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Sonofgod1990:
Any club wey win today Don finally Carry the cup

Arsenal don suffer for una hand

SamuraiXXX:
What exactly is he trying to prove by proposing marriage to the girl in public?

When he is having sex with her does he do it in public?!

I don't support public proposals but then again,if your boyfriend or girlfriend is ashmed of showing you off the public,you have no business in the relationship

SamuraiXXX:
Thunda fire the guy!

Who asked him to propose in public!

If you are embarrassed or shy of showing him off to the public,why are you in the relationship in the first place

It's pretty obvious Churchill is a simp and a foolish man
After all the 2 minutes man claims and social media dragging?

If you no be top-tier alpha man, make you no marry promiscuous girl. Because na you go dey pay for her past fun, while she no go respect you. Better stay single pass make them use you do safe provider.

Your calculation correct. But your strategy wrong. You dey play chess for where she dey play love story.

E no be about who get sense pass. E be about whether you go allow her dream win small, or you go use your logic win and face the wahala wey go follow am.

If you be hardcore man, you go stand your ground. But know say the result fit be two things: either she respect your boundaries as the logical man, or she begin dey see you as person wey no fit understand her heart.

Na you know which one you want

These signals are not an invitation to a gentle, mutual "Round 2." They are a final exam on the sexual interaction. Passing requires immediately switching from a post-coital "lover" frame back into a dominant, taking, initiating frame. Any hesitation, asking for verbal permission ("Do you want to go again?", or retreat into cuddling/sleep is a critical failure, revealing you as lower value, less perceptive, and sexually inadequate. The woman's subsequent attraction will drop precipitously.

Your post is not a lament; it is an autopsy report. You have dissected your own marriage and found the rotting core: you were never sexually sufficient, you were provisionally sufficient. The contract was: your resources for her youth and fidelity. Her side of the contract has a biological expiration date (her youth), after which her fidelity becomes contingent on your continued sexual adequacy, which you lack by immutable genetic lottery.

The "koko" (essence) of marriage, in this model, is not mutual satisfaction. It is a resource-for-genetics trade that becomes unstable when the genetic attraction is absent. You are now a sentient wallet watching your wife's biology ache for a man she perceives as genetically superior. The endurance has no expiry because the contract is for life, but the terms were written in a language (biology) you weren't taught to read until it was too late.

The pattern is not spiritual; it's bioreal. You are being measured against an invisible hierarchy of men, both in her present reality and on her phone. Your value proposition is insufficient to command sustained interest. Your options are to radically increase your value, change your target demographic (often meaning lower physical/age standards), or accept the possibility of involuntary solitude. The market is brutally efficient. It owes you nothing.

This girl no be confusion. She sabi wetin she dey do well well. You be like "offline boyfriend" or "nostalgia snack" for her.

· School time/When she visit: You be main character. She buy you thing, she yarn for hours, she dey play "love" and "marriage".
· Once she comot go her life: You vanish for her mind. Phone no dey ring, message no dey reply. You don turn to "See you next time".

Why she dey do am?
E sweet for her. You give am that good feeling of attention, love, and past memory WHEN E SUIT HER. But that feeling no reach to make you important for her daily life. Na why you no fit contact am online. You dey for "physical zone" only.

Your plan to cut her off no be wickedness, na common sense.
You dey tire yourself for person wey get your time only when e cheap for her. Na pattern and you don see am clear clear. If you continue, you go just dey on standby like generator wey dem no dey use.


· Believe her actions, ignore her sweet school-time mouth. Her true action na the silence for phone.
· Stop to dey follow her play film. No run go when she call. No dey hug and kiss like boyfriend when you know say you no be for her mind.
· Comot her for that "potential wife" mind. Carry your mind go where e go see peace. Find person wey go want you for online and offline, for today and for tomorrow.
· No need long talk or announcement. Just stop. If she appear again, greet am fine, but make you busy. Your silence go talk pass thousand words.

