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Romance / Re: She Is Yet To Figure Out What She Wants In Life. by sofadj(m): 11:06pm On Mar 15, 2016 |
Youre not compatible period. Some other guy might like her "homely" nature... |
Travel / Re: Victims Of The Lagos-Ibadan Express Fire-Accident Die - Graphic Photos by sofadj(m): 11:56pm On Mar 14, 2016 |
No one is talking of Inhalational Injury? - Injury along their respiratory tract from the hot air and soot... |
Romance / Re: This Is Why You Don't Need To Marry (come In Guys) by sofadj(m): 1:28pm On Mar 13, 2016 |
I used to think like you OP, when I was 18years or so... Now I know better. |
Health / Re: Doctor In The House:Obstetrics And Gynecology by sofadj(m): 11:44am On Mar 11, 2016 |
BLACKPANTHER: The best approach depends on the microbial sensitivity pattern of your region. In layman terms ; an antibiotic may be effective against a bacteria infection0 in a region and resistant in another region. That being said, there have been a report of widespread resistance to Ciprofloxacin by the bacteria that causes Gonorrhea making Ciprofloxacin unrecommended. If resistance is suspected, I strongly suggest you promptly visit a hospital and laboratory where microscopy, culture and sensitivity may be done to identify the most effective drug in your case and be properly managed. |
Health / Re: Doctor In The House:Obstetrics And Gynecology by sofadj(m): 11:00am On Mar 11, 2016 |
Mzhappiness: Ovulation pain may vary in severity from a mild lower abdominal discomfort to a more serious one. It is usually one sided - the side of the ovary releasing the egg lasting few minutes to hours. Several theories abound as the cause of this pain. The most widely accepted is the theory of follicular fluid being released along with your egg which causes some form of irritation to the abdominal cavity onto which it is released. Ovulation pain is normal however it varies in severity from cycle to cycle and from women to women. To know if your pain is due to ovulation: Determine if it occurs around your mid-cylce ( 2weeks from the first day of your menses) If your pain is severe or lasts more than a day, see a doctor who will help evaluate for other causes of the pain. |
Celebrities / Re: Olajumoke Shares Stage With Dolapo Osinbajo, Vp's Wife (photos) by sofadj(m): 10:46am On Mar 11, 2016 |
its over, she has made it. 11 Likes 2 Shares |
Health / Re: Doctor In The House:Obstetrics And Gynecology by sofadj(m): 10:22pm On Mar 10, 2016 |
Jaywon242: In addition to inferences made from your symptoms and signs shown, these tests would be helpful to detemine if an infective organism in your blood and what type -Full Blood Count -Peripheral Blood Film -Blood Culture Regards |
Health / Re: Doctor In The House:Obstetrics And Gynecology by sofadj(m): 12:15am On Mar 10, 2016 |
toitoi: Did the backache start before the pregnancy? While back ache may be caused by pregnancy due to hormone released by your body which loosens ligaments support of your back bone it is unlikely that this would begin as early as 4 weeks. Be that as it may, do these things -See your doctor to further evaluate you -Improve on your posture - Sit straight, Walk upright -Use Cold compresses (bag of ice ) on your back for 20mins -Use Warm compresses (warm cloth) on your back too -Use analgesics - Paracetamol is safe in pregnancy Regards Dr Sofa |
Romance / Re: Relationships Are NOT Meant For Students by sofadj(m): 11:57am On Mar 07, 2016 |
I quite agree with you. It puts a lot of pressure on guys. Reason why i never dated as a student. 3 Likes |
Travel / Re: General U.s.a (student) Visa Enquiries-part 8 by sofadj(m): 5:35pm On Mar 01, 2016 |
imperiouxx: Thanks |
Travel / Re: General U.s.a (student) Visa Enquiries-part 8 by sofadj(m): 1:41pm On Mar 01, 2016 |
sofadj: imperiouxx: Bros this na Jamb answer o... Actually i intend to add more people to the list of sponsors including myself. Im being cautious though knowing that all these information might/will be put on the i20 . |
Travel / Re: General U.s.a (student) Visa Enquiries-part 8 by sofadj(m): 1:15pm On Mar 01, 2016 |
Abeg the information you gave to your school (as regards funding sources and amount) before being issued the i20, does it have to be exact same with what you'l go to the embassy with for your visa interview? |
Travel / Re: General U.s.a (student) Visa Enquiries-part 8 by sofadj(m): 5:51pm On Feb 29, 2016 |
Please what are the ways to secure financial aid( GA, TA, GS) for Masters programme? |
Romance / Re: My Heart Has Been Torn Apart! by sofadj(m): 11:50pm On Feb 13, 2016 |
