Kemadealadire:

Are you a woman🤷🏾‍♂️ No.

You don't have to be, I can tell from personal experience and from discussions with ladies when they are not trying to pretend

mariahAngel:


Not if she's a virgin herself.

If she is a virgin then it's worse, she will dislike him more because she will prefer someone with experience.

Kemadealadire:
Lie from the pit of hell, women want chaste, sexually pure and faithful men in addition to other qualities.

It's a lie jor, women don't, they will always want a man with experience, it's their nature.

virginprincess:
Who told you women hate male virgin,it is only a sexually loosed woman that will prefer a used condom to a brand new one,as for me if a man is not a virgin i will never give him my whole heart and love because I can't trust him 100%.

You lie, you want to think so, but when you eventually meet him, you will hate him. What you like is the idea of such a man.

A man like that comes with other things too, as he may never initiate any romantic experience, he will ask some weird questions your other boyfriends already know, no matter how much he tries, he can't be good in bed because he lacks experience, now you see why it's just a nice idea.

Purvan:
It has been a long time since men's virginity has been stigmatized Men have been made fun of or criticzed for being a virgin, to the extent these men go around bleeping hookers and call girls.

The average woman would reject a virgin man at the slight sight.

A man would be happy with a female virgin but a woman would never be happy with a man that's a virgin and that's a fact
This is why most men prolong their virginity due to severe rejection from women.

YES 100%

Women want a man that have slept around and still sleeping around but will stop sleeping around because of them.

Like he was this, but he had to stop because of ME! It's power to them, the ability to control him and bend his will.

Most virgin gun, wrong word, most guys that haven't experienced sex don't know what it feels like and can hardly be controlled, there essentially nothing to use as a weapon, if you say you will leave him, it means nothing to him.

My advice don't ever tell a woman, no matter how much you like her.

Kemadealadire:
We are in the endtime, the quality and value system of the average man out there is nothing to write home about.

Considering, marriage is a lifetime commitment, lol, I am yet to see anyone who wants to end up with just anything for life.

This has nothing to do with end time, marriage has lost it worth, the desire to be with someone who for all you know have spent the last decade running around from dick to dick.

Very typical of a woman to blame MEN! Still it's not the men doing hookup up and down, it's now on Facebook, Instagram, everywhere you turn, it leaves nothing to be desired.

Marriage used to be interesting, not some social prerequisite for a status.

The question on most men mind is why? Why is it important, most guys that got married in their early 20s, got married for sex, the sex mostly last 3 years and he discover it's not worth it, the mature one in their 30s already understand this so, sex, food means nothing to them.

Kingosytex:


Smuggled to and from where?
It's ECOWAS no longer and economic community?
Why can't Tinubu and ECOWAS allow Nigeriens carry their cross?
Why cry more than the bereaved?
The Nigeriens are happy, why cry for them?

How can you be this stupid, everything happening in any of the border country affect everyone, from bokoharam to herdmen to kidnappers, what happens if another group seize a territory and a long protracted war begin, refugees begin to pile up, who do you think will bear the burden? All the neighbouring states.

turmacs:
Education in Nigeria is nonsense.. If you're a girl, focus on hook-up, if you're a boy, focus on yahoo/ritual, that is how smart people survive and live large now..

You mean that is how you live large.

brain54:
I am not saying anything…

But sometimes you need to forget swag and packaging.


Have you seen boko haram rag tag commanders…?

And yet they give the generals you posted a hard time defeating them!

Because with boko haram it's not a direct war, and they live among us, you can't just go to a village and start shooting.

In war you can recognize your enemies, they are gathered together, you can plan for their every move, but boko haram do, it is like a fellowship, they com together and do shit and then return home to their wives and children and live like normal people.

successmatters:
These are real bishops, not the fake ones hired by the druggie.

Real Bishops don't involve in politics, this one is looking for members.

The sad reality is, thinking the judges will sack a siting president, you guys are very high on some weed, if you like foam from now till judgement day, nothing can be done, face your market squarely.

Taylor90:
Wetin dey pain me be say out of all Lagos governors none is an indigene of Lagos state apart from GRV who contested

I mean TINUBU FASHOLA SANWO OLU FALEKE AMBODE etc

None of them from Lagos

But when the real son of Lagos came out they teamed up against him and tagged him Igbo

Lagos indigenous people good afternoon ooo

He actually did that himself, he wanted the sentiment, but it backfire, the truth is after the presidential election, the result was misinterpreted, he didn't know that many Yorubas hate Tinubu and voted against him for their own reasons. He felt that using that sentiment will help him, but Sanwo is not Tinubu and using the fact that his mother is Igbo to campaign was a bad idea, nobody asked but he made it a point of note and it became something else.

