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please i have manage to save up to 300k. please if you have any business idea that i can invest with this money please help me out. no online biz

Lalami3232:
No mind people wey dey tell you say you're too quick oooo, ticket wey wan cut go cut. Now make I analyze the scenario for you as a street boy.
1. Maybe she bi get feelings for you naturally
2. Maybe she no dey play office game. Some people naturally hate to date who dem dey work with. Imagine say boss dey shout for you, how you expect her to feel. Or imagine say person dey insult her for office, how you go feel? So office romance na wetin most people dey avoid because dem no dey shit for where dem dey chop.
3. She fit dey in a relationship and she no want make you raise any suspicion with her BF. She even sef fit dey date one person for that office on code, you won't know. Hence her outright rejection
4. Maybe you no dey package well to her level. In every NO wey a babe tell you, a YES dey behind am if you know your game plan.

I for give you hint on how to win her but I no go do am because I no support office romance. E no good atall!!! My guy see what you need to do, just follow her be platonic friend, no ever mention relationship again to her. Na this kind scenario na dey sweet pass sef, she go play enter your court one day and you go quench her. As far say you don already register say you get feelings for her, you don get small chance of drilling her canal someday, but no ever try to act immature like her by avoiding her or using money/gifts to woo her. Once again, leave the babe and forget office romance, E no dey pay ooo. No feel bad, you're a man and na a man has 100% legal right to woo a woman. Na her legal right of rejecting you na she use too, so both of una no do anything wrong

. Thanks I really appreciate this advice. I think I'll try and do this as best as I can

I worked a costumer service call agent. And there is this lady that I really admire. I mean i like her so much and I don't really know how to express my self to her and let her know how I feel about her. I just started working there some months ago


The girl is really very beautiful. I don't even know the word to describe her. I really like her. But the issues was how to communicate this to her because all we say is hi or Good morning. So 3 days I summoned courage and I ask her for her number.

She was first resisting to give me but later did and then I texted her that evening on WhatsApp and told her how I felt about her.
On text and voice note

She didn't reply at first but later replied and said "thank you we can only be friends or colleagues."

That's not the issues now...
The issues now is that since that chat on WhatsApp. She has been avoiding my
As in seriously avoiding me...


What do you guys think might be the issue
Did I do wrong by expressing my feelings to her
Or was I too fast or what....
Normally I won't care but I do because
I really love this girl

Go for bar if you're in Lagos

What profitable business do you think I can start with 100k.

Profitable business or investment.

My location is Lagos

Smithkline200:
I read this…. I rather saw myself shedding tears.
I don’t know what it is to be in your situation but I know for a guy of 27 years to still be joitering from a place to place and still never got involved in crime is worthy of recommendation.

If I’m not asking for too much, we can help support you in anyway… no matter how small.

You need a job first… any job to help you.

I am so sorry, anyway I can help, please PM.

A lot of those making mockery of you are passing through one harsh stage or the other… just cos they don’t wanna talk about you doesn’t make any of us better than you.

May God help everyone passing through life challenge they don’t wanna talk about.

Thanks so much...
I left a very awful job in a August and since then I have been unemployed no source of income or anything like that. But I recently got a job as an intern in a very popular company in Nigeria as a costumer call agent. October is my first month and and yet to be paid. Or anything like that. So currently am broke. Am just managing to go to work everyday. I trek to every day. Going and coming cos no cash at all. As at all. But there is a place where d staffs bus pick me every day in ketu. Am just managing until I get paid. Not that the salary is much . It's 30kin a situation where I don't even have N100 to watch my favorite team play, I don't have a choice. Am just waiting for month end right now...


But if there is anything anyone can do for me...
I'll appreciate it dearly
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David Ebite.

Am still going through the comments so I'll give more replies. D reason I haven't reply since is because of data. But thank God for opramini

IbrahimSkiba:
Who cares?!!!

The GLORYHOLE for your bathroom, kitchen, bedroom don suffer

What are you even saying, please allow people that have meaningful things to say comment

mariahAngel:
Channel all your energy (both physical and mental) into something productive like how to be successful, how to be a better version of yourself, what skill to acquire, and there’d be little or no room for those thoughts to hound you.

Look, what if you get someone pregnant when you’re not even ready to be married or be a father? It’ll be loss of chance and freedom for you which you might never get back.
Your time will no longer be solely yours.

Truth is, we all have weaknesses we must conquer to achieve greatness, and unless we fight and conquer those weaknesses, we’ll never attain that greatness.
Between us and greatness are obstacles we must conquer with self discipline to attain complete evolution.

