser.....zombie

OkikiOluwa1:
Your own advice ll make him to be totally irrational. Why not direct the insult to me and see fire. Abi you think forming Nairaland champion here is a testimony of your IQ?
You think your advice is the a good one?
Didn't you read where the op said he cut into the girls conversation cos he suspected her.
You should v concrete evidence against a woman else you ll really look like a fool.

Direct ur quotes to the op, he's the one asking for help not me i gave mine so I expect u to give him urs too and not to attack someone you have little or no knowledge about and until then any other thing you have to say if it's not to the Op then you better sholve it up ur as*.

Kennedyiheme:
right I'm surprised at the amount of red pillers now.. surely men are waking up

Pls wt is redpill?

op u are a mad man, infact had it been I can stretch my hand across to ur phone I for don give you satisfying slap wey go reset your akamu brain.

Wetin concern us if you use cd or if you trust her or not?
Redpill OP

Is she ur gf?

OkikiOluwa1:
Nope. I disagree.
Time will reveal if this girl the op is talking about is dishonest.
Let the op go & apologise.
The op has no concrete evidence against her.
Most girls in Nigeria today are bad. Blame the hardship & bad parenting. But the op hasn't given himself a good case here

Op if you want to become a dullard (woman rapper) then take the advice above

money121:
Alh. Yusuf Fatai Oko Oloyun was later laid to rest in his home town.

May Allah forgive his sins and grant him Jannah
Amin

His brothers killed him(Muslims) so no cause for alarm

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Toluwashe778:
op, u know what I discovered? bad boys rarely find good girl. those bad boys always think they are smart . always want to take advantage of girl and they met smarter ladies.
when all what they think is how to make love to her,
later they will come to Nl to cry.
dear op, if u are good , there are still good girls. probably ur bae is one of us .
u guys should talk things out
don't allow these badly oriented people mislead u.
they are bad so they cannot experience or find good girls
let them stop carry sex on their head about
if u look inward, no lady has nothing to offer.
but since all their life is sex and sucking breast, why won't they find people like them?

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Another trash from an emotional blackmailer

Sarang:
THIER OWN experiences not yours or others
So why should someone hate their lover because yours cheated?!

@op follow the advices of the few sensible people here and save your relationship.

Yes op follow the SENSIBLE advice and save your relationship then @ the end you become a dullard even worst than the dullard we currently have in Abuja.

funmisticqueen2:
I agree with, CBD oil, it has proven effective for a some types of seizure disorders.


But that Lord's chosen program is a scam. That their church has a lot of patients in YABA LEFT hearing the voice of God upandan.

Op incase you decide to attend the crusade Abeg I get imported chosen mopol apron for sale @ subsidized rate

Logan95:
My people, Something really terrible just occurred now.

I have dated my girlfriend for about 6 months, she is the most open individual I've ever met... She has told me most of her secrets. She is a very beautiful and intelligent girl and what really made us thick is that I was there when she had seizures in the past.

To the issue, She answered a call today and I felt suspicious and I decided to confront her immediately, but as she was trying to explain, I cut in and acted with mistrust and accusations that I suspect cheating. This was a major catalyst and it triggered her seizure. I started apologizing immediately to calm her down, she passed out for some minutes after she tried to use her clothes to suffocate herself.

She woke up irritated and I asked her to explain what is happening in her social world. She said it was really nothing and that she feels I don't trust her that's why she reduced telling me personal stuff. That there is no connection between her and the guy.

She said she has forgiven me but she has to leave my house that moment. I asked that I drop her but she refused and packed her belongings that has been here. She later accepted that I'd drop her because I could not stand the shame of her going alone but my car battery decided to die and she eventually entered bike home.

She left by saying she needs space but I feel I've lost her because I'll be once guilty of inducing her seuzures.

Ladies and gentlemen, red pillers, kindly advice me on how to handle this issue.

N:B kindly put into consideration that she is really emotional and her peculiar challenge.

Op you did the right thing by confronting her since she
answered the call in your presence but at same time you were too quick to drop your charges against her, believe me all the acting up she is doing is to see or test you and once you fail her test she will take over leadership in the relationship, since she said she needs space give it to her and wait for her next move, you can call her atimes just to check on her health but don't go begging her over anything I repeat don't beg her over anything but make sure you call to check on her health (once you beg her to come back and she eventually accepts you have automatically given up control of the relationship to her).

And one more thing......

BEFORE YOU TRUST ANY GIRL THERE HAS TO BE SOME KIND OF SCIENTIFIC DEVICE TO TEST HER FAITHFULNESS OR ELS NEVER TRUST A GIRL.

I should embrace Islam just because Muhammadu is the central figure abi? OP check below......

110000 to kick start my business, have been looking for loan but no success.

Bighead9:
All i know is, Igbo's can never rule this Country. We will never allow them.

See mumu, Mr suffering and smiling.

we already know

no cause for alarm, na dem dem

Maryam1234:
Please DM to place your order, we're based in Abuja but we do Nationwide delivery.

Hv much is your 25 liter?

we know the slaves......

Where is Paul nnongo?

GamalNasser:
Hahahah I warned that Buhari will turn Nigeria to another Somalia where Warlords and local militias control different regions with a very weak central govt holed up in the capital and we are there ..God punish anyone that voted this man

Kpomkwen!!! The nail on the head

It surprises me to notice how some so called men still behave like fools in this 21st century......anyways ftc

we already know na

DonFreshmoney:
Am sure the new recruit of Amotekun shot him...

He has been used as live specimen by amutekun

Were is AMUTEKU?

desmond2pk:
Islamic militia have declared war on Christians for more than 15 years. This people can not stop until they are repelled . The government can not help us because they have the same agenda with the militia. We have to help us.

Let AMUTEKUN fight them