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newcommer:
Really? Ha, it wasn't even much. I meant to send much more but you didn't reply in time. By the time you replied, I'd already spent out of what I intended to send. You're on my wishlist sir. Let's look at month end, God willing

wow... thanks so much.

newcommer:
Hi. Please I'll like to send you something. Please can you help me with your account number?

i got something from someone i didnt know yesterday,if it was you, thanks alot. it came at a point when i needed it the most. i was broke to the last kobo, the money i was expecting was supposed to come the next day, sapa (hunger) was holding me, the money i got was what really helped me, if its you, just know you save a soul, thanks. its was the timing for me

newcommer:
Hi. Please I'll like to send you something. Please can you help me with your account number?

0132970674
union bank. David
thanks,


the replies here made me feel somehow, am not after sex of anything like that, i dont even have the time, my work is time consuming, that one of the reason why i havent ask her yet, i come back late at night 10 pm. i just thought it better i sell it for someone i know, but i have learnt my lesson sha no problem

26...
its been 2 years now

Some people are so wicked and inconsiderate, about 2 months ago in July I packed into a smaller apartment. A room self con. I was broke and going through hard times. I decided to cut my cloth according to my size.

My neighbor that was beside me, was a single lady too just like me a single. But it was obvious she got everything cut out for herself well, giving the way her room was and the way she was putting on Gen.

Now like I said, things was hard for me, I could bearly eat. And it was still 10 days before they pay salary. I was hooked. Nothing on my hand. Where I was working, I won a bag of rice, as one of the best staff. But I didn't have gas or anything in room. Alot of things happened to me. Story for another day. I just rented the room. It was empty and sleeping on the floor.
Hunger wan finish man. I was just there with the bag of rice. So I decided to sell it. It was 25kg rice. So many people came to buy it. Some were saying 12k, some 13k.

When this my unfortunate neighbor heard that I want to selling, she came to beg me to sell it for her. 2 of my neighbors actually came.
1 said 12. But this my neighbor said 11k.
But because a room was closer to mine I decided to sell it for her for 11k. Just because of neighbors. I gave her the rice.
Give money turn to problem. She first gave me 5k. She said she will send the remaining in my account. And then that was it. Since then if I call her she will not pick, if text her she will not reply. She has been avoiding me.

It's been 2 months now, money I no see, am a very gentle person why I remained calm. Hoping she will pay.
How do I handle this situation without it turning to quarrel

story of amoda the brilliant boy...
aka bola tinubu.

frozen70:
All what you listed are available every where, but I think the problem is you not even the ones you have come across

You need to change some taste of yours as it doesn't even match up with the taste of what you are looking for

As men have taste of the type of women they want
Women too have taste in what they actually want in a man

go and read what i wrote, am actually looking for someone like me, the only difference is the height. am very handsome dude, hardworking and i have strong convictions of what i am and what i want, that's why there is a list in the first place.

Yemialade:
Softboy001 ,make i shoot my shot.me too ve got standards too.but in a friendly manner.

shoot o

i heard everything you guys have said and honestly i have equally spoken to some guys about this offline.

to be honest am not so comfortable with reducing the standard, because if i reduce the standard of what i want, there very high probability that am not going to like the girl. and i've tried that before it doesn't work for me. question people will ask me if that "if you don't love her why did you ask her out, why did you go for her". thats because its always go bad.

and for height also guys look at it naw, am a short dude, do you want me too married a short girl?. i can manage an average height girl, but not a short girl

SanctifiedSista:
Women, the easiest people to love and receive love [left][/left]
They have a key...if u know, u know

tell us the key naw...

Vinnie2000:
You are 28yrs of age and still calling yourself softboy

its just a username
focus on the topic

xendra:
Question is : what are you offering in return?

You have heigth requirement, so does she

Financial and education; so does she

Emotions; so does she

And you do realise it takes certain effort to get a stranger to fall Inlove with you right?
Seems like you are expecting people to love you for whatever you have to offer but your own standards must be met.