That small mistake will cost him as far as lagos is concerned, Lagos is a south west state, as far as they are yorubas, and they have lived in Lagos over 13 years they are eligible, so is he but using another tribe as a stepping stone won't work.

ivolt:
This must be fake news.
I saw a video where a guy on Youtube said that
Wagner has sent billions of dollars, missiles, hundreds of reaper drones and food to support Niger coup plotters.
He said the palliatives was secretly moved in big trucks under the cover of the night last week.

And Wagner is father christmass, the kind of brain in both those that say such and those that believe it amaze me. Apart from uranium, that is already in different companies names jointly by the government of Niger, they have nothing, what exactly will Wagner get.

taylor88:
All these strangers that are not even from Lagos

I wonder if Lagos actually have indigenes

Because I wonder why they allow these folks ruin their land

Tinubu is from Osun

Fashola is from Ekiti

MC Oluomo is from Kwara Kwara

Homeless criminals ruining Lagos

Take away Igbo businesses and taxes in Lagos and see how Lagos falls on its kneels

This one is from osun, this one is from Ekiti, another from kwara, all in the south west.

If some goes from Anambra to Imo state, what change, he is still an igbo.

You want to remove igbo business from Lagos and move where? Who will buy it in that quantity elsewhere?

Lagos work because both buyer and seller are available, stop acting like you are doing anyone a favor, you want to move, have a nice day.

Battlefield2:
Seriously, I'm pained right now,how can one decide to be stvpid and senseless at the same time
Before I begin, I swear to God who made me, this is not a lie,this is a true story....The story may seem long

So I have this friend, a close friend that works in a bank in Lag, he lives In his family house because his parents are late and he earns 70k plus,though he complains every now and then that the salary isn't much, if he collects salary by month end, before the 10th of the following month,he is already calling me for help on transports and all that and once in a while I help him with 1k or 2k to take transports and all that.

Last weekend,he was discussing with me on WhatsApp about car washing business,telling me it's lucrative and all those....I didn't pay much attention to it until he called me on Thursday and started crying...I asked him the problem,he told me a cousin of his sweet talk him into car washing business that it is lucrative and he can earn as much as 5k a day washing cars and he dropped the bombshell

He told me he sent in his resignation letter on Monday and Parked out of his family house telling those ones that he has been transferred to another branch, he moved to the one room apartment the car washing company provided to him n 3 other guys and started work. He said he hoped in his mind that if he can make 5k a day, he can save as much as 3-4k daily and that is a big improvement to the bank work

The reason for the lamentations now was things are not the way his cousin told him,he said since last week Monday up till this moment, they have only washed maximum of 3 cars per day and at the end of the day, the owner only gives them 5h each in which he used for eating. I requested for video call on Sunday and he is seriously looking lean and unkempt

He apologized that he didn't seek an advice from me or anyone before taking that bold move, he told me he is seriously depressed and wants me to profer a solution to him

Problem now is,he told me he is ready to quit the work and come to a different state that I am in other to restrategize.....I don't know what to tell him because I don't have much too and I'm struggling too because I'm sure if he comes,I will be fully responsible for feeding and all that
Moreso,I can't tell him "No" because right now,he has no where to go,his parents are late and he has already packed out of his family house rendering him homeless,moreso he is my very good friend

So I seek an advise from you all
Pls advise me, I'm confused!

First thing first, he is not a good friend, you may consider him a good friend, he doesn't consider you the same.

An adult should understand that decision have consequence, let him endure for the time being, you help him get job, don't carry unnecessary responsibility of an adult, you will regret it oh!

Making a life changing decision like moving out of his house and joining a friend, it's either he is a smoker and the has a strong connection with the said person.

gerrardomendes:


You live in a country ruled by a criminal Yoruba man just because an Igbo man is not seen as being good enough to be president. What do you have to say about that. What's the difference between Coup d'etat and Ballot d'etat. Tinubu has taught Africans that power is not served a la carte.

I think the most important thing is, you forget PO over 5 million votes included yoruba, hausa, Fulani, calaba, bini, and lots more, when the time comes and 4 years, how you intend to convince them to vote for your preferred candidate next time beat me.

The president is not there for life, when Fulani man was president, every hate was directed at his people, not like they are completely blameless, now it's the turn of the Yorubas, keep it up, let see how you will produce a Senate president not even the president of the federal Republic.

