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I think I am not attracted to my girlfriend anymore, I really don't know what happened. Normally I have a very high lipido. High sex drive, before I meet my current girlfriend. I stay a long time without a girl. I normally do soapy. I actually prefer that than spending my money on any hook up babe. (I don't do olosho)

It's been a month now I started dating this girl. At first wen we had sex, it wasn't that cool, I wasn't feeling it at all, I was already used to my soapy. She didn't make me cum or feel anything no matter how hard or fast I Bleep. D sex was just there... it felt like Nothing, but later on sha it got better.

But currently am not having any interest in d sex anymore cause am not just feeling it. Last night was worse, she was practically begging me for it. And I couldn't believe that there will be a day, that I would reject sex, it was weird for me, I don't know what's causing it but am not interested in sex when it comes to her, I just don't know. D feeling is not there, and it's not like I have any other person.

And it's not like am not Hot, or I have any sexual problem but am not just interested in her sexually. I don't know what might be d cause, I have been giving excuses for like 2 weeks now to buy time, I can telling she is getting angry and frustrated with what's happening. Her words was " if I do this to you you, will you be happy" last night she begging me for it, I had to lie that am not well, and I have serious work at the office tomorrow early morning

I don't want to lose her cause currently she keeps me company but this is something I don't want to turn into something else.

I think another thing that might be causing it is d difference in our stature, lately I have been admiring slimmer girls, and I get Hot just looking at them. a better way I can make you guys get a picture of is

Am like wizkid stature, and she is like omotola in Nollywood. Or tems With big ass.

It's fustrating what's happening. Cos I love this girl and she love so much. But physically we not compatible

Men stop paying for love, stop paying to be in relationship.

Shnew:
50k is what I can do bro. Games already installed and it’ll come with a pad.

How many games and names? Location?

Shnew:
50k is the best price.

I have 45k. Deal?

This guy

And we over here want to swear in a drug kingpin into office as president.
Court documents are there to show he was involved in drugs but some politicians are turning blind eyes cos of what will benefit them. because of party.
They want to break the law and do the swearing in. Yes swearing Tinubu is breaking the law. It's completely unconstitutional to do that

I weep for Nigeria. The world is watching

peter0071:
Hello Brother,

Have you bothered to know why you are getting the NOs from the ladies?

Most all say
Am in relationships
I have a boyfriend
That's what 90% tells me....

And once they telling me that it feels awkward to keep asking them. At first I stop asking once they say that but I thought to guy you gat press on. But wen try pressing more. Omo na shege I dey see. Insults here and there

For the past 2 years now. I have been in Lagos all I do is work to house back to work to house.
At first I wasn't worry because I felt omo person wen settle get roof over na him dey find gf. But things are way better now. I have worked and my worked has really paid for. I have been trying since then nothing. Konji dey on the other hand. Dealing with me. Note I don't do olosho. Nobody should suggest that nonsense to me here. I need suggestions but not hook up or olosho.

I tried going out but it's always a loneliness experience. I will be the only one at ba. Drinking and talking to myself. Am not bad looking. I have even try Facebook, Twitter, Instagram. Nothing. Talking stage don show me shege. Shege pro max. Omo...

Am even tired but I understand d goal. I have for my self. Am a man that set realist goals and achieve it. But the relationship thing is beginning to seem like a big challenge to me. And it's affecting me. It's like the more I try. D harder it becomes. I have tried matching making. E no work. It's seems all the girls and guys are already in a relationship. Na only me no remain.

Guys any suggestions.

Let me do a little introduction so you can understand the situation,

Am in my late 20s. Infact I'll be 29 come November. Things haven't been really smooth for me in terms of establishing myself as a man. I done with school, couldn't get a good job. I had to relocate to Lagos to see if I can get something to do. It was really rough, I was quatin with my brother for almost 2 years, sleeping on the floor. but the gist today is not about my struggles as am beginning to get back on my feet. I later got a manageable job. And me being a very prodent, am proud of how I have saved and put myself together I have gotten my self a nice apartment, furnished it and about to start a good business in addition to my job.

Now the reason why am writing this is because I really need to understand if there something am not doing well. Cos wen I been trying to get into a relationship. But it not just working. An to be honest it really getting to bother me cos. It's been a very long time I have been in a relationship. Am talking for above 5 years. And I haven't had sex for more than 2 years now. I have a very high lipido and it's Begin to affect me.

Note I don't do olosho or hook up. I am strongly against it. And am not trying to brag o. But I am fucking handsome. I might not be too tall but I am so handsome. That one is obvious but getting a serious girl has been so difficult.
its not that I haven't ask some girls out but the truth is that they have all decline with one reason or the other, this is what is beginning to make me rethink something. Guys I don tire for talking stage. I have been in so many talking stage, I have gotten so many no.s. it's now making me worry. Loneliness has now become the tormentor in my life. Apart from work. I don't really interact with anyone am always in doors. Loneliness wan finish me.

I don't really know whats is wrong that I can't get a gf. I have even try reducing my standards but all I get is no. And I have a boyfriend from girls.

Juleeee:
Go to a nice restaurant and order something nice, and return back home alone, with a lively music and eat yourself out.