When u say things like this it will look as if somebody is not working hard. You have no idea what I have done or been through.

I have done some things(legal) just to survive
But I thank I just got a job in a very popular firm in the country. As a costumer call agent.

The issue here now is the sexual tension am facing every day and my current job which I just started a month ago is not helping matters cos 90% of my colleagues are female. And you need to see what they wear to work.

My brother even if you don't want to be moved. You must move. Dem no born you well...
Everyday I give my self pep talk on how to look but I still look. The sexual tension is much plus the fact that I have not had sex for 2 years now, the Same me that normally have sex back to back...


Right now am just thinking how I am going to survive those ladies at work on Monday and my dick Is already doing me somehow

Wahalaperson:
what's your height?

Kelvin hart height or very little below it. Very very little

I don't even know how to begin, but am going to try and make it short, I want to know if there is anyone in my shoes, please let me know in the comments section.

Firstly I like to say this I love sex so so much. Yea I do but it's so unfortunate that am not able to do what I love. It's fustrating. It's been 2 years now since I had sex. It's not that I don't want to but I don't just know, the reason I writing this is because the kind of konji that am feeling now is overwhelming, as in am no longer comfortable. It's terribly fustrating.

I just want to know if there is anything I can do to help my situation. So if you got any advice kindly let me know in the comment section. I didn't introduce my self just call me mr D. Am 27 years old.

So here are the reasons. I separated them into primary and secondary reasons. I'll explain only the primary reasons.

primary reasons
1. Finance. This is one of the main reasons, I don't have funds. As in I don't have 1 naira. Nothing at all so I feel there is no need trying to get a girl. I have tried and it always fail because I don't have even as low as airtime to call and keep the relationship going. let's face it relationship in Nigeria, you got to have money as a guy. Currently I have been going through some hard times, after I finish school in 2019. My serious gf that got me all focus in relationship stuffs left me and broke me.

2. I don't do olosho ( prostitute)

So some my friends find this strange because they know am a bad guy when it comes to sex. But the truth is that I don't do olosho. Apart from d fact that I don't have much. Olosho is a No No for me. As in not at all. Not to be considered. I just don't like it. I can give a girl money or do a favor but not in exchange or direct exchange for sex. The olosho is so so annoying for me. where I recently relocated to ( lagos State). That's what they do
They call it hook up. But it's just pure olosho
I guess I would have had sex by now and won't be feeling what am feeling currently if only I will agree to pay for sex. But I don't


3. Lastly I don't have a place and have been moving.

for the past 3 years. I have been moving. I have not been steady in only place to get to know people. Am always new where am going to. And it's not easy to get a girl immediately.i have staying 2 months here 4 there for the pass 3 years. Currently am staying with my brother and his wife. In a room and palor. And it's not been easy at all for me. I can't even be talking of konji now self. But the konji won't let me be

Secondary reasons.
4.am an introvert
5. Am not that tall. Am short
6. Lately I been having some kind of dislike for the ladies behave
This topic is getting to long. I hope I been able to explain enough sha. Kindly let me know if you have any thoughts on this.

Jack14:
See as the criminals balance for chair

Na northern criminals naw...
Their case is different, na dem get nigeria.


As southerns no gree get sense

Man u to losee

Blues all the way

Updates

....well, I have decided to make this post like a story. since i finally decided to take the deal. So I will be dropping updates here regularly. I will later create a youtube channel for that to tell you guys how it all went. So stay tuned


But for now I have only just done my Internatinal passport, submitted documents to the agency and started my application.

When I get the visa, I'll let you guys know how it all went

Thanks to everyone who rendered their advise. Me and my brother is still discussing about it.
Any way if I take it I'll let you guys know and keep everyone updated of how it went

My brother and dad wants Me to take it, this man is a trusted man. He been a family friend for over 20 years. I can't begin to write the things he has done for my family. So nothing like drugs thing, slave or anything like that and there is practically nothing is getting from the deal apart from appreciation. He the one to pay the initial 850k He just want to use the to settle me as his favorite boy

The man sent money last week for my passport so I'll be doing my international passport tomorrow Monday. My brother wants me to do it regardless.

lilvicky68:
Pray for God's direction..
You will know what to do before Monday.

I just what to weigh my options. Well thanks anyway, I will pray

ayterajah:
Are you male or female?

