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Cooked this days ago... Nice meal..

Indomie.. With sliced green leaf.. And tomato and fresh pepper with onions.. And scattered fried eggs.. With crayfish.. With fried plantain.... Yummy

And chicken!!!

9jakohai:
Depression

It actually is a serious problem among medical doctors.

Doctors get depressed. Because the medical job is full of stress.

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In reading some of the comments here, I see a lot of jokes and a lot of funny comments, so let me explain to you all why that doctor jumped, and why he was that depressed to jump.

Many medical students face a lot of pressure from the time they decide to read medicine. It starts at unviersity. You are suddenly reading tough courses, and most of the time, you have no idea of what you are doing. The amount to read is too much, and the time to read it is too little. Your professors and lecturers expect much from you, your family expects much from you, and somehow...after the first three years of preclinical studies, you pass...and it is on to the next three years of clinical studies.

But then you go to the clincal side...and it is as if the pressure increases. You are expected to not only master plenty more stuff...you are also expected to take part in managing real live patients. And the thing is, there are many patients who come to hospital that will die. Many will die of some of the most horrible diseases known to man. I can still recall seeing a young woman my age, when I was in 400 level , dying from HIV. Someone my age...dying from HIV. Or the time I watched a father die in front of his fifteen year old son....and in that moment I watched as a young boy became fatherless in minutes. After a while it gets to you, this constant train of death in the clinics, of suffering in the clinics, of pain, hurt and fears. And added to that is your own academic fears, then, after 3 years of that, you graduate.

Then you become a house officer, and then a resident. Your responsibilities increase. You begin to see more and more patients come in, whom you diagnose with illnesses that in some cases cannot be cured. Or you struggle to take care of a very sick patient, like the time I was responsible for a baby as a house officer, who was very sick and who despite the best efforts of the medical team, died. And what;s sad about the case was that if the child had survived, it would have been severely disabled for life. Meanwhile, you struggle against poor equipment, against lack of facilities, bad working environemnt, and the idea that you are really not good enough as a doctor, that you are more of a liability than a blessing (Yes, we doubt ourselves sometimes).And you sturggle too when patient's relatives , and even colleagues accuse you of not trying hard enough. It hurts.

So to all those making jokes about this death, saying that his village people have got him, that why cant he make himself happy.....it is not as easy as you think. Medicne is a rewarding job, but it can drain the life out of you. No....it will drain the life out of you. Sometimes, you will womder how you can go on one more step, how you can continue, how you have to be an angel all the time

Yes, doctors are depressed. According to a study 27% of doctors are depressed. Yes....we are human too. We fall sick. We get depressed.And we do not admit it...even to ourselves. We lie to ourselves....till it gets worse...and then the unthinkable happens.

As a medic who sometimes feels down, one thing that keeps me up is the fact that I have to be there for my patients. THinking about others can be a great depression releiver. Jesus did talk about the benefits of being a servant. Perhaps that servanthood aspect of being a medic is where we may yet find our salvation....somehow.

God bless you.... GOD bless all doctors!!!

Make una stop all these rubbish oo...
When 2.2 Don become so bad like this? Una smoke weed?
That means those with 3rd class and pass will just hang themselves.....

Radarada people..

tspun:
Thanks, is almost as if that advice is for me.

All my life I have always wish to marry a slim girl with height. But now I am face with a short beautiful fair decent lovely girl who has showed me love more than anyone as ever done.

I love everything about her except her height. Am just praying for God to give me the grace to see pass that because I am tire of searching and i really want to settle down.

We are twin mehn!!!

Same problem here... Aswear!!!!

Make this world just end abeg.

Or I move to another planet....

See the kind thing sef!!!

Make this world just end abeg.

Or I move to another planet....

See the kind thing sef!!!

You... explode inside e pack box too na..

1:1 na draw..


Stop disturbing us abeg.. Na today? IPhone 20 dey explode even cos tsunami join sef... We dey rest..

Na com tecno.. Mtchew..


Next problem pls!!!

People criticising OP use of English.... Get it into your brain that "Grace has spoken for him"....
In your case you might not be that lucky sef..



So stop hating and congratulates him...


English is not a test of knowledge and wisdom!!!

OP congrats.

Into fish farming already...
And I need cash for continuity.. It will yield me more profit
Thanks.

Akant take this result...

Wtf!!!

Barcelona are PDP of 1998/2012

Which kind tin be dis?

ExcelNG:
The ffuck just happened? A repeat of Munich?

Arsenal now needs 11 goals to qualify.

Na basketball?

Lwkmdh

A little reply with humor... I so love this twitter handler..
Don't be too serious all time..

I dey shame for people when dey beg for this thread..

greggng:
It depends on what you wanna import. I have a chinese who I do cargo business with. Must times she assist in buying stuff and shipping of same to nigeria . I handle the clearing and other stuff here. If you want my number I can give u so that we can meet in person and discuss better

pls I need your number pls...