And don't let ignorant people deceive you, finding the right person is not as easy as they claim, there may be many fishes in the ocean but they of different species

i understand that i have to put n efforts to start and maintain a relationship that's sure but i can not control what some one thinks or feels about me.

any lady thats is in a relationship with me stands to gain a lot. my convictions are strong, what it means is that she will have rest of mind, no fear of cheating or troubles in relationship, am damn romantic, and i also believe in taking care of my woman for myself. this means financially, emotional and spending time together. not forget to add that am good on the other room. maximum satisfaction. am all about pleasure. i have a saying food and sex go together, add wine if you like.

i never thought it will be difficult for me,its not really that am asking for too much. a brief summary of what i really want in a woman is someone that loves me and someone that i love also. is that too much to ask?. am asking for too much?

My name is..., lets just call me z. am 28 years of age, graduate and currently working even though it's a small job i got, it atleast take care of my bills, we have a lot of family men who is doing my job, its customer service agent job, am writing this today because am having difficulties in finding A SERIOUS GF/ FUTURE WIFE . it has always been my desire to marry when am 30 years and enjoy my life and family in my youth. but it seems that plan is failing as i currently have no person am dating after trying to get for 3 years now. single to stupor

the girls am meeting nowadays, its either they like me and i don't like them or i like them and they dont like me, ever since i left my past relationship. getting a serious one has be nearly impossible, don't get me wrong, getting a girl is not difficult, or getting sex. what has been difficult is getting someone that meet my requirements.

this requirements which i consider as 'very important' is what i want to share with you all, i really need advice, is there anything i need to chop off the list. am i asking for too much. check out my list.

1. RELIGION AND CONVICTION ; for religion i want some that believes in God and fear God. a good or fair Christian. not over religion, not a church goer, just normal regular christian, what i mostly interested in is your conviction, what do you truly believe in, take for example do believe in purposely hurting other people just to help yourself, cheating by all means, to have your way, what do you think about yahoo, good or bad?. those kind of things.

2.EMOTION : i think they is where am having much issues because one of my criteria is that i most like you. as in love you and i must be sure that you love me too. as much as i love you or even more than, but what i get to discover is that when i meet a girl i like, she doesn't like me or not as much as its required, that makes me too back down because i have seen relationship where the girl doesnt like the guy, maybe she just with him for some gains or something, it doesn't end well, and even if you go ahead with the relationship, you won't enjoy it, YOU ENDURE IT!. i have also had girls that likes me like mad, some practically worship me and will do exactly as i asked them to, but the truth of the matter is that it can't work, i know it cnt i have tried it before, the babe go dey annoy me even when she has done nothing wrong, i can't show her off and i dont believe its even a relationship, the last one i try i had to break everything off cos i notice it was affecting her. and i know it's going nowhere, ever since then i promised never to do that again. this was 3 years back. the thing wen a girl likes you and you like the girl, you but can build together and trust each other

3. PHYSICAL ATTRIBUTE i am also having a big issue with this one, the thing here is that, i want a tall or fairly tall girl, reason is that am not a very tall guy and i want someone complimentary. i can't marry a short girl, no matter how much she tick the rest boxes, it can't happen, i need some my height or a little bit taller than me, but the problem am having now is most girls like tall guy s. me finding a tall girl that likes me seems to be a mission impossible.


another thing is a fine girl, here am attracted to fine girls, i don't need to deceive anyone, that's what i want, but on the part she don't have to be over fine, just don't be ugly is fine, am a very fine dude facially so... we are good.

another thing is ass,boobs yes its on the list too, i don't like big boobs once a girl has big boobs she is not an option. ass is what i like but not those over big. monstrous ass. a good big ass, i always say it's not about the size but the shape. so that it, medium boobs, big ass, nice shape, fairly fine facially,

4. finance and education: i need some one who is goal driving and fight hard to get what she want. some who strives to be successful. and who can be an asset instead of a liability. it's that simple, and last some who is educated to tertiary level or have a brain like that.


so what do you guys think? is there any pace i need to adjust. am in my firends wedding as am typing this. my man done rush marry, lol

my own father have disown me because i didnt respect his first son

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yes sure...

it sha never be well with any body that will vote for APC....
yes it has gotten to that.

what is now the value of life in Nigeria

reno is working hard for his money...

as you and i, nothing for us so you better vote wisely, and forget this reno guy supporting a northerner after 8 painful years of buhari

Update...

