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Sexyrosey:
The Loneliness No One Talks About

It’s a different kind of pain to feel lonely while lying next to someone who is supposed to love you.
To be married, yet feel emotionally single.
To wake up every day craving affection, attention, and connection… and still go to bed empty.

People think loneliness only comes from being alone.
But sometimes it comes from being with someone who no longer sees you, hears you, or desires you.

I miss being wanted.
I miss being touched with intention, spoken to with softness, loved with effort.
I miss feeling like I matter.

I’m tired of pretending I’m okay.
Tired of acting strong when inside I feel invisible.
Tired of pouring love into a space that feels cold and silent.

This is not about perfection.
It’s about presence.
About romance.
About feeling chosen, not just tolerated.

The hardest part is knowing that I’m still capable of love, passion, and deep connection — but I’m living in a place where none of it is returned.

And that kind of loneliness… hurts more than being alone ever could.

Truthissupreme:
Wizkid temper cost him this

He failed to realize seun kuti the talentless clown still banking on his father traffic from death gave him a bait

He provoked wizkid till the guy had to insult whatever he held in esteem too for diss sake

In real sense no one values fela more than wizkid and the way he respects femi till tomorrow

LagosOrigin:
Fela was more of a political activist than a musical artist so yes, Wizkid is bigger.

I was around 9yrs old when fela passed and all his songs I've ever listened to was about "Obasanjo did this IBB did that".

Fella is not a musical artist.

Diamond098454:
Diamond always go viral in this forum

It's high time the honourable management of this great house start paying me

Diamond smile smile smile smile

JOACHINpedro:
You're a guy.
There is no lady on this platform

Diamond098454:
Good one but it's not for me because i don't have an Ex, no boyfriend, no man friend, no lover. No good guy in Nigeria🇳🇬🇳🇬

I will soon start searching in Senegal🇸🇳🇸🇳

Ournolly:
Cos I was busy working to feed my family, not answring unecessary questions about washing women undies and keep the house clean.

Juoflife1:
Caring and romantic for me

yarimo:
So his hands are also affected by sore throat abi ?

dollytino4real:
Too much talk dey bring see finish. Brief and direct is my watch word

bigpriik:
To avoid stories that touch once you start making money avoid the poor for your own good, I mean both male and female,make friends or date only your level, it's not pride or arrogance it's self security, we live in a very poor country and people are desperately looking for who to leech on and take advantage , Nigeria has gotten to the stage of survival of the fittest the country is now a jungle, you and I know Nigeria is full of envious and jealous people some can go the extreme to hurt you if they smell you are doing better than them.

Recently I started a small food delivery business in school and it has being doing very well, lots of people discouraged me when I started but I remained stubborn and continued consistently,sometimes I make 15k,10k and on better days I make 20k daily ,people noticed the changes in me and all of a sudden everyone wants to be my friend male and female , I became the first choice whenever they need money and help ,I was giving and giving until I borrowed sense and start giving them gap, this 2026 I have fully activated my introvert mode no more friends till I reach my financial goal.

Zonefree:









The last highlight is quite funny. They always want to eat their cake and have it.

Girl wey don live with man for many years, birth two children, left the union to continue her promiscuous, yet she wants another woman's innocent son to marry and be loyal to her.

What crime did OP commit that God wants to punish him with a woman like this?

Sonnobax15:

The fact that you were even planning to celebrate another man's brace more than the man himself is enough to have your head checked

Bro, single mother of two? . And even dated your friend in your absence? Denied the whole thing?

Nigha,you don't need to ask any good tailor around to know if those materials displayed by her are more than enough to sew a very big red flag....Just open your eyes,spread your legs ,and run for your dear life.

Eddodoh:
This lady must be sick to think that I will marry her. We were good B4 I traveled out of the city. Good vibes, nice time and all that.
She showed me love and everything but deep down, I know that I won't marry her.

There was a time I felt like taking the relationship serious but the fact that she have two kids and a single mother, discourages me. Also, I know the father of her kids. They lived together B4 she ended things with him. Another reason is that my friends won't support the relationship cos I even hide the affair with her from them.

While I was out of town, I got to know that she got entangled with one of my friends. When I bursted her by letting her know that I am aware of her affair with my friend. She denied initially but bcuz my friend's real babe that told me about them was giving me every detail about them. So, she later admitted that they were dating.


Recently, she has being calling and apologizing that she was confused and that my absence at that time made her fell into the affair. She left the town last year to Delta state where she worked and have moved to Lagos (currently work at the Island) where I also reside at the moment with the hope of meeting me.

She has being calling and arranging for a meet up. She even has the guts to ask me about my plans towards marrying her.
I just told her that until we see. I am thinking of telling her to move on with her life but I feel I should not tell her instead, keep her to use to cure konji.

What do u guys think about it? Your opinion is welcome.

SeeWahala:
First of all Nigeria HAPPENED to AJ

NOW Nigeria has effectively FINISHED AJ

tgmservice:
End of the road for super chickens

Anaconda76:
Spoken like a true GenZ..... like you said, "If shit happen, no dust am... BAG AM, LABEL AM, SELL AM ONLINE."Truthfully you fit give your pikin dis advise?

DonroxyII:
Life is not 1 + 1 = 2 .... except for tye favoured Ones !

If Life wan treat ur fvck Up ... You will be messed Up!

Thus always watch your today, past and tomorrow but if shit happens just dust Am and walk On .... Many Better things ahead!

Solcampbell:
Thanks for this! This was exactly the comment I was looking for. Of course they (including Tiwa Savage) know the consequences – they're not naive. they all knew what they were getting into. What people aren't getting is that not everyone has the same moral compass. For some, shame is an alien concept.

The Lana Rhoades he's referring to in his post, What the OP doesn't realise is that she maybe using this for PR move to boost her earnings. Even as a popular adult star, she's still unknown to millions. But this story about her not wanting her son to blablabla.... blows up on popular mainstream sites like Nairaland, curiosity spikes – and that means more clicks, more views, more cash for her 💸.



Like this, I can mention like five adult stars in their forties and fifties whose children (daughters) are now grown ups and are now acting porn like their mother.

Lolz, the OP think say as he dey see life, na so others dey see life . E fit talk this kinda thing for where pornstars dey, them go just dey look am like mumu dey laff.

Kobojunkie:
Ordinarily, no woman should do chores or serve any man who is not already her husband — serving your boyfriend or fiancé is a sign of bad things to come for her in that relationship. 🥱🥱🥱

2. The woman definitely has the right to aspire to whatever she wants. It is her freedom and right in life. 🥱🥱🥱

3. The one who created this thread is the likely one on delusion here. 🥱🥱🥱