Lets talk.

yehmy:
let's wait for the guy that sends him 3k. then you can be sure... check the acct number on dt post that he begged for the 3k he had to edit them leaving only the 1 the guy that sent the money quoted before deactivating his account. it shows someone is trying to be smart

True..

I was trying to doubt my intelligence on this case... But finally you opened my eyes... That I can't be wrong either believing to your claims...

Nice job here yehmy

Yehmy nice job...
But your claim is still not sounding too convincing that he is a scarmer....

A concrete evidence will nail him to the wall..


Tho there is still something fishing about him(his story).
@finalbos... Don't let this put you off your helping hands to the needy..
Posterity won't forget you... I already know who you completely are.

Nawa ooo...

All these people self dey make me feel bad oo...

Baba abeg teach me na... I won dey pace around like evil spirits too when dey make money..


Cornerstone!!

Lauretta or whatever you call ur self... Speak for your self and ur household ooo..

I am not in love with buhari.... I don't hate him either..... I just don't like him and his selfish ways


In fact I hate buhari jor.... Make I stop the pretence jor.

Amarabae:
Yahoo-Yahoo biz is a LIE. They are ritualists using yahoo-yahoo to cover up.

The only meaningful comment so far..
Babe u get sense!!

So what about the messages too?

Them still dey generate messages too?

Check the message inbox... U would see almost 224 comments.... How about that? Huh? Can anyone explain kwanu?


That nigga is up his game... Stop snitching

TrumporIdie:
you will wooz her because she gave fake number? Isn't that domestic violence? Idiots like you who will beat up a woman for flimsy reasons are the same type of men who despite being married still sleep with other women up and down, hypocritical baastard.

You won't gain cheap popularity through me...

"if you can't get the sarcasm of my post" flee from my post please...


You are nothing but a cheap clown before me.. By calling someone a bastard....

Nor be say I curse you... Just stand in front of a mirror make you look your life... How e bend reach!!

nma4god:
like I said earlier ,individuals are diff....I definitely will laugh at it most esp when I know who I married and the fact that I trust him enough to accept to be his wife.....and if for any reason I do not find it funny,I will make it clear to him that what he did didn't go down well with me....as a loving spouse he will apologize and that will be the end of it...I won't hang on it all day not to talk of close to 3days,that's rubbish....bottom line is 'know who u are with and trust them enough to be with them'....there is absolutely no point in marrying someone u can't leave at home and travel and still have peace of mind,no way

Na from clap... Dem dey enter dance!!

Dem nor dey plan fight!!!


I leave you with these two riddles.

nma4god:
my dear...I thought same thing.....I'm surprised at how everyone wanna chew the woman raw.....@ op....just dont give out ya no next time to avoid troubles....i would as well expect my hubby to laugh with me should such a thing occur but since individuals are diff,just learn who ur hubby is and steer clear for ya own peace of mind.....dont mind these people here blasting u unnecessarily...u know yasef and ya worth and not what some of them term u to be....

Okay.....u would expect your husband to laugh over it that you gave a man your attention talk more of giving a number out? Just forget the fact that she gave out the wrong number cos I see dat as a justification on her part...


Visualise this scene....

Your husband was talking with a lady.. And to the extend he gave her his number.... And when you came home... he was telling you he gave a lady the wrong number today cos she was into him and with all shinning smile on his face..
Would you laugh it off too?

Or you would tell your husband what he did was disrespectful and he shouldn't even pass through that spot he gave the lady the number again...

Tell me the truth... Which one u go do? Laugh or vex

micxwell:
Bros, calm down o. Lol

Bross no.. U check am na... E nor make sense na

This girl just make the pineapple when I dey chop now now just sour for my mouth...

Had it been nairaland get "Konk" button eh.... I for press Konk for her head this evening..


She nor even feel remorseful self.. She still dey follow people argue here....

monerozi5590:
....This dude funny die. On a serious note you have said it all. She disrespected and insulted her husband.

The thing vex me gan!!! I swear... Shuuu..

She still get that spirit of flirting for her body till now even after she Don Marry....

Abeg nigga... Good evening jor.

Bross... That girl nor like you oo..

She nor even send u self... Na make she finish school nai be her matter now..


She say "she will talk about marriage after nysc" see ponzy scheme oo... She won finish you kpatakpata

She still holds that her ex high esteem... Don't let a girl fool you... Even God go vex for you if woman fool you..

I take God beg you.. Or wetin you dey serve take beg you... Go find another girl abeg...


That girl go dumpppppp you ooooooooooooooo

Giving the man alone a number spells doom for your husband..

Giving the man wrong number spells rebound for the doctor guy.. Cos he is gonna still come around and keep searching for you..

Telling your husband that silky act spell danger for you..

You just insulted your husband by giving out your number.. Even when it's not for a business purpose.. Even you rightly know he was flirting... Even when you know your husband came with you to the hospital... And even when you still holding your 2months old baby...

You disrespected you husband, you baby, and you self


If I be your husband... You will leave my house to your family house for one week... And you will learn in the hard way...

I go wooz you slap join sef.... Nonsense and ingredients