So today is Saturday, I was waiting for her to come, and she actually did, she called me around 12 pm that she was around my area. And would love to see me. So I directed herto my house.

As someone said in the comment section here,she came but she came with a guy.
I don't know if I should say am disappointed o, it's not like I have any ulterior motives or any thing like that.

So we talked, I allowed them do their preaching, she was all smiling through out the discussion. For her mind she don win soul. I was practically free and not doing anything so I just let them entertain me. But to honest the babe knows her onions.

So they later invited me to their "church cell meeting" holding by 5 pm. We prayed and then later went their way.

4:50 pm my phone starting ringing. Me that am sleeping. I just quickly put in on silent mood. After about 30 mins. I heard knock on my door. Went I opened omo. Na this same preacher girl. I wanted to get angry buy I remain calm. Seeing the effort that she is putting in. I told her I won't be to come. But she insisted. She paid my bike fair I we went there together. Do you know that this girl refused to enter same bike with me. As in eh. I boarded another seperate bike. When I asked her. She said I should not worry.

We go to the cell meeting. Omo I thought the first girl had yansh. Until I meet their cell meeting leader. Omo see yansh and see what she wearing Gon!
Omo make I no lie, my head burst. So after they cell meeting. They assigned me to another girl. Due to my location. She said we would long to me to come to church tomorrow . That she will come to my house to pick me up.

Am just giving this update but I promised to.so you guy know how it went. Am indifferent about the whole issues.

Royalty83:
This is really interesting. Like Tinubu, like Shettima.

These are serious guys who care about nothing other than competence and result. They don’t care about your religion or ethnicity. They bring people who can get things done together.

I’ve been asking for the names of Peter Obi’s commissioners and appointees since without getting any response. That guy has not supported or mentored anyone since he became governor. He’s just all about himself and nothing else.

Peter Obi Pandora is a national disaster that is waiting to happen. Dude doesn’t even understand the diversity and complexity of Nigeria. A bigot like him must never be allowed anywhere near Aso Rock.

you are fool and you know it!

Softboy001:
I was coming from work, I Don't have money on me to take Keke back home so I decided trek, I was walking when one fine tall girl stopped me,

She said she wanted to talk to me, damn! She is not really fine just average but she got the body as in eh... I didn't actually notice at first, I only looked at her face but after she said what she wanted to say and was going back, that's when I look back and saw the ass. Omo... Well that's not what I want to discuss

...well like I was saying I didn't look at her face so I kinda gave her a cold response when she said she wants to talk to me, the truth is that I was in a hurry and from the looks of things she wants to preach to me.

I first asked are you Jehovah witness, she said no, then I said you can proceed, she laughed and started preaching as we walk. I was in hurry and I could tell that she cant keep up with my speed so I just manage to slow down.

... So she started preaching o, preach and preach and preach that I should give my life to Christ. I told her am a Christian and I have already gave my life to Christ.

Now this is what shocked me and why am bringing this here.

The babe said she would like to have my number and come to my house to share the word of God with me when am free....?

Omo everything became suspicious to me, I didn't say anything Sha. I said okay and then gave her my number. But am just thinking about all evening like that girl try sha. Somebody you don't know before. You to go to his house and share the word of God. Na wa o.


Now there is a little thing that happened and I was suspecting that maybe she knows me before or something. So when I gave her my number, she asked for my surname. I gave her. It happens that she knows my younger sister. We got to know this through the name, now let me explain why this is impossible or rare.