1. All those saying "move on"... do they know the meaning of 7 years? 7 years is huge and trust me having been with someone for that long, it can never be easy to move in without them. But hey, she's gone so you are left with no other choice than to move on. However to make it easy... - Talk to a friend or group of frineds - they will help you get over it. You need people t be there for you - Try never to be alone for now - Get rid of things that will remind you of her ... pictures, gifts, delete her pics, unfollow on social sites, stop communicating with her totally. - Try never to be idle- always keep yourself busy - Focus on your job 2. For all those saying "She will regret it" blah blah, UNFORTUNATELY, THIS ISNT A MOVIE OR A FAIRYTALE - SHE MAY NOT RGRET IT As a matter of fact, she may end up living happily ever after with her new found "rich" boo. but hey, that's life - not always fair atleast from the human perspective. But you can't beat yourself up about that. Forget trying to get rich inorder to impress or show her. LIVE YOUR LIFE FOR YOU. GET RICH FOR THE SOLE PURPOSE OF HELPING YOUR FAMILY & RELATIVES AND HUMANITY IN SHORT FORGET SHE EXISTS AND MOVE ON BRO. 7 Likes |
Romance / Re: Why Are Relationships So Hard Today? by sofadj(m): 2:06pm On Feb 12, 2016 |
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Romance / Why Are Relationships So Hard Today? by sofadj(m): 12:21am On Feb 12, 2016 |
Why are relationships so hard today? Why do we fail at love every time, despite trying so hard? Why have humans suddenly become so inept at making relationships last? Have we forgotten how to love? Or worse, forgotten what love is? We’re not prepared. We’re not prepared for the sacrifices, for the compromises, for the unconditional love. We’re not ready to invest all that it takes to make a relationship work. We want everything easy. We’re quitters. All it takes is a single hurdle to make us crumble to our feet. We don’t let our love grow, we let go before time It’s not love we’re looking for, only excitement and thrill in life. We want someone to watch movies and party with, not someone who understands us even in our deepest silences. We spend time together, we don’t make memories. We don’t want the boring life. We don’t want a partner for life, just someone who can make us feel alive right now, this very instant. When the excitement fades, we discover nobody ever prepared us for the mundane. We don’t believe in the beauty of predictability because we’re too blinded by the thrill of adventure. We immerse ourselves in the inconsequentials of the city life, leaving no space for love. We don’t have time to love, we don’t have the patience to deal with relationships. We’re busy people chasing materialistic dreams and there’s no scope to love. Relationships are nothing more than convenience. We look for instant gratification in everything we do – the things we post online, the careers we choose, and the people we fall in love with. We want the maturity in a relationship that comes with time, the emotional connect that develops over years, that sense of belonging when we barely even know the other person. Apparently, nothing’s worth our time and patience – not even love. We’d rather spend an hour each with a hundred people than spending a day with one. We believe in having ‘options’. We’re ‘social’ people. We believe more in meeting people than getting to know them. We’re greedy. We want to have everything. We get into relationships at the slightest attraction and step out, the moment we find someone better. We don’t want to bring out the best in that one person. We want them to be perfect. We date a lot of people but rarely give any of them a real chance. We’re disappointed in everyone. Technology has brought us closer, so close that it’s impossible to breathe. Our physical presence has been replaced by texts, voice messages, snapchats and video calls. We don’t feel the need to spend time together anymore. We have too much of each other already. There’s nothing left to talk about. We’re a generation of ‘wanderers’ who wouldn’t stay at one place for too long. Everyone is commitment phobic. We believe we’re not meant for relationships. We don’t want to settle down. Even the thought of it is scary. We cannot imagine being with one person for the rest of our lives. We walk away. We despise permanence like its some social evil. We like to believe we’re ‘different’ than the rest. We like to believe we don’t conform to social norms. We’re a generation that calls itself ‘sexually liberated’. We can tell sex apart from love, or so we think. We’re the hook-up-break-up generation. We have sex first and then decide if we want to love someone. Sex comes easy, loyalty doesn’t. Getting laid has become the new getting drunk. You do it not because you love the other person, but because you want to feel good. It’s all the temporary fulfillment we need. Sex outside relationships isn’t a taboo anymore. Relationships aren’t that simple anymore. There are open