Racoon:
What is the British royal doing with a wayward person of your kind sef? So if your mum can't be your close confidant irrespective of her lapses then who will? Glorified olosho!

What makes her wayward, because she had sex with her boyfriend and the shameless guy filmed and distributed it.

Many ladies sleep well married men, sleep with pastor, sleep with lecturers, sleep with anyone to get ahead.

How many people have you slept with this year

Onpoint1010:
I worked with two guys and 3 girls as their security chief in a fast food restaurant as contract staffs. The guys were something else but I managed them although we had back and forth arguments because they were trying to disobey my directives.

As time went by, the then manager told me about a vacant position, "Store Manager" and helped me to apply. Unfortunately, he was transferred before I was fully employed so, he handed me over to the new manager and assistant manager.

Any store man or woman who has had similar experience, how did you overcome it.

This is what you need.

To handle the security guards is simple, get a big note book, tell them to sign in and sign out everytime they enter, subject them to search when ever they are leaving, people like that hate to follow instructions.

For the manager, request for cctv for the store and a monitoring station, tell him since everyone can enter, you need to be able to monitor them. That way, if anything happens you will have prove he gave the order to allow anyone in.

ogbonti:



what is your point by calling me 12 years - are you insane ? Where did Rwanda get their own anti aircraft to bring down their president's place that caused the genocide in 1994? so IF Niger have it they have to advertize it to you ? you think because the Nigerian Military has been reduced to boy's scout due to lack of proper funding - you think that i show Niger is? The military success experienced by Chad under Late President Idriss Derby against Boko Haram, was Nigerian military able to do that against the same Boko Haram ? with Russia supporting the coup leaders in Niger, can you tell what military fire power they have right now? stop talking like a child - even ordinary Boko Haram have rocket launchers and anti aircraft - you are here talking nonsense make Ecowas go there - na then ona go realize say when a little cat dares a dog to a fight, that cat has a leopard behind him - make ona go, ordinary Boko Haram ona no fit defeat in 15 years you won fight Nigerien Army, ona go collect... --- ordinary Somalia show USA pepper for Black Hawk down

In war never under estimate your enemy!!!

Now I know for sure you are a kid.

ogbonti:



na dem go suffer am - now that there is no fly zone, any plane from Nigeria going to Europe flying over Niger can be shot down too by the

Nigerien army - be careful what you wish for

so if a plane is flying from Aminu Kano International Airport to Rome - which should be a straight journey over Niger / Algeria and the Rome. . the plane will have to detour and go fly over Burkina Faso and Mali --- If those military junta there decide to team up with their military comrades in Niger - o ti lo - it haff finish - they will not have to fly over Chad and Sudan which is extra "isrealite" journey ---- na air ticket fee go increase - masses will suffer

How old are you? 12?

No country in Africa have the capacity to detect a plane over 32,000 mile, let alone bring it down.

And Niger Republic is so minute in the scope of Africa map that nobody needs to pass through it borders to get anywhere.

They have zero capability for any kind of military power.

Their Total military personnel is 13,000 including paramilitaries and all. This is lower than Nigeria Navy personnel alone, Nigeria paramilitary is over 80,000.

They are what we call inconsequential.

kettykin:


What I am saying is that the illegitimate government in Nigeria or ECOWAS has no right to fight an illegitimate government in Mali or anywhere. If Nigeria or ECOWAS does not like what is happening they can go to court.

Are you this stupid or you are just pretending to be.

Niger Republic is a member of Ecowas, so it makes sense for Ecowas to sanction them.

Gozac:

Let them be jubilating as they turn Lagos to a hub of congestion. So elated I have relocated from the hectic and chaotic Lagos

Too bad, you relocated too soon, with the fuel price, you will think everyday is public holiday in Lagos.

Pierocash:
People will just sit and concoct rubbish data. South west aside Lagos is the worse in terms of poverty , second to North aside kaduna, or maybe Kano.

South south is the less hit region in Nigeria in terms of poverty.

The data says otherwise https://businessday.ng/business-economy/article/south-west-nigeria-stands-out-as-region-with-lowest-unemployment-rate-in-nigeria/#:~:text=South%2D%20West%20Nigeria%20which%20is,Force%20Survey%20Under%20Covid%2D19.

Vulcan24:


This man didn't advise you to smoke or kill or do anything that will reverse you yet you still find a way of punching holes in his advice! U can't be overwise naa!

He's just advising you to remove the log in your eye so u can see the speck in another's eye!
This generation is overwhelming Sha!