My family is in Benin, I am the only one in Lagos. And also I have not been to Lagos for like 10years. I came some months ago. I schooled in auchi, my your sis and this girl schooled in unn. I have never been to unn. I don't know any of my sis friends. Could it that she recognized me from maybe my pics on my sister's phone. But my younger sis graduated years ago 2017.

I am just thinking about this since I got home so I said let me share with ers.

updates....

so Saturday came and went, she did not come, and i didn't have her number or anything like that. i have even forgetten about her self but yesterday, she called around about 5-6 pm, she introduced her self and i quickly remembered so she said that she wanted to come to my house that very time to pray with me. unfortunately i was still at work, i was just closing and haven't even gone home yet, i told her i was busy and that am still at work so we rescheduled for on Saturday cos thats when i can be free.

KristaPretty:
A stranger asked fir your surname and you mentioned

Women are powerful sha

lol she came preaching the gospel naw

no need to feel that way, everyone goes through a development and re-development stage.

what your friend need now is to gather confidence with a little bit of packaging and try as much as to really study the business he is in charge of.

tips try and always much use of people in the know.

SmartPolician:
There are many dedicated girls in Pentecostal churches in Nigeria. They often ask for your details so they can follow up and convince you to join their church.

Saying she will visit you may be a strategy she uses to get young guys to drop their contacts. Afterwards, she won't visit you. Instead, the church will be calling and sending you text messages to worship with them.

if she actually do come to my place, i am going to be disappointed in her...
considering the situation in the country now that is bad move to just see a guy on the street you dont know before and then you follow him to his house in the name of evangelism. that is careless and risky.

Iamicekid:
Wait make she call first, and after that, wait again until she comes to your crib first alone then u can start having all this unnecessary ideas in your head

i am not even having any ideas in my head but then again anything can happen

Silentgroper:
She didnt get ur address, so she definitely isnt coming..

she asked though, i just told her the place and then told her when she is ready she can call me. she asked when i said Saturday and then we agreed saturday
so on saturday we will see what will happen, i will keep you guys post. hopefully she not reading this

I was coming from work, I Don't have money on me to take Keke back home so I decided trek, I was walking when one fine tall girl stopped me,

She said she wanted to talk to me, damn! She is not really fine just average but she got the body as in eh... I didn't actually notice at first, I only looked at her face but after she said what she wanted to say and was going back, that's when I look back and saw the ass. Omo... Well that's not what I want to discuss

...well like I was saying I didn't look at her face so I kinda gave her a cold response when she said she wants to talk to me, the truth is that I was in a hurry and from the looks of things she wants to preach to me.

I first asked are you Jehovah witness, she said no, then I said you can proceed, she laughed and started preaching as we walk. I was in hurry and I could tell that she cant keep up with my speed so I just manage to slow down.

... So she started preaching o, preach and preach and preach that I should give my life to Christ. I told her am a Christian and I have already gave my life to Christ.

Now this is what shocked me and why am bringing this here.

The babe said she would like to have my number and come to my house to share the word of God with me when am free....?

Omo everything became suspicious to me, I didn't say anything Sha. I said okay and then gave her my number. But am just thinking about all evening like that girl try sha. Somebody you don't know before. You to go to his house and share the word of God. Na wa o.


Now there is a little thing that happened and I was suspecting that maybe she knows me before or something. So when I gave her my number, she asked for my surname. I gave her. It happens that she knows my younger sister. We got to know this through the name, now let me explain why this is impossible or rare.

My family is in Benin, I am the only one in Lagos. And also I have not been to Lagos for like 10years. I came some months ago. I schooled in auchi, my your sis and this girl schooled in unn. I have never been to unn. I don't know any of my sis friends. Could it that she recognized me from maybe my pics on my sister's phone. But my younger sis graduated years ago 2017.

I am just thinking about this since I got home so I said let me share with ers.

Iru is the name of my village
Iru Egbede but I still don't like this iru...


I never group up with it

May buhari never happened to Nigeria again
May tinubu never happened to Nigeria
May APC never happen to Nigeria

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