Male

....life has been difficult to say the least, ever since I moved to lagos after finishing my nysc in March, I thought hoped things will be better but it only became...
Well let's leave that. I just want advice, that's why I am here.am currently squatting with my elder brother and his fiance in a room and palor self con. They are getting married by December. I have alot of burden to them, they don't need to tell me I know. But what will a man do. I forgot to add am 27 years old. I studied mechanical engineering (HND). My hands are really tied right now. I left a crazy job(30k/months) that I was using to sustain my self. Don't judge me, am not lazy. I left because of security reasons. Plus It was a slave kind of work. Presently am hooked. I don't know where and what to do. I currently don't have up to 5k in my account self. As I no gree do yahoo aka jazz. Na wetin my eyes dey see be this.

...any way my gist is getting to long. There is an man that has always been a father to me. He helped me through school. I really thank him. As in he has done alot. The man just like me for no reason.and has been helping me since I was young. Anyway he called me and then after explaining to him how things has been for him.

He called again after a month. He said he has a deal for me.

The deal is that, he wants to sponsor me to go to canada. I forgot to add, he stays in Austria. Him and his family. So the deal is about 2.5 million naira, so he said he going to work everything for me that includes international passport,visa, airplane ticket, accommodation and also the package includes work also. but the deal is that. He will pay about. 850k. To get me there first. Then when am there and have started working I'll pay 1.8 million to the agency $4k.

So that's the deal. The 850k he is just using that to help me.actually he himself he paying 650k to the agency and giving me 200k as pocket money. Then when I get there I can work and give the agency the remaining 1.85 million.

So please guys, what to do you think. My fears is going to a country I don't know anyone at all, there is so much risk involved canada far o and will I be able to pay up the money. I don't want to owe gbese that I can't pay back.

What do you guys think?
Should I go ahead? Or remain in naija?

I have so much fears, that's why am scared of going, what if I go broke?

I have from now till Monday to decide, the processing is starting on Monday

Ddd

My present girlfriend is frustrated and I don't blame her, she thinks something is wrong with me, I don't know if something is wrong with me but I know that even if it is. It is not medically. I don't think I have any medical condition.



My d*ck works perfectly. How do I know ?. I still get sexual urges (toward ladies) and masturbate. My sperm is okay. (Good quality quantity). So there is absolutely nothing wrong with me medically.

But for over 1 year now I haven't had sex. Going to 2 years now. It's not like I haven't had chances. I have but on every occasion. I always walk out of it. I have had 3 major chances. But each time I want to something always stops me.

First one. I didn't just walk out. I ran out for 3 major reasons.
1. The girl was too young, she was 19. It felt somehow for me, I just couldn't.
2. And she was dirty also. Too dirty for me cos I know some men will jump into it.
3. She was a virgin...

Like I said, I have had chances but there is also one reason on the other stop me from doing it. And it's not like I don't do it before. There was a time back in uni days. It's was back to back. Everyday thing for me. But it seems I have lost interest now.

My main issue is how to handle my girlfriend, it's not like I care o but she is just suspecting and cooking up stories about why we haven't had sex since. My issue with her is that she is a virgin, and I don't want to have sex with a virgin. I don't just know why but I prefer non virgin than virgin

How do you guys think I should handle the situation because I don't think I want to have sex with anybody right talkless of a virgin

It's actually possible without going through some of the stress... You could do it in lesser days by Taking some bus in some places and then you can continue by foot.

RedboneSmith:
1. Igbo (three macro-dialects of it)
2. Oza (a Bini dialect)
3. Olukwumi (a Yoruba dialect)
4. Igala (the Ebu dialect)
5. Itsekiri
6. Urhobo
7. Isoko
8. Ijaw

So, at least 8 languages are spoken in my state; but that number may even be higher depending on how one defines language and dialect.

(Some of the dialects of Urhobo and Isoko are sometimes ranked as different languages, e.g., Okpe and Erohwa, just as some of the dialects of Igbo are often ranked as different languages).

I guess this is delta state, that Igbo language you have up there is not the same please

We have...
1.Aniocha
2. Ika
3. Ukwani.
They sound like Igbo but are not Igbo. And the are very different from one another. I know this because am an ika man but from Edo state

I agree with mosdii

D news reach here? Omo I witnessed it myself o, no be jokes.

kingbee90:
With older women, there is less drama, less spending, less Billing, less shakara for sex, more experience for mind-blowing sex, more care, advice & financial encouragements, more adrenaline rush.

You have said it all.
Who no like better thing?

Draslo:
Sha no let me catch you calling guys broke on Nairaland.

Lols

Am around ogudu...
I can teach you,

I am looking for a job around lagos. I need it so bad, I am a graduate o (HND) but I don't mind doing anything legit that pays. I studied mechanical engineering. I just finished NYSC.



Please help!