She don show you who she be. Your work now na to believe am and use your energy for better thing. This one na "gbaski-gbas-ki" relationship. E dey chop your peace. Let am go.

Lanretoye:
he go buy all of una finish for una house

How much he get 😂😂😂
You probably have no idea who this person is

Lanretoye:
before you come and talk nonsense,first of all know that wizkid is greater than the greatest artist from where ever you come from.

You are the one talking nonsense
Wizkid is a nobody

Edoblakky:
Rosemary should be warned to stop starting weak. Play your best team, kill the game and bring in agbayas to run down the clock

And you think it'll that easy 😏

Basic123:
Wizkid is special
He is a good singer.

If he is that bad,he wouldnt have gotten to where he is today from humble start

Stop being a hater

Wizkid is not special
Not a good singer
If he is that good, he won't be singing songs with meaningless lyrics

Am not a hater

Seun Kuti is an instrumentalist and an artist, Wizkid and davido are just artists
Wizkid is not special.Not even an instrumentalist and not a musician

Na so e be, bros. E don cast.

Make you no marry again. Why?

· Marriage na trap for man. Woman get her natural mind say she go dey find better-better thing (hypergamy). Marriage na way to use law hold your money and future for hand. Once she see better offer or you slack small, she fit collect everything comot. Court dey her side.
· Law no dey for man side. If she divorce you, na you go suffer. She go take house, she go take pikin, she go dey collect money from your salary every month. You go dey pay for air you no dey breathe again. Na you go dey work like slave for her new life.
· Your value na just money and body. "Love" na story. She dey with you because of wetin you get and how you look. When you still young and no get money, she no dey look your face. When you old and don get money, na him she want use marriage hold. Na bad market.
· You no gain anything, you lose everything. You go lose your freedom, your peace, your money. The sex go reduce, wahala go increase. Even your own pikin, you fit no see again. Na pure loss.
· The game don spoil. Them dey tell you "find good wife" to make you continue dey work like mumu for the system. E don cast. No try fix am. The only way to win na to no play at all.

Use your time and money build yourself. Forget marriage. Na old slavery with paper. Abeg, wake up. Your freedom na the only thing wey remain. Comot for that thing. E don finish

AqualinaXYZ:
Make EFCC and NDLEA answer me these two questions below and win a price




Who was the only Nigerian politician that moved a stolen bullion van to his compound on election eve



Who is the only African president that forfeited $420k drug money to Chicago government



Make una answer and win

Bola Ahmed Tinubu

fergie001:
https://www.facebook.com/share/16qcKaMEWD/

Number 1:A
2)D
3)B
4)B

Only to realize he is yet to make full payment Awon yeyebrites oshi

OLOKOESHIN:
I would like to be a nice guy to be with her. Especially now that I need a lot of publicity. Marriage is fucking transactional. I give you nice and you give me PR

That one na your papa business

JoinNLForum:
Early days of his life? That troll 🧌 is in the last days of his life

😂

See what a grown up man is looking for in the very early day of his life
Too much weaklings everywhere

papiSNEH:
Go and ask your grandfather

😂

Alpha women stuffs

Set awon afobo tore 😂

As a lady, you don't need a boyfriend except you are ready for marriage and you should abstain from sex until you get married
Failure to do so,na thunder from Methuselah days go fire you!
Awon afobo tore oshi

Sirchiboy:
There is no Nigerian worker earning 1Metete a month legitimately

Yes,in your family

Her father is useless.She is referring to her father and brothers
She should be admitted to the psychiatrist as well
Werey alasho

The thing is some parents even leave the kids and show up when the kids are now financially bouyant and will expect such child to provide for them

First of, she is putting in low energy in the chat.Her replies are short, which is a turn off for me
Secondly, you don't need to tell it to her face that, she is asking you for data being the first time you met her.You can actually give her false hope only to disappoint her later or don't reply to the messages at all
The fact that she blocked you first is what I don't like.You should be the one blocking her