Good idea.. just that am having a little bit of gum pain in my teeth so I don't think I want to eat much...

Laturuturu:
Go to a nice brotel. .carry hoe 1500
Get ursef two bottles of Goldberg 1000
Perper soup 1000.
Rest a little carry same hoe again 1500
Total 5K

Brithday to remember

I don't olosho, infact anything woman. Just remove it out of the equation.

Something special guys,
No idea

immortalcrown:
Must you go out and spend money on your birthday? If that is the only way you can get happiness, then you have a huge problem.

Flexing on your birthday anniversary is not bad. But it doesn't give true happiness. True happiness comes from inside of you. And what comes from inside can happen without external factors. Going out and spending money that day means you make external factors the source of your happiness. And external factors often disappoint.

I didn't say I must go out... I say I want to do something special. Any suggestions

My 28th birthday is upcoming tomorrow 25th of November and I want to make it's special for myself.

Alot had happened to me, last week I almost lost my job, I was put on compulsory counselling session by the company I work, am broke,and going through a lot is an understatement right now for me, but my birthday is here, the last I enjoy my birthday was in 2014,my 20th.

Last year, I made a very big mistake that almost ruin my last in bid to celebrate my birthday. This year, one week to my birthday I was what shege looks like... Ladies and gentle men. It wasn't funny.

Anyway, my budget is 5k. I want to do something fun for my birthday. I need recommendations.

Note 1. my family doesn't stay within same city as me, I stay in Lagos, my family is in Benin.

2. For now I don't have a girlfriend and I don't plan to, I don't have any female am into,am not gay! I dey fear women.

I will be in d comment section. Remember budget is 5k

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In a normal society. The police will investigate the matter, arrest those involved. There is already an official witness to the incident, the army officer was there.

But no the assault and intimidation of the flag bearing Nigeria will be swept under the carpet why because he was not supporting Tinubu and APC.

Let's ask ourselves is this the Nigeria we want, after we are gone. Is the the Nigeria are children will live in. Intimidation, beating, treat to life, death.

Vote wisely

PDP shot themselves in the leg when they made atiku their presidential candidate, do you expect another northerner to rule after 8 hopeless years of northern rule.

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newcommer:
Really? Ha, it wasn't even much. I meant to send much more but you didn't reply in time. By the time you replied, I'd already spent out of what I intended to send. You're on my wishlist sir. Let's look at month end, God willing

wow... thanks so much.

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the replies here made me feel somehow, am not after sex of anything like that, i dont even have the time, my work is time consuming, that one of the reason why i havent ask her yet, i come back late at night 10 pm. i just thought it better i sell it for someone i know, but i have learnt my lesson sha no problem

26...
its been 2 years now

Some people are so wicked and inconsiderate, about 2 months ago in July I packed into a smaller apartment. A room self con. I was broke and going through hard times. I decided to cut my cloth according to my size.

My neighbor that was beside me, was a single lady too just like me a single. But it was obvious she got everything cut out for herself well, giving the way her room was and the way she was putting on Gen.

Now like I said, things was hard for me, I could bearly eat. And it was still 10 days before they pay salary. I was hooked. Nothing on my hand. Where I was working, I won a bag of rice, as one of the best staff. But I didn't have gas or anything in room. Alot of things happened to me. Story for another day. I just rented the room. It was empty and sleeping on the floor.
Hunger wan finish man. I was just there with the bag of rice. So I decided to sell it. It was 25kg rice. So many people came to buy it. Some were saying 12k, some 13k.

When this my unfortunate neighbor heard that I want to selling, she came to beg me to sell it for her. 2 of my neighbors actually came.
1 said 12. But this my neighbor said 11k.
But because a room was closer to mine I decided to sell it for her for 11k. Just because of neighbors. I gave her the rice.
Give money turn to problem. She first gave me 5k. She said she will send the remaining in my account. And then that was it. Since then if I call her she will not pick, if text her she will not reply. She has been avoiding me.

It's been 2 months now, money I no see, am a very gentle person why I remained calm. Hoping she will pay.
How do I handle this situation without it turning to quarrel

story of amoda the brilliant boy...
aka bola tinubu.

frozen70:
All what you listed are available every where, but I think the problem is you not even the ones you have come across

You need to change some taste of yours as it doesn't even match up with the taste of what you are looking for

As men have taste of the type of women they want
Women too have taste in what they actually want in a man

go and read what i wrote, am actually looking for someone like me, the only difference is the height. am very handsome dude, hardworking and i have strong convictions of what i am and what i want, that's why there is a list in the first place.

Yemialade:
Softboy001 ,make i shoot my shot.me too ve got standards too.but in a friendly manner.

shoot o

i heard everything you guys have said and honestly i have equally spoken to some guys about this offline.

to be honest am not so comfortable with reducing the standard, because if i reduce the standard of what i want, there very high probability that am not going to like the girl. and i've tried that before it doesn't work for me. question people will ask me if that "if you don't love her why did you ask her out, why did you go for her". thats because its always go bad.

and for height also guys look at it naw, am a short dude, do you want me too married a short girl?. i can manage an average height girl, but not a short girl

SanctifiedSista:
Women, the easiest people to love and receive love [left][/left]
They have a key...if u know, u know

tell us the key naw...