relationships, friends with benefits, causal flings, one-night stands, no strings attached – we’ve left very little exclusivity for love in our lives. We’re the practical generation who runs by logic alone. We don’t know how to love madly anymore. We wouldn’t take a flight to a far-off land just to see someone we love. We’d break up because, long distance. We’re too sensible for love. Too sensible for our own good. We’re a scared generation – scared to fall in love, scared to commit, scared to fall, scared to get hurt, scared to get our hearts broken. We don’t allow anyone in, nor do we step out and love anyone unconditionally. We lurk from behind walls we’ve created ourselves, looking for love and running away the moment we really find it. We suddenly ‘cannot handle it’. We don’t want to be vulnerable. We don’t want to bare our soul to anyone. We’re too guarded. We don’t even value relationships anymore. We let go of the most wonderful people for ‘the other fishes in the sea.’ We don’t consider them sacred anymore. There’s nothing we couldn’t conquer in this world, and yet, here we are ham-fisted at the game of love – the most basic of human instincts. Evolution, they call it. From the Internet. 3 Likes |
Travel / Re: General U.s.a (student) Visa Enquiries-part 8 by sofadj(m): 8:23pm On Feb 11, 2016 |
bigfrancis21: Thanks a lot. Any suggestion for securing financial aid? |
Travel / Re: General U.s.a (student) Visa Enquiries-part 8 by sofadj(m): 7:39pm On Feb 10, 2016 |
anyone in University of Maryland College park? Any opinion on the school? Looking to attend this fall. Secured admission already, currently seeking funding opportunities. Any info will be appreciated. |
Romance / Re: My Fiancee Is Having A Crush On Another Guy. by sofadj(m): 5:52am On Jan 23, 2016 |
This kind of relationship will constantly give you sleepless nights. Sweet today, bitter tomorrow. She's confused because, she has seen some guy that she considers better for her in a way ( that may be true or not) The earlier you get out the better for you. Deep inside you, you know its the right thing to do, but you are being cowardly. Its not easy though considering you must have sacrificed a lot for her and thinking of the stress of starting from the scratch with someone new. What you shouldn't do Don't call her asking for clarifications on your relationship, she has already shown you through her actions and by saying she's confused. Also she wouldn't be specific. Don't outdo yourself by trying new ways to show you love and care. I'm sure she knows that already. Besides that will only make you commit more and make her more powerful. Also it will make the ultimate break-up more hurting. What yo should do "Call her up, tell her you can't deal with her attitude anymore and break up" Move on bro. Trust me, 6 months from now, you will be glad you broke up. If you do anyother thing, you will only be postponing the "break up day" |
Health / Re: My Bitter Experience As A Doctor Today by sofadj(m): 10:45pm On Dec 26, 2015 |
Dear Doctor, I was once in your shoes, when i was a house officer in a teaching hospital, there was an accident with mass casualties. Victims were hausas numbering about 20 coming from Lagos going to Bauchi, the accident occurred in the midnite and I was the HO on call, they had no money on them, many were unconscious, some were terribly losing blood. They were suppsed to provide materials to resuscitate them but as most of them were in terrible conditons and were brought by Road safety officials no one culd stand in for them. I placed a call to my superiors, they sounded like there was nothing anyone could do about it, but i didnt stop there, i tried to call the CMAC and then the CMD that night...none of them was availabale to receive calls. I later went to the hospital pharmacy, the pharmacists insisted i stood in for them, and that incase no one came to settle their bills, it will be deducted from my salary - ofcourse i did. We proceeded to resuscitate as many as we could and i thank God i took those steps. I knew it was impossible that i would be made to pay, just that no one never wants to take that initiative. Next day I went to meet the CMAC( Chairman Medical Advisory Committee) and wrote a letter. I had to write several lettters after that , but ultimately my name was cleared. It is actually criminal to seek first for payment before attending to a patient if its a life-threatening emergency. OP whenever life is on the line, always try as much as possible to do more than you can do. I understand the hierarchical system in tertiary hospitals, but if a life is at stake...damn protocol , save the life and face the consequence later. 39 Likes 4 Shares |
Romance / Re: Have You Ever Dated Someone You Met On Nairaland?? by sofadj(m): 3:34pm On Nov 28, 2015 |