Keep your shallow advice to yourself, those emotional blackmail comment have no effect on me, entertainment pays over half of the world salary, how much do your church pay their workers, 90% of those that contribute to the growth of your church has either a direct or indirect link to entertainment.

Why do you think all the pastors are moving everything online, on TV, because its entertainment, you want to act smart, go back to your public address system of evangelism and crusade announcement.

The problem with you lot is, you don't want to admit anything done in church is wrong, there is only one perfect being and he is in heaven, until you get there, you are just like the rest of us, so suck it up.

Novarisammy2:
why didn't they sue baba go slow when he appointed himself as the minister of petroleum?


hypocrites

I think this is the best line of action, instead of complaining about it and making caricature in the papers, let the court decide if its lawful and put the whole thing to rest once and for all.

Righteousness2:
Apt.
If Soccer takes the place of God in your life it becomes an idol. It becomes a sin
If your business or Job takes the place of God in your life, it becomes an idol and a sin.
If your spouse or kids take the place of God in your life, they become idols.

GOD should be our is number 1. Not just in mouth but in act. We are created to give HIM pleasure.
Any other thing that takes 1st place is an idol.

What happens if you loose your job, will the church feed you, pay your rent, help you in any way?

Most churches are full of pretenders, it is when you have an issue that you will know you are nothing to your church.

I remember during NYSC, in 2015, I was posted to Kebbi state, but got to Sokoto very late, went to my church and asked to sleep overnight, the caretaker starter asking stupid questions, like I am supposed to carry an ID card for my church.

The funny thing is, the catholic church I have never stepped my foot in before was the only church that took us in, feed us, pray with us, NO QUESTION, NO DENOMINATION, EVEN MUSLIM were with us, we all slept there overnight and left the next morning.

YOU FORGOT TO ADD, IF CHURCH TAKE THE PLACE OF GOD IN YOUR LIFE, IT BECOMES AN IDOL, OR YOU THINK YOU ARE THE ONLY ONE THAT STUDY THE BIBLE

ganisucks:
Tales by moonlight. Pick the ministerial nominees so that the world can know who to probe until they depart this world. These so called ministers go hear wehn, after balabu is sacked. They will be marking register at EFCC HQ every day. Even their generations unborn will be probed.

Sacked! you better brace up, no judicial system can sack a sitting president not even with this excuse of a court proceedings.

Theempath:
Good day Nairalanders...

Please can anyone here tell me how to fix this?

Your Os has a problem, backup and reformat, you can try repair, I will advise you backup either way.

Godsonkemz:
Why not allow these illegal oil refineries to function if they can help make the product affordable to the masses

Operate on what, do they have oil well, people steal oil and then take it to illegal refineries, without any health compliance or regulations, you expect them to help make the price of oil more affordable.

The only reason they are profitable is because they stole the oil to begin with, tell them to buy the oil and see if they will survive.

marlow1962:

You can never chase the owners of Nigeria out of Nigeria, all these are formalities to deceive the gullible that the Nigerian army is working.
Banditry can never and will never stop in the north. After raw mineral corruption, banditry is the next.
Do you know how much they get from as banditry allocation from other countries? If it means you going 6ft under just for the government to embezzle more, the won't thinking twice before writing you off.

You wn dy chase shettima brothers, I laugh.

You mean, you have no proof it's fake news, just conjectures.

The problem is, if you already think it's impossible, should the army just sit in their barracks and do nothing.

EnemyofGod2:
can you kill this animal if you are the hunter ?

If you are in the hunter's shoes will you still go ahead and kill this animal ?

See Nigerians with hypocrisy

Young boys using their girlfriends, mothers, brothers for money ritual, selling human body parts too want us to believe they will spare an animal because she's pregnant.

The average Nigerian will kill it even if it is giving birth right in front of them. Let's stop pretending, this is not a church.

marlow1962:
Fake news, believe this at your own risk.

Which part of the news is fake?

Are you saying the Nigerian army don't have upto 100 personnel to carry out the operation or that they are not in the forest? Do you have any Firsthand information or you are just being bitter?

taylor89:
Yorubas are the problem of Nigeria

Very indecisive and two-faced tribe

Betrayals

If left with Hausa and Igbo this country for don divide peacefully and everyone goes their way

But Yorubas are so scared of disintegration that them no suffer

Yorubas are doing everything possible to see that south south inherits the hatred they have for Igbos

But we’re not stupid to fall for that

South south! What has south south got to do with this?

You think if Nigeria is going to break, they are going to ask you to take what you want, south south is breaking too, as a matter of fact the country will be broken to 5 different countries,

South south
South East
North Central
South West
North