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Thats a few percentages of the entire population and a minute fraction indeed. Whe you wife has an entirely different source of income, in case of any eventuality, eg death. The family will fare better thats the point i am coming from

campbelljosh:
According to number 2 point you raised, did you read the news of a man who took his wife to UK and the wife eyes became wide open. She reported him to authority and get him deported back to Nigerian just so she can be living recklessly without caution. OP. What do you have to say about this?

lol, sorry

Hardeybohwarley:
I clearly stated what I learnt from his interview and you're tagging me as if the message is coming from me.

he made reference to wives also

Orion2603:
He never said wives... He said your woman/GF..

hahahaha

Fiscus105:
Foolish people must pay in other for the wise to be rich, check history of the guy and how he became overnight celebrity cum millionaire.

Hahahha, what happens during sudden death or incapacitation. Nigeria has no government support. It is better to allow your wife to have an entirely independent source of income in case of any eventuality. If you look at the numerous potential downsides, you may want to review

Guest911:
I agree with number 2 though. Most women just need a sponsor

He is not 100000 percent correct i have only summarized the four of his many advises that are detrimental to a healthy relationship in the midst of all the hype and chaos. Meanwhile you can keep anyone you want. Its up to you, don't come crying to us later after ruining your relationship.

kingyang:
He's 1000000 percent correct, if he's not correct why are you complaining about it?

I totally agree with this view point hence the reason i have excluded it from this post.

josielewa:
NOT EVERY MAN IS SENSIBLE OR KNOWS WHAT IS REQUIRED OF HIM.. I.E, HELPING A GIRL THROUGH AND DUMPING THE GUY OR LOVER, THE GUY FEELS HEARTBROKEN BECAUSE HE THINKS HE HAS DONE RIGHT, NOT KNOWING THAT SPONSORING A GIRL THROUGH SCHOOL IS NOT HIS RESPONSIBLITY BUT THAT OF HER FAMILY. AT THE END THE GUY FEEL USED AND DUMPED. THE GUY DOESNT UNDERSTAND THAT WHAT HE HAS DONE IS JUST HELP OR FAVOUR, WHICH DOESNT TRANSLATE TO THE GIRL LOVING HIM. EVERY GUY NEEDS SOME ORIENTATION ON RELATIONSHIP MATTERS BEFORE GROWN MEN START CRYING ON THE TIMELINE BECAUSE OF NO ORIENTATION.. YOU WILL BE SHOCKD AT HOW MANY MUMU MEN ARE IN NIGERIA DOING ABSURD AND STUOID THINGS FOR LADIES. THESE MEN FEEL USED AT THE END OF THE DAY, THEREBY MAKING THEM EXTREMELY REDPILLED IN THEIR LOVE QUEST.

Geh Geh speaks from his experience and makes sense in a few areas especially on investment, etc. He has some very broad generalizations that are very detrimental to a healthy relationship or marriage.

Feldie:
I agree with number. I don't know why the geh geh has become popular. He doesn't say anything sensible. All he talks about is sex. As for that women paying dowry, I've always held that opinion. Women should be the ones kneeling to propose as well. There's no way on I'm kneeling to propose to woman

that will be only about 1 percent of Nigerian Cultures. Will you allow a woman pay your groom price?

Hardeybohwarley:
The number 3 isn't true for all culture, I watched geh get interview on curiosity made me ask, and he said in their culture, women take care of men.

These 4 Gehgeh Advise Will Ruin Your Relationship

These Geh Geh teachings will Ruin your Relationship If You adopt them:

1. “Your wife is only interested in your success. Don’t tell her your financial struggles else she will leave you for another man.”
Reality: This mindset is highly flawed. Many women gladly support their partners when there is openness and honest communication. Women have quietly helped their partners through difficult times without telling anyone.

2. “If you open a business for your wife, make sure it’s in your name and under your control. Once she becomes financially independent, she will leave you.”
Reality: This reflects selfishness and insecurity. A wife with her own income strengthens the family, especially in cases of unexpected challenges.

3. “Women should be the ones paying dowry for men, because they need more men.”
Reality: This is a shallow and unrealistic claim. Across all Nigerian cultures, men traditionally fulfill this role, it is a symbol of responsibility and honor. Reversing it is impractical and disregards deep-rooted cultural values.

4. “Have many girlfriends and make relationships purely transactional.”
Reality: This is morally wrong and destructive. Promiscuity destroys trust and values. True love thrives in loyalty, not in multiple transactional affairs.

Every relationship is unique and has its own issues, Don't apply these toxic generalizations to a healthy marriage, else you will destroy it.

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Eyivee:
Good evening everyone, I had a child in 2018 and since then it has become increasingly difficult to conceive again. I have irregular periods, some month I see the period for over 15days and sometimes it disappears for months. I went to the hospital and the doctor said I wasn't ovulating, he gave me some drugs to aid ovulation and still didn't conceive. Pls what can I do or if there is anyone that has been in similar situation I would really love your advice

I woke up this morning feeling very depressed, I really need to take my conception journey to the next level. I turn 34 by the end of this month and have been trying for 4 years. What tests can I carry out to ascertain my fertility status. I have done 2 HSG tests in the past, are there other sophisticated scans I can do that can detect any possible abnomalities in my system? Please advise.

Please where can I do hormonal profile test, thanks

sugah:
Which of the results came first?
One says adhesion and the other doesnt mention adhesion. Both your tubes are open in both results.
Have you done hormonal profile?

Thinking of going back there to beg them today at least to see if I can get any sort of help whatsoever

cletz991:
I sorry for you.never follow any state or federal law enforcement officer to the office,weda u are right or wrong .always try to settle outside the office if there's a high probability that you are wrong








Na to auction ur motor o

More comments please

As it is, can I still settle with them and avoid the mobile court. They already gave me the ticket, thanks for the comment.

HenryWilliams:
Sadly ignorance of the law is no defence.
We see danfo and Keke wilfully breaking the law with impunity and the authorities turning a blind eye to them.
As to your chances, it's slim to none.. you drove your vehicle onto dedicated BRT lane.. whether it was deliberate or not isn't the question.
You ought to have settled with the corrupt officials.
Mobile court isn't the place to seek fair justice for vehicular infractions in Lagos State.