I have never dated sm1 I met on nl but I have met sm1 I dated on nl |
Romance / 11 Causes Of Painful Sexual Intercourse In Females by sofadj(m): 12:58pm On Nov 28, 2015 |
Dyspareunia or painful sexual intercourse can occur for a variety of reasons ranging from structural problems to psychological concerns. Many women experience painful intercourse at some point in their lives. It could occur just before sex, during or after. It could occur in men and women. It could occur on the surface, deep. It could affect a small portion of the genitals or more generalized. Understanding the duration, location, and nature of the pain is important to doctors in identifying the causes of the pain. Source: http://www.healthlineafrica.com/11-causes-of-painful-sexual-intercourse-in-females/ Also for causes in men: http://www.healthlineafrica.com/causes-of-painful-intercourse-in-men |
Romance / Re: See The Man Who Couldn't "Catch" AIDS by sofadj(m): 3:29pm On Nov 26, 2015 |
yes , you need my blood? wordbank: |
Romance / See The Man Who Couldn't "Catch" AIDS by sofadj(m): 12:44pm On Nov 26, 2015 |
There was once a man who lived in New York, United States – Stephen Lyon Crohn.He was born on September 5 1946 in Manhattan and was a homosexual. After training as an artist and social worker, he worked as a painter and sculptor and as a freelance editor for Fodors Travel. Source : http://www.healthlineafrica.com/meet-the-man-who-could-not-catch-aids/ [a href = "http://www.healthlineafrica.com/meet-the-man-who-could-not-catch-aids/"]Read more : African prostitutes who cant contract HIV[/a] 1 Share
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Culture / Re: 9 Richest Kings In The History Of Nigeria & How They Enjoy Royal Splendour(pics) by sofadj(m): 12:15pm On Nov 26, 2015 |
You didn't put Obateru. That just rubbishes your list Obateru is the richest king in Nigeria. His convoy pass President convoy. |
Health / Re: 13 Categories Of People Who Should Not Drink Alcohol by sofadj(m): 9:59am On Nov 21, 2015 |
Yeah |
Health / Ebola Strikes again - 3 New Cases Of Ebola Disovered In Liberia! by sofadj(m): 1:27am On Nov 21, 2015 |
Source: www.healthlineafrica.com/ebola-strikes-africa-again-3-new-ebola-cases-discovered-in-liberia Monrovia (AFP) - Three new cases of the deadly Ebola virus have been confirmed in Liberia, the country's health ministry and World Health Organization said Friday, after the nation was declared Ebola free in September. source: www.healthlineafrica.com |
Health / 13 Categories Of People Who Should Not Drink Alcohol by sofadj(m): 1:16am On Nov 21, 2015 |
Medical practitioners usually advise these set of people to stay away from alcohol or at least reduce the volume.source : http://www.healthlineafrica.com/15-categories-of-people-who-should-not-drink-alcohol/ 1. Pregnant women especially in the first twelve weeks of pregnancy source: http://www.healthlineafrica.com/15-categories-of-people-who-should-not-drink-alcohol/
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Career / Re: Advice:50k Job Or 70k Job On The Island, To Spend 15k Transport. by sofadj(m): 6:12am On Nov 19, 2015 |
You gave reasons lo leave the old job and more reasons to get the new job. You've answered yourself. You want the new job 1 Like |
Career / Re: Here Is Another Reason Why You Should Fail Early, Fail Often, Fail Forward. by sofadj(m): 8:31pm On Nov 18, 2015 |
Culled from Failing Forward - John C. Maxwell |
Career / Here Is Another Reason Why You Should Fail Early, Fail Often, Fail Forward. by sofadj(m): 8:30pm On Nov 18, 2015 |
The ceramics teacher announced on opening day that he was dividing the class into two groups. All those on the left side of the studio, he said, would be graded solely on the quantity of work they produced, all those on the right solely on its quality. His procedure was simple: on the final day of the class he would bring in his bathroom scales and weigh the work of the "quantity" group: 50 kilogram of pots rated an "A", 40 kilograms a "B" and so on. Those being graded on "quality" however , needed to produce only one pot - albeit a perfect one - to get an "A". Well, came grading time and a curious fact emerged: the works of the highest quality were all produced by the group being graded for quantity. It seems that while the "qauntity" group was busy churning out piles of work - and learning from their mistakes - the "quality" group had sat theorizing about perfection, and in the end had little more to show for their efforts than grandiose theories and a pile of dead clay. It doesnt matter if your objectives are in the area of art, business, ministry, sports or relationships. The only way to get ahead is to fail early, fail often and fail forward -by learning from such failures. |
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